When she asked her daughter if she was excited about him coming home, the daughter literally said she was ready to go hang out with friends on the weekends instead of doing prison visits. That’s so sad.
The fact that she is dragging her kids every weekend on a visit 😡 like she is so consumed in this man that her child states that she does not want to go she makes her go anyway. .. its a no for me with her.
Lord. WHAT?? Ain't that much love in the world. That's why if we're together and you're dumb enough to do something to get put in prison, I'm chucking up the deuces 😅
Exactly. I'm not sitting around "holding nothing down" . If it was the other way around; they would be out sticking themselves into other women; the day you get locked up. The day you go will be the day they ho.
I think she's giving him full control cause he's paying the bills but she's definitely not making good decisions and a train wreck u can't turn away from. And FORCING her children to go see him and he's NOT their father is crazy! 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@@keishaterrell1935🤦🏾♀️ he doesn't have to have a job. If he's got a whole phone and access to watch that house 24/7, he definitely has ways to make some money - locked up or not.
I used to watch Love After Lockup and Life After Lock Up: the people on the outside really scared the hell outta me. The lack of self-esteem and the absolute total denial was absolutely epic.
That first one was disgusting in my opinion. You have a DAUGHTER in your home. Yet you’re allowing a PRISONER to watch this home … IN PRISON. How do you know he’s not looking at your child funny, how do you know he’s not letting other people see her. She literally made her kids a prisoner. The 2nd one you literally stopped it and had the same thought I did, you spend more money on a female than you do your child.
This is horrible. I've never watched the show but kids shouldn't be drawn into this bs. Dude is controlling too, so might be physically abusive when he can.
This is so disturbing for the children. I’m not OK with this at all. I hope that someone that cares about her helps her to just wake up. If you want to date, this dude it’s all good. The children don’t have to date him and feel like prisoners too. He’s literally treating her children like prisoners.
There’s no helping her. My SIL is just like this woman. Met my brother on a pen pal site, moved to our state with her 2 year SON and took him to visit this man in jail every weekend. Folks like this are delusional.
That teenager is better than me because at that age I would’ve unplugged the cameras until my mama got home. This is why fathers need to be present in their children’s lives no matter what. If I were the father, there’s no way I’d stand for this.
I've never heard of this show but I really enjoyed your breakdown. I especially agreed on everything you said about the decisions the parents make knowing they have children to think about. Their priorities are backwards. Spending 2k on a random woman but only offering £450 for your child. Ridiculous!
So her teenage daughter and young son only safe space in their own home is their bedroom and bathroom if I was a child in the situation, I would never sit in the living room or any public spaces. I would be so extremely uncomfortable.
My husband and I had to stop watching this show because we felt the same way you did Kita and the whole show pissed us off. We were so flabbergasted by the things these people say and do...chile we had to let this mess go! 😅
If I ever had a friend tell me I should start dating males in prison...the friendship would most definitely be questionable...Girl let me gone and be a new subscriber...
I definitely cannot get behind having cameras up in my home for a criminal to watch me 24/7 especially having a young daughter. There may be areas that there are not cameras but you are still putting your children at risk.
When you gonna publish a book, Ms Queen Kita??!! The girlies and bois are thirsty for a riveting insightful dramatic intuitive page-turner that will read us as we read it 💅🏾💅🏿💅🏾🙏🏽📖 📚
It seems folks have lost respect for self-respect 😂 this season. It looks like it's gonna be nuts. I watched the episode and it was a lot, especially girlfriend with the cameras in her home.
I had a friend grown-up in high school and her mom was a correctional officer at the local jail in our city and when i visit i notice it was different men never the same man she w as bringing them home and i asked my friend like are you okay do the men touch you she said she was fine but as a child i knew somewasnt right so you have to be mindful
I had a bf nd i held him down for a year nd a half jus to find out while he was still in jail that he was cheating on me. So swiftly broke up with him while he was still locked up nd found someone so much better for me.
I've also never heard of this show (maybe because I'm in London and we don't know about it) but that first couple, my goodness. First and foremost, my children would never know that I'm dating... I would keep that private cos no man, other than family, would be coming around them. Second of all, NO WAY am I dating any man from prison let alone force my children to visit him in prison or him thinking he has rights over them when he's not even their biological father. Thirdly, allowing this man that you barely know to not only have cameras installed in every damn room in the house but knowing that he's watching you at every waking (and sleeping) moment creeps me the f*ck out!! As you already said, Kita, you have no clue who he's showing this to or what he's doing with the images. I mean if that's what she wants to do that's her business, but leave the poor children out of it...especially as he's not their biological dad. I felt for her daughter when she said she didn't want to go but I feel her mum is making her feel obligated to go.
The children are going to runaway as soon as the can. I wouldn't want him or prison around my kids this is sad . Want better, she's so pretty to you do not deserve to suffer .
Yeaaah he ain't worried about no damn "security". That man is possessive and controlling. Letting this dude monitor your children?! How dare you. Goofy sht.
I didnt even know this show existed but OMG where this lady's family??!!!! I understand for all this to happen she must be benefiting some type of way but CHILE couldn't be me. I feel so bad for those children.
90 day fiancé starting a new season, before the 90 days. Couples one American one a foreign country going through the immigration process and new season starts soon. Yes do a recap on that. I watched few seasons. Each time it gets more out of control insane as they deal with new cultures and marriage expectations. Especially different languages and Apps translated just to speak to each other
I thought that was really strange that her husband can see her on video cameras in her own house while he’s in prison. That is really scary and a red flag to me.😢
Smh that lil girl can't even walk around her home comfortably bc there's no telling who that man is allowing to view those cameras or if he's looking at her weird. The mom is just as weird as he is for allowing it. I hope he doesn't hurt those kids bc she seems like the type who would side with him over her kids. Also she apparently didn't think about what would happen if he lost his phone and some other inmate finds/steals it and gets access to her home and family
