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Hello Brothers and Sisters,
I'm back! I don't think a lot of EXJW's realize how much contact they have with S*x Offenders. JW policy is to not report them and keep them in the congregation despite how dangerous it is. My own mother married one without knowing until after the marriage. This is what happened.
Get the Freedom EXJW band here:
www.towershillmedia.com/exjw-band-email-signup
Links to articles:
www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/03/the-secret-jehovahs-witness-database-of-child-molesters/584311/
revealnews.org/blog/reveal-event-aims-to-pry-lose-documents-in-jehovahs-witness-cover-up/
Stalk me (in a non-creepy way please):
All my social links here: linktr.ee/kameronfader
4 Things JW's do That Are Pagan
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-rIPMkdF1Apo.html
5 Ways to Find Yourself After Leaving Your Faith:
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-mQA8rC81jfI.html
Why I left JW's:
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-PRuCSUfaxqw.html
Reasons' Why I Won't Go Back:
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-JN2FN1h6kuA.html
How to Recover after leaving:
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-NxmYScCtyiQ.html
How to make friends after leaving:
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Ju9Wufc5BMw.html
Music by Ryan Little
soundcloud.com/iamryanlittle
See you soon, Brothers & Sisters

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Комментарии : 84   
@danielsteward4218
@danielsteward4218 3 года назад
I like how you said that we would still attract people from the religion even when without the religion when we haven't worked on ourselves yet. It is so true. I need to find some way to break free from their hold on me, and I've been going to Therapy for about a year now and I think it's working a little bit. Thanks for the video and hope you had a great Thanksgiving.
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
It's so true! Until we let go and put our past/people in their place with healthy boundaries, we'll be plagued for a long time. I've been in and out of therapy and some therapists really get you, while others don't. Everyone needs someone to talk to. 🙏🏼
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884 3 года назад
Break free just leave no ones stopping you
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884 3 года назад
Apostates won't get into gods kingdom period
@brt13456
@brt13456 3 года назад
I’m 15 and I struggle a lot with mental health issues due to growing up in a religious household. My mom is a jw and just like you’re mom is still so into the religion after everything that happened to her that’s how my mom is too. Your videos help me feel some kind of support. what really sucks is that I have to hold into my emotions til I grow older so watching your videos really help knowing I’m not the only one that feels like this about the religion.
@brittanyismebb
@brittanyismebb 3 года назад
You are not alone!! Hang in there and don’t let them suck you in.
@jivinjuju
@jivinjuju 3 года назад
So great seeing the young ones getting their stories out there. You are helping many. Keep up the great work.
@mizzchelly1
@mizzchelly1 3 года назад
I grew up as JW. Me and my sister were sexually abused (to what is my brothers father in law) which he was studying he wasn’t even an elder.. I remember them taking us into a room without my mom and asked us x amount of questions… never followed up with PD… till this day he is in the congregation…. My sis was abused by our stepfather when we reach out to elders nothing happened… it’s fucking crazy cause I neverrrrr looked them up or looked into this until a video popped up on TikTok and did research… it’s crazy that we weren’t the only ones… it’s fucking sickening
@alliesco6802
@alliesco6802 3 года назад
I’m proud of you for finding yourself and putting yourself first!!! 💙💙💙 keep it up
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
🙌🏼
@bghtvb
@bghtvb 3 года назад
OMG Kameron, every time you talk about waking up and moving forward or changing your thought process makes me soooo happy for you. I've been following you since the beginning and seeing your transformation is beautiful. 😊💫 Keep it up. If you haven't heard it today 🗣️ IM SO PROUD OF YOU!
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
Thank you! 😭 I hope what I share while I grow is helping :)
@missmoneypenny3829
@missmoneypenny3829 3 года назад
Kameron I am so sorry for all the pain you went through! No one should have to go through any of this especially a child! I truly hope as you continue your activism it helps to release that pain buried deep within. Now it's time for your life to explore and experience all the joy available to you. From watching your videos, I know you are reaching out to do that! My hopes are that one day your mother will wake up and come to you. Be well, stay safe. 💕💞
@franktobia4169
@franktobia4169 3 года назад
It's such a shame what they put him through and a lot others to, this cult needs to be exposed, thank goodness for the internet bring this all out an ex JW
@missmoneypenny3829
@missmoneypenny3829 3 года назад
@@franktobia4169 Much more than a shame. It's a horrific crime. I'm also glad that this cult can be exposed by the hard work from people such as Kameron Fader.
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
Thank you for your words! We all, unfortunately, went through similar bs and were made to feel alone. I hope the same one day too, but I'm glad we can grow together in the mean time :)
@missmoneypenny3829
@missmoneypenny3829 3 года назад
@@KameronFader You are so very welcome! As a mom and a grandma, I wish I could give you a big hug! ❤ Continue on knowing you have a whole community right beside you, joined with you, together!
@elainebarke2460
@elainebarke2460 3 года назад
Kameron, I’m so sorry for the things you had to go through, but be proud of the person you are now. I have been a JW for 20 years, but I’m on my way out. Watching your videos has opened my eyes and confirmed my suspicion, thank you. Stay strong and stay safe, 🇬🇧
@filippaniklasson755
@filippaniklasson755 3 года назад
Oh my fucking god. What. A. Story. I can't believe you went through all that bullshit. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, right? And you look strong as hell to me! 👊 Greetings from a exjv-sister from Sweden! 🤘🖤
@michaelgilbert4310
@michaelgilbert4310 3 года назад
I am an ex Witness. And I was also raised in the Bay Area - Oakland California. And as I look at your videos it brings back memories of situations that I knew of. There was a young brother who was studying with a young boy and it turned out that he was abusing him during the Bible studies he was having with him. I heard the story and after that I never heard anything about again. So you are right. And there was a brother that would beat his son with a stick. It was so bad that a friend of mine heard him beating his son and she went to him and told him how horrible it was. To this day his son hates him.
@lynnfulcher8865
@lynnfulcher8865 3 года назад
Amazing insight - spot on - also your energy, despite your young years and history with JW’s, is really inspirational - to add we all came from such a completely f***ed up upbringing 😞
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
I'm trying :)
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884 3 года назад
I never had the upbringing but I wish I did coz I've been in the world and the world is run by u know who
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884 3 года назад
@@KameronFader trying what to be apostate I'll just tell your elders you follow this and boom
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884 3 года назад
I knew u was gay
@lynnfulcher8865
@lynnfulcher8865 3 года назад
@@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884 oh my word - what is wrong with you? Hypocrisy ridicules the virtue of moral truth while honesty submits to its authority. Honesty is preferable every time - I don’t get why you think being honest or getting upset with dishonesty puts us ex-jws on the side of Satan - those of you inside mostly prefer to cover up everything like with the ARC - how can you not care and standing up for this sort of atrocity while knowing damn well the JWs point the finger at the Catholic Church never mind over a 1000 JW victims in Australia alone, none of which were reported to authorities makes you wrong morally - I think it’s disgusting you support this ☹️ leave this guy alone - he deserves a medal and not your response condoning JW procedures - if a Court in Australia can see how the organisation fails to protect children I’m not sure why you would defend them unless your brainwashed just like I was for way too many years - you need to wake up and try watching the ARC Court proceedings all the way through and then try standing up for JW faith
@xxcommunicadoxx9339
@xxcommunicadoxx9339 3 года назад
Kameron, YOU are a rock star in my book. YOU know your stuff. YOU speak FACTS!! I’m 47, and it’s very sad, that the Witnesses have made zero to little progress on a HUMAN level. Many things you say about their handling tactics is the same bull**** they were doing 25 years ago in my time. I got my bracelet a few days ago. I LOVE IT!! PLEASE, keep doing what YOU are doing!! Gracias & Thank You - B😎 #freedomisworthit
@jessejules2092
@jessejules2092 3 года назад
Terrible terrible abuse. You're breaking the cycle and bringing the light of truth.
@hiddenflower862
@hiddenflower862 3 года назад
I LOVE your videos! You have definitely help me understand the JW’s more 😊💜 It’s a common misconception that “Sex offenders” touch little kids and crap. Sadly that’s not the case for all of them. I don’t think people realize how easy it is for them to slap someone on that list. One of my good friends spent years as a licensed massage therapist. The kindest guy you will ever meet. One day he gave a woman a massage and she claimed he “touched her inappropriately” during her massage. Yet, this same woman left a tip for him and told the other front desk staff how much she enjoyed her massage. She even came back for ANOTHER one. Long story short, He lost in court and was registered as a sex offender. I personally wrote the the judge letting him know of who I was and my own experiences with said friend. He gave me a free massage many times and not once touched me, and he actually liked me as MORE than a friend. So you expect me to believe he touched some random 20 something year old woman in a massage business he build from the ground up? Yeah....no. I’m just saying, it a common misconception that people have on sex offenders that they all touch little kids. I’m not saying that people shouldn’t be careful. Even I look up the sex offenders in my own area so that I will know! But don’t judge someone if you don’t fully know their story. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I known many JW’s although I’m not a JW myself and many of them were sex offenders. One guy took pictures of women and was kinda a “stalker.” Most JW’s I know have serious mental issues. Sex offenders, murders, rapist, abusers. That’s why I wouldn’t touch this religion with a 10 foot pole. My BF asked me to “follow” him in it. He’s disfellowshipped, but wants to go back. I told him no way! I grew up religious so I seen it all and I refuse. Too bad my BF haven’t seen the light yet 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️
@Denariusjay
@Denariusjay 3 года назад
I do know 2 people who are registered sex offenders and both were decent enough people, I even befriended one of them since we got along so well. Neither of there crimes had victims or were children related. I do believe in second chances and a road of redemption. Definitely a case by case basis though.
@MrDale53
@MrDale53 3 года назад
Thanks for continuing to say "Hello Brothers and Sisters". It shows your heart, and I love it!
@Danielle-nz9tn
@Danielle-nz9tn 3 года назад
The divorce rules are so nuts!!...I thought the requirement of adultery as the reason for divorce was just in order to be free to remarry! My parents divorced due to irreconcilable differences (no adultery), but my mom was pretty much inactive and my dad hardly active, so maybe the elders saw their divorce as too low-profile to worry about. Actually, who knows if they even knew about it, since my mom had already stopped going to the KH awhile before. And my dad barely talked to anyone so maybe nobody told the elders. I can’t remember, since I was out by then.
@franktobia4169
@franktobia4169 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing your experience with that cult, it's a shame you had to go through all that, but it's good it's coming out about this organization so other people don't have to go through what they're doing thank you
@DnSBigLittleGarden
@DnSBigLittleGarden 3 года назад
I am Donna of DnS Big Little Garden. I just wrote my letter to the Watchtower, Bible and Tracy Society and mailed it today. I grew up in the "truth". I was inactive for over 20 years, my father, an elder, called me yesterday and told me to make a decision to come back or write your letter to the society. I thought about it for a second, I said ok. I decided to write the letter. He hung up on me. I know my decision have cost me talking to my dad. With my husband, Sam by my side, I AM FREE. 😁
@tesscrawford8708
@tesscrawford8708 3 года назад
I’m sorry you had that experience. I also had an abusive stepfather. I also didn’t tell mum about it. She knew about some of the abuse because she was there but there were other times she wasn’t and I never told her. Gosh these people have a lot to answer for.
@rachelortiz147
@rachelortiz147 3 года назад
This is extremely insightful. I have also noticed ex-jws being attracted to narcissistic people or situations. I’ve been addressing it through therapy and specific narcissistic recovery guides to try to address it directly and make sure I don’t fall into those familiar patterns.
@phasesoffaith8399
@phasesoffaith8399 3 года назад
Great video Thanks for sharing!!!! Time to be Free ❤️
@omarseneriz5577
@omarseneriz5577 3 года назад
Your presentation and choice of words are down, dirty and to the F!@#I* Point. I LOVE IT... The crazy thing is that you are saying the truth on every word you are saying. Keep it coming I am a fan for sure.
@robinkishmiller2596
@robinkishmiller2596 3 года назад
Your life story is beyond horrible. Bless you! I too was born and raised in the truth. Abuse is common in this religion. Your poor mom. I was born and raised in SF Bay area. I still live here.
@1022gd
@1022gd 3 года назад
My mom, who's still a JW, gave my new phone number to a childhood friend of mine who is also still a JW even though she did lots of things back in the day. I've moved out of state, changed numbers, and have a whole life away from the religion. However, I feel like I'll never be completely free from this organization.
@hindsightpov4218
@hindsightpov4218 3 года назад
@JennyD10 I can relate. My whole family and most of my relatives are still JWs who are super hardcore about it. I’m the only one who left. My JW family refuses to stop holding me to their ridiculous religious rules even though I made it clear I’m not a JW anymore and they can’t hold me to their beliefs. They promised they wouldn’t hold me to their beliefs a long time ago, but it was a promise they had no intention of keeping. Every bad, dishonest thing they do they think it’s justified because they’re doing it in Jehovah’s name. As much as I don’t want it to be the case, I’ll forever be connected to the Jehovah’s Witnesses cult in some way. There’s really no escaping it when your whole family and relatives are completely brainwashed.
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
They conditioned us to think controlling abusive relationships are normal. It'll always be with us, but doesn't have to define us anymore. I'm so proud of you for moving out of state and changing numbers! Cutting off toxic relationships are extremely tough, but needed. I should do some videos on what I've learned to let go of the organization?
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
@@hindsightpov4218 I'm so sorry! I bet it feels very isolating. The longer you stay in contact with them, the unhealthier they'll be with you. Have you cut them off completely?
@hindsightpov4218
@hindsightpov4218 3 года назад
@@KameronFader I cut my father and two siblings out of my life in recent years. But it was because they are abusive narcissists more than it had to do with them being Jehovah’s Witnesses. I actually blame the JW organization for why my siblings are narcissists. Aside from the genetic component being a factor, if a child feels love is withheld during his/her developmental years, it is likely that child will become a narcissist. Growing up, love very much felt conditional. We were constantly told that we better follow all of Jehovah’s rules or else. My father was an elder in the kingdom hall. He was/is extremely puritanical. He would add even more rules to the JW list of things that we weren’t allowed to do that other JWs did without any condemnation. My narcissistic father is also the world’s biggest hypocrite. He was always doing the things he forbid us from doing and did the things he shamed others for what they did. It was obvious he was having an affair. But no one dared to cross my father as he was absolutely terrifying. People were always walking on eggshells around him as the slightest thing would trigger him to go into explosive rages. I was born and raised in New York, so my family would go to bethel frequently. It had a sterile feel to it but it had great views. No wonder the JW organization got billions when they sold the property. I refused to be baptized when my siblings did it and I was never disfellowshipped. I’m actually in good standing with pretty much everyone I went to the kingdom hall with. Every now and then I have lunch or dinner with them which started when my whole family moved to California where most of my relatives are. I stayed in New York by choice but for the first time in my life I was completely on my own. That’s when my JW relatives in New Jersey decided it was the time to start shunning me. I realized they were shunning me when I reached out to them for help and they turned their backs on me. When I told my JW family, they were fine with it. They see it as my relatives’ right. It shows how brainwashed they are. They never considered how it made me feel. I have a complicated relationship with my JW mother. There are certain reasons why I can’t disconnect from her completely from my life. But my communication with her is limited. She refuses to believe being raised as a Jehovah’s Witness was detrimental for me in any way even though I told her many times that it was. She insists I was a happy child and that’s the end of it. If I told her about the JW child molestation coverups, she would refuse to believe it, thinking it was a trick from Satan. That’s how she views anything that casts a negative light on how Jehovah’s Witnesses operate, as she thinks it’s an infallible system. My mother truly believes Armageddon is going to happen any day now. So any problems I may have will all be taken care of when we’re all living in Paradise on Earth.
@davidjonesjr6833
@davidjonesjr6833 3 года назад
Sorry that happened to you
@tracycaillet2935
@tracycaillet2935 2 года назад
I love your courage in exposing this filth! 💪
@tarachapman916
@tarachapman916 3 года назад
Love you Buddy that's exactly what I was told growing up about Satan being the leader of our system crazy shit we all have gone threw
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
Thank you! Blaming "Satan" for bad behavior and bad things happening is just a scapegoat. They use him to justify the wrong instead of being adults and dealing with life.
@tarachapman916
@tarachapman916 3 года назад
@@KameronFader I don't know what I believe anymore to be real. I love God and his son jesus christ but I don't understand God being okay with Lott having sex with his daughters and incest and they'rs alot I never read from the bible cause I was reading the watchtower. Me and my uncle would skim threw what the bible said so I never got the full picture of what the bible actually said now I'm just here like is god real or what?
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884 3 года назад
Jehovah hate apostate
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884
@sethdoesworldtravelandtake4884 3 года назад
@@tarachapman916 listen to gods word men are all imperfect
@yuinasweakestsoldier
@yuinasweakestsoldier 3 года назад
It's not too late to follow in his footsteps kammy
@adrianneavenicci
@adrianneavenicci 3 года назад
I needed this video today. I keep getting triggered by watchtower stuff so I need to back off a bit and look after myself. It’s hard when you have people you love still in so I need to work on those boundaries again. Love your positive energy.
@AG-lw8ct
@AG-lw8ct 3 года назад
Love ur vids, !!!
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
Thank you!!
@billjohnson69
@billjohnson69 3 года назад
I want to see the masks!! We really missed going to Uncle Wayne’s for the great food and company, but keeping the family safe was worth it. Let’s hope this is all over by summer and we can have a BBQ or some wood fired pizza :)
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
I’ll be revealing them ASAP!! Love you 🖤 I miss y’all so fuckin much
@jeysacolon309
@jeysacolon309 3 года назад
This is horrible!!
@GG-kv8vv
@GG-kv8vv 3 года назад
God Kameron! Love you...appreciate your courage.
@tarachapman916
@tarachapman916 3 года назад
Hello
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
Happy belated thanksgiving :)
@jokich6379
@jokich6379 3 года назад
Certainly not spirit directed. Thanks for all of your efforts. Always say people are not perfect- everyone may have some sort of issue. But the idea is God is working with is through holy spirit which is free for the having through prayer. Watch archaeological information about bible. Naked Archaeology, History- Timeline etc, very informative.
@dark-wn8zh
@dark-wn8zh 3 года назад
Make more vids like this or in some way upload more even if it’s short vids
@annettehaas6316
@annettehaas6316 3 года назад
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏😎
@Supa_Mahri
@Supa_Mahri 3 года назад
Kameron are still in contact with your brother who was disfellowshipped now if so, what’s is he doing now?🙂😇
@guycooper2474
@guycooper2474 3 года назад
First I enjoy your videos. I was in for 51 years. I knew Ray Franz. One thing I would recommend is don't use the word Fuck or Fucking, You are trying to ALSO reach J-Dumbs who are in, or were in for many years. They don't like this word. My advice leave off the F-bomb. You will have a better result. Just a thought. It's up to you.
@KameronFader
@KameronFader 3 года назад
How did you know Ray Franz!?! 😳
@guycooper2474
@guycooper2474 3 года назад
@@KameronFader I was an elder in 1971, i had visited a congregation in Covington, KY in 71. The Franz family was from in or around KY. We exchanged contact info and when he put out his book he sent me a signed copy. My X wife turned me in to the elders. The rest was all down hill from there!
@guycooper2474
@guycooper2474 3 года назад
@@KameronFader Keep in mind also, I am now 70 years old.In 71. I was 21 years old.WOW has time passed by!
@guycooper2474
@guycooper2474 3 года назад
The old school brothers and sisters are nice people. Misguided but very nice. Think of all of them too as you make videos. Be generic an vanilla, so you attract the older ones and the newer ones. .
@Supa_Mahri
@Supa_Mahri 3 года назад
What did your JW stepdad look like?😐😈
@duckybread4235
@duckybread4235 3 года назад
why you hating on JW tho