My Labor & Delivery! STORY TIME! | Anushae Says 

Watching this video as a 22 yr old boy! My respect for every woman has gone gazillion times up!! Congratulations sis 😇

Awwww, watching as a 22 year old girl was very courageous and man how much a pain women goes through in delivering a baby, Salute to all the mom's. It's not at all easy. Many many congratulations 🎊 and love your vlogs, have been following them since a while.

My labour story is horrified 36 hour of labour pain There was a time that today I started going to Allah, but Allah had mercy on me and blessed me with a son❤️Mashallah

Indeed 1st time pregnancy and delivery both are life changing experiences, I was also induced upon completion on 40 weeks I did get minor contractions after induction but was not dilated at all. After being induced for 12 hours and no dilation the doctors decided to operate and did the C Section . I was admitted at 5:30 am and the baby was born at 8:35 via c section. I was in labor ward all alone seeing other ladies screaming and crying. Thanx for sharing your experience. C section does heal a bit late but it's not like you will be on bed for that long. I was on my feet with in 12 hours trying to walk inside the room and on the 3rd day I went to the car bt walking. You need to be careful only. Although C section is a major surgery and the scar and minor pain or itchiness stays for long but it's nothing when you are blessed with babies. Allah paak sabko olad jesi nemat se nawazey. I have 3 kids all with C Section. Alhamdulillah

Anushae you took me back to my labour experience .. i went for c section because my labour did not progress.and i was like i cant be able to go through labour pains anymore.they are most intense pains a human body can have.bt you are so brave.. hats off to all the momies in the world.✨️ Childbirth is so much difficult. May you be blessed with good health nd speedy recovery💟

A few things as I gave birth a few months ago. The med they give to increase the dilation is “Pitocin” the pain reliever gas is Nitrous Oxide also known as The Laughing Gas. N also epidural is not inserted in the spin it is inserted in the gaps between the vertebrae.

Yes Anushae I was one of the people waiting on this video of yours! So glad you took your time and made this. Lots of love to you and the baby❤

Congratulations. And also great explanation of delivery process and what to expect. Thank u xx

Here in US , during the induction my doc said , take the Epidural , you will be much relieved. Best decision ever as I ended up in c-section.

Congratulations on your bubba! Love the video, it really is a guide for those who will be going through pregnancy and labor. I'm happy to see that you're comfortable to use the correct terminology - in your hospital bag video, you wouldn't say vagina and now this video 🙌🏽

You narrate the story so beautifully it felt like I was there visually experiencing it all.

Am in my 2nd trimester... mje tu abhi say bhot dar lag rha ha please pray for me.❤

When l had my son years ago in Ittefaq hospital in Lahore l had an amazing gynaecologist. She had studied abroad and we had already discussed my birth plan and the epidural was on top of my list. Being from the UK l knew exactly what l wanted and would be needing. I beared it for as long as l possibly could and knew when it was time for intervention. A good gynaecologist will always discuss your options with you.

congradulations for baby boy mashaaAllah hope we all see him soon

I was on my last day of 39 week that is 40 week i started with the labour pain in the night 8.30 it was really minute like a cramp i went to the hospital the doctor checked she said u can go back and come tomorrow but I decided to stay at the hospital so gradually the pain increased by time i was with video call with my husband as he was out of country.... By the that didn't help no motivation u will get as u are too busy handling the pain .... The entire night i was crying and screaming because the intensity of pain was quite a alot i mean alot .... Unimaginable i was just complaining that no one told me the real truth of labour and all and was screaming ki c section karwa do doctor ko bula do and all i used to literally go near the wall face wall ko laga ke i was crying because walking really helps when the contractions come by the time it was 5 in the morning i literally gave up .... I was saying stuff like i don't want to live this is very painful nd all nd i was 6 cm in .... My sis my brother my dad came in the morning and was helping me walk as it was giving me little relief so when the doctor came around 8 i remember she checked me i Guess my water broke nd was bleeding.... She checked i was around 7-8 cm in .... But the baby heart rate was dropping she checked with different instruments to check.... But the heart rate was dropping.... If i wanted for an hour i would have normal delivery.... But Allah ki marzi the OT was prepped for someone else delivery but i was taken immediately.... The doctor held me nd took asap Didn't even gave me time to change my clothes as it had blood stains.... Alhamdulillah by 8.45 my baby girl was born i was more eager to know the baby eye colour as my husband has green eyes my mother too so it's in the blood i anticipated for blue or green eyes but they wer black i was happy to see my baby healthy... Alhamdulillah se i was able to walk on my feet next day but let me tell u the healing process is just so daaaaam tough.... If u sit u can't get up .... I used to take literally half an hour to just rotate nd stand up.... That really broke me i used to literally cry when i was soo helpless nd in pain .... ... Alhamdulillah my baby is good she is 6 months now i have very bad shoulder nd lower back pain i hope it goes away soon....

Aww Congratulations on the birth of your son...❤️

You explain it soo well 👍 I have almost same experience and the labour pain is soo freaking bad but alot of duas for all the new moms to be❤

Nobody explains like u did . Thank you so much. Normal delivery is the best. Kindly explain more about pushing in normal delivery for all the new mommies to be 🥺 I'm having my delivery in April.

Its entonox gas. Basically its just make you a bit unconscious so u don’t feel pain. It helps initially but in active labour it doesn’t help much. I had my 2 kids just with this gas and it basically stored my energy for main thing

I had a HBAC 1.st planned C-section: like u said its an exam without prep which gave me ppd for months or may be an year or more 2. Home birth: took child birth education, prepared well, and viola, the best experience ever.

I got episiotomy stitches 10 months ago and I think I still feel some change and light pinch sometime Its not a real pain its like a memory Our bodies are amazing 🙂

I'm 37weeks pregnant and your story already frightened me. 😥😥😥

Hatsoff to u & to all the moms in the world! ❤

Congratulations... and also taking time to share your labour journey stay blessed....

I had my delivery 15 days back , was induced. Had similar experience. But tbh, after coming out of delivery room i decided to keep the secret of that room in that room and not tell about the experience i had to everyone because if i would have seen your video before my delivery mai shyd apna BP high krke beth jati ya apni halat khouf ki wajah se khrb krleti by listening k kitna pain hota hai. My friend had her delivery 5 days after mine and she lept asking me about my exp and i told her it was all good bus thora dard hota etc etc so it gave her strength and thats what i would suggest all the ladies out there k pls pls us kamre k raaz ko usi kamre main rehne dein. If Allh hasn’t disclosed that pain or whatever to everyone, dont do it.

I delivered my boy at 40+4 via c section. I was induced too. But i had no progress, my boy was floating in my belly (lol) but tbh very honestly within 2-3 weeks you can’t even recall you had a major surgery. I did hurt in first 2 weeks. Your lower abdomen hurts when you move, you’re scared if you move to your side while sleeping your stitches might open up and bleeding. But i still believe its a better option than getting stitches down there and getting all the pains. Im so paranoid about vaginal delivery

Soooooo proud of you. You're amazing 😍 Allah bless you and ur son MashaAllah. So happy for you and ur delivery story is so motivational.

Oh my god you just took me back to my labor experience uffff it was so painful and exactly the story is same but I delivered my bay without epidural because I wasn't able to tell my doctor that what I need at that time. And my delivery process was 18 hours long and o my god it was just so so so terrible but the pain worth. I had a son and he is 10 months old ALHUMDULIHA

Wowww girl u did it so proud of u ad so happy for u mashallah a lot of love u ad ur Bby hug😊

Congratulations and happy for you ♥️

After listening ur story... I feel so blessed that I go thru normal delivery and it's so easy not like urs experience... U r so strong

Loved it, truly felt like a story🤩

Congratulations.. very happy for you girl

All women deserve lots of respect and care for giving birth🎉

Hearing the story, I started having cramps 😅😮‍💨 May Almighty give ease to every women who's going through it ❤️

girl you are so strong! Mashallahh

I had experience of both Natural and C-section delivery, i personally think natural delivery is easy. No doubt pain intensity is very high and it ended when baby is delivered, but in C-section everything is normal when baby is delivered but pain starts after the delivery and it takes months to heal. The worst feeling is depending on others . In Ceasern it is even hard to feed the baby. I think 1 day of pain is better than 2 months of pain.

mashallah u hv explained very deeply thank u so much , n congrats for ur baby boy ❤️

They give u pitocin which is not antibiotic but it does speeds up the labour process … Pitocin is basically act kind of artificial oxytocin.

Experience of both deliveries i always suggest to not go for planned cs until baby or mum is in higher risk. Normal or natural way of birth is always the best

Masha'Allah loved hearing it! Plz take good care of yourself

Gar and air is literally the best thing ever also the drip u r talking about is called hormonal drip which speeds up the labour process

I had two cs! And i was on my feet the momment i got in the room because had nobody to get help from. Cs is not a big deal agar app body ko normal rakho gy toh. Girls bed rest itna leti hain toh body aur weak ho jati hai obviously i faced postpartum depression and anxiety but apne bachoun k liye normal hona para tha i cooked and cleaned yani jese operation hoa he nahi hai. Ab proud feel hota hai k meri body mei itni himmat taqat thi to stand up right away! al-Ḥamdu’lillāh Shortly it just depends on the mother!! Noone else even husbands bhi nahi kam atay 😅 i mean jab tak maa nahi chahe gi she can get back normal phir chahe jese bhi baby deliver ho unless YES agar health wise koi aur issues hain toh

I had a delivery story same as yours … but I didn’t take epidural … the best part is you didn’t remember the pain once the baby out .. my episiotomy took approximately 2 month 10 to 12 stiches i had .. .. happy motherhood ❤

i also had my csection in 2022,,, c-section is one of the worst thing ever one experience....i got my water bag leaked on 36 week, i had intensed pain and dilated 10cm,, my baby head was also showing,,but my doctor was very very very pathetic,, she did not even help me to deliver naturally, i was just begging to her to have my normal delivery, but she dramatically made my family panic and took me to operation theatre... i will never ever forget this. my Doc was Doctor Attiya from university of lahore teaching hospital. i request you guys pls don't visit her, she is only money making doctor, she has no concern with the patient but she only need money... c section is worsttttttttttt,, you are not even able to feed your child... due to pressure i got my stitches open after a month... 😢😢😢 then again i rushed to the hospital and had further 25 days treatment to heal my stitches...

The most awaited video is finally here🤍

You are so strong! 💗 beautiful story 😪💗

Oh my God, your birth story made me all teary.🥲 Masha'Allah Masha'Allah, may Allah pak grant your baby with blessed and healthy long life ameen.❤️ Giving birth naturally is truly a blessing I would say. I'm carrying my second baby at the moment and this video reminded me of so many events that took place when I had my first one. I wanted to have him naturally but couldn't. Now seeing alot of girls giving birth naturally having the same height as mine, it pains me that my gyno didn't let me even try to have mine naturally, because she was convinced I couldn't. But let me tell, I WAS dilated and having contractions naturally so I'm pretty sure I could've done it too. Anyway lots and lots of prayer for you and your family.💕 P.S: And to all the girls reading this, my advice is to please choose your gynecologist wisely and ALWAYS Have second opinion, if you're not satisfied with the advice your current doctor is giving you.

I had my son a month back.. i can feel this i was in labor for like 39 hours.. was 8cm dilated naturally.. bearing pains with all my heart k nhi normal he honi chahia.. but it was a really long labor.. and baby already passed meconium.. n having caput succedaneum.. so ended up with csec.. it was actually the horrible experience..

Been waiting for this video for so longg

MashaAllah so happy for you!! Such a strong woman ❤️

I am 37+5 with my first baby and seriously shivering after listening your birth story may God bless all the new moms

I'm 8 cm dilated in unmediated labour it's take only 2 hours but when I'm 8 cm dilated then they take me for emergency c section because of baby heartbeat issue so Jo dard naseeb mae ho WO milta he hy ..I'm living in Dubai or Mae delivery k leye Pakistan ni ayi Ku k waha c section hoty hy zada PR naseeb Mae tha to ho gaya... But I'm happy k me and my baby is healthy alhamdulillah

Ye kam bagher takleef k ho nahi skta normal or c sec ye kam aasan nahi hy still feel the pain after listening to this but so greatful to have been thru this alhamdulillah alhamdulillah alhamdulillah. Allah ye khushi sb ko ata frmain aur sb bachon ko Allah apny hifz o amaan me rakhen maa baap k saaye taly jawan kren aur maa baap ko apni aulad ki dheron khushyan dekhna naseeb frmain aameen.

Thank you for sharing your experiences. It is so important to share how strong we women are! On another note, here in the US, docs don't give anything to eat or drink after being induced to prevent vomiting or other gastric issues. I was given epidural then I was induced with my first (ended up having a c-section!), it's definitely an experience! So, I have had 2 c-sections and I was up and about within 2-3 weeks. My gyno is a surgeon, and the cut was very precise. My stitches came out in 5 days. He had me do sit-ups after 2 weeks to be able to strengthen the internal muscles. I was active with my 2nd baby in less than 2 weeks. C-section was the best!

My experience almost same. 10am to 10pm pain. Episiotomy delivery with vaccuum. Congratulations to you 👏🏻 welcome to the club. ♥️

You go girll!!

Man!! MashaAllah ❤️ you are such a strong person... bless u

Mera 1 month phle c section hua hai and alhumdullilah next day he walk krhi thi and 1 week mai mera stitches ka pain bhi kafi bhtr hogaya tha sb kam krne lagi thi but 4,5 days bht tough thay ksi k sahare k begair bed se uthna azab hojata tha🥲🥲 c section mai jitna zyada active rhte hain utni jaldi stitches heal hote hain or jitna bed rest krte hain utna time lagta hai alhumdullilah i stayed active after my c section and now my stitches are completely healed ❤️

Mashallah congratulations 🎊 may Allah give you more happiness in your life saty blessed ✨

Quite happy for you, your story is similar to mine but only thing is i delivered all my babies in UK.Aldumdulliah.

Which camera u use for videos

More power to you ❤️

More power to u girl❤️

You dont feel any pain after delivery, even stitches don't feel! I deleverd my baby 3 months and it was normal, I too wanted to take c secton mid but I push harder and she came out in 5 minutes because I dint take epidural and it was easy to push because when that pain comes you push sooooo hard!!! Touba goosebumps! Now baby care is 4th trimester

This was such a nice video I loved how you explained everything and I'm know where near having a child or even married but this was interesting

I had both deliveries 1st cs in 2020 nd second normal wotb episiotomy in 2022 i must say normal is blessing going into labour pain naturally is also blessing when i woke up in morning with sings of labour the feeling of happiness i even can't describe.

Ohh my God,I started shivering while watching your experience,reminding of mine... Best experience of life

Well this video z very informative, sentimental and lovely. I have been watching you since your very first video. So i can't explain my feelings in words exactly. But i must say you are looking so elegant so pretty and this look is quite motivational for people like me who keep looking sick even after many months of recovery. Evil eyes off. Stay blessed.

Finally u uploaded this ❤

I delivered my second one on 26th October without epidural. My labour was also induced and I delivered within 2 hours of induction Alhamdulilah

I am going to experience that pain after 2 months.. And I can't imagine how painful it is.. But I had believe on ALLAH that he helps and make it easy for me.. IN SHA ALLAH

Viginal delivery is worst pain ever ..I can totally relate it..

C-Section is not an easy way out, it is one of the major surgeries and the recovery period is also very long. One should never compare Natural delivery or C-section. Bringing a life in this World is not easy may it be Natural or Cesarean. I hope we can make a change in this World by being kinder.

Literally crying while nursing my baby..sore and cracked nipples . in your older videos you mentioned a nipple cream in a tube of violet purple color.. Please please please Reply and van you please write name of that nipple cream in Reply Or comment. If anyone else knows please help and write it down ....It will be really hslpful..

Honestly its kinda scary for me but super proud of you❤ and all the mums who goes through from this stage May Allah bless you all and your babies ameen sumameen

At 6 cm (after 12 hours) i was begging for a c section.. . Thank god i got one. My back doesnt hurt at all and i ll never try for a vaginal delivery for any of my next baby.. it felt like i am dying with every contraction. After my c section i was moving about on second day. I felt so better. How ever i did take a lot of supplements and yakhni and keema. C section is fine vaginal birth is hell.. too too painful. It took me 12 hours to only get to 6cm.. also the worst is when the dr inserts her hand to see how much u have dilated.. tahts an other kind of pain.. and then getting induced .. salute to all The women who did it without epidurals and anaesthesia.

Is the epidural is the same thing? That we have to take in C-section ??? Bcoz it will be my first labour so i didn't know anything

Congratulations anushae

It’s crazy how different it is in different countries. In the uk they only give you epidural when you’re 5cm if you’re more then that they don’t give it and the gas and air, Omg it’s the best thing ever lol. But it’s fascinating to hear how it’s done in Pakistan.

I got induced too at 34 weeks 6th day!!!! And I was 0 cm dilated at that time. And yessss!!! That ball sort of thing was terrible!!! I was in active labour pain for 22 hours long!!!! Contraction through inductions are more terrible than natural ones!!! It is still a nightmare for me! Those 22 labour hours were terrible trust me!!!! WOMEN ARE HEROES!

When you posted the story of going to the hospital till you posted about your baby I was constantly praying for you. Jb jb yaad aya I prayed for your ease. Becoming a mother is extremely painful yet the most beautiful thing of your life which you can never forget ❤

Oh My God, I have literally waited so much for this video🥺 and finally you uploaded it and I have to be induced tomorrow. Wish me luck please 🥺

You are talking about labour pain and yes you are right after labour pain your pain threshold is increased

Hiiiii.... How's Aliyan....my cutest Lil nephew.....lots of duaa for you and your family.... darling...love from India ❤️

I feel someone is repeating my story. Same to same😂😂I also kept on saying in the end plz do my c section.

OH MY GOD...no doubt that's why Allah pk has given such a high status to mothers...May Allah pk bless all mothers and make their children soothing to their eyes ameen

Okay. Normally, I never comment on anything online as such but watching this video I just had to say this because of the way this video is done and also, knowing the kind of mentality and culture we live in, I really wanted to get a few thoughts out here. It's not me nitpicking but correcting some really misleading info, facts and perspective. 1) I think you meant a Cannula and not a catheter. Cannula is inserted into a vein in your hand or arm. It's where you receive all your intravenous fluids like your antibiotics, your drips etc etc. 2) It's Episiotomy and it's done to avoid natural excessive tearing of your muscles during vaginal delivery. Nothing to do with the use of forceps or vaccum. It's standard practice and will be done no matter what kind of situation you are going through in your natural delivery process. 3) You have spoken about method of delivery as if it's a choice that everyone just automatically has. Which is not true. No one can fully control how their child comes into the world. One can plan all they want but the situation at hand ends up telling us what's best for the child and the mother in that moment. Sometimes, it's a choice but even then it's not like a personal preference taken so lightly like "oh I feel like I want to deliver this way so I'll do that". I don't think you might have meant it that way. But it came off like that. 4) Please Please PLEASE STOP making a joke out of C-section. I don't know what you were trying to do or say by repeatedly saying C-section ho sakta hai. Whether you mean to or not. I've heard these phrase far too many times. Stop treating C-section like it's a trip to candy land. God! As someone who delivered via C-section, let me tell you this. It was the most scary procedure of my entire life and I've had many surgical procedures done on me from ages 25 days old - 20 yrs old. Stop treating C-section like an easy way out. Mazak nahi hai to have 7 layers of your body cut open and being awake during that procedure. To hear and smell everything. Longest 45 mins of my life. Both deliveries are extremely difficult and painful in their own way. Stop with the comparisons! Please use your platform and your influence to inform better and educate better. Better than this video did. Again, whether you intended it or not I found these points to be really really bothersome. Please discuss such topics with great care and consideration. Your info on epidural was also a little bit so-so.

Same my story.../ More power to you new mommy ❤️ love you annusae

Same was the case with me after so so many pains l told my doctor to do the C section just showing like a childish behaviour but thank God it was a normal delivery which is painful but gives u so much relief n for me C section is an abnormal delivery like u have to take care n u have to walk as well so that ur stitches won't be stuck n bala Bala but normal delivery is a blessing. Anyways congratulations for having a baby MashAllah.

That drip was inducer too but it's so much intense

IN MY FIRST pregnancy water bag leaked but no pain dr. Gave me artificial pains time duration of whole period was 7pm to 1.55am ...... normal delivery is so difficult facing a lot pain 😪...

After listening to your story I don't know why I'm feeling back pain🤔🤔.....like I'm 22 and not yet married 🙄

m scared bro i mean i have an exam tomorrow in university but i kinda scared with this labour name thing n all the stuff,,,you're a strong lady btw

Sb wifies yehi chahti hain k un k husband sth jayen un k sth or feel kry pain ko .....

From 8 to 9th of September I was going through the same. I'd a normal delivery without epidural. After that when I was watching your Insta stories I was like ' bana lo khushi khushi stories or nendein b krlo puri, isko pata nae ha abi k kya hoga agy, lag pta jayega nikalty wqt" 🤣

It's a myth having pain in the back after getting epidural, both methods of delivery are traumatic for the body which causes pain afterwards

apne bht acha kiya himat kar k normal delivery krwa k i experience c section 3 times its not good backpain apka rehta he hai apne bhy acha kiya research ki n phir acha decision liya 👍

I have 3 kids of 3 C section..but my first experience Is also same as ur.

I had my c section last month it was easy to bear more than normal delivery Alhumdulillah