MY MARRIAGE STORY... 

Khyra A thank you 😘

Whats zina?

Harleen Sandhu it’s adultery before marriage it’s a very big sin in Islam except for those who repent. :)

You can still stay away from zina without marrying. There’s no need to rush in a marriage you’re not ready for or marrying someone you’re not compatible with.

@@harleensandhu2621 its fornication

krazy k awww you’re so lovely, thank you for your support 💕💕

How older you now

sara suufi aww thank you for watching hun, I’ll make it a point to film a tutorial xx

Romy Ahmed Hi Romy I see u and zarah and queen of sabba

🙂I love you

Yeh me too I’d love too hear

she said in her Q+A that she met him at her older sister's wedding and they stayed in contact with eachother from then

@ Z Blessing Hope your dream came true. Alhamdulillah. In Sha Allah

Munira Ahmed omg me too 😭 He’s bengoli original and I’m from Morocco.. can’t wait to live together 😢

Same here ! It’s very hard but it’ll be worth it inshallah 😩

Same I can’t wait 😊😢😢😢

aliyah rose omg yes!!

Salaam, I dont know cast system works for some muslims too, that is absolutely haram, tell your parents that Allah swt. made us all equal no matter what ethnicity, we are all human. Make them watch lectures of this, Mufti Menk has a lot of lecture on marriage, they are great, MashaAllah, in one of them he brings up the example of Musa( as.) the way he got married and the way his father in law though he was right for his duaghter, judged by his actions & character ,not his status, family , wealth, etc. I hope the best for you , May Allah bless you with the best marriage.

@ shamila Islam definitely bring this issue up to your parents when the moment is right maybe dessert and tea time in the evening or Saturday or Sunday morning breakfast or brunch and tell them how you really feel about this fellow and that you are not really over him and feel that the three of you made a mistake even if it was good intentions with your best interests @ heart do not make the same mistake that I made when I was 22 I was also in a similar situation I was really very into this very sweet nice young man named Jeff there were some issues but only minor which I felt could've been worked out but because they were afraid that I wasn't gonna have a great marriage and that my dreams would be crushed so with a heavy heart I had to tell him that we couldn't keep going on and I was heartbroken just like him but I then slowly started to move on I dated so many different men who unfortunately either weren't compatible with me or they were such marriage commitment phobes or just too into marriage would ask for my hand (I kid you not) on the 2 or 3 date and it caught up with me several decades later and the damn really burst forth I had a lot of pent up anger sadness and heartache I tried privately contacting him via Facebook message I think he's either married or if he's not maybe he don't feel that he can trust me because I never heard back from him I know that my Mr right is out there somewhere hopefully when I go back to school in the spring I will maybe hopefully find him (yes people can find love @ 42) I am 41 going on 42 October 16 is my birthday shamila sweetheart please sit down with your parents and nicely put your foot down with them believe me you don't want to end up being my age still searching for your Mr right it was also long distance too with me and Jeff I am in Brooklyn NY he is or was in Detroit Michigan wow there's definitely a distance between you and this fellow but looking back @ all this I wish someone would've given me advice tell your parents that yes there is the long distance issue but if two people love each other they can and will make it work and we've come a long way with all this social media take the opportunity to do all this strike while the iron is hot do not wait several decades to wake up and have guilt and regrets I had to once again slowly move along away from this fellow once again a number of years ago I do think of him every now and then but all we were just two ships passing by this doesn't have to be like that for you so please dear cousin sister do everything you can and need to do to win this guy back if things go well with your parents (I really do hope so) then you need to contact the fellow (do that asap too) va phone email fb private message or even facetime when nobody is around and discuss with him how you really feel about him apologize and ask him to give you another chance tell him that you made a mistake let's work it out the long distance shouldn't matter what matters is if you two can make the relationship work tell him you don't want to lose him again good luck with everything may g-d give you the strength and guidance peace

Tzivia Margolis thank you for sharing your story and advice! Me and the guy are still in contact, we talk everyday! We’re just waiting for my parents to get used to the idea of the fact their daughter has found someone and wants to settle. We both understand it’s a universal feeling every parent goes through in terms of acceptance of the fact their child is growing and will eventually start a life of their own. I’m just a little gutted my parents aren’t even giving him the chance to even speak to him. We both still have hope!

Shamila hun that is so great to hear anytime my pleasure again I do hope and pray that your parents do come around tell them that they are not losing you they will gaining a son in law and with in good time g-d willing grandchildren status quo should not matter @ all it's very similar in Judaism too how religious and even class status plays a huge role @ to what kingu11 said wealth status and titles shouldn't matter what matters is that the person treats you right and will love you forever shamila dear cousin sister I'm rooting and praying for you good luck with everything may g-d help you on this journey peace

Islamically parents should not be discriminating due to caste difference.

You know the prophet saw married once and gave his guests dates , A wedding doesn’t have to be a huge elaborate affair in fact small weddings are sunnah

@@Ariannauk1 I know. That's what I'm saying.. but family and their traditions make such a simple thing difficult.

@@p96-d8d Yes that's true. Most couples literally don't care about the wedding and are fine with just a mosque one but it's mostly the parents wanting to throw a good looking party for the relatives and feel happy and proud. Have patience, inshaAllah kher, many of us are going through the same thing!

I am Somali and my husband is white British. I think we have many difference mainly in personality. However as I am born in Britian we share similar likes of foods and I am very well versed in his culture. He likes my culture alot and really respects me mashAllah. We are very different in characteristics. I am talkative and loud and hes quiet. Other than that we are all humans. He gets along with my mother too even though theres a slight language barrier as english is not my mother first language. I think ethnicity doesnt really matter as long as your muslim and you are happy together that all that matters.

@@beautygem3786 yeah I dont care about our differences were both muslim that's all that matters. But at the same time I guarantee if I was pakistani we would be married by now. I've been patient for years but in sha allah soon

Abeeha .a get lorreal true match u would be surprised

@@sabrinaabdulahi5607 Does it make your foundation look like skin? I'll totally try it out :)

Abeeha .a Yh it does for me I get a lot of compliments

@ farhiya jama ditto me too beautiful zeinah and Ibrahim should have many beautiful golden years together

Yay whohooo queen zeinah rules with an iron fist

Dunja Abdul Rahman shes 25 and her husband is 30 and she was 19 when she had her first child lol she answers this on her q and a videos i dont stalk her or anything😂

saynab ali haha thanks!! Xx

A A how much do you charge for your psychic readings then? I guess it’s free seeing as no one asked you for your opinion.😂

@@ZeinahNurThree of your vlogs in and the tediousness of your life set in. You said you are introvert, do not have too many friends, married at 17, do not work, no much life experience outside of this marriage. I think you just wear a mask to portray a semblance of life, beyond your family. Once the kids grow up and once he gets bored, what then? The mask will slip!! I am a psychologist and seen too many clients with your life story, same story different faces.You put your information out there, people will comment and many will recognise the the emptiness behind your eyes. Just commenting on what I see from experience, enjoy the veil whilst it fits.

A A I assume you’re not religious. Find God before you advise someone on such matters.

@@fatimxh ok hypocrite.

@@AA-ek5kz psychologist my @&*^$#, are you God to know what the future holds???? Functional illiterate more like.

Or Sandra Bullock 😁

She's from somalia

No she is. From itopiya

@@joonbeel2254 don’t claim to her she’s Pure somali 🇸🇴

Riti Aggarwal what stupid question is that? I am 100% sure she is against it. It is FORBIDDEN in Islam.

Oh like...Adam and Steve....instead of Adam and Eve...😲 We should ask God that Question.....😮

Maybe send cute wedding photos and be like wow don’t they look pretty. How do you want to dress on your wedding day

Don’t people usually start talking with the intention of marriage? I’m not sure if you’re Muslim but if you are and the guy is Muslim as well then he should already know that you want to get married.

@@rosed7576 Honestly, true. I didn't think of that!

Could be wrong but I think barwaani?

Barawa

She answered this in a Q and A. He is somali

Radya Djibril I have not watched that tho can you tell me that video

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