I am so sorry it happened to you. Same thing happened to me 8 weeks ago, i was at 7 weeks when i had an emergency surgery because my left tube ruptured and bleeding internally. Definitely one of the most painful experience I ever had. But my OBGYN told me i can try to get prego again after 2 menstrual cycle. You are not alone. Let’s stay positive!
i am a new subscriber came across your video. It is nice to find woman who you can relate to. I am an american living in france. :) i suffered from an ectopic pregnancy, my surgery was may 6, 2020. my right tube was removed and i was over 7 weeks. This experience does change you physically and emotionally. But i promise you, all the anger he is feeling is normal and what you are feeling is normal. Take the time to grieve, cry if you need to, scream if you need too. it's the way we cope with this kind of situation.It took me a month to stop questioning everything, "Why me,". don't rush into trying having another, you need time. It's better to wait 3 months, to give yourself time to heal both physically and mentally. I will be honest, when we start trying in August i am going to be nervous, but i have faith that everything will workout the way it should. Talk with your husband too about how he feels. i question god to, but understand that it didn't workout for a reason. Maybe there is something more better after this. :) I use the kindara app, i have found a lot of amazing woman on there that has given me the confidence, hope and strength to continue on. You can push through this, us woman are very strong. we are never given anything that we can't handle.
Hi Katie, Hope you doing well now. I had the same experience 3 weeks ago, this was my first pregnancy:( still going through this, it’s so difficult but lets keep our hope up. Takecare
Hi Katie, My name is Chelsi, this is my first time watching one of your videos. Thank you so much for documenting your experience and sharing it with the world. I also went into surgery in February 2019 on the morning of my 30th birthday. I really related to your story. If you would like a friend from western Canada. I'm your girl!
@@KatieSantry I couldn't believe the coincidence of us both going in on our 30th birthdays! I really wish it never happened to you but I felt so much less alone hearing your story. The real time videos does such an incredible job showing the rollarcoaster aspect of this loss. The intense joy and excitement turned to uncertainty/ dread and then the waiting and testing and then surgery to save your life and losing your baby... Thank you again for posting. On top of that you went through it all during a pandemic which takes it all to the next level. I'm especially grateful to the doctor who allowed your husband to be with you. Healing is such a journey of ups and downs. I felt things shift significantly at the one year anniversary. The sharpness has dulled and it feels more like wisdom and strength now compared to how vulnerable and raw it feels at the beginning. I really like what you said about keeping the video of you excitedly telling your husdand. I love looking back at our excited pictures and videos from before we knew it was Ectopic. It reminds me of the pure joy of it all. Ah! I'm talking your ear off and writing a novel here. It's crazy, I've never written a comment on a youtube video before. I just felt so compelled to reach out after hearing your story. I hope that you and your husband are having mostly good days and I'm sending you lots of sparkly rainbow baby dust on your TTC journey. 💖 Ps. This is such a strange way to try and make a friend but if you ever want to connect or chat I'd give you my email or WhatsApp in a heartbeat! Much love from Canada
@@cmatkovich5539 It was such a struggle in the beginning, I am definitely getting stronger as the months go by. I am so glad that this video has helped even one person! It really was such a rollercoaster of a few days from the highest high to the lowest low.
I’m sorry you had to go through this. I think I may be going through the same thing ( having the left sided pain only ). Were you having any other symptoms ?
Hi, I started spotting and cramping and something in me just knew. But it was the weekend so I went to the ER. They will do an internal sonogram for you and check. Good luck ❤️❤️❤️
Mam I have a question.. please tell me.. 2020 December I am pregnant and this pregnancy ectopic .. and Doctor told me.. my pregnancy level 44 .. and I have the injection .. I have a miscarriage .. how many waiting is another baby
