My Mom Traumatized Me For 17 Years! | KARAMO 

Yeah when he said the most important thing is their son and his relationship with his grandma I was thinking no definitely not - mother and daughter need to heal first.

Exactly!!

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I Agree

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Don't judge her she went through hard time herself

She was on drugs , she may truly not remember that incident

No it doesn't lol

9/10 she doesn’t remember it especially if she was on drugs this is coming from personal experience not saying the mom is right she’s def in the wrong but she could easily not remember

fr i'm pretty sure that's the only reason

Ufff im really praying this aint the reason cause this is so vile

I believe that too

That’s exactly what I was thinking!! She want a kidney from her..may be a match.

Easy to judge raising 4 children by herself is not an easy task she went through hell always mother where is the father ?

People have to report it. CPS doesn't have spidey senses that a child is in danger. People in their community see it but don't report it bc they don't want to be involved. Start there

​@@arieltaylor6070 Even when its reported cps barely be helping lmao. Based on my personal experience + many other experiences I've heard, of course they DO help sometimes, but theres also a good chance that they wont.

exactly...

RIGHT!! But love to pop up on well-intentioned parents cuz their well taken care of kid catches an attitude and says something slick at school... I've seen them go after decent people over absolute nonsense but a child left with strangers, sitting alone into the the late hours, and ending up with black eyes and hand prints on her neck they're MIA or investigate and find nothing 🙄

@@Peachez_and_ThePits So true, let’s think about this situation🤔7 years old this baby was in school. So no one ever reported it to CPS?

Honestly, it's so sad.

You know what even stranger can give the kidney she herself went through rough times if one person makes mistakes you can be nice and show them love

​@@KK-ri2gu she needs to show love first. That is her child.

​@@KK-ri2gu, her mom didn't just make mistakes; she chose to abuse and abandon her daughter...

@@KK-ri2gu She made decisions. Every bad decision isn’t a mistake. Her daughter is still suffering and she’s sitting up on that stage rolling her eyes.

Exactly they be knowing

Narcissist

You gotta be a New Yorker🤔 you said “clocked”

@@Hollygdorsey1that’s not nyc slang

fr they know 😂😂

LITERALYYYYYYY I JUST COMMENTED ON THIS. I thought he was going to step for his wife when he stood up. He heard her story and talked about how he loved his MIL. I WOULD BE PISSED.

1000% agree

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💯 he cannot see or hear his wife's pain

Yessss

fr I was nervous when she mentioned that

All gang members aren’t bad people yeah they do things that’s shouldn’t be doing but back then gang banging was different they looked out for the community and gave back idk what they doing now well at least this is what I remember back then.

Not advocating gangbanging, but, in reality, gangs become family for many who don't have family.

I'm glad about that too. Js shows you that help can come from unlikely places. It's also still a shame that whole gang members took care of her because her own mother wouldn't

​@@sereneamani1713 yep agreed

fr

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Always putting sugar on 💩

@@marathonbleuhe has to stay professional. I’m sure he is trained too how to handle these situations.

EVER!!!

@SarahD-uy5pfexactly what I was thinking!!! She ruined her kidneys and now she wants her daughters...tragic

So!

@@gwendolynmanley1973The sad part is you really are dismissive and full of hate. You can not see that you caused the damage to your daughter and yourself. You’re paying for that with your health. You have no shame and your under comments talking crazy!!! Grow up and actually be a mother or not. But don’t expect anything from her that you can’t give yourself!

yes !!

​@@gwendolynmanley1973You don't like for people to point out your mistakes.

@@gwendolynmanley1973you are evil

Drugs? & she needs a kidney? Why? She destroyed a good 😊 one…. But I wouldn’t give her mine.

@@Sandra-by9rq I Wouldn't Blame You. 🤷🏾

@@Sandra-by9rqnot I wouldn’t give her mine 😂😂😂 yooo

Shut up! Nobody cares what you think!

honestly

You don't have sympathy for the mother she went through a lot if one person makes mistakes you can correct it by discussing the problem no matter how much mistakes mother is mother

@@KK-ri2gujust because she birthed her doesn’t make her a mother. And just because they have the same blood doesn’t make them family. Just because ur family u doesn’t mean u have to fix things . Or be on good terms. Or even have them in ur life. A lot of time blood isn’t no thicker than water. There is no sympathy for a terrible woman who didn’t care for her kid and is now rolling her eyes being dismissive not taking accountability or even a genuine apology or inch of remorse.

EXACTLY

Yes

Yes, it was the way she spoke for me. I grew up with a narcissist as a mother and she'd speak in that same tone while I'm in a highly emotional state so that it makes you look crazy and angry for "no reason". I have a feeling that they speak totally different off stage for sure. She is manipulative and is maybe attempting to get a kidney out of her daughter by even going as far as pretending to want a relationship with her so it can happen

i agree

@helpkelp3595. You could definitely be right about that. She comes across combative. I’m sorry about your upbringing, that can’t be easy.

True. Everything this mom said and her facial expressions scream "fake". It is undoubtedly an act just so she can have a kidney

True. Her mom is putting out an act it's all a facade just so she can possible have the kidney... she didn't even once embrace ber daughter.. she is evil.

Yea🥹 that actually pissed me off. is he starting with I love both this woman, no, you love your wife you stand next to your wife you protect your wife man it pissed me off honestly.

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I think he’s falling for the moms bullshit

Facts 💯💯💯

yeah but even tho the girl takes her child to his granma's house, that's crazy, why would you do this? I mean, she's a bad person

Also, what a vile family to continually leave her outside of the house alone.

“chasing a ridiculous pipe dream that will never come to fruition” this made me laugh 😂😂

@@michaelamitchell1603I chuckled too

Please don't judge her she went through rough times

​@@KK-ri2gu i see where you're coming from, there is no excuse to abuse your children though

@@KK-ri2guI’m seeing you in all comment defending this woman, is that you ?

So what!

Well said

The POINT!

Right !!!!!

I noticed that as well; a child trapped in an adult body crying for help and no one heard her not even her teachers.

@@yvonnebrendamiller6305 Fr! So upsetting 😔

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Yes! When she looked at her daughter and said “can I talk?!” It’s the way she said it, the look she gave, you can tell she wanted to speak in a harsher tone. That “gangsta” her daughter was sayin🥴

Exactly! The fake syrupy act faded pretty damn quick. Narcs can never hide their true selves for long.

@@quinnykayy4356 exactly

Facts!!!!

Narcissism in its glory

Like a true grimy narcissist

But the daughter better NEVER give her that kidney.

1000%

True.

Please don't be judgemental she had rough times

@@KK-ri2guAnd as a mother (or father), you do whatever you can to make sure your kids don’t go through rough times. She subjected her daughter to horrible times.

Husband mature and responsible too!

Ursula😂😂😂😂😂

Cant unsee it now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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That’s disrespectful to Ursula

Thank you 😊

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I’m dead 😂

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Beautifully put 👏

This!!!

facts 😂😂

I called my mom after watching this.

Exactly what I said!

Right. That was so messed up. Karamo shut him up, though

@zoespeaks7404, in my opinion the husband made profound points, for the wives healing. The husband is concerned about his wife, he is encouraging her to choose peace, so that she won't have any regrets when the mother check out on earth. It his opinion and I agree with him. Unfortunately some people don't have a forgiving hearts, they hold on to whatever happened to them. And some people are wired to forgive no matter how bad you did them. I don't the daughter, but its seems she is not even close to forgiveness. I had a friend who went through childhood trauma, and profusely blamed her mother for it. Her mother at some stage, improved her life, took to the daughter to prestigious private schools, tertiary education. She could tolerate her mother then, the minute's she achieved academically and could stand on her own, she remembered everything and started the hate all over again. Years later the mother died, and she went through the worse depression. Now she talks to her mother through prayer and regrets everything. Her two other siblings who went through the same with their mother, chose peace and embrace her for the struggles and appreciated that she took care of them when she could. Have no mental break down. They are fine. Unfortunately our hearts are wired differently.

No, the husband said he was only there for his son and completely ignored his wife’s pain.

He is an idiot

At first I thought you meant checking as in he's hot😂. The way he said you look nice made me side eye karamo

I can relate and this is so true.