The foundation of their relationship Wass already wrong. He cheated on his gf who is her friend to be with her. That's the origin of her insecurity. No matter what you build on it, it will be a problem. She will always suspect that he'll do the same to her. Both of them should move on. You cannot build a meaningful relationship on infidelity and betrayal.
Creo que soy el único latino en los comentarios. Muchas veces cometemos errores y solo nos damos cuenta cuando miramos atrás, y sentimos que lo estamos perdiendo. Pero de eso se trata la vida, de cometer errores y aprender de ellos Excelente programa frances, he visto varios capitulos, felicitaciones👏
toujours apprendre , s’améliorer dans la vie , le meilleur nous tombera du ciel sans que l’on cherche nulle part ailleurs ; c’est mes propres expériences , 🙏👍💪💖😊
I'm also a drummer who once had a very jealous girlfriend, so I can speak from some experience with this sort of thing. I've had plenty of girls make moves on me as well over the years. As it happens, I'm a one-woman man. My girlfriend was much like Miriam here, a really pretty woman who unfortunately was just too damned jealous, so much that she would make scenes for no valid reason. I did everything within reason to get her to understand that it was unnecessary and even destructive. Didn't work. Eventually I ended the relationship, and it was for that reason. Today, I'm married to my best friend, who may not have quite model-like looks like either my previous girlfriend, or Miriam in this video clip, but doggone it, my wife's the best. I'm happy with her. She doesn't play that jealousy nonsense, even when other women make plays for me (I usually don't even notice they're doing this!). Life is peaceful and good with her, and that's really what's going to get a man to stick around.
I would absolutely die if my husband ever said that I wasn't as beautiful as his ex. However true it may be, that's just something you should never say, even anonymously online.
Watching this show from the U.K. it makes you realise how amazing the French people are. Politics set us apart but this show brings everyone together and showcases France around the world
La jalousie n'est pas une preuve d'amour, seulement d'un manque de confiance en soi et d'un esprit de compétition. Or, l'amour ce n'est pas considérer son prochain comme sa propriété. Mais il y a plus globalement toute une culture toxique à revoir dans nos schémas amoureux.
True, but try being with a guy on a rock band. Those guys always sleep around, so I am sure she has her reasons.... I think she is very lucky he said NO, he is not interested in settling down....Once his career is over, and he turns ugly with the drugs that did him in, he may then come looking for her when she is married with kids.
@@LuBre He betrayed her first, afterwards she got jealous, which is healthy. Best would be to drop the cheater instantly, but a relationship is like a drug...it takes time to let go. Here, this woman is the nice one imo. I wish her the wisdom to end it. People usually don't chance easily; this also applies to Cheaters
@@roselandebazelais8236 Le pauvre chéri , il est vraiment malheureux... Tant mieux pour elle, bon débarras, elle mérite mieux que cet homme qui s'est servi d'elle quand il en avait envie et qui devait être content de la rendre jalouse avec n'importe quelle autre qui lui courre après. Dommage pour lui et tant mieux pour elle, elle trouvera beaucoup mieux.
@@loopingmalone8242 t’es en train de faire comme si le gars était le simple fautif alors que tu connais même pas toute l’histoire c’est quoi cette mentalité …
Un départ sur la mal honnêteté ne peut pas mener sur un chemin d amour saint c est évident ! La paix du coeur et de l esprit se base sur la confiance là il y en a pas !
Ele não a ama verdadeiramente. Só fica com ela quando quer alguém para mima-lo e quando quer usá-la. A moça deveria se afastar dele e seguir em frente. Irá encontrar uma pessoa que a ame e respeite. Ela deve ter mais auto-estima, sair deste círculo neurótico e ultrajante.
I'm living this life rigth now, jealousy. It's a two edged blade. It's 50/50 good and bad. If this guy loves her, he would concentrate on her positive attitude and must try hard to convince her that he's willing to accept who she is. This isn't the case but it's also a very smart move for him to not continue the relationship. Hopefully, she can learn from this with another man that actually cares about her.
People never change. Her comment at the end when she said "for now", when responding to the fact that he is moving on, was spot on. He'll call her, drunk, or when he wants sex, etc. It's up to her to remain strong, which she will NOT. Because people never change. The majority of relationships gone bad are self-inflicted wounds/sorrow/pain. Because you are either in or out, in a relationship. No excuses. If one is hesitant, they are out. If one cheats, they are out. If one is still hung up on their ex, they are out. It is up to the other person in the relationship to take the hint, and move on. But the other never does, because people don't change.
It was fair. He wasn't so cold, and he had his reasons...While uncontrolled jealousy is not exactly and attractive trait, since he is a drummer on a Rock Band, I am sure he was most likely sleeping around with his groupies, so it's not like she didn't have her reasons too. Having said that, why on earth would she want to go back to a guy who will probably never settle down with one woman?!...Lady, be thankful he said no....Move on to a more stable gentlemen. No lady who is with a guy on a Rock band will ever be secure in a relationship, unless you're Paul and Linda McCarthy.
Maybe he's thinking that going back will have the same story jealousy and fights. With his profession as a drummer girls chase him and jealousy will hit again which is stressful to both. Physically they both look good together and wish each of them a new life.
J' ai vécu exactement ce qu' elle a vécu. Elle sera mieux avec un autre. En plus il va la voir de temps en temps, il joue avec ses sentiments. C' est moche. Et choisir la copine de sa Nana pour faire équipe c' est clair que c' est spécial.
Il y a franchement rien qui va ! Quel honte de s'afficher comme ça. Dans l'espace commentaire, il y en a qui l'a défendent et d'autres qui le défend mais personne n'est mieux que l'autre. Elle sort avec le petit ami de son amie, elle est immature, ne connaît rien à l'amour et bête. Et lui, ne l'aime pas, l'utilise pour quelque soir, remet la faute sur elle alors qu'il fait tout pour la mettre jalouse. En bref, qui se ressemble, s'assemble, il n'y a pas de victime
Pour moi, cette relation "sentimentale" entre Miriam et Yohan, ne pouvait se réaliser . Car dés le début, Miriam est trés jalouse . Et d'autre part, Yohan fait partie d'un groupe de rock . Avec toutes les "tentations féminimes" qu'il peut rencontrer .
@@melicoeur1363 Peut être il a prolongé un peu la liaison par peur de lui dire la vérité car elle et amoureuse , mais je pense que d'être sur le plateau c'est un soulagement pour lui, pour finir vraiment la relation.
Love is funny. Myriam is better than that guy, i don't know why she lowers herself to him. I think situation of not opening the curtain helped her realise her true worth. She is by far beautiful and classy. She deserves someone better that that guy
But she won't get him with that level of jealousy. Men hate that. It was actually he who had the maturity to understand that there was no sense in going back to the past. In that respect he was honest; he didn't try to use her. She needs to move on and deal with her jealousy or history will repeat itself.
@@Idcanymore510 We don't know that. He had more than one women at the same time before being with her, after being with her. I wouldn't be suprised to learn it was the same when he was with her, except that she didn't know it. He doesn't seem very monogamous, sleeping with her after he left her for other women. Wanting to be in a relationship with this kind of person is a waste of time.
Sad, It is unfortune that some people can being so possessive. The young lady is learning life experiences. I feel sad for her. People should learn to forgive, and if you forgive show it. My X was big trouble. So possessive, and dangerously jealous. I had like many other girls and boy opportunities, but never once strayed. I didn't want too, or think I needed too. Yes now my X because she is the one who enjoyed cheating. Always cherish what you have. Problems and issues can most times be resolved through good communication and understanding. No one is perfect, and along the road of life there are many dumps, highs and lows. Never go to sleep on an argument, or disagreement. You may never get the time for someone hear you say "SORRY, FORGIVE ME or I DIDNT MEAN IT, I WAS ANGRY. In life, love and any relationship we accept the GOOD, the BAD, the SAD and NOT SO UGLY. Good luck young lady in your future and find happiness. Sometimes being in deep love can be so overwhelming, sometimes the other half doesn't really notice.
Je me sens mal pour elle mais la jalousie peut être une chose très dangereuse et effrayante... C'est une belle jeune femme & elle a toute sa vie devant elle pour trouver quelqu'un d'autre...
Bem só ele sabe o que passou na mão dela. Ela mesmo disse que era muito ciumenta. Tomara que ambos encontre alguém que lhes dê valor e que eles valorizem também.
Sans être méchante il a eu raison Elle devait vraiment avoir un sale comportement Et le pardon lui suffisait Quand qqlch n’a pas marché sa sert a rien d’y retourner Une personne peut se convaincre d’avoir changer mais pcq pendant ces 6 mois elles étaient pas dans les conditions de couple C’st sur qu’elle allait recommencer
La confiance est quelque chose qui se mérite !!!!!! Je préfère une femme jalouse plutôt qu’une femme qui me dirait : fais ce que tu veux !!!!! Les gens se mettent en couple mais en fait ce ne sont que 2 individualités !!!!! C’est pathétique 😡😡😡
His body language said it all, even at the end before he answered no he was already facing the exit door. He wants to party and screw as many girls as he can and when they were together he ridiculed her with another girl at trivia pursuit. He's the immature one, i know because i was exactly like him in my younger days bar the rock band thing.
You know nothing about this man. Stop all your bs. At least he didn't accept her and start playing the games again. You have no idea how damaging an excessive jealousy in a relationship. Let him enjoy and that girl shouldn't come back for the time being. The man will reach out if there is still hope and love.
They're both on the wrong. She didn't recognize her self worth and took it on him to gain validation and he takes relationships and sex for granted knowing how much the girl/girls love him so he took advantage. Both will enormously suffer in life if they have not changed their hearts and treat the other gender with humanity and compassion rather than a mean to satisfy their selfish needs.
You don't deserve him especially a guy who jumps from hand to hand like a puppy. Always think love is not living for the moment it's forever. You got all that jelousy is not your fault , it's because he created it, you are not at peace with him.
Jealousy is created by the person who owns it, no one else. Remember she started dating him when he was with one of her friends. She stole her friend's boyfriend. Her insecurity comes from knowing that what she did, someone else could do. Especially with the lifestyle he lives. She is no angel just as he is no prince!
Una mujer o un hombre celoso es mucha inseguridad en si mismos no es porque te quieran es inseguridad ..una persona celosa ni es feliz ni deja a su pareja ser feliz y nunca cambiam asi es mejor cada quien su camino ...
Courage, tu es une femme très belle qui mérite d'être aimée, être avec quelqu'un qui te donne son coeur, ne souffre pas pour quelqu'un qui ne mérite pas que tu souffre pour lui, on ne force pas l'amour ni une relation. Seul un homme qui t'aime avec coeur verra ta vraie valeur. Je te souhaite beaucoup de bonheur trésor, tu es trop mignonne.
Je suis tt à fait d'accord avec cet homme. Il a raison. Moi à sa place, je ferai la même chose.. C mieux de laisser la femme jalouse loin de toi. Sinon c'est de l'enfer.. L'amour ne se base pas sur la jalousie.
Elle disais quil n'étais pas jaloux ? Dur quand meme ! Elle aurais du le tromper ce con. Jaime pas ce genre de mec un biiiiiiip Il se la joue sans cœur le type a la haine contre elle ca se voit dernière son sourire et son air rien a faire delle 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Elle aurait dû choisir un enseignant pour qu'il soit fideĺe. Un musicien c'est pas possible. Milieu pouri , l'alcool, la drogue. S'il a refusé c'est bien pour elle
Most times it's hard to shake off the feeling. Clearly he wasn't thinking with his head but with his ego. Believe me you are better off without him...plenty of fishes out in the ocean. Good riddance!!
Cette jeune fille a du coeur sur la main et sa tendresse est plus que surprenante de pouvoir assurer de sa fierté féminine pour conquérir l'homme de sa vie .l'amour ne se mesure pas en papiers euros mais l'unicité des êtres n'a pas de prix .ses larmes de pureté du coeur sont dissonantes dans la beauté de sin regard .ce garçon a de la chance de trouver une sincère déclaration .
Oui mais vivre avec quelqu'un de jaloux maladif, c'est terrible et étouffant. Il a dû se lasser d'elle et de ses scènes. Il a tourné la page. On apprend de nos erreurs.
Women dont seem to grasp that men want peace and quiet with a partner. Too much chaos will destroy the heart of any man and it always come to a point in which the man will feel enough is enough. And when that happens there is no way back - as this episode shows. He has moved on, and when a man has moved on they dont look back.
You know this guy has the woman lined up at his back door. I would like to see this show bring on all the other chicks that thinks he is theirs exclusively. Although most probably don't care. Bunch of pickle smoochers
Pelo menos ele teve uma atitude de homem, agora cabe à ela e somente á ela ter mais amor próprio, se valorizar mais e virar a página e vida que segue ...