My mother chose her Nigerian lover over me, my baby died before my birthday | Becky | Summer Family 

Good morning team LNN. What message do you have for Becky? You can reach her on 0113651240 (Racheal Magalo). Catch her on their channel here ru-vid.com

Hungry not only for bread but hungry for love. Naked not only for clothing but naked of human dignity & respect. Homeless not only for want of a home of bricks but homeless because of rejection. Mother Theresa Dear Becky i applaud you for coming out to share your story with us🙏you are a beautiful brilliant young woman. May God continue healing your heart & it's not wrong cutting people off if all they bring you is tears & heartaches.

I am here from Facebook... The fact that Thee Summer family came through for Koko when she was lonely and mourning her loss.They offered her comfort despite them having their own pain that they were hidding from the public,, am certain that God will come through for her.. LNN family,, let's support this young brother n sister to us.. Becky will join university and be able to pursue her dreams in Jesus name. It is well🙏

OMG... this child is sooo broken... I cried yesterday for summer, I am crying now for becky..Becky... and I am not even kenyan, never step my foot there... I wish I can take them in and give them love. These kids are soooo 😍

😭😭 becky is a version of me ,I just cried thru out watching the same video.my mum did the same to me I ended up having my kid at 19 after her kunifukuza n I said to my self I won't kill my baby to make her happy.so she decides to relocate to ushago n left me in nairobi alone n so I had to get married in oder to have a shelter for me n my baby i never joined collage nor university up to date because i have a kid thats already going to school n been raising him alone thou i believe I'll one day do my dream course its 6 yrs now but i know its never too late. Right now what I would tell becky is to always make God her 1st priority ,be positive n optimistic because one day she'll be mentoring young girls going thru what she's Been thru. May God see you thru lil sissy 💕 n don't give up on summer. Life is all about ups n downs dear

These kids have gone through alot, I can't imagine how they still had the energy to give us good videos with all this, I so much loved and still love their channel, may God open a great door for them, even with all this pain they helped someone like Koko after losing her husband, sending you love and hugs Becky, you are not a failure, you're a beautiful girl with great mind and you will soar high

A daughter without her mother is a woman broken. It is a loss that turn to arthritis & settles deep into her bones😢

This is so painful😰😰Dear single mothers let always prioritize on our children they go a lot of traumas with the step dads and mothers.

Every time I tell myself that I'll not cry on this channel, God reminds me that I'm not done yet.. There are more testimonies out there ... Lynn well done.

Dear Lynn, thank you so much for bringing and sharing these stories. Sometimes we forget to thank God for what he has given us. I grew up in a family of 10, wonderful loving parents to all of us. The older I grow the more I learn about families, the more I know how blessed we were. My parents are long gone but we continue to feel their love for us and we are trying to instill this love and care for family in our children. One important thing I have to point out is that my parents taught us to pray and believe in God. Learning to pray to God without going to some pastor (because many today are crooks). Thank you Lord for loving, giving, wonderful parents.

The whole story of Becky and Summer is really sentimental..They're so young and they don't deserve to go through this much pain.I pray to God to give them peace that surpasses human understanding and i would really love them to grow old together and to succeed in each step of their lives.Thanks Lynn for giving your hosts a shoulder to learn on.May God Bless you abundantly.Sending lots of love to you and The Summer Family💖❤💞

Let's help Becky and summer my guys,, they've been through alot

The way I love my daughter ...and I want to raise her different way than the way I was raised....

Ladies our children should be a priority before anyone else🥺😰

I lost my husband at a very young age and I chose to bring up my children alone because I couldn't tolerate to see another man mistreating my children. Mama Becky doesn't know how dangerous Nigerians men are. One day she will cry with one eye closing the other one.

A story of my Nephew he went through hell in the hands of a stepdad,he educated all his siblings except him it made us tuingililie tumtafutie his biological father it's only yesterday they united with tears of Joy

If you had a supportive mother growing up please kneel down and thank God for that... Some of us money was not the issue but vitu we went through we even envied the poor families with love and peace

Waaah! Aki I am traumatised by Becky's experience. God still loves you and He will wrap you in His comforting love as a Good Father. I appreciate Summer for being a safe space for you despite his own troubles God make you a great healed whole man. You are blessed, your created for impact and God is within you both you will not be afraid. Remember to speak life into your lives. Bless yourselves and pray for God's help and guidance. Poleni Sana my Loves. Hugs and love to you two Remember to work on forgiving those who did you wrong. Over time you will find peace and freedom and your lives will work. Yes be friends, do things that make you smile and be happy and pursue your dreams one day at time.

Becky i can relate with your story and i know how hurt and rejected you feel, nothing about this is easy, however with time everything will be okay, in the mean time, gather all the strength you need and try to accept the situation , you cannot force her to love you , infact be ready and willing to cut her off especially emotionally and dont expect anything from her, it will help you cope. build your networks and from your friends you might find family. Refuse to see yourself through her eyes. you are beautiful, brilliant and brave. if she ever comes back then it will be fine, and if she doesnt then i pray you will be strong enough to be okay with that too. May you have the peace and success that you deserve.

Lynn thanks for giving this young ones “The summer family” shoulder to lean on . May God bless you big. James/Becker you are still have a bright future,the word of God says you are the top and not the tail,what the locust has eaten may he restore it in abundance . Both of you have special connection and I speak as a son. The system in our Kenya though I don’t live there is broken. For us parents let’s stop calling our children names,let’s bless them .

My mum also treated me like nothing and favoured my brothers since i am the only girl, i dont know why she mistreated me and always called me names and made me wash my brothers clothes and everything. After form 4 i was employed as a housegirl and i thank God the lady i was working for took me to school and now im the one who helps my mum despite everything she made me go through .Tell Becky there is God in heaven who has our destiny... From a hopeless house girl to a medical doctor.

uzuri hawa ni wazazi wa dunia tu...tuko na mzazi wetu mtrue mbinguni...

This pains me so much, especially because it's so relatable, my mum thought I was too weak and unworthy. She insulted me most of the times and without even thinking about what went through my mind. I was a sad child, but I never got a chance to speak about it, I don't know if I have the courage just yet. Thank you, Lynn. You are my hero. Take these flowers 💐 today. I love you so much 😊

Ohh dear,I cant imagine what ths daughter of myne has bn going thro,I ve a daughter who resembles Becky and we as parents are soo overprotective of her,Ths story has had me cry,You are a Child of God,To Sumner,Big up to you for taking Becky in and showering her with love that she dealy missed and needs.God is gonna lift you up to greater heights its just the beggining.To Lynn,thanks so much for highlighting ths story our kenyan Oprah.

You can get your ID,just swear affidavit with a lawyer and you will be good to go..Hugs Becky.God will turns things around.

This story is soo heart breaking 💔 I can't watch it till the end 😭 The worse thing in life is to have a Narcistic Mother. May God heal u & guide ur ways for a brighter Future.🙏❤🌻

I don't have money but I have open Doors and windows and Open heart This are my children I need to adopt them 😭😭I'm born 80 's I feel for this children

No matter how broken you are there is someone out there who will love you enough to put you back together again.

I wish my Baby daddy can watch this...Some of us give the best to our kids because we grew up with toxic parents..so whenever I'm being protective with my two baby girls it's because of what I went through

Sometimes mothers can be the worst.I have a friend whose mum is like Becky's mum.My friend has been through so much pain.Such traumatized people usually settle where they find love and that's okay.Love you guys.May you heal from your hurts.It's gonna be okay.Sending you guys hugs.

I feel her pain. Nothing hurts than not getting support from your own mother.

This story is a big lesson to us parents aki.May God help me to be a good mom to my kids aki.l have learnt a lot.peace be with this young ones

the summer family has always been an inspiration to me from the start... Never knew they were going through all this.. these Kids have a great destiny.... they have helped people before despite the hard moments.... May the Lord come through for you... hugs♥

im watching this a year later. after the giving birth video and lemme tell you thee summers have grown. look at Becky prettier stronger and better♥♥♥

If you're listening an watching it in 2090, I'm already dead but remember one thing, "this one took my soul"!!! Classic interview !

The lesson I have learned as a parent and a relative is a lot God help me the better mom not only my children but to everyone who would need me in life

Thank Lynn, I have in Mathare, am a student nurse and many pple are dying slowly with depression. Thank you for saving this beautiful soul.

I am texting from Janaica. Crying and angry at the same time. Thus couldn't have happened here. We would have beaten stepfather and mother soft. Summer and Becky you will prosper in health, strength and wealth in your mind, soul and body.

How can a mother put her girl in this😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 pls expose that evil women

She is so young and beautiful,more love and light to you Becky.....sorry for the pain uv gone through,may you find healing.

Can't wait for that day we will be back here to glorify the mighty God for the healing , peace and blessings that Thee Summer Family will be having. I pray for peace of mind and heart for this couple. Youre not losers, God knows your destiny and soon you'll be a testimony.

This is so sad I have really cried I can't imagine how a parent can hate and disown their own.Becky and Summer all I want to tell you that there is a God up there who is seeing all this HE will never ever leave you.I know you are asking yourself where God has been all this time.HE has been there keeping you strong all through.All I can just do is to pray for you so that you sail through in life and most of all going back to college and doing what you really wanted.Wanao watharao wata wakujia na heshima siku moja..I encourage you to pray alot as prayers can move mountains.theres a big light at the end of the tunnel.

ukiwa na watoto more than 2 as a single mum achana na wanaume shughulikia watoto wako u will thank uaself later

Sometimes you're not meant to be with the people you're trying to get with. The universe works in ways that cannot be calculated and predicted by our minds i believe. Not to say we are powerless, just that it's important see the context in which we humans exist and that we often can't see the bigger picture of all the so called "bad" things that happen to us. You never know what new opportunities are opening up for us thanks to the rejection we experienced! Dear Becky, Rejection is redirection, divine protection.

Oh Lord, am only 14 minutes in and one thing that I vow as a single mum is to LISTEN to and PROTECT my child. You can never be too protective. Choosing another man at the expense of your own child is a NO-NO. Being a single mum is not a death sentence but being a step child is seemingly a death sentence with evil partners like Becky's stepfather. My heart goes out to you hun.

Oh! This will have to be the saddest story I have had to listen to, considering I was a client of theirs(The supermarket), and I feel like it is personal to me. My tummy is literally aching. 😪😪If only I knew who I was laughing with then (the girl's family)😪 How I pray that Becky and Summer will find strength and the inner peace they need to move on. One time I was in a rough patch and someone told me, "Please stay alive for me, for whatever you are going through is not for you, but for someone else to gain strength from it in future." And 7 years down the line, I have lifted so many with my story and hoping to be a blessing to more. Becky and Summer, the sovereign beautifier will surely beautify your story🙏🙏

Am so happy that Becky accepted the paths of pain. Pain results to greatness. Nobody will accept any pain like this. I trust Lynn and her community will come through for Becky and summer. Pain also strengthens aperson if u accept it from ur heart and ask God to help u overcome it. Becky u amazing and u have abright future. Feel loved and receive my🌺🌺🌺🌺.

Personally I have ever slept outside with a 8 months baby....being beaten countless times when I was pregnant....after I delivered the baby I even got more beatings..... My baby used to cry alot but she couldn't understand....now she understands and she sees me being beaten and we cry together.... but we cannot move out koz ,"To where?" we don't have money to start a life....I always pray everyday that God will make a way one day tuondoke..... At the moment even my kid doesn't go to school....anyway be strong girl God will make a way one day....

Am running to their channel now,nione hizo drama za huyu dame,I love her already,aki Becky I want you to be my friend

After hearing her story I'm so sorry that she went through all that..nobody is supposed to go through all that trauma and as a mother myself I don't think I can ever mistreat my kids this way😭and honestly this story has made me appreciate my mum so much...may Gof bless her for me.

Take heart momma,I have grown up like an orphan bt strangers have held me up,they have become a family to me , may God continue strengthening you and be your conforter

This is so disturbing. I can't bring myself to understand why a mother should treat her own child like this. Becky, I am sending love your way.

Mothers children are a gift from God,,,God will hold us accountable for whatever we do to them

Gosh this two children have brought up so many memories. I don't even know what to say. Baby girl I believe you will be great.

This is soo sad....why would a mom allow all these to happen to her kid?? Advise her she can be able to get an ID using a leaving cert (kcpe or kcse) then later on she can get her birth cert changed...

Lyn Hi I am a young man who also went through situations but i am here to sincerely say i empathise with what Thee Summer family went thru but on the issue of not celebrating birthdays i respect but how i desire theey can visit a psychological therapist and they will be helped and by this can lead them to live a freedom life because psychologically we say human beings are the experts of finding solutions to their own challenges in life. My desire is to see them living a freedom life. They should not live in denial but they can overcome My desire and my prayer for them

Nothing hurts than knowing you are not loved

Becky is only 20 years old and has already been through so much pain. When she fell in love with Summer without knowing him she was looking for love (thank God it is working for them). Her mother must have experienced childhood trauma and unless she deals with it she will not change. She needs psychological healing. Becky and Summer both need therapy to deal with the emotional and physical abuse they have had to endure. They will heal and look back and thank God. They are both very smart at their young age. Lynn you remain our hero for highlighting such stories. May God bless you mightily.

Lynn is heaven sent.. Before they get other parents from the comment section, Lynn is the first mother and she is too loving. Just that shoulder pat is therapy 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

No woman in the Name of a mother can curse this girl. You have greatness in you, find your path and follow it with faith. Those people who say you cant help anyone, or be nothing in life, those who gang against you, believe you me, you are the person to help them. Best Thing is to forgive, and Focus on your path, it is not an assurance of healing but a gateway to you destiny.Only a foolish woman destroys her own home.

I dont understand why a mother would do this to her children. My mum is so toxic even in her sick bed she has refused to change. She has totured us for years and i vowed to never go back to her home. She change when some strangers. Came in our lives. She became heartless

The story was so sad my prayer is for Becky to look for a place in her heart and forgive her mother God will see her through

So painful ata Sasa heri kukua yatima ujueee tuu una parent .coz I ask myself mbona mzazi ufanyeee ivoo kwa out own child surely ata kama juu ya a man I pray one day Becky ukueee na peaceful wewe na summer. God Yuko 💪 💙💙💙🙏🙏

Been watching their channel for a while, I now understand the attachment between Becky and James. I wish them well and I pray they will find happiness. Honestly the things we do to our kids, God will judge some of us so harshly!

Mama should be her daughter's best friend. I pray that Becky finds peace and love she deserves from her mum. I pray that mama Becky will rekindle that love between her daughter and her. God's grace is sufficient and I believe better days are ahead for the summer family. Yatapita na mtatabasamu tena. Peace !

The truth is Becky you ain't a Failure💯.You're very brilliant and a strong lady..Someday you'll look back and proudly say "the pain made you the person you're then"💯.you are going far Girl..this is just the beginning of a happy phase in your life..together with James you are going to win 💯💯🫂

As a mom of one handsome boy,Lord I pray that I will never be a toxic mom, I will love my babies more not my spouse

I will never favour a man and leave my kids to suffer, my kids are always my first priority,how can you let a man to punish your kid in such a way🤔🙆‍♀️let me continue being single and take good care of my lovely babies, 💞😘until the day i will get a good person who will respect and treat my kids in a good way.

Where can we Find this Guy He needs to be paid a courtesy visit .poor is the parent who doesn't recognize the presence of their kids, poor Mom May he who created Her, show her and Guide her Indeed she is Lost

They need a 'strong spiritual mother and father ' .

I respect the fact that our mum's need to be loved and feel loved even after having past failed relationships but sometimes they don't consider the fact that we are grown up children and they need to be very careful. I can feel you Becky, have been in the some situation and I can tell you it's hard to watch your mum listen to another man and not you, toxicity is real with our African mother's.

Becky i wish you were my daughter,to love,to support and walk with you every stage of your life...I wish i can just hold you tight and treat you with the dignity you deserve. You will go far .My prayers with you.

I am watching this series. It's sad when a parent fails to give words of blessing to their blood. I pray for peace for this couple.

I just like the way Lynn gives her guests time to explain every single detail ...thanks alot ma'am

Yoh Becky that was me once upon a time even the poison thing you said iish! I left and home the first chance I got and I got a lot of helping hands along my journey. When my mother saw me at the hospital which was her death bed she chased me like a thief and called security on me will my aunties and uncles, plus my brother and father watched. I left and never went there until she went into a coma and no one wanted to wash or clean her and moved into the hospital to be with her and when I walked to her bed and called her mama I am here until the end she voluntarily opened her eyes and closed them. Nursed her until she died. Everything comes to an end but at this moment cut ties completely, just love her from afar and one day God will give you a chance to tell her and she will receive. You have met our lady Lynn you will get help. The road ahead maybe long and hard but there is a future my dear Becky. Always pray, also for your mum too!!! Sending you lots of love my dear I know how it feels. You have really reminded me today yoh!!!!

This young girl is hurting deeply May God provide her heart desires. May she find peace and happiness 😍😍 it's well

This breaks my heart a million times May God fill the void these two are filling . Hugs

As a mother I will never choose a man over my kids. Sorry becky 🫂 hugs

I have went through that trimmer I do understand your pain girl. Even now am still fighting . But I truly believe GOD is mother of mother's....

😭😭 Ohh God, she's hurting so much... there's a God in heaven, He will never leave you nor forsake you... you are stronger Becky, because of the things you've gone through, you are stronger... may God touch and heal you completely 🙏... good job Lynn 👍...ohh this is difficult.....😭

Nothing pains like being hated without reason.. (My current situation though different story) Hugs Becky..🥰

Hugs 🫂 Becky..may this be the end of your pain..I am praying for you and James 💗💗💗

May great favour locate these young couple. Hugs Becky ❤️ What kind of a mother does these evil surely to her child??😢 😭

May God bless my mom for her endless sacrifice. I pray that my mama lives longer to see the fruits of her labor. She's the guardian angel God sent to me. God please keep my mom safe for me. And Lord kindly bless every parent/parents for their endless love to their children. Kindly remember those who never received love from their parents and grant them peace and favour.

I feel sorry for them I wish they could just forecast on them self if they want to be happy

This mom is manipulative imagine....Becky please it's okay to walk away from your toxic mom. You'll be fine...you need space to heal and then if in future she wants to be a part of your life you'll fix the relationship

Generational trauma! Toxic Mothers and fathers! Are we even ready for such conversations? Especially here in Africa where most adults now are dealing with childhood trauma caused by their parents. Sally even the parents may have been dealing with generational trauma. We need healing!

Guys can we support this family with anything little so that they move in together and go back to school. Becky needs to go to an aviation college,but she needs to heal first Can we help them get a house before they figure out what next?

I will always give my parents flowers well am alife, thanks mum and dad for loving us equal.You have stood with us, daddy umejimia sana to see us happy. Am heartbroken 💔💔💔💔

The Nigerian guy was grooming both mother and daughter for s3xual abuse, he wanted the daughter to be in a position where she wouldn’t report him and if she did no one would believe her. They’d think she’s just saying it coz he’s harsh on her. Please don’t remarry if you can’t continue to put your childrens wellbeing as a priority.

I really hope and pray that everything goes well for Becky and Summer, as well as their families. Sending them so much love and light ❤️. Also, I'm looking forward to hearing the solutions Mrs. Venus Kyengo will offer. You are doing a good job Lynn and team 👏

Some things are a sign that you are going to be blessed. Every success story has a bitter background. This girl will go far.

All will be well Becky I'm also praying for my mother I remember one day she told me " heri ungekufa ndugu yangu abaki" his big brother that statement has never been deleted from my mind but I gave God all my burden

Having a toxic parent is a more of a nightmare before dawn.rejection is real and a very hard pill for a human to swallow..I cheer you up Lynn for such episodes wads can't define who you are t the society feel

I didn't know what the summer family has been through 🥺.. virtual hugs ❤️n her sharing that's strong of her

This was tough to watch 😭💔 May Almighty God mend her broken heart and fill it with His ❤.

I know the pain, my mom rejects me too. It is the most painful and hurting, and heartbreaking thing one can ever go through 😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏

I'm much worried about the whole situation, their story is relatable and am looking forward for impact conversation on why and how parents should communicate with their kids.

I grew up the same way as Becky 😭😭😭I never knew Abt bring loved . My junior sis had it all😭😭I was a failure to my mom's eyes. Todate I've never healed. I do get horrible dreams about my childhood life. When I talk to my sisters Abt it, they can't feel nor see my pain. I'm waiting for a day I will talk one on one with my mom😭😭I pray for Peace to prevail on that day. MOTHERS BE A SCHIELD TO YOUR CHILDREN ESP GIRLS❤ .thank you

I wanna be her friend aki, Becky you are really strong aki,