My mother didn't deserve to díé in the hands of those she loved - Rosemary Nzembi PART 3 

If you review your story. I think you should have made a different decision. When you saw how your family was treating your grand ma and mom. You should have gone back to USA first with your 2 beloved ladies and take care of them in comfort of USA. The community can wait and your brother and family did not deserve your support. Your Grand could have sold most of the land to add to the support of herself and your mom. Lord what a shame. Asante

Such a heartfelt life story. She is a strong woman who faces and overcomes all obstacles.

It is well with you my sister. The God that has been with you from the beginning will not abandon you in the name of jesus. The Lord will fight for you

@@olaomoyeni8960 thanks & amen!

@@JaneHealth-wg2ig Is easy to make conclusions when you are not the individual in the situation. I appreciate her sharing her story however, no one is in a place to question her decision because we make mistakes in the heat of happens. Shalom!

Praise God for leading you here. 🙏

This remind of my brother who chose not to see my mother until he saw her in the cofin and tell the village community that he hated my mother😢

@@matokaletseleha29 sooo sorry to hear that about your mother. That must have hurt you & your dying mother.😢 May her soul rest in perfect peace...and may your peace be still within you. Hugs! 🤗

Just feeling same, never search and didn't know how I come across it and I LOVE it.

Kenya seems to have marvelous people. Listen earlier today to a story on Tuko and it made me shade tears and now great faith building program like this. God is great for lifting my spirit thru this. Thank you Jesus. Watching from Abuja, Nigeria.

Thank you for your kind sentiments! 🙏

Definitely! With her story i have learnt that i can achieve my dreams too. It's just yesterday i was pondering how i can achieve the dreams that i haven't attained yet. With God all is impossible.

Definitely. She has to put it in black and white

Yes I totally agree!💕

Absolutely!

I totally agree with you and God will punish him in his own way and won't believe it coz God's revenge is the best. My late Loving Mum felt me some shares, am a third born and ny siblings worked against me. I traveled home n made to sign documents. I hate family.

The Bible says do unto others what you what. He must not be shocked if His wife and kids turns against Him when need them most.

I agree

@@Joyful-gu5bj it's really to see how much rot & hatred has taken the center stage in most families! You're not alone....we are family! Hugs!

I’m in awe as well ❤❤

I always say, when you have a chance to make arrangements to put a defense for vulnerable parents please do!

Blessings 🙏

🙏🙏

The Lord made,a way that i tune in this opened my eyes l have a story to tell too.

@@JanetSKemp Thank you! God bless you always.♥️🌹

It was the brother who was to build his house and leave his mothers house. Not vise versa

Thank you do much! Your feedback is so soothing & encouraging. God bless you too. ♥

@@KandidXpressions thank you for speaking up. Will follow your channel.

He denied his family, he is worse than an unbeliever

Thank you!

@@KandidXpressions I lived in Texas for over 2,decades when I moved back home , my very own family turned against me because I couldn’t give the dollars. Their true colors came out. However, my situation is different because I have a successful adult child and my husband has been available and was ready to shield me on my return. God also gave the wisdom to put up a place of my own. All these has toned down the matharau a little bit. God’s grace is sufficient and you willi be blessed and ok. .,..but cut them off completely from your life

@@KandidXpressions your story is an affirmation to me of my current state. I'm the primary caregiver for my dad who has dementia. Had to step in and defend him from my mum & younger bro who want to take advantage of the situation to inherit his properties. It got so bad they was a kidnapping & attempted murder in 2021. In this current age, when relatives (both nuclear & extended) start harassing their vulnerable relatives, those who are sober should step in and if possible move in with them for their safety & health.

@@professional254 Thank God for people like you, the world has changed, family no longer mean anything.,however, there is always that one person who will stand up and do the right thing!!!!

Am sure he regrets it to date

Family is like that at times I went through that looking after my Mom. Without any help but I am surviving

Good day to you'll my African sisters and brothers, I am jamaican by birth but I know without a thought that I am a African by my roots as you should have known how we got here in the west away from my roots and God's chosen people the real biological children of Israel. My sister Rosemarie I have listened to both of your interviews. Its not surprising to me how God had came through for you . But I am inspired by your story, i am giong througha similar situation and god has been waiting great to me god bless you My condolences to you on the lost of your mother and grandmother , I hope their souls find a resting place in Kingdom. Please pray for me love you all,

This is not uncommon in Kenya. My brother tormented my mother. Called her names and one day he locked her outside her house. My father had died 10 yrs prior. Luckily my late sister (who passed away recently) is a lawyer, she contacted the DCI and police and my brother was locked up in jail. After 6 months my mother felt sorry for him and in a hearing she said she forgave him. By the way he was 54 yrs at the time. He used to live in the US. Went back to Kenya 20 yrs ago and refused to work. My mother passed away a few years ago. Now he's trying to claim the property as his even though my father wrote on the deed that it belongs to all four children after both him and my mom pass. The greed, audacity and entitlement of Kikuyu brothers is unbelievable. There is also an evil demonic component because the Bible clearly tells us to honor your mother and father as one of the ten commandments. They do not fear God. But they are mistaken. God is the Creater of heaven and earth. He created us, knew us and loved us even before we were born. There is Nothing that God cannot do. He is a faithful and loving God. This is the same God who brought the Israelites out of slavery to the promised land and punished their enslavors with plagues. This is the same God who has risen people from death, cured incurable diseases such as leprosy. He is the God of miracles and He is full of love, mercy and grace. Therefore, turn to Him, read the bible, confess and repent of your sins. Believe that Jesus is the Sin of God who came and died on the cross so that our sins may be forgiven. He defeated death and ascended to heaven on the third day and is seated on the right hand of the father and the earth is His footstool . He will come again in glory to judge the living and the dead, and His kingdom will have no end. Amen.

@@user-ye7mw9xl5u from your mouth to God's ears....may your heart be comforted and may God deliver you from suffering. Thanks for your kind words and yes, I believe Mum & Grandma are resting in peace. Because my heart is at peace and I remember them in a happy way. 🌹 🌹

Thank you❤

Amen & thank you. I'll read that.

Aawe, thank you Sandra! Hugs back at you my dear. 🤗

Oh, wow Ngina!!! I'm so sorry to hear about the plight of your grandmother. I hope your mother finds some courage to stand up & speak up for her mother. Meanwhile, you too can step in and challenge the neglect. 89 is too old for her to be living alone & struggling on her own....even with health. I pray that someone would have the conviction to step in & love on her. ❤

@@KandidXpressions I will for sure. Something must be done. We have a responsibility of questioning the status quo. We just can’t sit and see things getting out of hand just because we are women.

Thank you! 🤗

Mine too will be like her and my son too

That's the sad truth. Not just in church....but in the frontline.😊 May God forgive & heal us all.

True, one of my friend I trusted took me to Transmara and ensured I got conned over sugarcane hire.She is very active in church, like an asset.

Thank you!

It's really sad.

That's what religious people do. Clean on the outside and very filthy in the inside. Anybody who fears the Lord knows to obey and honor your parents. You can't be genuinely in His presence with that kind of filth.

Thank you for understanding. When you decide to be vulnerable for the sake of encouraging others and/or confronting the social rots especially in the family, you can expect judgement, backlash & yes, even retaliation. Even Jesus was judged, ridiculed & mocked and rejected by His own....yet He was the greatest being that ever walked the streets of this earth. That alone keeps me encouraged. 🤗

May God bless you 🙏 ❤️ ✨️ ♥️

God bless you dearly. Sometimes you can be so caught up in the reverse culture shock back home...you don't know whether you're moving forward or backwards. And by the time you realize what's happening, a lot has happened and lots of damages done. I have no regrets, just lessons learnt & a healing heart. ♥

Nice never stop taking care of her Gods Blessings loading ❤

Mwalimu you are very selfless . I follow your mum's journey on Facebook.

@marydeche7974 you're my "twin". I've been living with my dad who has dementia since 2021 when my mum & bro tried to kill him. Crazy world we live in!!! When you talk about defending our parents, my mum/bro, dad's siblings & other relatives know you dare not cross my path. I turn into a "monster" for anyone who tries to take advantage of my dad!!

Amen & thank you.

May God bless and heal you completely. Pole sana.

My dear, God is not a respector of persons....just be still and let God fight for you for THE BATTLE BELONGS TO HIM...EXODUS 14:14....I tell you, you will witness his downfall in this life. I really feel you...

May you heal completely 🙏🏾, I hope that you are far, far away from him and any stress.

May the good LORD heal you dear friend in Jesus name

Ouch!!! May God reach out & touch you with His mighty healing hand. May you find peace & joy, all the days of your life. May the light of God shine on our brothers, like it did to SAUL! In Jesus name.

Hugs darling. May God give you peace that surpasses understanding.

Cyber hugs sis. May God uphold you

Hugs to you mama

Oh my😢😢😢pole sana. May God comfort you during this time. Looking forward to listening to your story when all is done and said. As long as you are alive there is hope for a better tomorrow.

Leave them. Work hard for your own !!! You'll be surprised the same boy children will call you to help them with your money !!!

Thanks & amen!

@@KandidXpressions then rebuilding takes time but from what I see, you are steadily getting there. Again, I respect your grandmother (bless her soul) for the foundation in the word that she established in you. God has got your back, It is well my sister ❤

Thank you🙏❤

True sad story

Thank you Ms. Linda! 🤗

Not sure how I have connected to this story it has brought memories of how the Almighty God Jehovah El Roi (God who sees) intervened in my life during challenging times in a foreign country but God never left me alone, all glory honor and praise be unto Him forever and ever in Jesus name

Amen & thank you

Soo so true. This happens in so many families. It's sad

I went no contact with all after I lost both of my parents.It is the best decision I ever made in my life and happy and peaceful in Europe

I thank God for the unconditional love you showed your grandma and ma.It was surely a God sent mission and your bro will pay one day because of dushonoring God's commandment. May their souls continue to rest in peace.( BTW this male sibling domestic abuse is more common than we care to talk about.l identify with it from experience even as l write l am having a patriarchal challenge)

@@jesusfound8758 My mum died in November 2023 after battling depression and diabetics for a long time. I am also not at-home. I can see the same problem in my home.

@@GodLastborn good for you! 👏 ♥

You bet. Glad you're encouraged....that's my main objective for sharing.

Hongera my sister. We need more voices like this. Many people will not talk about the horrors families go through. Keep up

@@evelynbrenda7373 keep praying for me... this has not been easy but it's necessary.

I'm forever grateful....no regrets. I thank God for using me for His Glory. I thrive on serving others 🙏

My take away is…I was restored .but God is faithful and will not suffer you to be tempted beyond that ye are able but with the temptation make a away of escape. Grace

Thank you so much Jill. ❤🙏

My dear sister, am writing you from The Bahamas. Your story made me cry with you. Your Mom and Grandmom were beautiful ladies. Am so happy you could have given them a beautiful vacation and exposure to the world, fly in planes, see other countries, meet new people, foods, cultures and have fun. God will bless you, my sister. We are all proud of you. Envy rears its ugly head in different ways. God will deal with all who stole from others and give them their just rewards. You will prosper my sister. We love you. Ure beautiful inside and out. You honored your parents as the Bible asked us, children, to do. You shall live long.

Them days are number 😢

Amen. And the that miserable wife of his.

💯 agreed

Bad omen. The Bible is clear on how we treat our parents.

Ooooh, I'm really sorry to hear your mum passed away. They say that time heals & although that may ve true, I must say the first year I'd usually the hardest! I think it's taken me a longer time because just when I was beginning to make peace w/my mother's demise, Grandma slipped into eternity! This hit me hard & my world was plunged into darkness! I thank God that He's close to the brokenhearted💔. I pray you'd sense His love & warm embrace, as you remember your mother. Sending love & hugs to you🤗 ♥ 🙏 ❤❤❤

Thanks & amen. The world is broken & families have lost the glue that once held them together - LOVE. It's very sad out there! 💔

Say that again Nelly! It's very unfortunate!

Not only abroad but everyone supporting siblings and family I support your opinion

I was wiped millions by my own brother and sister … I learned through experience . Now aI can’t fall under such family money making machine any longer .

​@user-kp9ll1qu5n For me, my needs comes before anyone else..the more you help, relatives become entitled and they will never reciprocate. It's ok to put yourself first in fact that's what Jesus meant to "love your neighbor as yourself. "

@@martha4577 very true

Not a story teller but speaking the truth and truth always hurts

Amen & thank you, for those kind sentiments. ❤

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Thank you Jackson. Bless you.🙏

Thank you. 🤗

Thank you so much for your kind & elaborate message. I thank God for preserving me & giving me the voice, to speak for myself & my mother. When I tried by reporting the assault, the clan quickly stepped in. Yes, I'm on a healing path & have been learning to live my life again. I'm happy to see that this story has inspired other girls/women, to stand up for their rights & against the social rot in our families. Here's to a healthy family/society! 🥂

So unfortunate. Let your peace be still.

Thanks Rachel. Check out part 1 and 3 as well of Rosemary's story and subscribe if you find it useful

Justus, I think you meant part 1 & 2 . Coz this is part 3.😊

Thank you Nancy! ♥