I found myself sobbing uncontrollably through this tearjerking story not only because of this beautiful girl Ashley but also because her mother's story perfectly coincides with my mother's, so it has just rekindled the horrifying ordeal and inexplicable pain we went through seeing her try to survive through the excruciating pain of tuberculosis paralysis until the day she lost the battle. At least for her mum, she had a sister who gave her solace, where she could eat and at least see that there are still people outside here that care for her. For us it was me, by then I was in class 8,and my two younger brothers. It's like the whole world if not the family, neglected us. She suffered with pain inside the house for 1 and half years until she died. I remember when I had done kcpe and results came and I was number 3 in the county, my mum really cried, she really did. The only thing I could see was freely pouring tears. She couldn't move because the whole body was paralysed. She could only crying for her son. I loved my mum so much and she did the same, in short the storge was unbreakable. So when this lady spoke about her ordeal plus her mum's, I felt it. If I was a millionaire, I would make her the next millionaire today too, because I have a heart of helping also, but all I can tell her for now is, everyone has their worst pages of life in this world, but everyone also has their best pages that they don't wanna stop reading through. I am somehow a clairvoyant and whatever I speak must somewhat come to pass. Today before the almighty God, I speak excessive abundance of blessings, overflowing opulence and affluence in your life in JESUS MIGHTY NAME. You will live to testify about this one day. Be blessed Ashley.
Dear Ashley am so sorry for what you had to go through.. Watching this video brought back memories.. I also happened to nurse my mum while she was sick.. And for me I do process alot through writing: Some people lost their mothers through accidents and some lost their mothers while they were still infants and some even at birth. But then there are some like me who had to some how accompany their mothers to their grave. I watched you go through it all and the memories are still so familar to me ....Sometimes the pictures just reappear and I just can't help it but to break down over and over again. The times when I helped you clean yourself or the times when I fed you until your days on earth became numbered and even though I tried to press the spoon in between your teeth but to no avail.. Today I have heard stories and know that those were the signs that made Grandpa your dad to organize for your transportation back to Miwani..Back to your in law family. Me myself I was still naive by the then to understand this step.. I remember when the day came for you to be taken to Miwani the journey was started in the evening and If it's not for my mouth and this my stubborness. I was to stay back according to your sister's mothers order.. It was when I displayed my madness that Grandpa said I had to travel with you.And am glad I did because if I were to stay back and the news of your death had reached me from Kitale I don't know if I would have still been alive to tell the story. When we got to Miwani I felt like a stranger in the compound my father called home I remembered the last time we visited Grandma that was long before we moved to Kitale long before you lost your job long before things got messy... But I was welcomed by Grandma and other family members and that made me feel a little bit safe. Aterry, Teresa that is name the used to address me acknowleding the fact I was named after your mother in law.It felt good we all know how we were being treated in kitale at that time so this welcomin gesture was more than welcome. A few days later after arriving to Miwani you took your last breath...And because your corpse was not taken to mortuary to be prepared for burial but rather was prepared locally at home I experience it all. They took you from the bed you were lying and laid you down on a mat and they cleaned you up and even though I stood there watching and I knew you are never going to wake up again.. It took me ages to accept it and to talk freely about the experience. Though it was your journey... I was apart of it from the beginning to the end and somehow it became apart of me..a part of my story and also my journey..
@josphy film Thank you but there are certain things one can't forget about but one learn to live with them. I have already dedicated a song to her.. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aqw2xsVL9ZM.html
@@missydemaumcojwach9367 this has really touched my heart 😥 am very sorry for your loss take your time to grieve for your mum but please don't lose yourself while at it...may God Almighty guide you through 🙏🏾
My mom got sick n I started washing her wen I was 11yrs old.i never saw her sisters till the day of burial. Now am turning 30 yrs on January. Am I Saudi working. Sometimes I picture if she was alive ningemueka maisha poa.
Rape is worse than anything, being a young mother of a girl it is something very painful and I always pray that she doesn't go through rape. I am sure you mum was also suffering because of everything that was happening to you over and over. Death again hits so hard. Be strong and may God see you through. Be covered by the blood of Jesus Christ.
I think Ashley is living in bondage, she needs to pray and get deliverance plus detach her self from any sin that her close male relatives might have done which may be led to possibly unbroken curse that might go on throughout generations if it's not broken by deliverance. Sorry Ashley your story is touching and I hope God gives you peace and the strength to get over everything. You also need therapy dear it is very important 💐
So sad, but the title is misleading!! ...Something like 'My mother knew i was raped many times by multiple men before she died'...just a suggestion..greetings from within +254....
pole sana Ashley, may God give you protection from the hands of the devil, I see great life ahead of you no wonder the enemy is fighting you....have faith in God and all shall be well...Take heart
My mum went through alot before she passed on i would remember how she survived on water for a year she would even just bend down or face the other side sing alot of burial songs call on her dead father too i will never understand upto now nine years down the line i will always miss her
Good Job Ali, I love it when people get a platform to pour their hearts coz it's a way of healing. Ashley is such a strong and courageous girl and I pray that she may get the help she needs to take care of her Bro and grandma.
pole sana Ashley and thank you for taking care of your mum until the last day,nursing the sick is very tough and challenging.God has a good plan for you.
😭😭😭😭i have 3 girls n cant imagine any one of them having to go thru such an ordeal and then i fail her that big😭😭😭😭am also a teacher n i hate those teachers how could they as if their life will never have hardships😭this girl had a hard time😭😭
2021 was a very painful year. I'll never forget December 20th 2021 when the woman who raised me up, whom I called Mom was brutally murdered. Sleep well mama until the second coming of our LORD & SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST 🙏 I am so sorry for your trauma dear,may you find comfort in the LORD
Its too painful to loose a parent...I lost my dad December 21,2021.. Still healing..may God's grace be sufficient during this trying time that you're going through.
Why are people so harmless😭😭😭Gal your strong,I think if I were me i would be dead I wouldn't have the courage to see my mum suffer like singekumbali noo..Dear God got u🙏he will do wonders for you..hugs gal I can't control my tears😭😭pole mama
In everything you go through God goes with you through it all dear, and nothing jus happens, everything happens for the reason of God jus like it says in job never quit thanking God in all you go through,Though he slay me ye! Will I praise him🙏🙏God is with you and his always been with you🙏and He’ll stil come through you still ❤️
People go through alot,she's a beautiful girl who is just trying to hustle in a good way. May God come through for her aki. Those men are animals. I believe there's something more to this,I've heard Apostle T speaking about something similar, although not necessarily about rape. Please Ali reach out to Apostle,he can explain how something can happen more than twice to someone 🙏. Ashley you'll be fine sweetie
Presenter Ali, spare your audience some details.... also work on your empathy skills. Learn to drive the emotions of your interviewee. Otherwise good story, will get in touch with her to plan her future
Presenter Ali has shown empathy through out the interview. There is no better way of showing empathy than paying attention, listening keenly without interfering, mirroring the person who is giving the story. Not rushing them, not judging them, asking questions if you didn’t understand well and explaining to the narrator why you are asking. Presenter Ali was very attentive, calm, remained himself and was very patient. He also appeared to put himself in the girl’s shoes and asked her how she was feeling when it happened the 3rd time. Let’s give credit where it is deserved. The whole story needed to be told exactly the way the narrator wanted. Great interview. Hope Ashley gets the help and support she needs. She is such a determined girl.
It's so scary, and this people are just walking free in this streets and the police don't help the situation they make this girls feel so hopeless to report these cases, Maswali miiingi, "kwa nini ulikua umevaa ivyo, kwa nini ulikua unatembea hiyo masaa."
May God deliver you. The story has reminded me of my dad's death he short called too. Mum the same small long call before passing. Mya God rest your mum's soul🙏🙏
Ali why this stories are related with my life have seen this for mama Ashley it's the same why I lost my mum last year Feb it was all the same but what I can tell Ashley be strong all shall be well just be strong and trust in God Ashley all shall be well
This is strange. To go through four experiences of gang rape is too much. You kind of put yourself in the way. Once beaten twice shy. You can't go through this without learning your lessons. You are too slow to learn. You expose yourself to danger. This is unheard of. One Person cannot go through all this !! This is too much for one Person to bear. Too sad,too sad, too sad.
Stop victim blaming, sometimes bad things just happen, haven't you heard of families who lose family members every year till family inaisha? Don't judge, no one would wish to be gang raped
