De’arra is the rich bougie black woman I aspire to be. Wants better for herself and go far and beyond but still remains humble because of her up bringing.
@@itsleahmarie girl chill out. you tripping. De'arra will give you the peasant look, just like she did the other girls, lol while you all on her jock, lol
De’Arra is a prime example that women can do everything on their own like she literally put everything together in her house🥰 I just love how skillful & strong us women are🥺
it's def hard .. The Holiday's haven't been the same for me . Family won't be the same since that one loved one passed away. It's just a lot . Both of my grandmother's passed away years ago . My father's mom ( 2002) & my mother's mom ( 2005) . I haven't been in the holiday spirit at all . I think when I have my own family I may get back into it but for now I'm not feeling it.
So I really started crying watching her put that bed together. It makes me truly sad that her partner turned out to be Someone she couldn’t spend the rest of her life with. Seeing her just rebuild her stability is so amazing. I understand why so many people love her.
I feel the same way. And on top of everything, I got sick and missed EVERYTHING that happened between them. I honestly Loved their Chemistry. So 😭 sad....
Yes we build stuff, cook, clean, workout, all of the above. Us females are becoming more independent these days. Need a man for what 🥴😬 but it does suck how he did her I know he’s punching the air seeing her prevail on her own
@@kyanna19 I wish I could rebuild myself from losing my two best friends. Like our relationships just fell apart. I have let go one of them but it’s hard for me to forget the other one and idk why. Lol they both didn’t care about me frfr so why tf do I care about them. It’s easier to lose a damn boyfriend. I have been cleaning and focusing on school and my crafting so it’s helping a little bit.
@@evanslatrice75 girl I thought that too until I found out about "high performance fabric" I'm telling u girl it is amazing! It WILL not absorb stains! It beads up and falls off!
Right ! Me too 🤣🤣🤣! It’s so beautiful. I have a toddler, two grandchildren and a great niece, with clumsy grown children but this gave this 44 year old woman a smile.
I know it took a lot for her to admit her feelings about vlogging and the up-coming holidays which makes me respect her that much more. May God bless her in each abd and every way.
The fact that your whole house aesthetic/vibe is saved on my pinterest “home decoration pin”😍 i aspire to have a home one day and decorate it the same. Our taste is so alike 🤞🏼
I love De’arra so much, how can you not? She’s so inspiring, her style is through the roof, she is so independent, Ooow imma cry…luv u boo, keep shining ✨
She deserves every bit of happiness and joy that she gets in life. She's a hard worker and such a sweet soul. All of us know that sometimes even a seemingly good thing doesn't always work out. It's life and we're here to learn. Each situation teaches us a lesson with the main lesson being to never lose sight of yourself. I love the peaceful atmosphere of her home and I love that she's not faking being into Vlogmas just to get views. Blessings to her!
@@tiunekastewart5357 Hope so too. However, I'm not the type to bother people, no matter who they are, so whether they're naughty or nice doesn't tend to phase me. Was she not nice to you?
she really should do her own like house organization type of brand with sheets, bedding and all of that like that would be so cute and i would buy all of it 😂
We definitely the OGs!!!! I love it, glad you chose that one! I love how transparent and vulnerable you are, thank you for inviting us into your life! I literally smiled this whole time! I’ve been following you since the BEGINNING! You are so strong sis! A true inspiration!
I like the vibes of your bedroom aesthetics! Fabulous, thanks for the decor/design inspo! I would fit the 2 sitting chairs from the living room into the bedroom next to that blank wall off to the side of the bed and then reorder the sections of the couch you had removed to fit it back in like how you had it previously set up in the living room under the windows. 💕
Love that she put the bed together for herself. Her question of what should she put on wall: I feel black and white photos or a big statement piece surrounded by mirrors or special lights @de’arra I can’t wait to see how the closet will be organized. Sis is really giving me inspiration.
I’m so sad that De’arra is not really feeling the Christmas spirit because it’s her favorite holiday but I completely understand ❤️🤞 just know we all love you and you’re making my Christmas better ❤️❤️
This is inspiring me to keep going and to work toward what i want, through heartbreak or any battle i can live the life i want and be happy . Im so proud to see how far youve come girl! Really motivating me to see you so happy and at peace in your own space
Girl you don’t gotta stress yourself over Vlogmas we completely understand ! Youve been through a lot do what’s best for you and we will be here supporting you regardless!!!❤️❤️
We love you so much De’arra! So proud of you! You’ve been through some hard things all at one time, and here you are still THAT BISHHH! We love you girl!
You are such an inspiration . With everything you’re growing through .. not only do you keep such a good spirit but you’re also consistent with your OGs
I completely agree with De’arra 😪 my little brother passed 11/11/21 and every holiday that passed or is coming up I haven’t been feeling it. It’s not the same anymore because he isn’t here 💔
The aesthetic 😘🤌🏼 chefs kiss. I wish you would link the furniture the bed is beautiful & those nightstands 😍😩🥲. So happy with these vlogs & how everything coming out
I feel the same way about the holidays Dearra. I just can’t force myself to “put on” and celebrate. I’m ready for the new year and continuing to improve my life and work towards getting back to me.
Girl you a breath of fresh air , I watch you while I clean cook , on my way to run errands, everything!! Your spirit and energy is just everything I loveeeeeee , God bless youuu !!
Girl, this is niiice! I admire that you put in manual labor too, Sis! Y'all I definitely got inspired and reorganized my son's bedroom, my laundry and bedroom. I'm learning so much about organizing Yessssss 💫👏😄🔥
Girl I love you so much and I’m so freaking proud of you 🤍🤍🤍. Such an inspiration for us black women that’s in our early 20’s! Manifesting this life for myself!!
I Just love how independent Dearra Is✨ Like she is so calm and still her self f ain’t change nothing 💕 & I feel like yu need put a picture of you in your room too😂
It's the "Thicka than a snicka" little mix for me 😂😝..... Proud of you D for always staying true to yourself, and truly doing your thing in a honest aspiring and yet so humble way. You are beyond blessed at such young age, and deserve everything coming your way.... Keep being the Queen D you are and cheers to that 1 milly before the New Year!! 😝
I definitely understand how you're feeling.. sorry for your loss. I'm not feeling the holidays either this year since my mom just passed 4 months ago. I have my kids so I tried to still decorate and be as cheerful as possible for them but it just definitely don't feel the same!
aww it made me kind of sad to hear that you're not into the holidays this year. i know how much you love christmas. i hope you're able to find some joy this season love!
