I’d simply say “son, if you are SO SURE that what you did was so ok to do and everyone in your own family is wrong-you go right on ahead and ask other people what they think of people who do such a thing without revealing it was you. Explain the situation as “I know this guy who did this to his brother”. And then ask them what they think of it. Get some UNBIASED reviews on your own behavior. But, of course, you’ll have to do this little thing that’s hard for you to do called TELL THE TRUTH. Don’t take it easy on yourself the way that have been doing and tell the unvarnished actual TRUTH of what you did. Or just tell people that YOU did it yourself and watch them awkwardly disappear from your life because no one wants to be near someone so morally bankrupt and who doesn’t seem to possess the brains or common sense that God gave a little gnat enough to know that what IS wrong…is WRONG. You’re either too selfish and narcissistic or dumb as a box of rocks and they won’t respect either thing. And they sure as hell won’t respect what you did to your family. You will be considered cruel and immoral to almost anyone except maybe people just like you who would do such a thing. But they will most certainly be the exception and not the rule. They will be the vast minority of those people. So go on-proudly tell your tale to see if you get sympathy or maligned as terrible. I triple dare ya. I think your results should be quite “telling” on whether your family is right or wrong about you. But something tells me you already know that you did the wrong thing. Why? Because you keep lying about it and covering up how it really happened. If you are SO sure that you aren’t in the wrong, then why would you need to do that??? Huh?”
Nah people like Nathan would still firmly believe that those people "just wouldn't get it" Or he would tell a totally fictional version that would make him seem like he is in the right and just reaffirm his confirmation bias. The man literally can't empathize with the idea that doing that to someone especially your brother is wrong and it would only ever be wrong if it happened to him instead.
@@BaeBunni probably right 😕. I was hoping that if enough people called him on it eventually it would get through his thick skull that it’s not socially acceptable to do such a thing. But you’re probably right that it’s probably giving him wasaaaayyy too much credit to think so, ugh.
the little brother i an entitled weak loser,and the cheater will also cheat on him,the only reason why she chose him is because he is the simp of the two.
@@YunoHidamari-w8u The 304 gf was banging both brothers when she was cheating on Jared. Absolutely there was sloppy seconds going on. She's rancid, as is the pos brother she cheated with.
It is not love, it is lust. Or some very wicked sense of sibling rivarly. And Hailey is a piece of work, lying, manipulating people, trying to throw the ex-boyfriend under the bus for her own cheating, leaving the lover because the rich wedding she dreamed of will no longer happen, and then after everything she asks the ex-boyfriend, who she cheated on with the brother, for a second chance? Kudos for the parents for standing for what is right.
This could well be an AI generated story. But its no less true that Karma always finds a way. Maybe not now, not how you'd want it to, but it will always strike and deliver what is the recipient's due.
This story bothers me. Yes, the son was wrong for cheating with his brother’s girlfriend but as a parent I wouldn’t disown my child. That’s crazy. I would express how disappointed I was and we can go to family counseling to restore the trust of the family… the girlfriend/ fiancée will always get a side eye from me but disown my child I would never do. I don’t condone it but disown my child is not an option. Some of these comments are wild.
I dislike that the parents disowned him before knowing about the cheating. What if they had genuinely fell in love. Maybe they didn't handle it well but what, they're supposed to deny their feelings because the older brother dated her first? That would be pretty unfair if the context was different.
@@mileania7287 and that's a healthy and smart attitude. besides it being morally wrong (though, i guess that's subjective, some don't have a problem with it), it's also a matter of self-preservation. it's ground for so much potential drama, rarely worth it, in my opinion, at least 🤷
@mileania7287 I don't find it inherently repulsive. Maybe that's your gut reaction but I can see it being unfair in many instances. People can't really choose who they fall in love with.
@@YunoHidamari-w8u That's so naive. You don't just "fall in love" with someone. Any initial attraction is just lust. To build a relationship takes constant and deliberate interactions together. Both the brother and the cheating gf are scum. It takes a really special kind of ahole to betray your own brother like that.
Being young don't excuse bad behavior. The same way old age don't bring wisdom. Making people accountable is needed for the victim and to keep society running. People should stop catering for the perpetrators because this how you create out of control spoiled brats and social unrest.
Nathan is your typical woke narcissist who thinks everyone must worship him and love him no matter how awful of a person he is. He thought if he went to see his parents after the break up that they would be on their knees begging for forgiveness and worshipping him.
@niyablake I never said I would support one child in favor of the other, what I'm not gonna do is say and do horrendous shit to a child I decided to bring into this world. It's not my fault you were raised with conditional love
