"She has more potential" said to the one who got full scholarships for well-known colleges about her 16 yr old pregnant twin sister who could only get into state college, what a bloody joke
Dear young lady you have a full scholarship leave your parents behind and your sister and go no contact she got pregnant her responsibility not yours live your life
"Your dream is over.." Are they serious, they needed to say that to the child who had the baby. That is crazy. Leave now, stay with friends, and go no contact. And as someone else said, call CPS.
No offence this is your sisters problem say no and save up money and move out then go to your favourite college. Then rent out/buy an apartment and cut contact.
Enough is enough! don't take care if it! run away if you have to! I want you to run! you need to stay away! they'll use and abuse you! I know all about it! (experienced). stay safe and keep us updated so we can help and support you
Say whaaaat!? Sis gets knocked up so YOU have to pay for it!? What mental gymnastics did the parents do to come to this conclusion?? Don't walk... RUN from that house!!! 😂😂😂
If you got a full ride to your dream school,, go and don't look back. Your responsibility is YOU, not your sister or her baby. Get the money to get there and find a part time job for your expenses and leave. Leave everything behind. You need to be free of that environment and toxicity behind. I wish you all the success you deserve.
You have full scolarship. Tell them no, be a 'bad' kid, stand up for yourself ! Your sister made a mistake, she'll deal with it, not you ! Find a job and save money. See if you can move in with another family member. And take legal actions if needed. It's your life. Your futur. Don't let this mean familly of yours ruin it. Love ❤
No good parents clips their children's wings! Escape while you can, grab your stuff when no one is home and head to the college you want! No good-byes not even a note just disappear. Pave your own success, your sisters baby is her responsibility not yours. ❤
This. This exactly. And don't just tell grandma. Tell Grandpa, all your aunts and uncles, family friends, their employers, all your sister's friends. Hey, if they didn't want OP to tell everyone, they wouldn't be trying to make it OP's problem.
save up the money (if you haven't already) to go to your dream college. if you're an adult, then you don't have any legal binding to their wishes. don't put up with their sh!t, you sound like a smart person who has a lot of potential 💜💜
Dear young lady, they cannot make you do anything once you turn 18 it is fully your right and if they try to take that away, you can always call the police. It is your sister’s kids and she needs to do with her mess goodbye
Leave your parents in the dust, they don't choose who you are, you are 18, a legal adult leave those jerks in the dust. Your sister should learn to be responsible, and take care of her own child
DONT DO IT!!! I repeat DONT DO IT, your parents are trying to push boundaries, if you give them this they will think they can take whatever they want, show them that your boundaries will not be ignored and if they keep pushing, go low or even no contact
I think because they are too shy/whatever to voice their needs & people get used to them being a nobody & take that for granted (Sorry for my broken English)
@@ytSaidMyHandleShouldBeAtleast3 could be the reason but i still think its stupid i mean. Imagine youre really social and then you start bullying another person becouse 'Oh hey he dosnt talk to me so much lets neglect/bully him' so i honestly think its stupid.
Leave and don't look back. If her happiness literally comes at the expense of your dreams/aspirations and happiness there is no point in lingering. They have twins yet they see only one child, you deserve better and you mustn't let them dull your shine and ruin your future due to her own decisions.
You have a scholarship, use that scholarship, get a part-time job, and move out, and as for your sister, she can do college online while your parents take care of the baby and she can also work part time.
Dear young lady , cuss them out tell them how stupid it sounds and ask them if they would give up their job for a kid if they say yes still go to the college you want to go to
Because the sister has more potentiol it is O P who got the scolarship. O P should choose her college and leave. O P has no mouth to feed it is her sister who has the problem. Just leave do not stepp one step back you have a god future ahead of you.
Her parents are upset that the daughter they favored is in no way like they project, so they are trying to gaslight the other daughter into submission. They cannot stop her, as then they can be charged with holding someone against her will. She should pack up, leave, and never look back. They are not worth the effort.
Her baby her responsibility, it hurts yes, but in this case it’s true, if OP wanted to help, that’s fine, but that’s not the case, she does not have a mouth to feed, her sister does… its crazy the parents are doing this
Go to your dream college..I have never told a child to defy there parents but today I say..Go to your dream college it will be hard at first..Let your sister take care of her child.Some parents ruin there kids.
Go to your college focus on your future. Sister needs to be a mother of her child. She got her pregnant it will work out for her different. Sister need to grow up. Not you.
"What do I do" Uh move out anyway. Once you turn 18 they legally can't do anything. Protect yourself. And make sure your working. It's going to be hard, but you lived this long without their love
"you have a mouth to feed now" no sister does and OP holds no responsibility towards that child especially since OP is the smart one "your sister has higher potential" my ass
Don't listen they don't know what their talking about just do what you want go to your dream college live your best life 💕🧬 okay don't worry about *them*
This may sound bad but randomly abandon the baby with a baby sitter or some person you trust ad tell them to leave after they come back and never go back, You also should block them and move to a diffrent state or smt
What do they mean "your dream is over, grow up,you have a mouth to feed"😮!!! They have lost their rabbit minds😢😢😢😢!!!! You need to reach out tovyour family members for help! Go to your dream college,leave these idiots alone go no contact and live your amazing life😂😊❤!!!!
Y'all know this is probably an AI written prompt? 16, starting senior year if hs, and already has a full ride? Not impossible but unlikely. If real, that shit sucks to be put in that position.
Go up to them, and say "I'm not doing it" and if they keep pushing, just keep saying "no, thank you" be respectful. Don't let them chase you awau from your dream.
1. Congratulations on your scholarship. 2. You're not responsible for your sister's action. That's on her and your parents to take care of that. 3. Go far, far away to the university of your choice. 4. Cut all ties with them. 5. Good luck, sweetie, become the professional that you want to be. 6. Give us updates on your studies.
You probably should contact someone in your family that's a dog that you can trust or tell them that if they cause any more bulshit in your life you're going to go no contact or get informed with DHR
Go to the police and say that your parents are basically turning you into a parent at 16 even though you're not even pregnant and not even thinking of the prospect of getting it terminated so get a restraining order also if your sister is agreeing with all this and she's toxic and got her out of your life cuz you don't deserve toxicity in your life you deserve a good environment for growing up
Tell them you hate them and pack your things and then text them "i hate all of you i am not giving up my dream to take care you my sisters baby i have always worked hard and now i can go to my dream college and you are going to take it away from me its not my problem my sister has a baby its also not my problem why don't you two as my sisters parents love her so much and take care her baby !!!!" After block all of them and go live your life❤❤❤❤❤
Your scholarship is yours. If your sister is so smart how come she is pregnant. Don’t allow them to take your dream. The child is your sisters responsibility. If your parents want her to go to college let them set up
You should agree to their plan, and help your sister. But double cross by not going to her state college, block contacts with them and never talk to them ever again. Follow your dream, leave those suckers behind.
"You need to Grow Up. You have a Mouth to Feed Now". Uh. No. Op's Sister has to Grow Up. That's not Op's Kid. That's Op's niece/nephew. Not Op's Responsibility. To Op, Good Luck. Hopefully one of your School's is far away & Hopefully you can live on Residency. I'm assuming that's the only way you can get out of this situation.
