My Partner Did Something With Their Ex They Won't Do With Me / Retroactive Jealousy 

15 past partners have been getting what they want and getting my girl to do whatever they want for free! But it’s stops with me who pays for everything?

No. If they did a very intimate thing with someone else, yet they won't for you is telling. Behavior is a language and what is being said, is this, "I like that person enough that I would do this thing with them. However, I don't feel the same way about you and so I won't do this thing with you." It is simple really and the emotions that this creates is more than just jealousy. One might feel rejected or like the others person second option and not their ideal. You can't pin all of this on the person feeling these emotions when the language of the other is saying that they are not as loved or desired.

This video is just a huge coping mechanism the point is she’ll never do this with you, at the end of the day you weren’t worth trying it with, at the end of the day, why should I give her all of that attention and love when she gave that to her exes

If she “loves you less than her ex”, then that means you are being settled for, you are a place holder. If she loves me less then she loved her ex……then she can kick rocks !

I disagree with this one

"Didnt do that one thing but did this ton of other great things!" I like this idea.