This is gonna be one of my fav new channels now I just subscribe. This brings back so many memories when I was in still school & used to rush home to watch all these talk shows when life was so simple.
I think the saddest part is them coming back years later still needing validation from some bullying losers. I was the person who was cool with everybody in school and I stopped any bullying that took place in my presence. I'm still like that now.
I get what you are saying but being teased by kids can be devastating and affect you as an adult. If you didn't endure it, then you can't understand...I wouldn't want to do anything like this but having a sense of vindication can be freeing for some people
@@toyafoster3173I agree . I got teased an I'm still recovering. Got teased for wearing pay less shoes and because my weight would go up and down due to having pcos . I'm glad I don't have the facial hair part because I would have gotten teased more. Also I'm from the stl and it was only blacks bullying me. I had to prove I was fully black because I'm smart and can read well. Also they didn't believe I was black because hair texture is more on the 4a side . It was hell but half of them are dead due to gun violence.
There’s no nothing sad about that, I’m sure you probably get validation every day via Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc., etc. back then they didn’t have any of those sites , barely even had internet,so the only place you could really get validation/ notice was to come on tv . Back in the 90s and the 80s the only way to ever get yourself out there, was to either get on a radio station or on a TV show.
PULEEZE! So they worked out, lost weight, had surgery, brushed their teeth, or whatever. The "physical" can always be changed. Women do it every day. All "caterpillars" AREN'T Monarch butterflies
My husband ended up being the scrawny guy I didn't give a chance to in high school. We reconnected after 10 years and the chemistry was undeniable. He rocks my world!!❤
I didn’t have a body in high school even into my adult years, but once the curves came so did guys who overlooked me when I didn’t have an ass. My relationship is better now than it was when I dated guys when I didn’t have no ass.
She didn't need to apologize, she was a kid in highschool,at that time,it's home rearing and peer influence that shape kids and have them behaving a certain way but after 11 years, people do develop mentally.
I wouldn’t give these people the right time after being so judgmental. There was nothing wrong with the way they looked in school. The others need to look in the mirror.
I almost forgot that Tempestt had a talk show back in the day. I used to watch it all the time. OMG. The algorithm put this channel in my list of recommendations. I had never heard of it before up until now. Now, I'm curious to see what other talk show gems from my 90s adolescence I can find. Looking back on it, I used to watch a ton of these shows. Jenny Jones, Richard Bey, Jerry Springer (before he turned trashy), Ricki Lake, some Latino guy who had a show...I think his name was Perez---I can't remember his first name. Boy, it's bringing back memories!
I've never seen her show till now,what I missed back in the day.But,so glad I came across Tempest's show,now I can binge watch her show.Plus,Tempest is so-FINE-on this show,I don't know what she looks like now.
Herman looks good now, but I think he also looked good in high school. I go by what’s on the inside more than the outside. You could be damn good looking and be a horrible person or be ok looking but be a great person on the inside and I’m choosing the one that will treat me with respect.
Do you always read shyt into shyt instead of taking what is presented at face value? You must live am anxiety-driven and depressed life because to you, ANYTHING and EVERYTHING can be negatively spun inside your head...
Some people need validation while never being bullied lol..Accolades to this gentleman,he went through a lot and decided to fix it on his own..God bless my man 🙏👍
Herman looked great back in high school and had a great smile and great personality but he learned to gain extra confidence and he wound up getting a girlfriend. Karinka had class and smart but she later gained more confidence and has class and sass. I bet Lamont's best friend probably felt dumb after he saw this show. Lamont needed a fan to fan himself. Lisa was into buff guys who also was into keeping up with the times as in fashion but she was suprised to see that Bret made a great transformation and learned that all models are not buffed. The last guest's story was inspiring. It was refresing to learn that they became friends and helped each other throughout life. Demitra was probably having wet dreams after this show.
I know their feelings where hurt in high school, but they did these people a favor! A lot of those people who were fine in school were ran through and not so nice looking now!
@@HighMaintenanceMinimalistNah, she was saying SHE wanted to rub some wax on HIM! In the 90's saying you wanted to "wax" or "wax somebody down" was absolutely a euphemism for sex. He looked the way he did, because he wasn't ready the reality of her thirsty reponse 😂😂😂
@@HighMaintenanceMinimalistSorry boo, but you're incorrect. Why would she tell him he needs to remove his hair by waxing, when he didn't have any hair on him? Didn't you see that his skin was smooth? So yes It was a euphemism. Body builders tend to put body wax /Vaseline/oil on their bodies to make their muscles glisten and show more. She meant exactly what she said: She was talking about rubbing him down with oil and making his muscles shine. I know because I am from that time period. Born in the '70s. A teen in the '80s. Young adult in the '90s. In my thirties in the 2000s. That is how we spoke back then. Anyway, you can tell by the way she was looking at him what she meant. The body language was obvious. She wanted to oil him down so she could touch him, and make his muscles pop out more.
Yeah...I was teased also in school, Jesus helped me to see the Truth in His love and acceptance of me...He wanted me when others didn't. I hope you well on this life journey🙂 -Jesus loves all and wants to save all! Romans 10:9-10✌️
I remember when I was young and went through my ugly duckling days. I was wishing when I grew up I’d be as beautiful as the ugly duckling guests. I got my glow up and never end up going.
I hate to say but I also got picked at in high school and middle school and the one thing that helped change me was when I started working. Let me tell you back then was hard for me,because I had thought about taking my own life, but now I’m much better. Thank god for me having gone through all of that , because it made me the person that I am today a proud father and husband.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, how you see yourself. Isn’t how others may see you. And I love how you speak and carry yourself. It wouldn’t be hard for anyone to fall in love with you ❤
The saddest thing about the shows is how people put so much value in other people's opinions. Especially people who don't like them! It makes no sense if you look to someone else for your value, you will always feel undervalued!
So true but being young, childish n ignorant about those situations Dnt make you realize it until you experience it personally. The bullying helped me n made me stronger. Now insults is water on the back knowing, the other person doesn’t know me n is only deflecting who they are.
High School Was Ruff For Everybody I Had Crush on Women I couldn’t Get But A Girl Said She Regret Not Dating Me 😂 But Man I Wish They Would Make Shows Like This In Today’s World It’s Needed So Much
I was thinking the same thing when the 2nd dude came out. Like, let me get some elbow room that doesn't require us rubbing elbows or me being pressed up against some dude who sat the entire show with his shirt off.
Bullying should never be tolerated. Period. Validation is not needed. One must move on. Otherwise, there will be stagnant energy. Also, if someone is not into you, they are just not into you. On the other hand, you shouldn't insult someone's appearance. Just say "I don't feel for you that way, but someday you will find someone." There is a graceful way to do a rejection.
Ruth stop it! There was nothing deplorable about that brother at all. Get out of your feelings. You're more upset at him then Karenca was. And yes, Teehee it was a different time then where what he did was completely innocent and acceptable. She wanted him to see how she looked, and he did just that. I find it funny that out of all the people on the panel who teased and/or ignored their classmate, you two just had to single out the Black man. Wow. Imagine that. Gee I wonder why. SMH
I remembered the part when the dude got buff and was bullied by this Stud and he was like you bullied me then but i look good now...!!. She said do you want a cookie 🍪 ...i was gagged 😂😂😂😂
People tend to look weird, be overweight, sometimes horrible hygiene in highschool, ofcourse it's going to change for the worse or better when they get older so judging someone who didn't like the scrawny or even smelly guy when they were kids, who grew up to be good looking and smelling good isn't fair. I've bumped into a crush at 19, that I hadn't seen since we were like 11yrs old, and if he wasn't a cheater ( turned out he had a gf) I would have hung out with him when he gave me his number. I didn't judge him for laughing at me and saying "eww" when he found out I liked him
Bodies are also changing due to hormones at that time, lots of acne and weight. For some, it was unstraightened teeth and big glasses. We go through so much change.
I ran into a guy who was constantly talked about for his hygiene n tight pro wings in high school. He buffed up n is a night club bouncer. His altitude is so disgusting n I was the one who didn’t mistreat him. I did hang around people who would talk bad about him tho. I guess he said f*** anyone from the past 😂. He do look nice but his altitude is yucky now. Who knows if he had a bad day or the job requires a certain behavior, either way it didn’t look good on him. Being mistreated can bring you down or make you stronger but it’s up to you.
My rejection and picked on was worst. Guys would not be my boyfriend because other people would say oooohhh you are with her then I would get dumped or ignored. I was picked on constantly by girls and boys for my skin complexion, clothes, and speech. I was called blackie, skillet, ugly, and grandma.
Now you realize it was them being childish n jealous as you got older n blossomed into a beautiful person inside out. It kinda was needed to complete the beautiful person you became as balanced ingredients. Btw your profile is 🔥 n you know it 😂
I'm seeing comments from several ladies saying good things about how Herman looked in high school but, real talk, would y'all have really given him a chance before he went from Soul Glo to transforming into The Hulk? I'm pretty sure that shorty, even with that gold tooth, probably had dudes thirsting and barely looked his direction.
Still shocked she had a show. As a kid, I thought you had to be a Journalist to have a show, but we’ve seen Talk Show Hosts who are ACTRESSES, MODELS, and RAPPERS
