My sister wore a wedding dress to my engagement party! | Reddit Stories 

"Your bride dress looks great for a cheap costume" 😂 OP's fiance is a legend 😂😂😂

I LOVE that she changed the theme. WHAT A BOSS

That dress is made to outshine everything. Good on OP to make it a costume party.

We love the Sophia and Riley combo

If my fianceé cheats on me, my response to all their excuses will be "you must have mistaken me for someone else, my fianceé died." And then I would leave.

On weekends Sophia & Riley should do videos, I love the calm, chill vibes.

I’m petty but I’m also mean as a snake so every time she pulled this I’d just be like, “Typical affair baby behavior.”

The humanity that Riley shows is always astounding. This woman openly cheated prior to her wedding and Riley is worried about her mental health with repercussions of her actions. I love the difference in opinions here so well rounded. ❤

I have a feeling that if you're worried that your fiancé will cheat on their bachelor/bachelorette, there's already a problem..

Story 2, that dude and I had the same idea. My bachelor party, my brothers rented a retro arcade for a few hours. Then we went back to my oldest brother’s house and played DnD with a few drinks. It was a vibe.

Lmao and the costume party. 😂 they could take turns being the new character called "the heather" where they arrive to the costume party in a wedding dress 😂😂😂

My hubby and I were very clear early on, if anyone cheats we are done. I think if someone cheats at a bachelor/bachelorette party, that’s a dealbreaker. Easy. Just imagine the pain during the wedding thinking of that betrayal. Disgusting.

1st story: I think the half sister may be jealous, I don’t think it is regarding economic status or anything but maybe OP has her life more put together, there also the fact that it sounds like she was an (20 day birth date) affair baby as in dad cheated and she was born from that, more than likely she is trying to “prove” that regardless of her birth, she is better and more than likely mom put that stuff in her head or she told her that OP’s mom was the side chick

The first story, the dad doesn’t deserve his daughter. Blaming her and not having the spine to stand up for her.

With the first story, it's not that they wanted to be disrupted to. Her life is that they're jealous over the fact that their actions didn't garner the attention both the half sister and the stepmother wanted. This often when women like to stepmother who was probably the side chick before she became the main chick have this desire to boost their self-esteem and ego by feeling they have conquered over someone else. So she probably thought that this woman was going to be so devastated over the fact that she took her man😂 and the ex-wife probably had the opposite reaction because she knew what the side chick often doesn't know because she doesn't see that side of that man. She probably had a total meltdown over the fact that his ex-wife did not care and most likely initiated the divorce, which means he didn't choose her over the wife. That in itself made her mad and the hatred and resentment started to grow inside of her most likely do to the fact that the now husband has probably said things to compare her to the ex-wife. And she knows that he regrets being with her. He on the other hand is what they call a Simp 😂 he is only with her because she provides his domestic and sexual needs thus, he deals with her attitude and behaviors. He also does the same for the daughter because he knows that his wife has had the primary influence over that daughter and therefore turn her basically into a miniature her so he tries to deal with it basically by either giving in or working to get away from the environment. The wife knows this and is mad because deep down the side she knows that man does not love her. Did she was just a fantasy that he wanted to be fulfilled. But he got caught up like a lot of men do and he basically settled for the consequences because he knew his ex-wife was not going to take him back. And as a woman, that's a hard pill to swallow, especially if you're egotistically dependent on other people's views of you, which it sounds like the stepmother has that type of mental attitude. The daughter also has resentment for her step sister because she knows deep down inside that she was a mistake and that her father truly desires to be with the ex-wife and her step sister. It's basically comes down to jealousy. They both know he doesn't want to be there. He knows he doesn't want to be there. He just deals with it because he don't have no other choice or at least that's how he feels. It's almost like you made your bed so now lie in it.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

The 'little' Sophia on the ad😂😂

My Bachelorette party... was just taking my extended family and my bridesmaids out to dinner. My family all lives a good 800+ miles away and I don't get to see them often. I just wanted to have my family close to me for a good meal before the ceremony.

I have been a handmaid from "the handmaid's tale" for the last 4yrs bc I honestly cannot think of a scarier costume! 😅

My favourite costume ever was as an Ewok. It's pretty cold on Halloween in Canada, so being adorable and warm was so fun. If I were in my twenties, I would for sure want to run around with a bunch of friends as a pack of chaotic Ewoks. 😂

Handcuff story. In grade school, handcuffs were a thing. I remember one kid getting cuffed to a fence, and another two girls getting cuffed together. The annual fair always had "real" handcuffs and carnys apparently don't care about selling handcuffs to kids. There were also a few occasions with the plastic toy cuffs, but those at least could be broken out of. I think all the toy ones have safety releases now, but the 80s were a more exciting time, when you could just leave a kid locked up out on the playground.

I’m a wedding singer and I have a couple of doozeys I should write them up haha

How does this have 20k views and not even 900 likes? What's wrong with yall OKFam!!! Give them their likes they deserve! They are fantastic! Love Yall!!!

Riley has the best laugh ever

The handcuffs 😂 I can't ✊️🔗🦶

I'm crying at the hand cuffs!!

I think this week is the Sophia & Riley week ❤

She should have sent a picture of the handcuffed kid to the bride as an explanation. No words needed😅

Stepmom and half sister are making his life hell,IMO. That’s the only reason he wants OP to apologize. Selfish behavior from Dad.

The ad is savage!

It sounds like such a fun engagement party.

For pokemon Halloween outfits Sofia - you should be misty Sam - Ash Riley- Hilbert John - Brock

My absolute favorite episodes are Sophia and Riley episodes

The handcuffs story was hysterical! I don’t think I would have thought of a locksmith. Smart mom!

He already knew she was about it 😂

The Riley & Sophia energy is givinggggg in this episode. 😍😍😍

I've been desperate for me and my partner to go as Austin Powers and Foxy Cleopatra from Goldmember. Hoping we can do it this year haha

YOUR GREEN EYES IN THE THUMBNAIL ARE AMAZING 💖

25:36 I was waiting for Sophia to realize! That is adorable and hilarious! 😭😭😭😭

Sophia is literally the cutest freaking human ever 😂 love you girl 💖

2 scary sounds as a parent. Blood curdling scream and silence

My "batchelorette party" was lunch and an escape room that I organised to have a handful of friends join me for.

I was puss in books for Halloween last year and was so proud of myself

I dressed up in 5 different costumes because my work lets us dress up for the week before Halloween.

Regarding costumes, for the past 2 years I’ve been a different member of the Scooby Doo gang. First Velma, then Daphne, this year I was thinking Fred. Easy. Easy with what I already have in my closet.

Our Neighbor the Cop would occasionally cuff one of his kids wrist to ankle. The kids always thought they would be able to get out of the cuffs.

Noooo the kid definitely shouldn't have been snooping in the closet on the last one 😂 if they are old enough to figure out how to use the handcuffs they are old enough to know not to be snooping lol

If they are to do any group costumes; they need to be Teletubbies

I've read that half the duration of the relationship is the recommended time frame.

Love how Sophia makes references to NetFlix series that I've watched :)

So can you have all the guests show up to your party dressed in brown? Theyll just think its a quirky thing but we'll all know they symbolize your worm army lol

The thing Riley said about already moved on before the breakup is me! I have a tendency to stay in a relationship way longer than I should (which is why I’ve been single for 4 years now. To work on myself) but by the time I’m out of a relationship (all mine have been either physically abusive or mentally abusive or both) , I’ve been over and done mentally with the relationships for a while. I start dating like next week or two. However in the past that has gotten me straight into a new bad relationship within a month of the breakup (reason 2 I’m staying single) 44:21

I don't know how that fiance can't take accountability. She was so easily swayed to destroy the trust of their 7 year relationship with a bit of alcohol. No matter how drunk I've been, you could never get me to betray my husband. Such a cop out and those friends suck

Oh man I hope she took a pic of the kid in the cuffs. Lol

My husband's half sister is like this too, always needs everything to be about her

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Riley imagining a kid in handcuffs

42:59 agreed, it does depend on the person. I left my ex because he liked to hit me, and it took me 6 months of therapy and then 6 more months after to get back out. Another person i know in the same situation took only a few months and then was married to a new man within a year later. She still hasnt gotten over her first husband, however, nearly 30 years later.

They (1st story) are trying to get OP to reverse herself because my bet is that their community heard about this and they have had to deal with the aftermath. It's all about their egos.

I hate when people say “be the bigger person” it’s such bs

I've cheated in the past and I know I'll never cheat again, but other people will never be as confident in my ability to not cheat as I am. The fact that others will not trust me is simply the consequences of my actions. I'm always very upfront avoit hiw I've chested in yhe past and how I've learned to grow and communicate. It's something I tell potential partners on the first date. I know in the fiber of my soul that I will never cheat again but I still think it's important that future oartners can make an informed decision on whether they want to be with me or not. Some people have a hard boundary of never dating a cheater and I will respect that. Plus it would be awful if I kept that part of myself a secret and then later down the line my partner finds out about it. Total breach of trust. Yes, having the label of cheater has diminished my dating pool, but that's my own fault and I'm ok with that. If you cheat you have to come to terms with the consequences and do better.

A few years ago a male friend of mine got so bladderd at a his brothers stag do that they (he, his brother and the best man) all woke up in a bull field wearing sparkly black thigh length dresses and 2 pair of leopard fluffy handcuffs (all three were handcuffed together), after freaking out for 15/20 minuets they walked to a nearby house (the farm house lol) and knocked the door, the farmer apparently opened the door smiled unfased and invited them in and asked his wife to grab "the blankets", apparently its happen a few times so they keep thick thermal blankets in the downstairs utility room just incase, luckily the stag do was done 48hrs before the wedding and it turned out the designated driver had desided to have a laugh and while they were all passed out in the back of his car he and his step-brother (brides uncle) borrowed some cuffs and dresses from a drag queen friend of thiers, handcuffed them, drove them to the field and carefully put them in the field (they did not know it was a bull field, thought it was just cows) and informed the bride and moh who were apparently pissing themselves laughing over what they had done, the farmer gave them hot drinks and let them call someone, the someone was best mans dad who came and collected them while laughing his arse off, wedding apparently went well and they showed a photo reel of the bride&groom and end photo was of the 3 men handcuffed together in dresses in a field everyone including the 3 men found it hilarious lol

for story 2, a 29 yr old should be able to take responsibility for her actions she is not mature enough for marriage 😭😮‍💨😐

A cease and desist letter isn't legally binding. Basically a just threatening a law suit if you don’t stop something they dont like. Obviously there is no actual legal basis for any kind of lawsuit. If anything, the half sister? Step mom and her Dad are getting close to harassment.

I can't with the bride's dad's family like your stocking. This girl that wants nothing to do with you. So she'll apologize because She let your daughter wear the dress. She wanted to wear like what? 😂

You don’t need a locksmith for handcuffs. You just need a police station…

Sweet innocent Sophia hahaha 26:10

I’m one of those that will connect with people after a breakup but never really felt committed I’ve had two serious relationships in my life and was never able to move on from my first partner until 4 years later when I reconnected with a high school friend

"how do they tell them?" well, they don't! been there, done that.. and I mean that I learnt about his cheating on previous partners after a 3yr relationship when he got bored with me and cheated on me. They just come up with some stupid shit like "it didn't work anymore" and "there were other problem I don't want to talk about".

50:42 fun fact, this is a true story from Riley’s childhood.

I was widowed after 18 years. I really wouldn't have wanted to wait 9 years to start dating again.

Being drunk isn't a good enough excuse to cheat or break partners boundaries. Been drunk a couple times since being in my relationship and not once felt the need to look at others much less flirt or cheat.

Lol, I’ve been with my partner for 8 years now and we have 2 kids. Still no ring and he definitely knows how I feel about it..

The cheating bachelorette didn’t cut off those friends already? Yeah, he made the right choice. Her saying she would drop those bad influence friends if they get back together just shows what they did wasn’t the problem. She was the problem. If it was really the friends getting her to do something she wouldn’t have, she should have immediately cut them off.

To comment on Riley saying women can move on faster - kinda true. Thing is, is that we try to keep relationships going and we try to make them work, but once we’re done, we check out of the relationship. A lot of the time we just don’t realise we’ve checked out until the break-up actually happens. Then we wonder why it doesn’t hurt that much and we realise it’s because the relationship was over for a while.

"The best place to be for halloween" - Rome ...nah not really lmao. Just want to add something to that passing comment - Halloween is not that popular in many European countries. Yeah it's gaining popularity last couple of decades but like...it's not like in the US, it's just a night before All saints day and people just party and sometimes have costumes. Kids are not dressed up and there is no T&T. Something similar to Halloween is happening in some european countries in february tho, Italy included...Venice is famous for it, and you probably thought of that.

Have OP’s father, stepmother and Heather got so little going on in their lives that they need to obsess over OP so much? I would be asking Heather if I was that much better than her that it’s been necessary to continually outdo her.

4:10 cuz that’s the point. Basically, OP should’ve clued sister in to make it easier for her to embarrass OP?

The way Heather and her Mom continue to harass her after she went no contact speaks volumes about much of their egos depend on treating her poorly. They absolutely cannot stand that OP is happy and doesn't need any of them . Competing is no fun when the opponent can't be bothered to compete with you bc they have a life that doesn't consist of being spiteful and jealous. I bet the Dad wishes everyday he wouldn't have married & had a brat with stepmom. "You know how they are" says clearly he knows and doesn't like it but he's a gutless turd so he puts up with it.

It would of being better if the op said anyone who has bridal/prom dress and for men black tie to wear them for the engagement so that the sister wouldnt be the only one in bridal gown i know i read on one with the mother od groom wanted to wear a wedding dress to the actual wedding and the bride asked the wedding guests wear bridal/prom dresses and the bride and the maids changed the colour scheme so they stood out

I would let her go in the wedding dress🤣 It would make her look weird anyway to wear that to an engagement party and it would only make people talk about her intentions more

I told my husband when we were engaged that if his friends take him to any strip clubs or get a stripper, then *I* get to choose the place and/or stripper. He wasn’t interested in a stripper or club anyways (he’s not that kind of guy), but he had heard my Dads story about his bachelor party and how my mother chose him the most ….interesting…. Stripper. His friends thought it was hilarious.

Helloween is mot a Thing in Europe but we have Fasching or Carneval aroubd Feb/March before Easter. Don't know about Italy exactly but they have the more silent costumed in traditional Costumes..always want to see Carneval in Venice. Ppl like that and book very early for it.

Not liking Pokemon is a sin Riley

They are freaking obsessed with op and its scary 😬

I WAS SEXY PATRICK!!! My costume was phenomenal!!! If I do say so myself… lol

she needs to stop say "my friends enabled me my friends are the villain" no girl you're an adult you can use your words and say "this is not good friend behaviour, to encourage cheating"like nah she chose to cheat her friends egging her on doesn't matter

I think 6 months is a good time to test out dating again if you were dating for under 4 years. But I feel like with a relationship above that, 6 months isn't enough to be sure you're strong enough to try out dating again without going full throttle on a rebound or acting on your physiology wanting to restore your body's norm of living with another person and having continuous company for so long.

If I were to forgive the cheater I would say get a prenup, if the fiancée is against it then don’t accept them.

OMG 🥺 ok so low key, I'm kinda in love with Riley... But... But... He just said he doesn't like Pokemon and now I'm just sad 😢

Why was she even invited? Don’t invite people who ruin your peace to major events, even if they are related to you.

*Half sister - Full AH -* I wrote this then heard Sophia say the same. Great minds. …Riley’s onto something. You would think that they OG wife and daughter hoping the ones picking on the second wife and daughter but the half sister knows she is just the affair baby and her mother is the fair partner and feels threatened by the first family OP wins because thehalf sister will always fear inferior

epic haha!!!

I’m so petty I would have coordinated for everyone but her to wear powder wig Royal formal attire, and I would have had the most ridiculously peacock thing I could have put on lol Would have either made her laugh or me, so either way I would win

When I was married, my father in law invited all the men to go to a bar on Christmas Eve. We were all having a big family get together. We all agreed the guys could g and I said you can go anywhere except a strip club. Guess where they went? The next day they wanted the women to go get pedicures for now reason. Because they were feeling guilty. I always wondered why and I found out pretty quickly bc I confronted my then husband. Anyways while we were married him and his dad continued going to strip clubs in secret and getting lap dances from 100% nude dancers, even bottom nude. I couldn’t believe it and when I told his mom she just told me all men are like that. That’s when I knew I had to get out of that family. Someone tell his current gf! Ps my ex husband was navy airman and all of the men covered for him, even the ones I fed in my house home cooked meals. All men cheat and even if they don’t I’d rather only date models now. At least if the break my heart they were hot🔥and worth it 😅😅

of course OPs dad would choose not her and choose heather and her mom, she chose heather and her mom when he cheated on his wife

How do you cuff your wrist to your ankle 😂 ?

I would have changed the theme to ho down and had everyone wear flannel and jeans. Super over the top casual.

please finish first the story before commenting and talk about your personal experience.

Riley would be a cute Jack Sparrow 🥰 Or he could show up as the boat 💀 I wouldn't tell the difference

44:08 I don't think it's just women. I think the person who cheats or the person who breaks up is the one who is mentally been out already.

My cousins baby daddy ( who, unfortunately, she is still with) has 11 children by 9 different women. My cousin is the only one stupid enough to have more than one with him. Out of the 11, 3 of them are in the same year ( 9th grade) at school, different schools but SAME YEAR! None of her kids know about the other kids and I believe it is going to be one he'll of a shit show when they find out.