30:50 I know to some people this situation could have been nothing... but 15 year old me was already going through some stuff, I was a very quiet person (still am), I was someone who didn't like to be put on the spot... getting yelled at by a teacher was terrifying for me, especially when I did nothing wrong.
I know the pain my Spanish teacher hated me even though I passed all her tests and quizzes and homeworks I think she hated the fact I refused to participate in speaking in front of class and it got to the point where I was sent to the principal's office and she ended up getting academic probation and sent to an alternative school instead of teaching high school
@@motivatorcarter8864 Im so sorry you had to go through that :(( I really hate speaking in front of the class too D: but at least the school did something about that teacher
One of the things I can't stand is a teacher being mean/rude/disrespectful to a student. I'm also a good, quiet student but I will turn up if a teacher is being a jerk to someone. I wish I could have been there for you at that time and I hope that teacher learns his lesson! I think it is helpful for every young person to see a counselor, so I hope you find a good one.
I cried halfway through the video. I can relate to this. I had this teacher that liked to call the quiet ones out. That was me and my friend. We became friends that way because we could relate in a way. I was always terrified to go to that class because of him. At the end she switched teachers (she still had a year) and I graduated. We’re both a lot happier now and I’m glad you’re too. Love youu ❤️
at my school the guidence counselors are so unhelpful and prefer outgoing people than quiet kids who need help and if a quiet kid blames an outgoing kid of bullying they do absolutely nothing about it because they prefer the popular ones which is so wrong
Girl I get it. I too have always had problems talking to my teachers, wether that be for help, advice or even raising my hand in class (was afraid of people judging too). And when I was behind and couldn’t get myself to ask for help it just went downhill from there, trust me I’ve cried at home so many times for being called out in front of the class for “not doing” my homework (I would pretend I hadn’t done it because I was afraid it was wrong) or called out for not asking for help. My explanation was always me stuttering and saying i don’t know, because I truly didn’t. Anxiety is the worst and feels even worse when people don’t even acknowledge it. I ended up not going to school on many occasions and it has even given me problems now. I’m almost 18 and I dropped out of school twice, right now I’m taking a break to figure myself out.
Yess ! it's sooo important to take breaks! Take a breather, figure out what you truly want. take all the time you need. I left uni too after one semester and took like 8 months off school before deciding what I wanted. It helped a lot! I hope this break helps you too! Good luck friend! :)
In my nineteen-years-long life, I went through five years (from twelve to seventeen) jumping from lava to melted rocks with no rest at all. What I've been through can only be described in one word: torture. In school, I was the spy goat, not from the classmates, but from the teachers themselves, who used me as a boxing bag for public humiliations and pedagogical barbarities and initiated the other students to set me apart. From school the only place I could go was home, there I was the overweighted, third wheel everyone had to put on with (for being minor) who only had one job; be a good student, something I just couldn't do, which made me the biggest disappointment of a family of teachers and reduced me to "another black stain for our problems list" which included: economical problems, constantly argues between my mom and my grandma, religious fanatism, my non-protective, non-supportive brother getting a girlfriend I couldn't stand... I was psychologically (sometimes physically) punished day after day at home, sometimes directly, sometimes indirectly, but there was always a punishment. At school, I was the boxing bag of teachers and a pest to be away from to of the classmates, and It was a tiny school with no break-time places, we all stayed in our classes during break time, so I couldn't get away from them, at home I was a disgrace, another problem my parents had to deal with and a loss of potential (IQ 146), there was no grey place, not a friend, nowhere to go, I had to suck that up for five years and hide it so I wouldn't make more trouble. Now with nineteen, two years away from that place, everything is fine with my parents but this is what I carry in my backpack; depression, two attempts of suicide, Complex PTSD, anxiety attacks, obesity, dissociative crisis, and the worst by far; emotional numbness. I couldn't feel love when I saw my newborn nephew nor sadness when my grandmother died of the coronavirus. And still, I think I got it easy because of how I am, I'm a hardcore introvert, I'm basically immune to loneliness, I'm not shy, I fought back, I forbid myself to be destroyed and I swore revenge on those bastards. I have a strong personality and a self-healing mind that got me not needing a psychologist, and I have a cat. It could have been much, much worse, and that gives me chills.
you’re so strong to tell this to youtube! i just hope at least this helped you even a little to let your feelings out and make you feel a little better. you’re amazing, i suffer from anxiety too, school sometimes makes me so terrified.. some teachers are toxic, some others are there to help you. but hey, you got out of this! you’re great! you’re doing amazing! ily!💕🌙
I have story like this too... sooo i was in middle school when all of this happened. That day was the day that i seriously had the worst math class in my entire life! I had a math teacher and she loved me because i was always raising my hand and did all my homework. That day i remember that my teacher wanted me to do a math question. So she just called me up to the board. I was not so confident about this question because i didn’t revised the day before because i had too much homework. So i started to do the question AND BAM!!! I did a mistake... she looked at me like i wasn’t one of the best students in her class and said in the whole intire class that,that was how it is when you never listened to your teacher. I could’nt look at her neither my friends because i was so embarressed and just wanted to sit at my desk. So i just erased the things that i did and start doing it again then if you think “I HAVE SEEN WORSE” the story is not complete here! I got the answer wrong again and she started asking questions like “were you evren listening when i thought you the question!” I erased it again and FINALLY! got the right answer. I sat in my desk. And i was seriously trying not to cry in that point everything seemed reasonless to me... And like 15 minutes later my teacher called me to the board again. I was seriously done with it so i just did the question that was harder than the first question that i did. When i was about to sit on my chair again she said “how did you do this and didn’t did that” and then she started laughing in front of the whole class. Then the class started to laugh too... even my best friend laughed at me... i really liked math lessons until then... after that like 5 minutes later i was seriously going to cry but i held it... my teacher saw it and she said “are you really going to cry or is that because you go to a course to get confused over subjects.” (i was going to a studying course when my teacher said that and only a few teachers knew about this) so everybody were so shocked like they were saying “why didn’t you tell us?” later that i sat and my teacher didn’t make me go up to the board. When the lesson ended i was like a bird that had it’s cage opened. But then my teacher said “oh.. don’t be sad just please revise the subjects.” I was like WHAT!!! you seriously gonna say that after what you done to me there!!! I was like literally embarressed like HELL!!! And she just said that she didn’t even apologised to me after she said that!!! Later in the recess my best friend come up to me and said “were you seriously gonna cry there” i was litterally so angry that i didn’t answer his question. So that was my story...
I don't understand why someone would become a teacher if they don't like kids, or are bullies. I really despise those that have this sort of mentality, and don't realise the responsability they have to TEACH children not only a certain subject, but morals and values. When I was 10 or 11 we had a new teacher that would constantly verbally abuse children and what I don't understand is why the parents or someone wasn't doing anything. That teacher told me once when I didn't know the answer to a question "Are you stupid, or are you just pretending to be?" WTFFFF???? I feel like as a child you absorb so much information and adults labeling you as stupid and incompetent etc. really affects the way you view yourselves for a very long time. To anyone who is going through something similar, please know that what they say or think about you doesn't define you. Trust youselves and don't let anyone like that crush your confidece! 🙏✊❤
I am so sorry this happened to you. You or no one deserves to be treated that way EVER. I remember having severe anxiety of teachers when I was in elementary and hardly ate because I hated the teachers yelling at me in my face in front of others ://
Teachers deserve to be treated with respect, but sometimes they can be very rude. One day my sister worked 7 hours on an assignment and her teacher made her delete it and start over because it wasn't good enough. This would happen to her a lot. It was at the point where she would cry because it gives her lots of stress especially of all of that hard work down the drain just to start over. Also very nice video!
I’m so sorry that happened to you this was hard to watch 🥺b it I do admire your strength to tell your story I had football coaches who were jerks “long story “. But I’m glad you in better place and are happier. You deserve it 🙏🏼I send you strength, and peace always keep moving forward you are an amazing person and make a lot of people really happy :)
My math teacher is the kind of teacher anyone would love to have: at first, when you get to know her, she's funny, cheery, patient, makes a lot of jokes in class and also does a great job as a teacher. Well, she IS patient and good in what she does, but her attitude towards some people is disgusting. She's actually proud of what i've achieved in the past 2 years, but sometimes she just embarrasses people she's kinda proud of just because they aren't good enough in her subject. I had a test today and it was horrible. I don't even know what had gotten into me: i didn't do anything right even though I studied all day and i was sure I could make it to a decent score, but I just...failed. She didn't get mad. She was really comprehensive, I mean, it's not like i'm a damn robot. But then, 2 hours later, an old student of hers came to visit and told her "oh my god, i had like the worst test ever, I did so bad" and she looked at me and was like "Oh, that girl right there had an awful score just 2 hours ago. The mistakes she made were so dumb, i'm sure she'd laugh at herself if she could look at how she answered some of the questions"... it was horrible and at some point i burst into tears. Like, can you fucking CHILL for a moment? What the hell is wrong with you? I hate school. I'm so sick of it all. They say you go to school to LEARN, but if teachers just laugh at you because you're not good, what's the point? I can't wait to get out of there...
omgg that's so mean :(( some teachers are really too much ... I feel like if you cant be patient and understanding with kids, you should be a teacher. I'm sorry you had to go through that :( But try to keep going, try not to let her get to you,, you're strong !!!
Aww I cried with you! 😭 you're so strong! Hope it'll get better in the future and it's so sad you had to go through this :( it always takes time to heal scary moments in your life, so you dont have to rush yourself! Im also so happy that you tried to seek help for yourself :) I live in the GTA and im SHOOOK that this happened and im studying for my bachelor of education :D So glad i saw your video!! Thanks for sharing ❤️ it takes a lot!!!! Sending love~
In my high school, I was late most of the times because my sister would take forever to get ready. And one time I walked into my first class and my teacher got so mad she yelled at me in front of the entire class. Other times she didn’t care but for some reason today she directed all her anger towards me. She told me to go to the principal’s office. I was someone who never went to detention or got sent to the principal’s office. After I left her classroom, I cried on my way to the front office. Thankfully the principal just left me off with a warning. After that happened all the way to when the term ended she never got mad at me again.
i have this one teacher who can be a really nice and funny person but sometimes he really scares me. I have this friend who was in his class and she just asked çan i go to the toilet' and he said no. She said she really needed to go and he'd just start screaming at her. like'SHUT UP' stuff like that. My friend wasn't really crying but i did see tears, i felt really bad for, like she did nothing wrong, sometimes i really wonder what goes through these teachers minds...
It’s ok……. I have my story also. When I am small in kindergarten we will use to have a competition and every time when I bright my art to school my teacher will say like you parent did all for you and always when I get 1st or 2nd my teacher would just say I m gonna beat you soon almost forget to say the teacher have a kid too she was is the same school as me and one time teacher says whoever get best mark will get a candy so I got the best mark at teacher just throw the candy to me and like she act like I don’t care
i have this one teacher that is my IEP that helps me with particular classes and most likely math and i have 2 friends that i hang out with all the time and she has been accusing me of being tardy to my classes which is not true i have not been tardy once and if i was my mom would get a call and she also accused me of my bad grades when i am passing all of my classes currently and she kept saying my friends have been the problem which is not true AT ALL and it made me honestly really angry and i told my mom and she got angry and said if it gets worse she will go up to the school and i have a test i have to take in her room tomorrow and i honestly don’t want to go because i know she will try to start something up again and if that happens it will be the 3rd time and i’m telling you this because i just need some advice on what to do so please reply to me if you can thanks!
I have this teacher who likes to call out ppl name if they did smthg wrong like talking while the teacher is talking or else.... so like we have this big exam which called pt3 but it's already ended..and in my school if the students in each grade finish their exam especially big exam like students my grade had , we usually have this time where we could do fun activities provided by the counsellor.. (Btw the teacher is also the counsellor )... And we called this time is "pasca pt3"... And all classes needs to combined which each class have 20 to 25 students and we have 5 classes.. And there's one day where we have to be at the computer room for some activities .. And there's a few slot .. And I got humiliated infront of all classes or students in the 4th slot if I'm not mistaken .. In this slot we have to read some comic books which is about the detective conan.. And I'm totally not interested in that .. When the teacher or the counsellor was explaining about the activity, I looked at my friend and did the face like I'm not interested (a boring face basically) and then the teacher call out my name and she was like "why do you do that face ? ......... if any of you is not interested , u can leave this room" and everybody was quiet and looking at me .. I was very embarrassed .. And I said " I don't understand " (I act like I don't understand wht the teacher was talking about..which I completely understand).. I said this just to cover my self up but the teacher just continue her explaination.. And btw there s like I don't know maybe 90 ish students..and she said that on the microphone ... I was EMBARRASED... I think about a lot of stuff like I wish if I could turn back the time or smthg ... Like my crush was even there!!!!! I m going to cry.. But I hold my self so I don't embarrass myself even more..😭 I mean she can just finish her explaination and call me to talk privately or smthg INSTEAD ,, she just call me out infront of all students and guess when that this happens...... It's today !!! AGHHHH!!!!
Just saw your recent video and thought I’d give your other video a listen I am the blind dude again living another comment I remember if I did not like a teacher I actually raised hell in the entire school system This comment is for new students and younger people if you don’t like your teacher think of them as trash this would allow you to confront them a different way if you think they are authoritarian then it will be much more difficult Basically by allowing your mind to think that these teachers are less than trash you are allowing your mind to think about other things and not be nervous at their presence I know not everyone is strong-willed but give it a try next time anyone encounters a bad person Also teachers assistant are not actual teachers they are just an assistant for that particular teacher so I won’t even put them in the same level as a teachers respect The only person you should respect in the entire college system should be deans and headmasters anyone other than them is basically a worker so treat them as no one special I know this comment may sound harsh for teachers out there however it’s the truthAt least that’s how I treated everyone else around me maybe because I was blind it gave me different strength basically I stopped caring what teachers think of me and did what I thought was best for my life not only teachers but anyone else that I came across
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