We literally study this in sociology and its called a growth vs fixed mindset lolz. Just found it kinda cool that JJ figured out this theory through experience alone and worded it perfectly
@@ligmaballs7759 ofc its his choice, but the thing of him being at his best is just bs and if it is true then he isnt good at boxing at all cuz fighting like this will never land him anywhere.
@@aryanpramanik454 that's why you keep training, every boxer starts off somewhere, they don't magically get good, it takes time and effort, he was clearly putting the effort, but he didn't have enough time. Instead of beating someone when they fall, help them up and let them try again.
Deji's mind isn't in the right place, he needs to take the time to rediscover who he really is and figure things out. Get away from the noise, flashy light and fake people. I respect JJ for being honest about his brother.
JJ is being honest and was telling him what he needed to hear, but was it really necessary saying this online? That part kinda felt like JJ was publicly humiliating him.
@@aravindbalajig1575 ikr even I thought about it. Like bruh just call or DM him . Is jj just doing this for views. If he really wanted to give advice just meet him he is your brother
Love KSI im a huge fan, but dont think Alex Wassabi deserved that negative energy. He was respectful throughout the whole boxing event and even encouraged Deji to keep fighting after the fight.
No but I honestly love what you say about doing things for your own sake rather than others. I was actually just telling someone that at my previous job, when I started living up to my own standards instead of others, I had more success and felt better overall. You're such an inspiration jj, I've been following you for a very long time. Love your content, love you.
As an older brother who was in a very similar situation, I understand JJ. However, as an older brother, JJ should know to control himself and realise there is no point kicking the dead horse. Especially in front of millions of people
@@revenant9277 well because he needs to put awareness to his brother doing it privately wont cut it he is trying to tell deji and his fans that deji needs to work harder and not keep doing excuses and that’s by showing him that he needs to be confident infront of everyone
@@ayhamsari9993 hard work isn't the problem anymore though. Deji clearly worked hard leading up to the fight. He changed his mentality and physical condition for the better. That's why the vinnie hacker situation was different because deji was just lazy. So since the work ethic and laziness isn't the problem anymore; what is it about getting through to deji that needed to be public for millions to see?
A real brother gets straight to the point to make sure their siblings understand what they did wrong without needing to sugar coat anything. I respect this, JJ.
@@aiai8479 his audience is waiting for a response and he can't run from it anyways if u were in his position you would do a video response as well he isn't throwing his brother under the bus he is teaching him a good lesson
Those who have younger brothers understand the motive & heart behind what JJ is doing here. It's really love. Telling beautiful lies helps no one, but the truth will transform. Salute JJ 💯
Is it really love, is it all in my mind Is it crazy I think of you all of the time, baby Is it really love, can you give me a sign 'Cause I'm losin' my head tryna make you mine
Looks like this video literally helped him. Normally he’d be fucking toxic after the fight, but this time he was humble after the win. He did it for himself this time and look what he did. GG Dej and GG JJ for not being a yes-man and being real with him. You love to see it!
Yea its a good justification for abusing the fact Deji can't talk back or he's cancelled. Because JJ had no reason for this video other than to blast Deji.
i have a younger brother and if we were in this scenario i’d say all these things you did except personally not on a youtube video for the world to see. there were some personal things you said that maybe didn’t need to come out, but in general deji really needs this. the only people who tell you your mistakes and correct you are the ones who love you and want to see you succeed. everyone else just judges and moves away.
Sometimes raw, honest constructive criticism is supportive. This is one of those times. Also the only time Deji listens is when hes called out in public. KSI is his brother... hes tried keeping matters private before. We all know how that turned out.
i dont understand whats wrong with it being in public. yall act like he is humiliating his brother but all he does is being real straightforward, he gave the most mature take than every other being who are giving sugar coated useless BS. it seems like all deji's yes men snowflake fans are being offended on behalf of him.
@@zeuxlaught2797 horrible take lmao, u said u don’t know what it should be in private then went on explaining what he meant in the video rather than why it shouldn’t be in private. U can be “straight up” and not sugar coat it in private lmao what
I have close friends who talk to me like this (arguably even harsher at times) and i understand it completely. Especially with what jjs saying gives some deja vu
Disagree heavily, this didn’t need to be a public video, he could’ve said this privately instead of ridiculing him online in front of millions I actually like KSI btw, it’s just not the mature way to tackle this stuff
He is literally one of the nicest people in the platform man, he had nothing but praise for deji after the fight. Kai is just kinda being a dick to Alex wasabi just because he thought deji was gonna win
@@SilverThroned i dont hate wassabi or anything but it still doesnt change the fact that wassabi is a terrible boxer. He could barely hit deji even with that reach. And it isnt cus deji is super good at slipping punches its cus his punches were slow as fuck.
I've competed in combat sports since 2009. Deji froze. He got nervous to exchange that's why he stayed on outside and didn't throw combinations and would clinch. I hope he listens to you bro. You're a good brother.
Bro, that's what I said too, like. I've never fought like, professionally, but it looked like Deji was more frozen, than he was goofing around. He keeps overthinking every move and just goes in for the clinch. He needs to have that mentality of, "It's either me or you. And I wanna win REALLY really badly" JJ keeps it real, and not only that. If anything, he's still supporting his brother's choices.
“Lose humbly” you nearly cried and kicked a sign on tv in front of millions of people because you lost a fight. You got humbled This is part of your karma. Stay Humble
isnt that more of frustration because he knows how hard hes worked and was disappointed with nobody but himself, i think anyone who had put in so much effort has every right to be mad and upset or disappointed after a loss like that
yeah but his point is he's telling Deji to be humble in defeat, yet he's throwing temper tantrums about losing, it just makes him look worse @@lyric5922
No bruv because ita a 50 50 between the internet between him and fury but in these losses and it was unanimous and there is so many clips saying ksi got robbed adesanya eddie hearn most of the boxers it shouldve beena draw or ksi won no other way
man i supported deji but after the press conference and weight in's, i think alex deserves the W. man came in his territory, he was being booed, he was being hated but instead of getting mad, he stayed calm and said positive things in return like bruh- and jj is saying the real things fam, hope he understands and take this in the right way but respect for both of em to go in the ring and fight 🖤
Damn you went in on Alex. He seems like a really nice and genuine guy. What won over my respect was when that idiot jumped into the ring, the first thing Alex did was look at your brother and ask if he was good. He's a good dude.
@@praveshpokharel211 really? The only thing I remember between Alex and JJ is Alex challenged JJ, and JJ said no and after that, JJ kept trashing on him.
@@cbkami7574 the beef started long before that. Alex used to tease JJ of having less subscribers. JJ even tagged Alex after JJ passed him in subscribers
Also no one should deserve the bully and hate that Alex had to go through ,people throwing things at him yelling at him also trying to hurt him because they were Deji’s fans and Alex was still nice and humble about everything
It’s annoying how these people try to discredit Alex’s W by saying oh if deji would have thrown he would have won blah blah blah like nah he’s was just better. He won fair and square no excuses
he should come back there's no point in giving up now, clearly his defence is incredible...he improves his attack and he'll go unbeaten marks my words edit: deji won as I said he would, best performance of the night fs, bro came out of the fight untouched whilst fousey broke like 3 bones 💀
So ur telling me u have never heard anyone saying that in ur entire life until now? 💀. Sure it was inspirational but bro ive heard that one so many times…
It’ll change your mentality for 5 minutes until you forget the saying. Then you’ll go back to not trying your best again. I do however, like the dramatic ending, “Thank you, JJ”
Can't wait to see the video of ksi saying my thoughts on deji winning 🤩 and he was right, he could amd did put on a bigger show then anyone else has done on RU-vid.
KSI is being so real. He’s not telling Deji to GIVE UP he’s telling him to get in the RIGHT STATE and get the right ‘mentality’ and then try again. But until then, figure out what it is HE wants to do, not what other people want to see from him 👏🏼
@@CristanioPeweyyy A real one. Boxing isn't a game if you don't take it 100% seriously you can get seriously hurt in there. Deji doesn't need to box so if his heart isn't 100% in it there is no point him doing it. Gassing up a poor performance like that would be what a bad brother would do.
Alex Wasabi was originally a kids youtube channel, that's probably why he act childish, but other than that, he is humble, he is respectful, doesn't deserve that much hates. Man just want to do some real boxing with somebody for once
People complaining about him being tough : how many of us would want to have someone who gives enough of a care to give you in detail, the reasons why you fucked up and how to get better? Everyone honestly. Even the best people sometimes get complaisant and aren't hard enough on the introspection side, we all need a guy like JJ around to push us further. I just don't feel it will ever resonates with Deji since it's like the 3rd video i watch on the topic :D
Honestly instead of making fun of Deji losing maybe we should just give wasabi the credit he deserves for winning, i think this is more about how Alex has improved instead of how Deji disappointed
@@crypt6c i know but, from a younger brother perspective it’s not really goikg to uplift him if he’s just kinda shamed him a little. This type of stuff can definitely be said over text for sure
the fact that deji was so confident pre-match and did a lot of talking with many ppl cheering on him while alex just stayed humble and chill even if like almost all of the crowd is boo-ing him makes the loss a lot worse. if deji wants to pursue this career, i really hope that he would improve drastically. congrats to alex man. even if hes getting clowned on, he deserved that w. edit: saw a lot of comments saying that it is normal and i agree. getting into you opponent’s head is definitely normal but my point is that he did not have the skill to back it up and alex stayed humble which made the loss worse.
why go in on alex? he was so fcking respectful and cool about the whole thing, more than any youtube boxer i’ve ever seen before. i know damn well if deji would have won, he wouldn’t have treated alex with the same respect.
@@dmjhdmjh7486 he just hasn’t though, he’s a genuine guy. can’t say the same about deji lmao even leading up to the fight he acted like a dickhead for no reason, still immature
Whoever says that KSI is being mean, that's not right. He is just being honest about his brother fighting and his brother KSI is trying to help him as much as he can.
Alex Wassabi actually didn't talk any trash and he was literally humble and chill the whole time and even after fight he was really nice to Deji even tho Deji talked alot of trash... Alex Wassabi is not as bad as JJ made him look
KSI is not telling deji what he wants to hear, because he generally cares about him. Gotta respect that💯 he could easily get that W back in a warm up fight for jake paul?👀🥊
You can tell that there is so much love in what he is talking about. He’s frustrated at his bro because he knows he can be better. Hard truth always comes from a place of love. Gotta respect it
Nah, this guy said Deji didn't have in him to win a boxing match, that's his own blood brother telling him that he's a failure at boxing and he will never win. Your worst enemies who want to see you lose is your own family.
@@omarmohammed1765 jj said in his last message video that public videos are the only way to get through to him, because they don't talk a lot privately anymore
if you really wanted deji to understand you with all my respect and my opinion should’ve said this straight on, spot on, directly at your lil bro i really don’t care how hard you went at your brother that’s just reality and he needs to realize that one way or another. All though he would’ve understood it way more clear in private. With all due respect both KSI and Alex Wassabi both good boxers i’m not siding with anyone. All opinion based and proving points, in the end ya’ll are doing this for marketing and such that’s why you posted this video for he public to see, yall got that Marketing Tactic though spot on, getting people’s attention through youtube. Bout to be a blast.
Big ups to you JJ on telling your brother what he needs to hear. I hope he understands you're doing it out of love, and because you want the best for him.
Jj is actually right about Deji. Deji seems to be like a "people pleaser" type of person. When I saw him face to face with Alex, he was all stone cold attitude and it gave me hope that he might win this by his seriousness. But then, when the press conferences came, he was all gassed up because the attention of the crowd and was talking shit to Alex(I think it was just to sell a fight, but still abit weird when he was all stone cold before). He should fight in a US event, fuck those yesmen, let him feel the pressure.
@@ChichiNaka That’s BS You have to make your own identity you can’t sit around waiting for it to just appear you have to work for it And idc what people say Deji lost a lot of people are saying he worked hard for it but clearly he didn’t work hard enough That’s just a stupid excuse
@@paarthjagga7287 ok? I don't give a fuck about any of these people, that doesn't change thousands of years worth of psychology You wouldnt walk up to a homeless person and say "THATS BS, YOU HAVE TO HAVE A HOUSE, YOUI CANT JUST BE HOMELESS AND WAIT FOR A HOUSE, WHY AREN'T YOU IN A HOUSE'
i wished my guy would give a speech like this in my school to all my fellow pupils who fail and give up on their tests. this is just proof that if you wanna achieve the best, you got work at or more than your best.😎👍
I respect that you're being completly straight forward about how you feel after he did lose 3 times. But as a person with 3 brothers, comparing yourself to Deji, will ruin the entire statement your making because being compared to siblings sounds just selfish and egotistical. Even if you're doing it with a wholehearted intent, it could still be taken in a way where you are superior to him. But hopefully Deji understands and does better.
@@justwokeup8569 nah man You need to look at it from an outside perspective. What was said in the vid Can be relatively considered to be the truth But, his whole argument fell off when you compare yourself to the brother Especially in the public eye. He did it with vinny…. And deji lost. What makes you think this will work again ? It won’t man. You have to be considerate to your bro as well.. bc they won’t take it the way you Intended to.
I know you want to knock some sense into him but I feel like he isn’t going to listen until he wants to. I’m glad you post these videos because one day he will look back at them and understand them.
ah yes because jj is always humble in defeat isn’t he. *flashbacks to when everyone asked for a refund because one of his events was so shit and jj responded with “ i don’t think it was that bad “ * very humble of him
Whatever happens alex is still the most humble out of all youtubers who competed at any boxing event. Maybe including vinnie hacker but man alex directly told the mic when he won that he would pay his brothers tuition for college. Thats wholesome 🙌
I dont understand, bro he got 10 million plus subscribers on his youtube channel, now don't say me he can't even came that much money to atleast pay the money of his brother college
@@ankit-pr2qh bro you really think yt give money based on subscribers? They give money based on VIEWS and they give so little. What makes youtubers rich is those ads.
JJ, please man. Don't out your bro like that. I know he did shit.. But talks like these do not need to be online for everyone to see. Give him all the talk you want in private. Brother to brother. It doesn't matter how frustrated, disappointed or sad you are. KEEP IT BETWEEN YOU AND HIM!!!
Well clearly talking in private hasn't worked for him at all, the people needed to hear what he had to say about this, deji has no idea how lucky he is to have a brother like him
True! I kinda know why Deji will always feel second to his older brother cuz of how egoistic he is. Why compare your accomplishments? He needs your unconditional support. Tough love? Then do it in a way where you can’t damage a person emotionally and mentally.
you inspired me to be honest i am a younger brother and i play sports and i just expect everything to be there for me and i need all this and that i need all this help i need to help myself sometimes i need to work on it on my own
JJ IS RIGHT. AS AN OLDER BROTHER, I WOULD BE PISSED TOO. Imagine taking time off your schedule to witness your little bro embarrass himself for the third time.
He shouldn't be embarrassed. He bettered himself physically/mentally and improved significantly against someone who was bigger than him and had more training. I will never understand why so many people underestimated Alex
Problem is he was in person , theres no reason to publicly blast him like he did last time. This video although he says its to Deji its a "me good" situation where he's trying to frame himself as the good brother while making it so he can shit talk his brother and if his brother shot back with criticism , he gets shit and is deemed Satan.
Even though this was addressed to Deji, I felt this. Sometimes I do need a real wake up call and I do the best I can do, and I push myself further. Thank you
@@erhhsdhh2099 Sorry, I think I didn't say what I meant properly. Wake up call was the wrong phrase, and I wasn't counting the fact that his life wasn't as difficult as other people's lives. What I was meaning was that when KSI was saying that people should do things for themselves because they want to do it and not what others say was what I was referring to. I will keep what you said in mind from now on and again I am sorry for the misunderstanding.
@Erhh Sdhh and yet here you are watching KSI's video and commenting on them... You talk about ego but your whole comment is basically just you sucking yourself off. Grow up
@@erhhsdhh2099 it don't matter who it is n where they com from ANYBODY can give u a little wisdom...what matters is u picking up on the little wisdom they gave
