most people in the world are struggling with childhood traumas, accepting your past, seeking therapy and healing is part of the ways one can get over with these traumas.
Growing up without a mum is just something else,,, I can tell a story and tell and tell😭😭😭😭. Anyways 😢 It's not like it's over, but I'm still fighting many things right now... Denial, rejection aloooot from missed childhood affection.
I went through alot too..never got love from my parents till date and this made me want to have a child of my own someone that would give me love...I remember I went to my mum one day and told her that it's like I had depression and my mom said that I should have it kabisa💔...her words broke me especially coming from my own mom
this made me cry because i was raised the same way though i didn't run away but my younger sister used to run just like you guys and the worst thing is she was alone because i was at the campus then and she was in upper primary...and it affected me so much because even now am at 24 and its still hunt me,sometimes i cant even express what i feel...but i hv to fight it..i love you guys.
The sadness in Dee's heart aki wishing mngemskiza that time...... .. I feel you guys. I had a share of a strict dad who was also beating us for nothing. I am that person full of fear and low self-esteem because of him. Confidence naona watu wako nayo sijawahi pata courage aki. Thanks for the encouragement. Love you Mitch and Dee
MITCH AND DIANA ❤️❤️YOU TWO ARE A BLESSING UPON MY LIFE AND THIS ONE WAS AN ENCOURAGEMENT AND INSPIRATION FOR ME AND I WANNA ADOPT TO ALL WHAT YOU HAVE SHARED AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU TWO🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗🤗NAWAPENDA SANA❤️❤️❤️❤️
you are such an inspiration honestly Dee and Mitch...you have been through a lot but who is God look at you now!!!!!! Anyways all of us have gone through a fair share of life not necessarily with the parents but also relatives, but we have survived through it all by the grace of God. Great content we need more of it.
The story has reminded me of parenting styles( permissive, uninvolved, authoritarian, authoritative styles) your dad was more of authoritarian parent..wants you to do things because "he said so" thanks for sharing the story, made me learn and get motivated.
Thank you Mitch. Actually I've learned something great from you. God bless you dear. I'm 24 and it's when I'm picking up myself from my childhood troumas
I'm crying knowing my father was exactly as misguided as yours but at the same time thanking God that my mother was present so we did not run away from home but if we were in the same scenario as yours we'd clearly be lost right now or maybe God would have saved us like he saved you. Thanks for sharing this. I also struggle with fear up to date just like Dee and i also struggle with harshness. I almost always catch myself being harsh and love is like a very far away thing in my life. The weird thing is when you are a lady you find yourself attracting men who are exactly like your father. God help us!
Well said ss, we don't share to get pity nor to expose ourselves, but exactly as you have said. Love you so much dearest, keep them rolling 💕💕💕💕Your story the child in me can familiarise with the child in me. But it is well
I can relate to that😅 now I can laugh about it but deep down it still hurts and I would Never allow my kid or anyone's kid kupitia iyo life😔 its so frustrating aki
Girls just watched your story, it's really emotional, it reminds me about what my children went through in the hands of their father But apparently mine was different, I never left my children, and the times I was not there I always called to check on them. Yes my children have been scarred by the way there father treated them. Diana, Michele I would like to tell my story about what this man did. I actually 😭 just listening and remembering what my children went through. But I fought where I could. My children have never known what a father's love is. Anyway I thank God you have grown up to be such beautiful daughters of your father and mother. The devil is ashamed. And God is glorified you are a great testimony. Your story is really encouraging. Love you girls.
Michelle !!!your story is very sad,made me remember my past childhood life,it is painful.I'am also struggling with childhood trauma,i live with my father's family after my parents died,it was a hell of mistreatment,i hate them up to now!!!!!I don't visit my village up to date.
@@mitchngoje God is faithful!! I have no better words❤... respect to you two... Glad I took a few tissues.. You need to be a motivational speaker Mitch💯
Watching this has made me cry 😭😭😢...my story was worse than this ..in short my parents died when was 6months old,,was raised by my grandparents but not old grandparents ,,, so we grew up together with my cousins but I tell you it was not easy still now I feel the pain ,, I was humiliated in front of everyone ,,when my cuzs where given better education I was sent to public school ,,my grandfather kept comparing me with our neighbors kids which made me cry all the time..sometimes nilikuwa nakuzwa home😪😪 ..for sure its along humiliating story.....
I love u girls for free and every family always has their own amazing stories but one thing i regret even today is that i as the older sibling i never defended my bro when our step mom used to mistreat him.How i wish i could reverse the years and show the step mom my true colours when it comes to my only small bro.
Thank you Mitch and Dee for the encouraging story, as a parent I have learned alot from your story it's going to change my parenting life. Thank you sana🙏
Yeah I had heard this from Dee's stories but honestly I get how growing up in fear is nerve reckoning one can still be at 20 + and you still fear your dad😪 This just gets me actually thinking you know it even scares me to get kids or get married this is something we need to talk about. It's actually an issue people do not talk about
We love you guys so much.😍....plz do more story times like these coz they're are very touching and encouraging....and some people our there need this... 😊
are we all going to ignore how their dental formula's perfect and white? ur an inspiration girls my mom has made me go through shit also upto date I decided to respect her from a distance it's so painful what sometimes our parents make us go through
My mom used beat me like a dog and for a long time I thought she hated me, most of the time she told me I was stupid and I grew with that in mind,no matter how hard I tried in my exams I failed coz it stck in my mind that I was stupid, right now I'm 22 and I don't have any love for her and I'm trying to heal from all that trauma. What parents do for sure affects their children even into adulthood.
May God gives you healing .I feel you,you don’t have to love anyone your parents included,if God gives you a chance to therapy please take for your own good.Praying for you.
You guys need to have a sit down with your dad and get closure.....I know he might not open up completely but probably he also needs you guys.....you never know if he was or rather still is battling depression....nawapenda bure beauties
It's a touching story.. I love you guys but thanks to God you are living a happy life now ♥️..and raising your kids happily and not in a way you were raised More stories to come ..
I can relate my father was a menace not only to us but to the society as a whole...being the only girl I went through hell and it affects me upto date ...I wish I could find help...healing is not easy.
I relate to foreal I am still struggling fRom childhood trauma I am really struggling to stop hurting people around me just because I am not happy myself
Big up! Acknowledging you hurt people is a positive acceptance! HURT people HURT people. Work on yourself and eventually you will be a darling not only to yourself but to your dear and near and the world as a whole. One day at a time at God's beautifol time
😭😭😭I feel your pain have passed through that I even slept with any man to get shelter even somewhere to change my clothes or bath I had no were I got raped I was used but I thank God here I am God saved me protected me now I have two kids and I pray my kids will not pass through what I passed through because my first child I got him through desperation
A touching story indeed 💔, parents should make children respect them but not fear them,my dad and mom separated too,i was forced to raise my siblings at my dad's it wasn't easy living with him,i was emotionally tortured😭,but i thank God I can inspire someone who is going through hard times, thanks for sharing yours 🙏
I'm in campus and I know what you're talking about. I was also raised in fear,till date siezi open up to my parents ama nikuwe na shida I can't open up...azin you feel inferior. But life has to move on.
Losing a mum,no shoulders to lean on, everyone goes away from you leaving us with an ailing dad and siblings yet our relatives are well up..God!, Even to date am not in a good position where I can support them but am striving hard..hopes and prayers are my daily bread. Everyone who fights his/her battles alone without sharing it with anyone not because you're stupid but because you got no one to hold you and to listen to you,,God got us🙏
We always taught to be thankfully to each every step we pass,,, I can say that the situation you went through made you to be where you are right now na Mungu akiwepo pia. We learn through mistakes, now hatuwezi kulea watoto wetu in that way. NAWAPENDA SANA.❤❤
It would be nice if you would sometimes bring feature your sister val to your vlogs, you both are beautiful and you inspire many people, this was a reminder to us to be better people and treat the youngsters with love 💕 and consider that they also have feelings aki, its sad to hear what y'all went through in your childhood, I hope that God brings you peace and that you may be at peace with your past, I'm sending love 😘💕💕💕
Personally my own mother started the hate when i was as young as in class 2 I've grown in a very bad environment btw but since i let go i have the most peaceful moment of my life..9years down the line and i cut her off completely coz my happiness matters.
@@estherwanyutu3286 me too dear it was rough till to date I don't understand why she hated me am the first born but my treated me differently from my sisters she would call them in the bedroom to talk to them and ask me to stay outside it was tough I was sucidal , I tried killing myself when I was in class five I tried it several time till class but I forgave her and I have learnt to love my self so as not to pass the same to my kids, my childhood was rough and tough 😭😭😭😭, I didn't enjoy I didn't get the motherly love , it's sad but I have gotten over it🙏🙏🙏, hugs dear 🤗
@ Margaret Waaaa Ithoght Ni Mimi pekee yangu nimepitia rough road ,imagine huyu Mother hajakulea ,she left 35 years back hakakuacha na your dad and grandma,wamekulea then wakarudi wakapass wote then baadaye huyu masaa ameresurface but kila akipiga simu Ni kukushow wewe Ni mchawi Kama shosho yako ,babako Ni familia ya wachawi na wote Ni deceased ,How could u feel? Nilimwambia afadhali angeniabort kuliko Ni pitie hayo yote ,so ave decided kumblock na kumsahau na Sasa Niko at peace na am there to stay kwa sababu ya watoto wangu ,I thank the almighty for this far,Na mi assume nililelewa orphanage
@@roseotieno4649 most parents wanatesa watoto wao aki it's painful mi mum alikuwa ananambia watu mi n useless ata nikifa haezi pata hasara she used ata to tell if someone wants me she would give me out for free I used to hate myself I could not even look myself in the mirror but am glad I over came it my prayers I will give my kids lots of love and care am currently working on my self to better so as not to pass the same to my kids, hugs 🤗🙏 dear it's well ☺️
Wueeh this takes me back.. I lived with my aunt for 3years..wueeh Ile mambo nilipitia..I used to be beaten so bad😭😭😭😭😭 waah..to a point of kuvunjwa vidole woi🥲 Nwy, I thank God for where I am now. People go through so much in this life Kwanza kids, Lord have mercy🥲
