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My Unorthodox Life star Julia Haart is ANGRY. She is now a fashion mogul and reality star. But she grew up in an ultra orthodox extreme Jewish sect that forced her to be 'modest', and had to learn how to start again with her new life in the outside world. She went on to be CEO of fashion company Elite Model Management (EMM), and create and star in her own Netflix series My Unorthodox Life. Since escaping from the Haredi community, she has worked with Kendall Jenner and Naomi Campbell among other top models.
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You'll have seen Julia Haart making appearances on The Ellen Show to discuss her Full Circle moment, and the Tamron Hall Show to talk about the root of her divorce, not to mention Family Feud, where she appeared with her family. Her kids include: Shlomo, Miriam, Batsheva and Aron.
It's like the Netflix Hasidic Jews documentary series Unorthodox or famous ex-Hasidic Jews Shloime Zionce and Lev Tahor (from the Lev Tahor documentary). This is like a look inside the home of an orthodox jews family - hanging with the hasidics.
Watch my episodes with:
Chavie Weisberger, who escaped the Orthodox Haredi Jewish sect in New York: • ULTRA ORTHODOX: An Ext...
Emily Green, a British woman with similar experiences of a Jewish scandal:
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0:00 Intro
1:00 Growing up in the 18th Century!
7:00 Why Julia was criticised.
11:00 PROOF?: Girls can't go to college
17:00 Why happiness is irrelevant (amazing point!)
21:00 Why her teacher SMELLED a TV
25:00 Julia is still proud to be a Jew
27:00 When a Rabbi did something unexpected
29:00 Women had to marry their attacker
31:00 What Ultra Orthodox Jews think of Andrew
34:00 Escaping the sect & being shunned
39:35 Thoughts of ending it all - shocking
41:00 Adapting to the outside world
43:30 My first real boyfriend!
46:30 Embarrassing Royal Family Story!

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@AndrewGold1 Год назад

Have you watched her series on Netflix? any thougths? And hit that like button!

@leannazanewich Год назад

Yes, we watched both seasons

@erciliaflores Год назад

Never heard of this show, but Julia was very pleasant to listen to. We had a few visitors in the chat...

@bionicnichola9251 Год назад

What's it called on Netflix Andrew ?

@cocobradley6013 Год назад

Really enjoyed her,another great show Andrew

@karinkrog369 Год назад

No, but will now 😀...

@osmos2017 Год назад

Religious extremism of any faith can be dangerous.

@red---paulvanravenswaay2247 Год назад

Except maybe true religion.....taking care of widows,orphans, poor, injusticed, etc.

@Brembelia Год назад

A true religion supports both genders. But when it favors one gender above another, then it becomes a weapon of power, subjugation, and unquestioned abuse. This is not limited to any one religion. My family was RCC on both sides. They told me I didn't need to be educated because I would get married and "some man" will take care of you. I put myself through college on a work-study program while carrying 18 credit hours per semester, and holding a weekend job waitressing. When I graduated, neither parent showed up or had anything nice to say like "congratulations". As long as I lived under my father's roof, boyfriends were discouraged, and any male friend who came to see me was driven off with overt anger and abuse by my father. I never married until I was 35, and had moved from NY to Hawaii to get away from them to do it. They always preferred their religious dogma to being happy. I once wrote in my diary, "In this house, the only emotion you are allowed to feel is depression." This is something I saw throughout my whole Irish Catholic community. Religion, at some point, no matter how good the initial intent, always seems to eventually fall into the wrong demanding hands that insists on winners and losers. Thus far, women, in general, are the ones who end up with the lion's share of responsibilities, work, burdens, subjugation, and oppression. This class of people are expected to mold themselves around whatever the other gender is doing, and sacrifice themselves and their dreams for the sake of the happiness of others. I think this is changing, and there are those females who are off the rails, but they're not representative of the whole nor do they tell the story of the many who have and do suffer in silence.

@Tm-gg2mz Год назад

The community Julia grew up in was not extreme. Maybe her family was but not her community. She was not honest. Most orthodox Jews do not grow up the way she describes. Judiasm is extremely pro women and pretty much all of the garbage Julia puts out about the laws of judiasm are either straight up nonsense or lacking context. (Edited for grammer)

@More13Feen Год назад

Not can be, is. It always is. Extremism of any kinde no matter what

@user-hk7qu8gi6n Год назад

@@red---paulvanravenswaay2247 its another religion. And why this poor people come to such situation. The social community must civer this security and finenciale situations. This is the modern new religion. With the leadership of women only. The DBA of males lead them to react as befor - bad. That is why the passauah period is will be the time of NO force no power criteria to take control only mercy and feir justic and logic & truth criterias. - women leading.

@rivkahentin2268 Год назад

As an educated Jewish woman with an advanced university degree who is familiar with both Lubavitch and Bresloc Chassidus , I understand exactly what you are saying and have experienced much of the same. It has caused me confusion and sadness and even anger and frustration . Thank you for helping me to know that I am not alone

@pietropipparolo4329 11 месяцев назад

These orthodox groups utterly fail because they stubbornly refuse to accept Yeshua Hamashiya as the Messiah.

@anna-tn8mg 11 месяцев назад

What exactly did you study and where? dr anna

@anna-tn8mg 11 месяцев назад

Well, I don't know whether you studied insufficiently or something wrong, but clearly there is a problem with this monster (or actually two of them) and you don't see this. Again, what exactly did you study if you can say - how long? dr anna

@uriel7203 10 месяцев назад

You're a woman?

@Bear_Arms Год назад

As a Soviet born American Jew, I find this woman's story fascinating. Especially since I grew up in a fairly religious home, which was unusual for Soviet Jewish immigrants. Most Soviet Jews left the USSR with a very limited understanding of Judaism.

@malovina Год назад

Can relate to the latter part as I’m Jewish, left for US , family didn’t practice Judaism in Russia but learned a lot more about it in US. Can’t say orthodox is for me, but yeah

@lilafeldman8630 Год назад

Yes, they did

@anna-tn8mg Год назад

*What is so fascinating about it. Soviet trash became American trash. Trash is trash.*

@joliepam Год назад

Wow, that reminds me of my grandpa, he was polish, all his family was killed in Auschwitz. They would have lived if my great grandmother wouldn't have said no to moving to Russia, because for her, jewish community there was too treif! 😢😤

@lilafeldman8630 Год назад

I met someone recently who was born in Belarus in the 90s. Came to America as a child, but wasn't observant. She became Orthodox as an adult.

@troysnuffles Год назад

"Every religion turns into a boys club" - spot on Andrew. In fact they were designed that way from the start.

@r.m5883 Год назад

And every society too. Wonder why

@gehtkeinenwasan8087 5 месяцев назад

@@r.m5883 physical power....

@lydiapetra1211 4 месяца назад

Patriarch society...

@raeperonneau4941 Год назад

Julia, you’re parents and mine came from the same school of thought. “Who promised you fair?” “Who promised you happy?” “Nobody promised you a rose garden.”

@tootsla1252 11 месяцев назад

The “Thank You for Not Making me a Woman.” I felt that right in my gut.

@rosematchmaker 5 месяцев назад

I hope you’re happy now! Am very proud of my grandsons growing up orthodox Jewish and seeing nothing wrong and all the plus for them for their future. I wasn’t religious, but I am Jewish and my daughter married to Jewish orthodox we can’t be more happier and my son-in-law most nicest person on earth we don’t have complaints. My daughter, happy my grandchildren are growing to be new generation of orthodox Jews . I’m not religious but am a spiritual awaken, very knowledgeable, spiritual person. We are here to serve others and learn that’s why we are here on earth.

@rivkahentin2268 11 месяцев назад

I am the only educated woman in my mother's side of my family and fathers side . I am grateful for this video because I was criticized for wanting to learn and teach. I won't accept that . Women must learn just like men. I was even threatened if I teach . I cannot live in a world of ignorance. It's impossible for me

@Vix72121 Год назад

Really loved this interview! I’ve watched all of Julia’s show ‘My Unorthodox Life’ but this just brilliant. This interview really highlighted how intelligent and impressive Julia really is and how brilliant you are at interviewing Andrew

@donnariahi2975 Год назад

My ex husband was a fundamentalist Christian. He ran the house that way, he wanted the Bible to the main law that the home was based on. I had little issue with the idea of submission to him in big decisions but I drew the line at subservience, he never understood the difference.

@Celisar1 Год назад

Isn’t it strange how about all religions miraculously justify and solidify male superiority? So convenient.

@lucyburr5516 Год назад

Exactly! I am a Christian woman who has never married. Finding a man who understands the difference would be pretty challenging all right. Unfortunately a Christian guy might forget the rest of it: This husband should love his wife as he loves himself: he nourishes and cherished her as Christ loves his church. That’s how it is supposed to be but doesn’t often happen.

@morticiagomez6166 Год назад

Question: Did your Husband act like Jesus Christ or did he act more like Julius Cesar? Unfortunately, many can claim to be Christian’s, but their heart is NOT in the right place!! My husband Daniel is a True Christian Soul . He is not a domineering man at all! He could tame a lion with how meek and humble he is!

@lefantomer Год назад

Fundamentalist religion is virtually always that way. The only choice for a woman who does not want to live as a slave to the imagined dictates of imaginary supernatural tyrants out in space is to walk away, difficult though it may be. Freedom is worth it.

@nancymosby7369 Год назад

There is a DEFINITE difference 😊

@joerudnik9290 11 месяцев назад

I was raised Catholic; my mother, especially, wanted me to be silent and subservient. I was to be her constant assistant and relieve her of many duties so she could focus on my brothers and an extremely active social life with my father. Strangely enough, she also wanted me to be financially independent from the family, about age 10. She stressed doing for myself and living a life of work, in the home as well as out. Needless to say, there was tremendous conflict.

@Katfancy40 6 месяцев назад

How on God's green 🌎 did she expect a child of 10 years old to be financially independent? That's absolutely insane and cruel and horrible. I honestly hope that you do not have contact with her because she clearly doesn't deserve to have you as her child. My mother and her siblings were raised in a strict Catholic household until my grandparents divorced, my grandma's idea, and there were 2 girls and 3 boys and my oldest Aunt parented her siblings more than my grandmother did unfortunately and my grandfather traveled for work and was in the national guard and wasn't home a lot and everyone struggled being raised by them. My father's side was raised Catholic as well and strict but his parents stayed married for 63 years until my grandfather passed in 2014 and my grandparents from that side were very different to say the least and they both raised their 3 children.

@chrisstone8210 Год назад

Again and again, I find myself so grateful to my parents for not dumping a religion upon me and my 5 siblings. Not one of us, all in our 60's and 70's now, has EVER felt the lack of a 'god', and I can say, without any hesitation, that we are all happy, honest, caring and considerate people......our parents set a very good example by being decent people themselves without the need of dogma.

@commonsense5892 Год назад

God is real

@chrisstone8210 Год назад

@@commonsense5892 To you, and that's fine, but not to me.

@commonsense5892 Год назад

@@chrisstone8210 God isn’t a man or the son of anyone he is the one the creator and sustainer of all things the compassionate to his slaves. I invite you sincerely to Islam. What greater loss to lose in this world and the next out of arrogance

@chrisstone8210 Год назад

@@commonsense5892 I'm happy your faith means so much to you. God, to me, is just a word with no meaning, and, like I said, I have never felt there is anything missing in my life. I would not label myself arrogant.

@commonsense5892 Год назад

@@chrisstone8210 I’m glad you’re not arrogant and you sound like a very nice person. if I passed a road with fire and told you to turn your car around there’s fire ahead you wouldn’t say I’m ok I’ll find out for myself I can’t see the fire. So don’t deny the creator who’s magnificence is seen in the sun and moon and the galaxy and nature around us. I invite you to Islam

@bionicnichola9251 Год назад

Love these interviews as they are so insightful and educate us how others live. Without the Internet we'd be so oblivious too ! Great interview Andrew and thankyou to this lovely lady sharing her crazy stories. Thank heavens she escaped.

@DoreenBellDotan Год назад

I also once picked up a religious book that interested me in the library at the religious study hall and one of the ultra-Orthodox women teachers said to me: Ladies don't read that book. I said to her: So, call me a tramp...and kept reading. She almost fainted. :0)

@cecilyerker Год назад

What was the subject of this book

@allisonabraham3882 Год назад

Lolllll

@amhellbent Год назад

haha! sounds like something i would say... what i say the most is 'kiss my attitude' good on you for sticking up for yourself.

@DrJudyASmith Год назад

@@cecilyerker In a religious study hall? Could’ve been a book about Kabbalah. (Only men, aged 40 and over, were permitted to study Kabbalah.)

@adrianafernandez3935 Год назад

I studied, kaballa. Nothing anyone can not read. Religions are all such a farse. To keep people paralyze and obedient .

@sbug2705 Год назад

My grandparents were raised in the orthodox Jewish tradition in Hungary. They were refugees to Australia after fleeing. When they came to their new country, they decided that they wanted to become more modern and contemporary. As a Jewish woman I do follow the important traditions of the religion, but I realise that I live in the modern world, and some things need to evolve and change.

@nickypiccallo Год назад

Julia Haart, there is nothing stupid about not knowing protocols nor life outside an orthodoxy which hides you from the outside world. None of us with your history would fair any better. Much love + ✊🏼👵🏻🇬🇧

@AnnieDog-arfarf1 11 месяцев назад

This is heartbreaking. One of my best friends went the other way. She was brilliant and talented. After a year of college she emigrated to Israel, to a commune, with her parents’ blessing. She actually planned that as a way to get over there to stay, but they would not have supported the trip had they known her plan. She met and quickly married a man who was 3 weeks from his 20th birthday. In his sect, he was required to marry by that age. The men hold weekly prayers in the ancient hills. I don’t know if she was happy or if that word even remained in her vocabulary, but she felt she was doing what was right.

@juliedrysdale9592 Год назад

I love hearing from Julia in real life. The Netflix series seems a bit TV filtered. Her story is amazing and she is so articulate, intelligent and such a strong woman. Also, Andrew well done you lead the interview amazingly.

@yohannaramirez8320 Год назад

Wait there is a Netflix series 😮what is it called. I would like to see it

@morticiagomez6166 Год назад

@@yohannaramirez8320 You didn’t know? All the attention seekers and their Mothers are on Netflix today ! Everybody wants to be a victim! Everybody wants to cash in on it too!

@paulinemegson8519 Год назад

@@morticiagomez6166 please stop. We GET that you’re an apologist for the behaviour of ultra orthodoxy. You can quit trying to poison every comment on this video now.

@RaluMariaRa Год назад

U know when new seasson come ?cant wait for it

@emmalouie1663 10 месяцев назад

Holy hell, women have been dealing with this stuff for FOREVER!

@nicoleorton5299 Год назад

That was a wonderful interview! You both have adorable personalities. Thank you both so much. Brazen, I can’t wait.

@antoniajane5442 Год назад

The book came out last year.

@empzdz1550 Год назад

Thank you so much for being so brave for bringing this story. I truly appreciate learning from both of you! Thank you!

@laurengarcia1023 Год назад

What a great interview! It's so wonderful that you were really able to discuss so many things in depth. I have a lot of extended family who are pretty extreme Christians, and there were many similarities to Julia's story. My cousin sewed a dress for her math exam at 16, and she's now 32 with seven kids. She married at 19 and never really had a choice about it. She's now raising her daughters the same way. Happiness is not important or even considered selfish. You should be happy with serving God and your husband because they always have to have a headship as a woman. They don't associate with anyone outside of their extreme ideas of Christianity unless it's a superficial conversation to try and convert you, but the pity that Julia talked about in her group towards non-religious Jews, I knew exactly what she was talking about just in a very different context. The beliefs are different, but the tactics are the same. It's so important to show the problems of fundamentalist groups. There are many beautiful and fulfilling ways to be Jewish, Christian, Muslim, Atheist etc. But religions or ethical systems can also be implemented in really harmful ways too, and it's important to talk about it because the people inside don't even know what choices and ways of thinking that are being taken away from them.

@shainanash8518 Год назад

yikes.

@BlackStump172 Год назад

Well said and I agree . What is missing from these groups is love for others and who or what they are !

@michellelansky4490 Год назад

The only difference is that all she spews are lies. If it wouldn't be so sad it would be humorous. Anything and everything she speaks of is inaccurate. Just by looking at so many other Jewish women its obvious. Like her lies are not even personal truths. Theyre rewritten history.

@morticiagomez6166 Год назад

There’s No shame in being good at sewing?? And some people want large families and enjoy that!! Who are You to Judge? Did you Ask your cousin and did she confide in you that she regretted making any of those life decisions? HOWCOME you’re still acquainted with her even after you left her religion? If she’s in a Cult, you wouldn’t have been able to see her again. Are you yourself married with kids? What’s the story with your life?

@morticiagomez6166 Год назад

@@michellelansky4490 I think she was in the ultra orthodox sect ? Not just a typical Jewish family? Andrew Gold likes to find all these people from random cult groups that are in minority, and get his audience to generalise to the greater religious groups. As this OP is hinting at? He’s an Atheist and his Hate for anything related to YHWH shows. He purposefully doesn’t talk about the Dangers of Militant Atheism.

@r.ferguson486 Год назад

That you manage to interview such amazing people is testament to the quality of your channel. I'm completely enthralled by this amazing woman. Congratulations on surpassing 100K subscribers; an achievement well deserved.

@shainanash8518 Год назад

yes. yes. yes.

@krisirolfe4332 Год назад

Great show!!!❤

@zacharysmama1996 Год назад

Andrew, this was a wonderful interview. And Julia, how could you ever be quiet and subservient? You are such a delight. I'm off to buy the book and find the Netflix show. Your smile and laugh is infectious ❤️

@tiffprendergast Год назад

That’s how men want women to be

@okkietrooy6841 Год назад

I have watched now about 3-5 video's. All your guests in these video's were amazing and extremely strong. And you are the perfect interviewer for this kind of conversations. I am just wondering how many people have fallen through the cracks when they tried to get out or the people who want to get out but for some reason couldn't. So many suffering and so many wasted and destroyed lives.

@yossi8911 Год назад

I grew up orthodox, left, but now I wanna get back in but to a more normative balanced healthier version of it ( orthodoxy is not a monolith). Julia’s testimony inoculates me to the extremism and fanatic aspects of it of it !

@claudiaabadi3014 Месяц назад

Julia's reaction after leaving is extreme, too. Autonomy depends on the relationship within the family, not on Juduism rules. My parents were modern orthodox. My father worshiped the ground my mother walked on. What a beautiful relationship. I was educated, including going to the university, and nobody chose my husband.Julia has a new religion. It is very modern and is called me.

@raychul33 Год назад

Looking forward to this one. Won’t catch the live but will watch later 😊

@MK-Hogan Год назад

Wow. This woman looks so much like my aunt (American, Irish-Catholic). She even sounds like her and has similar mannerisms. It makes it even more fascinating, imagining my aunt being brought up in a super insulated, oppressive community instead of being the independent person she is with the whole world open to her. It somehow really drives the point home even harder. Great interview.

@ycaceres3357 Год назад

A dark skinned IrishCatholic …?

@DrJudyASmith Год назад

@@ycaceres3357 Have you heard of the “black Irish”? 😉 Ok, I think that’s a myth, but Romans settled in Ireland, and there was some Spanish “immigration” (perhaps from shipwrecks)…enough to make the Irish not all look like Vikings!

@teresaestevezalvarez664 11 месяцев назад

Well it seems that the Celts of northwest Spain travelled and settled in Ireland and Scotland Look into the migration across Europe over the centuries, is fascinating

@brookebyers1114 Год назад

You are putting out quality content. I've been enjoying watching it. Decided to subscribe today 😊

@anncarroll2204 Год назад

This lady is just incredibly erudite. A joy to listen to. I could listen to her speak for hours. So informative.

@h0rriphic Год назад

Lol someone gave Ann a thesaurus for her birthday 💀

@anncarroll2204 Год назад

I used to be a teacher lol

@lauramarles8445 Год назад

Yes! Amazing interview. I really appreciated her insight. Bless you both!!!❤❤

@kirstyleemurray6638 Год назад

Looking forward to this 😊 Doubt I'll make the live though. 7 is when we start the bed time routine xx

@lucyburr5516 Год назад

When Ms. Haart began talking about her previous life being in the 17th or 18th century, I thought for a second she was talking about reincarnation! Her story is so fascinating. She is an intelligent, well spoken, strong and beautiful woman. Thanks for having this fine lady on your program, Andrew.

@5p674 Год назад

I don't understand why she would think it would be any different. Ancient beliefs are hard to change, especially where not everyone wants change. She has done the right thing for herself but not for everyone.

@sciencewins8798 Год назад

An incredible interview. Thank you for it!!!

@sharonjoubert7413 Год назад

Thank you Andrew I'm sorry I couldn't make the live as it is a but late here in South Africa bed time I will watch in the morning. 🤗🤗

@rigelb9025 Год назад

That woman is pure dynamite. And as a man, I feel ashamed about that prayer she mentioned in the beginning.

@erinz8407 Год назад

Andrew, this was fantastic! I LOVED this video. It was incredibly inspiring, thoughtful, funny and illuminating. I really enjoyed your engagement and questions. Thanks so much ❤ By the way - off on a tangent here but… I’m a huge fan of L.A. not so confidential and they plug your channel like mad! Any chance you’d be able to do an interview with Dr. Scott and Dr. Shiloh? Continued success to you and your channel! ❤

@senulistunde4657 Год назад

Julia I just love you! U are a sooo genuine Jewish woman! I working in hasidic Jewish community! I'm a gentile, I understand so much about what you talking about! God bless you! Congratulations for your.self confidence and integrity!!!

@HaFannyHa Год назад

Oh, do I relate to this! When I reached my late teens, my grandmother expected me to go from knowing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about Sex to breeding, overnight. I was expected to 'get a Jewish man' and breed her a great-grandchild. It meant nothing to her that - due to illness I was born with and lifesaving operations I had to go through - I was infertile and would never be able to breed AT ALL. No. That wasn't important. She actually said to me, 'If you get with a Jewish man, then you'll get pregnant.' She hated the fact that my parents encouraged my independence, sending me up to college in London, far away from home. I was going to be in contact with lots of gentiles and learning stuff..... She ruined being Jewish for me. All the patriarchal pressure came from HER. I grew to hate her, and even hate being Jewish. I've had to unpack so much misery from my past. My best revenge is to live my life. Julia's a strong, articulate and brilliant woman!!!!

@geraldinetoltschin7776 Год назад

Thanks so much for interviewing this woman. Her message is so powerful. We must all send her courage and strength.

@georgiaamanatides4207 Год назад

Excellent interviewee! She communicates well, very eloquent and touches her audience. Bravo!

@ThomasGabrielsen Год назад

I am filled with reverence when I hear such eloquent and intelligent people as Julia Haart speak. A very good interview, Andrew.

@racheltovahberi8093 Год назад

im so sad for Julia that she had such a terrible experience. I grew up in Bais Yaakov schools for both elementary and high school and not only did they encourage a college education, they also taught classes to help prepare us for college as well as having AP courses. Our school pushed for us to go to college and those of us that chose to not go to college for whatever reason were looked at funny 😅 I chose to date and married who I wanted, who I loved and felt that we have the same interests for our futures. Until this day we lead orthodox lives and its beautiful💖

@JNNK-fs7bs Год назад

That's because Julia is making up a story to a large extent. You were encouraged to go to college right? Was your brother? Or was he told he must study Gemara every second of his life. She is portraying this as a gender thing, but she has it backwards. The boys have a worse life than the girls.

@marthaackerman1952 Год назад

It isn’t true my daughter went you Bais Yaakov and the principal of the school the Rabbi was totally furious when my daughter encouraged by me went to collage

@laurieberry162 11 месяцев назад

I met an African American in college. We got along well. He didn’t dress like a Jewish man or act like one, but he talked to Jewish people. My friend said that she would only date him if he was Jewish. I noticed the a lot of people were prejudiced against my nice friend. And that’s sad. Why do I have to marry a Jewish man? I never dated a Jewish man after I lost touch with the nice African people man. I wonder what would happen if he was reading this and understood that I liked him.

@oliviaiakoubovski3199 11 месяцев назад

As long as you want to be Speech Therapist or Occupational Therapist. Lol

@boop79 10 месяцев назад

Is it though lol

@doyle6000 Год назад

What an amazing and eloquent woman! I will order her book now. It's amazing that she seems so well-rounded despite her experience. I'm quite new to your channel by the way, but I'm really enjoying it, so will be watching more!

@AndrewGold1 Год назад

thank you so much doyle, very nice of you!

@traceyseymour2652 Год назад

Andrew, thank you for another wonderful interview. You are very brave and you are thanked for that ❤

@EM-ub3hn Год назад

Another great interview!!! Thank you Andrew!!!!

@AndrewGold1 Год назад

Thanks for listening

@eileengrant5366 Год назад

I watched the Netflix series & loved it. What a phenomenal woman she is. I really want to read her book now. I was wondering how her youngest son was doing now, as in the series he appeared to be drifting away from her & becoming immersed in his religion.

@itsacarolbthing5221 Год назад

I so admire this lady! Thank you for interviewing her.

@nicolewade160 Год назад

Thank you for this interview! She is so amazing & so r your interview skills, I've become a new subscriber!!!🎉

@antonettediamantis5716 Год назад

Congratulations to you Andrew and your partner for cracking the hundred thousand mark.🎉🎉🎉🎉Well deserved for your efforts. I enjoy your channel and topics, I will continue to support you two.

@interspeciesfamily8043 Год назад

Julia is looking SO much healthier than her last show. Truly chuffed for her. Oh, just a mention, the few episodes I did see of "the kaardashaaans", 😆, couldn't compare where it comes to Julia's story. No comparison. Such a lovely interview.

@CraftCollector Год назад

I was going to say the same thing. I am so glad she looks healthier than season 2. This was a great interview.

@morticiagomez6166 Год назад

And yet, the Kardashians grew up in the Free world where Anything goes…. Where do you think this Woman Julia gets her values and her strength of character from? It’s from her upbringing. No matter how much she rebels against it. I’ll bet she’s not the type that will push her young child to transition .

@morticiagomez6166 Год назад

Interspecies Family? 😅😅 really? I’m assuming you’re meaning your Pets?

@interspeciesfamily8043 Год назад

@@morticiagomez6166 I grew up in a free world also, though even in the Free World there are consequences. "Free", does not necessarily mean reckless or irresponsible. Ehem! I didn't do too awfully myself. To your last sentence, indeed one should hope no child is "pushed", to anything, much less anything irresponsible.

@morticiagomez6166 Год назад

@@interspeciesfamily8043 Many western girls that have had access to education and opportunities in the West have simply resorted to making “easy money” by turning to one of the oldest professions known to the PatriarchY: S E X work, in the form of Po rn videos, Only Fans accounts or posting provocative bikini pics of themselves for clout and attention, which brings in the money…, How, as Women , have we progressed exactly? This doesn’t look like progress to me? This looks like Hoe behavior being encouraged in society! Do you agree that society should throw out Christian values all together?

@joward481 Год назад

Awww I loved this 👏. Brilliant & strong lady ❤. The Royal story really made me giggle bless her 😅.

@beherenow5466 Год назад

Great interview!!❤❤

@sngray11 Год назад

Andrew, you are such an excelsior interviewer! 💗 And thank you for having Julia on to discuss so many aspects of her life’s experiences.

@dianallamas7135 Год назад

If I could have a brief moment with Julia Haart, it would be incredible. She truly is an inspiration and especially starting her life at 42???? We all have that in us. Go Ms. Haart❤❤❤ I truly feel that she is a genuine person only wanting better for her people.

@art-broken Год назад

What a lovely person this person is. Sorry to hear she lost her family. But she found herself and a real lot of people fascinated by her wonderful personality. I wish her only all the best in her life, and a community able to love her as she deeply deserves to.

@AndrewGold1 Год назад

Well said

@susanengel-ix8bl Год назад

That line when she woke in the morning? My eyes just shot open!! The prayer she said, then the prayer a man said, I don't know, it just got to me!! Personally, I think Jesus would just want us to b happy!!🌼🌼🌼

@Tm-gg2mz Год назад

Her story about the blessings lacks context. The meaning behind the blessing, which is taught in kindergarten when the blessings are introduced, are not about men being better. Women are held with extremely high regard in judiasm and are considered to be more naturally spiritual and connected to God. Both men and women are unique and special and deserve respect. There is no gender that is better in judiasm but any man who grows up in a healthy Orthodox Jewish home will be taught to give his wife absolute respect and love. Marriage is about working together and their is no one person who is more important. Judiasm actually shows unusual sensitivity and respect towards women for those (unlike Julia) who actually bother to listen to and learn about Judiasm.

@nechamascher7199 Год назад

How do you see here a beautiful personality? I see contempt, lies and a full rant against her very own people..... Very fascinating and so heart-warming.... totally friend material. Are you serious?

@emilyflotilla931 Год назад

We can all create "logical" families if our biological families don't meet our needs or if we don't meet them.

@heatherwhittaker6169 Год назад

Wonderful interview with a wonderful woman..thank you Andrew xx

@peachespavalko1980 Год назад

🙋‍♀️Hey, y’all . Looking forward to watching this later; have saved in watch list. Hope everyone within earshot is well & happy in the meantime. 🖖

@lidiacazam Год назад

When she talked about education, I couldn’t help thinking of this cheeky, sarcastic description of “a real, honest, old-fashioned Boarding-school, where a reasonable quantity of accomplishments were sold at a reasonable price, and where girls might be sent to be out of the way, and scramble themselves into a little education, without any danger of coming back prodigies.” This was Jane Austen taking no prisoners in Emma, so yeah, Julia really was living centuries away.

@ac1646 Год назад

Brilliant. I must read Emma again!

@michellelansky4490 Год назад

But what is she talking about. Id say most of the women she grew up with are mostly professionals except for those who chose to be stay at home moms. In any given Jewish family typically one sister would be an SLP, one a CPA, one a PA, one a real estate broker and one an LCSW. Then you have you actuaries, lawyers, private entrepreneurs, PTs, OTs, just to give a typical description. The info shes providing is not convoluted truth but bald face drop your chin to your chest lies.....just a drop of research (i dont even mean RESEARCH, I just mean like 'asking around' and its obvious). Like she just makes this stuff up. Seems to me she felt she was personally a loser her entire life and decided to project it on other people. The fact that all you people commenting dont see through how absolutely NUTS she is is coo-koo, coo-koo.

@morticiagomez6166 Год назад

And yet, Jane Austen was writing whole novels in her time, as were many of her contemporaries… Modern and “free” Women today who have education at their disposal are throwing it away and opting to become Instagram models, tik tok influencers and Only Fans girls. Not to mention the po rn industry? I think that both Jane and yourself have overestimated the Female species somewhat?

@user-qp6rw4yw9i Год назад

@@michellelansky4490really?

@yasminbarry7941 Год назад

@@michellelansky4490: She doesn't sound like a liar at all. But you come across as bitter and angry.

@kellymabel3576 Год назад

I will say that I graduated high school over a decade ago and most of the girls at my Bais Yaakov high school went to college and many at prestigious ones but the ones on the East Coast of the US are more extreme

@chayukykenig3055 Год назад

I went to Beis Yaakov in Israel and most of the girls did not go to college

@kellymabel3576 Год назад

@@chayukykenig3055 Israel and the east coast of the US are definitely more extreme. We were still pressured to go to seminary before college though and my sister wanted to go straight to an orthodox jewish college and not seminary and they tried to withhold her transcripts. Eventually she got them and now is a partner at a top global consulting firm, but they do not make it easy for us and Id consider my bais yaakov more on the modern side

@enjaeostberg3071 Год назад

Andrew, this was a brilliant interview!!!! For years I used to end my conversations with my mother, either in person, or by telephone, with "I love you." Desperately hoping she would return that sentiment. She never did. And then I realized, as Julia did, that her mother, my Bubbe of blessed memory, was not a very warm, nor demonstrative person at all. So, I totally understand how Julia described this!

@lorcashine Год назад

I really admire Ms. Haart. How nice to see her speaking in this capacity, rather then on her show. She is one tough woman. Few people would have the smarts and wherewithal to get out of that world. She's also an engaging story teller. I must get the book. Thanks for having such a great guest Andrew!

@michellelansky4490 Год назад

Which world?

@pamelaclark6694 Год назад

@@michellelansky4490 ??????? Huh

@michellelansky4490 Год назад

@@pamelaclark6694 some one said 'that world'....i was wondering which world bec re Julia Haart only a drop of out of social media research would result in the obvious conclusion that its her imaginary world.

@jana731 Год назад

Everyone of your interviews show what an amazing interviewer you are!

@hindmahiout Год назад

YOU ARE JUST FANTASTIC ! You deserve all the respect in the world. Your struggle is universal and will bring strength to all the women of all religions.

@morticiag Год назад

What about the women in Militant Atheist countries like China and North Korea? Should we just ignore them and their plight? What about young Atheist girls in the USA who have become Booty Fodder for MEN all around the world to lust over on po rn hub or Only Fans? Shouldn't we care about them ?

@StellaFl Год назад

Another wonderful interview, thank you, Andrew 💙🤍💙

@AndrewGold1 Год назад

thank you stella!

@vroodamakhan1895 Год назад

Andrew you’re amazing. It’s the first time I’m watching this interview. Julia Haart is so awesome. I watched Julia on Netflix. Sending love from South Africa 🇿🇦

@kateri7945 Год назад

I really enjoyed Julia’s openness and what to learn more about her journey. Hopefully, she has got an invitation to the coronation!

@sharonleiter2533 Год назад

Wow , thank you for sharing Julia's story .

@traceygoodman6203 Год назад

Julia is fabulous and so are YOU. I’ve ordered Brazen (arriving today) I’ve already seen the show. How. she survived so much trauma God only knows 🤩✡️🕎💟💯🙌💐👏🏻🙏 Brightest blessings to you 🌱💚🇬🇧

@DoraSometimes 10 месяцев назад

What a magnificent woman! You're so brilliant, Andrew, in choosing people you want to interview. You and your channel are my absolute favourite.

@desireboudoirphotography Год назад

This is so good!!!!

@estelachaira2129 Год назад

I love Julia❤❤ Binge watch her Netflix show and I have so many respect for her Her story is heartbreaking but she is so brave !!!! Thanks Andrew ❤

@loveit7484 Год назад

What an amazing interview!

@jenniraanaes2531 Год назад

What an amazing and inspirational woman!!! I'm completely mesmerized 🫶 And Andrew Gold, what a great job you did with the interview! With such an dynamic and powerful woman! Absolutely amazing 🌸 I rely want to catch up on her Netflix series 🥰

@shainanash8518 Год назад

me too

@CazHbokbok Год назад

Her Netflix series is pure candy. Best show ever.

@bethcares17anonymous38 Год назад

Great interview!

@wendyfay16 Год назад

This reminds me of the movie 'Yentle' with Barbara Streisand! The only difference is that 40 years have passed, and this is STILL happening! Thank goodness for this wonderful, brave, and highly intelligent woman! It's heartbreaking to know that this is still happening around the world ... Unfortunately, this is also happening in many Muslim, Hindi, and Sheik communities. Wherever there is fundamentalism ... in any religion, it seems to me that it's the women who suffer from all of their constricting rules. THREE CHEERS for this brave lady! 🎉 🎉 .... and thank you for interviewing her so that a spotlight can be shone on this behaviour! Perhaps it's time for ALL of the governments around the world that are funding these schools to delve into what's actually happening in those schools, and cut their funding!! Money talks!

@fific9571 Год назад

Andrew, thank you for this wonderful interview with Julia Haart. Loved it so much I've just bought her book. What a strong and thoughtful role model for all people. Leaving your family and all that you have known takes strength of the soul and heart. I love your interview style, Andrew. Bless you.

@susannauchitel682 Год назад

No one forced her family to be part of that community. As a secular Jew, who spent many years in an orthodox community, I totally disagree with her. The people who CHOOSE this lifestyle, lead happy fulfilled lives. Her parents Chose this! If it’s Julia’s choice not no follow that pious lifestyle - that’s Her choice! That does not mean she brings down the whole community. I’m ashamed that she has done this. You want out - get out, but don’t bring shame and antisemitism upon your own. Many of my observant female friends are high achievers, extremely clever, work professional jobs all while running big households. I’m proud of THAT!

@atlramona Год назад

@@susannauchitel682 She didn’t lead an orthodox life but an ultra orthodox life in which she was grossly undereducated. Perhaps listen to the podcast.

@susannauchitel682 Год назад

@@atlramona I'm well aware of the differences as I have exposure to both. Again, her parents made a choice to make this massive change, from being comletely agnostic in Soviet Union to a ultra-religious lifestyle. She wasn't born into this lifestyle either. She could have left the comminity and moved on with her non religious lifestyle. She does not need to drag the community through this mud causing more hatred towards a minority

@atlramona Год назад

@@susannauchitel682 I’m guessing that you didn’t watch this video. You claim her education yet, Bais Yaakov and her parents embarrassment of their own education was part of her formative years. Lack of standard education is a significant key to be able to leave and perhaps a purposeful reason as to why inferior education is offered so that leaving is near impossible. The Amish do the same.

@user-qp6rw4yw9i Год назад

@@susannauchitel682so, she got out and her own family is shunning her is normal for you? No religion should put their made up God over their flesh and blood. My brother left, and I didn't speak to my brother for over 10 years because I wanted to be loyal to God and not associate with lost souls. I wish I had left sooner. Life is short and its frustrating to waste it on ideas that break people. Marrying a rapist might be out of good itensions but it breaks a person. So, freedom is more important than submission. If people didn't fight this nonsense, your friends wouldn't have an opportunity to thrive, they would stay married no matter what because there would be no other choice.

@reverendbarker650 Год назад

The ability of some people to move from one form of zealotry to another that is diametrically opposed never ceases to amaze me .

@marshazeldin2350 Год назад

Although I became modern Orthodox at 16 I left the fold about 20 years (13 years of marriage and 4 kids later). I didn’t get married until 23 and that was kinda old lol. I fully identify with how and why she left. Fortunately my family eventually accepted my non Jewish husband. I love her show and feel seen through her experiences

@racheljanashvili8069 10 месяцев назад

One of the Mitzva is literally to be happy and fullfill Mitzvos in Happiness. So frustrating how certain people teach and preach.

@iicordi1899 Год назад

Brilliant interview 👏

@heyokaempath5802 Год назад

She is lovely, and her story is heartbreaking. I understand her feelings and connect with the ultimatums given by family and religious community. Xx ❤

@deothang Год назад

Wow, Julia Haart....You are amazing,!...Congratulations on all you have been able to achieve.....A true Warrior! Here is hoping your sisters get hold of your book or someone in your old community.....Just amazing! A true star in my eyes....

@michellelansky4490 Год назад

But her info is made up of complete falsehood and lie.....shes a smooth operator and i have a gut feeling that most of her interviews and filming is done during 'manic' phase....seems to me she gives that possessed vibe so must be thats what drives her, combined with extreme self esteem problems growing up that cause her to project her inadequacies on others. Girls/women in Jewish schools are given potentially top notch educations (and esp the schools shes attending)......most families have multiple mid/high level professionals making up much of the family. I and most other Jewish women have NO idea of what she describes. Your jaw drops just listening to her make this stuff up. And when you compare to any public school system (okay maybe if you can afford 30k a year tuition you can get something better ....most people cant) CERTAINLY the education is multiple notches better (and we NEVER have to worry about crime, drugs, pregnancy, and weapons either.....enriches the learning environs if ya know what i mean).

@deothang Год назад

No one tells me I can't do things as usual just because I have a menstraul cycle!...END OF!!...Why do you not just live your own life!...why do you have to follow another guys rules? Do you have no sense to know what is right and wrong for yourself? Or are you too blind to see?

@michellelansky4490 Год назад

@@deothang not sure what you mean, but your answer sounds like the answer of a young adolescent. Everybody knows shes a lier and suffers from mental illness. People that i know that know her from years ago tell me that they sort of befriended her but also tried to keep ber at arms length bec she was unstable. Most of the world knows her TRUE story. Its only bec of the limelight she seeks shes able to manipulate people naive or ignorant enough to be sucked in.

@lilyarnaout7369 Год назад

This is one admirable lady! Certainly looking her up and getting her book(s).

@Fellarin495 Год назад

Thank you so much for this very interesting and informative video 👏👏👏

@ladymary22 Год назад

You may not have a perfect childhood but it should have happiness

@alg11297 Год назад

It's a good thing she "fighting" for change. Hope the show and the book, that no one in her community has seen, will affect some change

@faigyisraelvudka4997 Год назад

Lol what. I grew up with her family and went to school with her daughters. We ALL unfortunately have watched, read or heard parts of her completely false story. She has lied so much it's insane. I was in the same class as her daughter the amount of lies she spews are outstanding

@dianeblackwell9461 Год назад

Loved this content, will definitely buy the book

@elsjemassyn8921 Год назад

Loved this interview

@LisaB_US Год назад

Absolutely delightful lady. Eloquent and beautiful. She is a breathe of fresh air. Im glad she can educate and help others as much as she has. Loved her Rabbi story. ❤

@leeannep.7652 7 месяцев назад

Delightful, elegant ladies do not spread lies and slander.

@raychul33 Год назад

I have a lot of respect for Julia, it’s amazing that you got her on your show! Love this

@beachgirl6305 Год назад

I wouldn't have known not to be late for the cocktail party either! In the party lifestyle, you're at least a half hour late, if not more! I'd be embarrassed too, but it's not really her fault for not knowing things. When you're so secluded, how are you supposed to know?! Love her gf/bf story! Great interview! She's so strong to be able to leave everything she knows!

@margaretWestminster Год назад

Andrew, thank you for this excellent vidio

@elkegoldberg3876 Год назад

As a religious Jewish woman I find this woman offensive and I don’t know what she lived through, but the idea of a woman being unable to live alone is rubbish as are many of her allegations against our community

@sruli522 Год назад

Understatement💯

@barbeeska Год назад

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

@nessienessie8798 Год назад

Julia is amazing and so are you. Thank you so much for bringing us incredible people ❤

@teemarie5478 Год назад

I absolutely love the show, I really hope that they come out with a 2nd season. She is so darn likable

@antoniajane5442 Год назад

There is a 2nd series. It came out on Netflix at the end of last year.

@susanwest8239 Год назад

Dearest I know exactly what you're talking about. My sisters husband parents lived in Jerusalem.She told me things were terrible. I was listening to what she said. Tears were streaming down her face. I held her told her I love her, which I did. We sat until she calmed. We were in a different room than everyone else. My deal was. If someone tells you something in the family, keep my mouth shut. She knew me well and knew I belived that. To this very day I have never ever told anyone what she said. It will remain that way until I die. I am now 72. I look 69. I can feel the Lord in my heart, chest and soul. You are grand. Always remember that.