My Very First Time with a Guy 

This experience will be with you for the rest of your life. You're a good man, don't ever look down on yourself.

This is not a bad story at all. Maybe it's a little sad and a bit mysterious, but it sounds like a positive life experience. It's actually a very good story. Thank you for sharing.

Sexual first experiences aren’t always good, but you learn things. If I had a kid, I would try to help them feel more positive about being true to themselves; I think in many places, the world is more accepting now. Thanks for your story.

I was 10 when my 15yr old neighbor took advantage of me,I never said anything to anybody because deep down I liked him. He was the only blond kid in our neighborhood who hung out with us,he had long hair and was very cute. Sadly he died at 16 in a car accident.

Richie's ability to make (older) dudes fall in love/lust with and simp for him never ceases to amaze me. And A lot of these things could be plots in a coming of age BL drama series/movie. Right them down, add some "spice" and concoct the screen play.

Love your stories. You're so darned sincere.

WOW! Imagine purple shirt boy watching this video and saying to himself "HOLY HELL THAT WAS ME!!!"

My 1st was when I was 11. A scraggly boy named Ricky. I went back to California and found him in my boyhood city of Westminster and at age 50, Ricky was hot! Lifted weights his whole life. Living in his father's house he inherited. We spent four days together and hit all the Orange County gay bars. He is happy and I am happy! The adventure always continues!

First sexual experiences gay or straight rarely go that well. That's just part of life.

Awesome work Richie dont ever stop being great

Jeez that really sucks that your first experience was so negative. I think it's understandable to be uncomfortable as it sounds like the guy was pretty forceful with you, which isn't the experience you want in the moment you feel vulnerable and anxious with a first time. It almost sounds like a semi traumatic event which maybe why it keeps popping into your head. I've had some pretty unwanted experiences in my life as well and I think talking about them and receiving feedback from supportive people can help you have an idea of how to address your thoughts on them. All in all Richie you seem to be a very chill and sweet guy, so I'm glad that beginning experience hasn't pulled you into a darker space of mind. Take care.

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thank you for being honest! everyone’s first gay experience is different. once you do it and realize that is who you are, then coming out to yourself is the first step. side note, EVERYONE! NEVER use earphones/buds/muffs when walking or running…anyone can sneak up on you. you can’t hear sirens. you can’t hear bikes or skaters etc. i know it helps distract you from the monotony of what your doing but it is not worth the risk! in other news i hope your right with this manifestation thing…been conjuring up a decent guy to settle down with for some time! NADA! 🦩🏳️‍🌈

Another great story Richie keep them coming because you are good telling them!!!!!!👍👍👍

When I was 16 I was playing with a boy at the beach. We were catching tiny crabs and rough housing. When it became obvious he wanted to root, I just wasn’t ready to face that side of myself. The rest of the trip he just stared at my face like a puppy the whole time. I felt so sorry for him. He’s married to an Asian lady now and has kids.

shocked u didn't hook up with the boy who was involved. Cool dad was passed out during the night. We've all done crazy nights like this, no shame! Coming out is always fun.

What did the other guy do for you ?

be here now be still close eyes listen to your breathing rest in present awareness.

What a amazing story Richie. Yup 1st time encounters are always hard and you can't rewind it. Love this story babe keep up the good work 👍👍👌👌😘😘😘💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🌈🤠

You are not alone. Not everyone's first experience is perfect. I had a similar experience when I was 16 yo. I was way too young. I am sure you will find love!

I remember mine. I was like a year older than the guy and I meet him in university, he asked to sit next to me in calculus I said sure. Well about a month or two after that he liked me on a dating app and asked to hang out. We went to the park and talked the he kissed me, I was shocked. So I think he kinda got the hint but we talked more and I said I had to go so I left and went to Taco Bell and washed my mouth out with antibacterial hand soap. I felt so bad like I broke a promise to myself.

Hi Richie. I have had the same type of experience. Many years ago. I picked up a hitchhiker on the way home from a late night concert in Cleveland Ohio. He was from St Paul Minnesota. He was hitchhiking to Philadelphia.

It seems that a lot of what made this experience a negative one for you are the thoughts/fears you projected onto it at the time. You might be able to reevaluate the experience and eventually see it in a more positive light.

I am glad you needed to talk about it, but please elaborate, or be a bit more specific. Did you wind up 'blowing him', or 'owing him' because he did "x" for you? You felt disgusted and embarrassed, but did you feel ashamed, guilt, fear, used, taken advantage of, abused, appreciated, loved, delighted with the experience, or wish you could have done more? Who guided the direction, and which anatomical part do you recall? If he contacted you today, what would you tell him?

We have no role models to help us along the way. What to do, how to act and react. How to be with someone without sex as a primer. No warnings about raw sex and abuse. At 15, our straight friends have these things to help them. Someone to hold my hand - someone to kiss me - someone to tell me that they love me. It is difficult enough just avoiding haters to start with. No one to guide me.

He'll, I thought this was something bad. This is VERY NORMAL and nothing to be ashamed of

My Dad. My dog. My life. Sounds like a book title to me.😉

Just found your channel on RU-vid. It's really great to see a confident young man who is not afraid to be himself! You are a great example to others and I wish you everything good that life can give you. Rob in Cymru (Wales in the United Kingdom but Welsh is my first language, hence Cymru lol 😊)

dark hair, more tanned, short shorts, purple shirt. Wow I would have too!!!

Death relatives frowning on you. Ha ha you made my day! Thanks Rich!

Maybe you just don't like doing it in the bushes 😘. Looking forward to the next teen Richie story 🙃

Two thoughts: 1) The story about the frisbee reminds me of the movie "The Summer of Scott Noll." I remember the uncut version because of the sneakers (I have a CVO / slip-on sneaker fetish). I have just graduated from college, and it was one of the first videos I bought and brought back home. 2) My first time was during my first year of college (1974). I was 17, and he was a senior (~21). We lasted for about 12 weeks. He was "gay" only when his girlfriend wasn't around. I didn't know this about him till he kicked me to the curb, telling me to forget what happened; I didn't want to forget, as I loved the experience. I honored his wishes because I cared about him. He never wanted to switch. I liked his ass so badly..... Another time ...

I have been using "beautiful" to refer to boys, since I was 3 years old. My grandmother was an English professor, and she reminded me beautiful is used for women and girls. Men and boys are handsome. I felt boys were more beautiful than handsome. The experience is part of you. Don't forget it. His gaydar told him you were safe.

FIRST... A VERY CALM GUY USING "BORED"... HOW DIFFERENT THE FIRST RICHIE WAS FROM THE PRESENT ONE... CALMNESS WAS FELT AS AN ENEMY, AT THAT TIME... SECOND... THAT GUY YOU 'RE TALKING ABOUT WAS THE ONE WHO "OPENED THE DOOR"... MAYBE YOU WAS NOT DISGUSTED BY THE EXPERIENCE, BUT BY THE FEELING THAT THE FIRST RICHIE WAS IRREMEDIATELY, PERMANENTLY, CHANGED BY IT... THIRD... I THINK THAT IN A WAY WE ALL HAVE TO BE THANKFUL TO HIM... YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE DUE TO HIM TOO... FOURTH... MY LIKE IS AGAIN UPON YOU...

I'm 23 and College (Hochschule) and never had a positive experience with another male, nor with a female therefore I get where you are coming from. The only person I truly felt something was another guy, but he fell out of my life. So I got curious about my sexuality and dated toxic people wich was a mistake because I never felt good afterwards. All the gay people on campus think I'm weird (and maybe too straight for them) and don't want to talk to me.

My first time i was panicking he just said relax it'll hurt a bit but I'll get used to it and go in slowly. Yes it hurt but he was gentle with me. Been together now few years and never cheated with me .

My first time was beautiful and I love it

You got nothing to be ashamed of sometime first time makes you feel ashamed don't you sound like a really smart guy xc

That was a wonderful story. Thanks for sharing, your fabulous.❤

Thanks for sharing man

Early sexual experience are awkward. It's great that you can talk about it though.

Oh, that slimey layer of guilt! Oddly, I had that only with self grat. My first time was a glory hole that was a setup. It was partly arranged by a Christian friend. My straight high school buddies all knew about it when I got back in the car. Oh they razzed me. But, what great friends. I liked your story. Be yourself and love who you are!

Im 36 now, have 2 kids and recently come out (couldn't hide anymore) but still yet to have any experience with another male... Feel like a nervous virgin all over again lol.

I have got to say as a gay guy .why do lgbt people shy away from intimacy.first your that lucky to be intimate with a person of same gender .you get this chance very rarely in 21st century .don't shy away.

It is so sad that you can barely exist without a cellphone. No ideas what else you can do...

Not only gay, a queen.

this is what homophobia does to people kids

Funny story in the early 2000's I was in northeast North Carolina. Where mobile phones don't work at all. That was interesting. The most interesting middle of nowhere was a house on an island in New Hampshire. I spent time sleeping on the dock, chasing guppies, just having a good time. I miss that. But seeing all the stars is what bowls me over. And yeah first times tend to be the ones we block out.

Thank you.

Oh, you're a friend of Dorethy for sure.

Im still waiting for my first time

for two "guys" the same age having an encounter like that together, the proper term is "guy" or "teen". use "boy" if yall were in line with your Mom to sit in Santa's lap at the mall, and you believed it was legit. those are the proper terms to use. Your first instinct, and video title are correct, imo

Good story. Nice guy!

When you do not have cell phone service, what were those guys doing with their cell phone? 😝😝😝 You are just rolling flower around our ears 👂

Hi

Hearing your conversation about underage sex underscores the problems with adults having sex with underage kids. The trauma and life-long issues this presents should be on the mind of every single person who wants to engage with someone who is mentally and sexually immature. I experimented with a teen when I was a teen as well. It’s awkward, and causes an eruption of emotions teens are not equipped to deal with.

You remember that d though. 🤣😋

Interesting story

You are so sweet. I wish you were mine to defend and protect. I would take care of you with all my heart.

Um don’t feel bad at all man! It’s not a traumatic experience tbh. It’s just sexually positive.

15 and 25? No. So sorry luv. My first time wasn’t fun either

I started it bicycle age I pedaled all over the neighborhood to hook up with various different guys. And I'm sure glad I did I'm glad I was active as I could be because I got to enjoy 1977 to 1985 without fear or worry

I'm like what is the outer banks?

this gonna be me too

It's a wonderful experience in my book.😋

great stories and all your experience. gingers are so hot. Scout Boys is so hot!

Tu es trop mignon. Tu as de beaux yeux.

Sounds like you’re having PTSD and you were assaulted. You went along with it as a survival instinct and you would have preferred it didn’t happen with a stranger.

Hi Richie how are you buddy. I'll be your videos on youtubes. I love you buddy. From mark remillard.👍🥰

So you're gay. That's fine. there is nothing to be ashamed about.

Sounds like you met a member of the Fey folk.

Nice story ❤️💋 looking good

What year did this take place?

Your an amazingly handsome man. You'll eventually find the one your looking for. Don't sweat it sexy.

I can’t be the only one who thinks this story is made up. Or it’s been somewhat “embellished” 🤔, at least

Ahhh, with a good wig, and some serious pearls, you could be ELIZABETH TUDOR! hehhe, kisses

I can understand you still and its your design .are you 100%gay ? Let your self discover new things 😊

Richie You Are Ace

I love your stories I wish to chat w you. You are a good person seen . How could i chat w you man?

First time was good

GAWD I LOVE GUYS!😊😊😊😊😊

I hope that you wasn't high or drunk sweetie awww but it's cool 😎😊

Now look how far you have come! You are blowing guys for a living with reckless abandon. Funny how manifesting things work out, Richie!

who freaking cares dude

You blew him and then regretted it because of god/religion? Sounds like another case of religion being negative.

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I like your nose

A lot of thisty 🐕

You are so sweet

♥

Spit or..

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I tried to forget too but I could not why I love it and and never look back since

Ugh, gay...

Sweet!😊

Just wanna say how boring your story was 🥱 I wanted to switch after hearing you drone on for 4 minutes have actually said nothing.

I wish I could be with my crush he’s a year younger than me and he’s extremely sweet and hot but unfortunately my crush doesn’t have the same feelings we went to the same school I have his number but unfortunately he has girlfriend.🫤 I kinda of met him but also didn’t he unfortunately is straight and when I was in the hospital getting surgery his whole family came down to the hospital and visited me and I was like hi thanks for coming usually I’m not in a hospital bed he said oh I figured. So yah

What you describe with your memory on this sounds like disassociation possibly. It's one way the mind protects its self from trauma. Thank you for shareing, hope making this made you mabe feel better about it!

Beautiful, normal gay adolescent mixed emotions , i can so relate ,digging deep into how we grow and learn to be well adjusted mature gay men , thank you

I just adore your vids. keep them coming. sending love.