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I really enjoyed hearing your wife laughing. I felt it was heartfelt ❤. As for all the comments, they look at the tree but miss the forest. 😊 Keep up the good work. 🎉
I love the fact that you talk slower than most youtubers, it´s such a relief! Most youtubers stress me out with their fast talking, lots of cuts in the video, music in the background and so on....
I can't even imagine why people on the internet need to tear down others, I think you are setting such a great example. You keep inspiring all us, we are here for it!
Really, if I don't like a video, I move on to the next one. If I really want to make a statement, I push the thumbs down. I don't understand why people waste so much energy being negative. I mean life is so much more enjoyable if you focus on the good and beautiful
@@TheEllaTB constructive critique is helpful. Like if somebody mentiones that every time he wears a striped shirt the picture jitters, the person in front of the camera can chose another outfit. Imagine you make amazing content and people don't consume it, because the jittering goes so much on their nerve and nobody tells you. I stopped going to my physics lessons because the room had echos. It gave me a headache. The professor was great, the topic was great, but the room sucked so much that I prefered to stay absent. Making a critique about stuff that can be easily changed can be very helpful. But I guess, it is an American thing. We Germans like to give and receive critique.
I totally agree: the calm voice is nice! It's nice to relax to. Also, it helps those people who are learning English as a second language. I know of listeners who prefer fast talkers. Instead of telling the RU-vid video maker to speak faster, those listeners just go into the controls and change the video to run at a faster speed.
On “speaking slow”, I appreciate this because I can share with my dad who is learning to speak English, and he really likes that you speak with enough pause that he can learn and understand. So, thanks for that.
He has the typical way of talking like some priests have. If you speak more slow, make longer breaks, it sounds more meaningful. I mean, the only tool a priest has is his voice. It must be trained and it has to sound wise and beyond. A priest has to convince his followers just with his voice that in the end everything will be fine without having any proof. Usually you need training for it and when you believe in what you say, you will be more convincing, too. They are the ones who talk about love and giving, and being nice, etc. And then there is the other kind of priest who always talks as if somebody just destroyed his 2000 piece of puzzle he had nearly solved. They talk about sin and judgement and annihilation. In my opinion the last mentioned are usually the ones who don't believe in God but use the faith of other people to gain money, status and power. I'm glad the priest in my youth was of the first sort.
I just found the channel yesterday - or maybe the day before, but I'm working hard to clean the clutter out of my house so I need all the help I can get. It's hard work :( I'm sure I won't achieve minimalism but if I can find halfway there I'll be doing good!
When someone says, “I wish that you made more videos”, that seems to be a compliment, rather than any type of insult. The viewer obviously enjoys your videos! 😊
The same for me. I am from Romania, I know English well but it s more helpful the way you talk. I undersatand better and it gives me calm, balance and peace.
English is my second language, I like when people speak clearly, thanks! I have perfect graded grey hair from front to back lol. When people comment anything on my hair color, I say: at least I have hair. Thick Hair!
Speaking clearly and slowly is what has drawn me in to your message of minimalism. Love your channel; thanks for making decluttering so achievable. Looking forward to all the videos to come.
This really made me laugh, so funny how judgmental people can be! Glad you took it all in good humour. Kim is so nice too, I loved her comments, please have her in more videos (this isn't a complaint ha ha).
It’s so unfortunate that people feel the need to criticize and pass judgment, but it speaks volumes about them. I am grateful for your channel and I look forward to your posting notifications. My husband and I are currently reading ‘The More of Less’ which we are thoroughly enjoying and discussing. We are slowly beginning our journey into Minimalist living. I appreciate that your videos are so informative, actionable and very motivating. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences in your own journey.
You guys are adorable! Love Kim’s minimalist comments & responses as well as your wonderful heart attitude about the wonkiness of humans. Thanks for all you do and share!
So glad he is taking these lightly! As I would be so sad if he did not have these videos anymore. I love them! They are simple, well made, to the point, and kind. He is always kind in the videos.
You have great eye contact and you are very sincere and motivating! People talking about your hair are jealous! Anyone that speaks about Christianity or Christ is criticized by the world! I love your content! Sweet to see your wife supporting you. Keep up the good work!!
I love that you called people out on this video. These comments are hilarious and ridiculous. I think the people who call you creepy might be uncomfortable with the simplicity of constant eye contact and focus. Personally, I like how it feels like you're talking to me directly. It's refreshing. Your messages are always clear and inspirational. Thank you!
I once saw a guideline for a good zoom-call and they said if you sit to near in front of your camera some people consider this creepy, because it gives you the feeling that the virtual person is invading your personal space. Since different people have different big zones of personal space, people can see this different. I don't care, but I even don't care if a stranger sits next to me in an otherwise empty bus.
Here is my critique: you and your message changed my life! Keep doing what you’re doing because you are really influencing many of us out here in a very positive way.
I look forward to your vids every Friday (despite the creepiness, crazy hair and slow talk 😂). Peeps on social media are ruthless and heartless. You are just FINE! 👍
Yup, "lit" means it is on fire ... And with "lit" being only a 3-letter word, it is perfect for minimalism ... minimalistic word ... 3 letters .... ha ha.
I have ADHD and my brain goes a million miles a minute. Listening to you is a welcomed change from the fast pace, loud, cluttered environment I often am in. You help me calm down and focus while decluttering, which is already anxiety provoking! Keep speaking calm, it helps with the retention!
A very good friend of mine says people who make negative comments about others is jealous. I find that to be true. You're living a wonderful life. Good for you!
I’ve learned so much from your videos and your style of speaking and calm demeanor makes it easy to understand. I always feel better about myself and my efforts to self improve after listening to what I call your “ life lessons”. And all those comments about your hair...I’m betting these are people who already are thinning and have receding hairlines . Jealousy is an ugly animal. Keep up the good work . Your videos are inspiring.
I saw you on another channel and I was surprised how funny you were! You have a great, subtle sense of humor with a little mischievous look at times. That's a great quality and I don't see it as much on your channel. You seem more serious. This video was also funny! Let your sense of humor and smile come through. One other thing I like is you promote minimalism not just for the sake of having a self-focused life! But for helping others. Thismissing from other blogs. love your channel and have learned a lot from you and other minimalists.
So great seeing Kim! I also don’t know how people can think negatively towards minimalism or your family. Also these comments had me dying of laughter.
I love your calm, slow speed of delivery. You're an amazing mentor. I discovered you recently and you've been a blessing to me. Love and blessings from Spain.
I love the way you speak and deliver your content - it is calming and reassuring. Other faster speakers make me feel to rushed and stressed - so thank you and please don’t change.
Coming soon from Joshua Becker: "De-creepifying life, living less hairy on the sides". Haha, just shake it off. I love your videos! They are concise and straight to the point.
Believe or not, yesterday morning I watched a video of you and I literally thanked you in my heart for speaking slowly!!!!!! For my English is my second language and your vocabulary and accent are clear, simple and fantastic. By the way, First time I saw you, I shared your video with my husband, who in return forwarded it to family and friends. Your doing a good job. Of course I don’t agree with you on certain points, but still I find what you do is helpful. My (Salam) to your beautiful Kim As for the negative comments, it would change a lot if someone writes his/ her name before writing a negative comment and then read it out loud and see what he or she would feel like.
Please don’t increase your “speaking speed”, it’s so nice to listen to someone speak clearly, rather than rushing through, I am SO glad I found your channel. I am on a new journey. 👍🏻
I am laughing so much ( hair comments). I think your delivery is good. As a former pastor, you have a certain tone and vibe. A vibe that is lit ( lol). Keep up the good work!!! I purchased The More of Less.
"Lit" means, it's cool. My 2 kids use this word all the time. Ignore the negative comments. Those people must be very unhappy with their own life, if they enjoy being mean to someone else!!!!
As for talking slowly and your tone and delivery...what I love about your videos is the echo in your home! What a benchmark 👍🏼☺️. I also feel that your thoughts are so clear and your communication as well - because you are focussing on the important message and not being distracted by what is not important. And gosh, I think this actually is what its all about. You are a born communicator, hair and all.
I personally think social media has made people ruder in general. I think they just feel bold enough to say horrible things behind a computer screen as opposed to face to face
You know the negative comments of people only reflect what’s inside of them or how they feel. Some people need to tear others down, to make themselves feel good especially when they see others succeed. Your tone is very soothing and not boring at all. Yes, you speak slower than most of those crazy people on RU-vid that think they can act, but yours is the right speed. Keep up the great job you’re doing! 👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍👍 I’m glad you’re calling this people out in public!🙌
😂 so funny! I always thought that your delivery and speed of talking are a welcome change. I love how non-arrogant you are. I can hear grace in all your vids. ❤
I love your videos, the message is always clear, the content is great, your tone is good and the clarity you provide is mature and serious but most people on RU-vid prefer animations and pop up information to keep the viewer engaged - it appears you're a true minimalist in that sense too - you put enough to sustain a decent count of subscribers. It's inspiring and I've happily forwarded your videos to my friends n family!
Wow! Well, at least you had fun with the negative comments. I enjoy your videos. I learn something with each one. I read your book and it was helpful. I have been decluttering for 5 years. I'm still at it. Being mindful of what comes into our home. I review drawers, closets, cupboards, etc because there is always something that can be let go.
Haha. So enjoyed your take on all the negativity! Our society thinks everyone cares what they think.....especially if it’s critical! Lots of unhappy people in this world....just keep being you! I find you very inspiring and my hubby AND I would love to have your hair!!!!😊
It is your slow paced delivery and ironically ( because in this one you do) no music videos that has made me into a subscribed follower who is changing my life at home for the better. THANK YOU! LOVE THAT DASH OF SILVER IN YOUR HAIR!
You know, this makes me feel better about the comments I get! 😆 The “not being judgmental” comments are the worst. I like the pace of your videos- I love your content.
OH MY LOL THESE MADE ME LAUGH HAHAHA. On a serious note, i binge watched your RU-vid and decluttered my entire home I feel like a weight has been lifted, and because I have more quality time I sit by the kitchen window and love to watch the wildlife in my garden. The free things in life REALLY ARE THE BEST! Thank you Josh, You changed my life in so many positive ways :)
The way you talk is a big reason why I like and share your videos with my family. Your advice is amazing and the slower and precise talk is just what I need and gives me a chance to reflect and remember the ideas for our own home. Very inspiring to me!
Love your channel, content, delivery, hair, humor! Keep it up! The encouragement many of us need to get rid of the attachment to the stuff and live a life that matters. Thanks!
I just discovered your videos today and have watched way more youtube in one day than probably my whole life put together. But I'm glad this one popped up, because this may be the best video I've ever watched. I have to say that the negative things people said are the exact reasons I've been immediately drawn to your work-so excited to find info that is to-the-point without useless fluff in-between. I also wish more people spoke this clearly and precisely. I feel like I can actually recommend your videos to my family and others BECAUSE of this! And your gift-giving advice just convinced me to change up Christmas once and for all--something I've been feeling in my gut and wanting to do for a long time. You really have a way of putting things into perspective. Not to be dramatic, but these videos are life-changing. Keep doing what you're doing and THANK YOU.
I really do not understand these people that make negative comments. I love your videos, your delivery is perfect and I am learning so much with your videos! And I am applying all your ideas in my life and in my house. I already started being a minimalist!!! The negative comments come from people that are not ok. What does a haircut have to do with your minimalism way of living? Just crazy negative people out there, do not pay attention to them . In my opinion you are doing a wonderful job!!!!
Hey! Part of the peace I'm getting from starting minimalism is YOU, Joshua. Your calm, peaceful, slow delivery, and specifically slow delivery so we'll understand is just perfect. People want a fast talker? There are lots of snake-oil salesmen out there who talk really fast. They are always selling more STUFF!!! So keep doing what you are doing. Thank you for the wonderful inspiration, materially, and spiritually.
From your wife's reaction, I'm assuming you knew that lit was a good thing and just wanted to get that comment in there. 😂🙌 I love when people joke about rude comments. It's the best thing you can do with them. Your content has made my life better. Thank you for starting your blog all those years ago. 👍
JOSHUA, WOW, AFTER BEING ABLE TO STOMACH LESS THAN HALF OF THIS VIDEO, I AM SO SAD...I CANNOT TELL YOU WHAT AN INSPIRATION YOU ARE TO ME AND I GREATLY APPRECIATE YOUR HELPFUL TIPS...KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK AND "F" THE HATERS!!!
Just started watching your videos today. Really enjoying all of them. You speak at the perfect speed. Calm and easy to listen to and leave enough time to take notes. Your ideas about and passion of minimalism are so inspiring and make me feel at ease. I will be adapting as much as I can to my life. THANK YOU.
No negative comment from me! I’ve been watching for awhile now and love your speaking style. It is not ‘cluttered’ but covers the key points precisely. I’m a public speaker and have studied public speaking for years and more RU-vidr’s could learn by your example. Keep up the good work!
Negative comments are part of the deal unfortunately. I've learned to get excited when my videos get them. My subscribers would never write them, so when hater comments start rolling in, I know my video is being suggested to new people and helping my channel to grow 😊 Shake it off and enjoy the many wonderful comments instead!
The point of talking to slow...how I love that. In our noisy world your voice sounds so calm. I avoid channels where people talk so fast even if I generally like their content!
Wow, I'm so shocked by the unkind comments. I am reminded of the anonymous feedback that I receive as an assistant professor. Posting anonymously can bring out the worst in people. Personally, I am grateful that you make the effort to produce such helpful videos. Thank you so much!
I have found so much enjoyment watching your videos. I play them so my husband can “overhear you” 🤗 If it was up to me we would not have one thing left in our house😂 You don’t sound like a minister by the way, you sound like a spiritual man and the world needs more like you. 👍👍 from one RU-vidr to another!
