I feel like the kidney situation is so complex and he isn't necessarily the asshole. This isn't a normal situation because things changed the moment the sister was prepared to affiliate herself with someone who essentially tormented her brother for years and targeted a major part of his identity. His sister basically co-signed that abuse and homophobia so are they really family at that point? What does it say about his sister's own views on gay people if she isn't prepared to defend her brother? How is he meant to justify such a huge sacrifice for someone who has repeatedly shown their disinterest in his own well-being?
Like it's so difficult being a gay person in society already. I can only imagine how mentally difficult it would be to feel like your FAMILY is loving and accepting your childhood homophobic bully. Those are the people that are meant to uplift and support him.
Okay on the 1st dilemma, I just turned 23 and I would never date extremely out out of my age bcus I just feel icky escpelly bcus I look Younger Than my age (sorry for the Spelling I am Swedish) and also I would rather date in my age range and I Know its bcus we are compatibel rather Than he is with me bcus he is older and I am Younger and look Younger. Than we are the same mage and I look a bit Younger. Idk if I'm explaining well
You def can be a cool girl with hips and bum, I used to think the same way! but there a lot more curvy ‘cool girl’ influencers now compared to before you just have to find them :)