My wife kept pressuring me for an open relationship, turns out she was already cheating, so I opened up with divorce instead. Plus two updates. u/Tom4Terrific. #reddit #redditupdates #redditstories
It really boggles my mind how someone can betray their partner's trust by lying, cheating, and making fun of them and then think they can somehow repair that damage when everything gets exposed. You can't repair that damage. You showed them you aren't trustworthy, and they will be suspicious of you forever after.
More to the point, she tries to repair it through sex. People really have a stereotype that men are just switches who can be turned on or off whenever is most convenient.
she is the type that only likes a hunt. if she had married the other woman, she would have been cheating on her a bit later. some people are just hoe made . it is just in every fiber of their being.
I don't blame you for that thinking. I've been in a poly relationship before. Not terrible, but it's hard to deny that most people are just in it for the s**ual intimacy. It also started before anyone was taken, so no pre-poly baggage to worry about. It's harder than one might think to share a living space with 3 different people who all see each other naked all the time...and I wouldn't personally recommend the lifestyle. ALSO: If you ever try poly. GET TESTED. Polyrelationships spread hella STDs.
@@whyplaypiano2844 I have never understood it past the sexual sense. We all can be attracted to more than one person and can create an emotional attraction if our personalities align and time. I feel that poly pushers always try to rationalize it in the same light as being on the spectrum. The entire "we can't control who we are attracted to" sense. However, it is completely different. One is just a minority of the population, while the other is just a fact of human nature for the vast majority of the population. IMO, you can't marry with a poly relationship in practice. If you want to marry, leave your poly relationship to marry outside of it. If you want to start a poly relationship during the marriage, end the marriage.
I have no sympathy for either of them. He actually agreed to open up the relationship, and had a "play stupid games, win stupid prizes" experience as a result. Absolutely nobody could have ever seen that coming /s.
Please tell me y’all don’t believe this story. I never heard of a divorce or family law attorney that can just draft up legal documents on the spot especially considering some states have waiting periods or a requirement to be legally separated first. Not to mention the need to go over things like finances, child custody ageeements, etc. I’m also skeptical that screenshot convos printed out can just be attached to a legal document like that 🤨 Whole story reads like a revenge fantasy
@@justroonhere This is the illusion of the AI voice. You hear an American voice, you automatically assume it's an American talking...but as you point out, Reddit posters are all over the world and many, many non-Americans in the world speak/write English.
"our marriage is over but we can still bang whenever as fwb" Absolutely disgusting. If you are willing to do that with someone who hurt you or betrayed you, there is something wrong with you.
