My worst heart break|Story time|Relationships #southafricanyoutuber #roadto7k #storytime 

Relationships can hold you back and sometimes you have to nurse a person’s feelings which is draining,at 31,I now know that a relationship is not to be rushed because to be in a healthy one,a lot of growth needs to take place

The tall black and handsome dudes will be the death of us😅but like you said no regrets... just growth and lessons going foward❤

"I'm going there, nobody can stop me💃💃💃"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I relate to this so much!

Excuse me, I’m a new regular degular and I love it here! I have binged watched your channel for a week now while I was traveling. This episode was everything to me because I have literally been in that season. I just turned 32 in June and I am enjoying relearning my single self, therapy, dating myself, etc. I’ll be moving to Dubai in two weeks 😅 and I am so looking forward to this journey of continued freedom. Thank you for your transparency and the light you shine for others. May God continue to bless you! 🙏🏾🤍🌱

Not you speaking my current season right now singleness❤️. I was laughing my way through 🤣🤣🤣. We’ve all had our fair share when it comes to umjolo thank you for sharing.

You’re such a great storyteller 🥲. I enjoyed this video so much!!!! 😍😍😍 I’m sorry about how things ended but you know you’re such a beautiful soul with a beautiful personality and for sure the person who God has for you will surely be your twin flame ♋️🔥🔥

My biggest heartbreak was in 2019/2020..yoh I loved that girl so much yoh❤🙌. I took 1 year 4 months before I could move on, has to heal and work on myself as well Exactly, instead of being worried about one's ego..figure out what can you do to handle it and visa versa

I'm in my second long distance relationship but this one has given me soo much more. He's supportive of everything I do and I'm his little cheer fan as well. I am worried about not having had a conversation of my leaving next year but I know I wouldn't be worried about our relationship. He's created that space for me of which I don't like bothering him when he's out but he still says I can still text him. My not seeing and holding him right now is immensely hard but it's teaching me to have that patience when I do eventually leave. He's gold and I'm bursting into happy tears just thinking about him.. 😭😭😭😭 But this story time is long overdue😂😂🤭 I am always inspired and with you Sba.. I wish you the absolute best!! All and everything good and beyond you deserve💗

Love what you said about the man God has for you- so with you on that one Sba! Thank you so for this beautiful story time

We all do😂..meet someone and then 3 hours later you already planning a wedding in your head. Eyy, men!? Rhaa🤣🤣

Exactly, taking a break after a heartbreak/failed relationship is very important. It's not about waiting for the ex to come back but fir you healing and strength to also work on yourself as a person

We’re learning a lot from you young lady. We appreciate you. 💕💕💕

Thank you for sharing🙏♥️🤗 really enjoyed this♥️

New subbbie 💁🏾‍♀ to say I’m in love with your content is an understatement. I love it here 🥰😍🥰

Regular degular signed the register 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻😍😍❤️❤️thank you for sharing your story sweetheart

😂🤣you such a good story teller!enjoyed the wisdom nuggets that came along with the story.

You such a breath of fresh air 💓 genuinely needed to hear at this present moment

Regular degular signing in😛🤣 Thank you so much for sharing, it touched sore spots that I didn't realize I had hey😅 but so grateful💜🌹

just came ace=ross your vid now. It reali made me aware of my attachment issues and i now realise that i need therapy.Im only 20 but i keep jumping from relationship to relationship lol whats funny is that i keep meeting the same person in different bodies

@Sbahle Mkhize thank you for sharing your story.And big ups to you for choosing yourself and being true to yourself!❤️❤️❤️🇿🇦

Thanks for sharing sba💕 season to reflect and healing 💐

Just in time🙌🏾 Regular Rzegular checking in📌🔥

Haha! This story was so juicy! 🤪

I love your energy

I really needed to hear this 😭😭😭 I'm going through the most at the moment

I went through a break up about 2 months ago. The pain hasn’t fully subsided but each day it gets easier. Long distance was definitely brought up as remedy to the situation, I chose otherwise. Thank you for this video Sbahle.... much love ❤️ also a video about your journey and relationship with Christ is much anticipated 😅🙌

It’s the am going there song for me😂😂😂😂 New subbie here and I looooove love your energy 🥰🥰🥰

You are an Amazing storyteller Sbahle. Reflection is very much important. Another thing, The quality of your video is to be applauded. Talking about serving QUALITY!! May I ask what camera and mic you using? Thank you.

Wena you're like me, taking time to heal and working on yourself does it. Ehh, crying en therapy is part of it and I encourage gents to attend therapy as it really helps sometimes talking to a stranger. Relating so much even though you're a woman and I'm a man, thank you Sba❤🤌🥺🙌

Regular,degular, yoooh umjolo mxm will kill us shem ...... I currently thinking of attending therapy as well and yes the relationship I'm in makes me realise that I'm broken from family trauma and alot of things

Girl your story telling yazi I'm smiling through out the video 😂😂🤍🤍

We appreciate you sharing this experience with us. I'm proud of you for handling it the way you are# sending love from S.A🙂🧡

such a vibe

Quality 👌❤

Your energy is just 🔥🔥🔥New subbie

I like your singing gal. You are such an entertainer 😂😂😂

So enjoying this 😂❤

Love this channel

Appreciate this❤️

A regular degular here 🙋🏾‍♀️ I’d love a top 5 faves from you, from podcasts, to books to beauty products, RU-vidrs, etc 🥰

I love your content ❤️

I really like your personality sis ❤️

🤣🤣🤣the singing part kills me, yohhh mara Sba is such a vibe yaz. I actually can relate to your story, eish...mjolo the pandemic 🙈🙈❤love you ghirl!!!!!❤

It’s the laughs in between for me child🤣🤣🤣

we are trusting God!! Ah Sba. May love find us ready and when it does, i hope its kind.

We Sba ngilana ke mntaka sisi😂😂ngivumbulula kwasani eyakho. I can relate to this, yazi therapy is sooo crucial, so wish we could all afford it.

🤣🤣waze wangiqeda Sbahle🤣🤣 what an entertaining story!

I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS😭😭

❤️ ngikugcine kudala standwa waze wamuhle bo💕💕💕

Thinking about marriage on day 1 of meeting him 🤣🤣🤣 I’m howliiiiiing 😅

not you catching feelings leadership😂😂❤

Yoh i laughed the whole time😂😂😂miss goodvibes only here

You're so beautiful. Yho. 💚

Exactly, I was gonna say earlier that I would've followed you or went with you to China rather to figure out life together with you.

😂😂😂😂😂wislima!

24:24 Kumnandi kwa singleton angifuni ukungasho, but the standards keeps getting high, sometimes it feels like you’re building walls that nobody can crash or climb. We yearn for romance but experience chickens us out from offering the climbing ladder to a person who seem promising to get it right.

Lengoma kodwa 🤣🤣🤣"Im going there 🤣🤣

Hey fave 😍😍😍😍😍😍

Exactly, he was supposed to have gotten hold of the end of the stick. Why let yiu take the lead so much, he missed out😩😅. No, you're not forward but you were going after what you wanted!

Yohh story seh bathong🤣🤣Kuningi🤣🤣🔥

LAMO SO RELATABLE

It's the laughter for me 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂hahahahhaa

HI FROM ALBANIA 🇦🇱 LOVE YOU 😍

How did I miss this? 🤣🤣🤣

Sba like gosh I'm going through this marriage South Korea having to tell Bae to come and his so uncertain and stuff like ngiyahamba I'm leaving 😂😂😂

A new subie here...... you are lovely 😍

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Not you being honest on the internet♥️

lalela sisi I get that whole 'not getting your number' vibe😂🙄 I once got hung up over a guy I met at a work party who was friends with a colleague of mine. Aybo guys mina ngangingayazi into yokuthi, what happens at the groove, stays at groove. wehhhhh in my head nje after that party shandis we were dating🤣🤣🤣🤣yabuzwa ubu forward🤣🤣🤣🤣Lapho my colleague was tryna entertain me kanti nje u guy was not there😂😂

Lol and one thing about us, we'll romanticize every little thing ok!!!

New Subbie😍

🤣🤣🤣🤣heii!! Izindaba bafethu

Ave ngikuthanda Uma usuzocula😂😂😂😂😂 I am going there😂😂

Ndikuthandaaaaaaaaa ❤️❤️❤️🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿

Lmao not you describing my whole relationship situation from situation, from me being like you when it comes to moving I have no problem with applying to another country, the feeling held back (I ddnt industand what this feeling was until this video), the fights the miscommunication the different views and realising it won't work but stay, well mine ended before the controlling part. I resent the meeting.

How long were you in China when you went for the very first time? (Before moving back to SA)

Which city u at

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😂😂😂Sba

I needed to hear this 🥹 Thanks Sbahle ❤

I can imagine, I can only imagine. Deep in the moment,thinking about it while you're talking. Sba🥺❤🤌