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Hi Anne. My son is also severely autistic and totally non-verbal. He is 17, a big guy now. Bigger than me and my husband and so meltdowns, when he is this big already, are now waaaay more difficult than when he was 7. I would just like to say that in our *special* life, judgment from other people is a given. Not everybody will understand. A lot will be tolerant, but nonetheless, I don't think people will completely understand unless they live the same life. Do not be afraid to apologize for your son and say, "I'm sorry for the trouble, my son is autistic". Whether they accept the apology or not is on them, not us. We don't dwell on these things because, in this lifetime, we will have to experience similar situations quite often. We just learn from what happens and then carry on. You and Kitz are doing great with Joo, we can all see that. God bless!

Hello mama Anne Im an early childhood Teacher. Nakapag handle na din po ako sa case ni baby. Lessen niyo po ang chocolate nakaka pag pa hyper po iyun. And patience lang po onti onti din po niya ma aabsorb ang mga bagay bagay sa paligid niya. Stay strong po. ❤️

Hi Mama Anne, I see so much of my son in Joo. He is 6 years old non verbal din. We started our school journey during the pandemic, online classes and then since na stop yung face to fave therapy we opted to teletherapy. First few months he was responsive but habang tumatagal hindi na talaga effective sa kanya. We recently started face to face classes and therapy, yung school niya is same ng therapy center niya. Coordinated ang condition niya between teachers, therapist and may shadow teacher din siya. We started classes last week and so far, ok naman beside the crying pag gigisingin siya in the morning. Same din sya kay Joo, pag daddy niya kasama sobrang behave, pag ako dun siya nag iiyak. As per our OT, mothers usually are their comfort zone and mas expressive sila saten. Regarding sa ID, you could search about the sunflower lanyard, not widely used pa in our country pero we can start para maging norm siya It’s used by people with hidden disabilities. Hoping for the best for our kids and all kids with this condition.

I handle SEND (SPED) students po. I suggest po na start "preparing" Joo sa pagdating po ng baby. pwedeng start with a doll. how to handle the "baby" gently and with care. wag nyo gugulatin si Joo na bigla may baby. Also, okay po yung ID concept. other parents are doing it. no sweets talaga be firm about it. lastly, try watching Candy Pangilinan vlogs and Adam autism lalo boy po. strong po yan.

my 5yrs.old daughter is blind and diagnosed with severe autism. . sobrang hirap because una language barrier kc nasa ibang bansa kami hnd naman lahat naiintindhan ko. . lalo kapag medical terms. . walang family support but still thankful kc very supportive ang government nla. , mahaba pang journey ito but for our kids we fight and its natural po ang mapagod dahl tao lang dn po tau..ang advice po ng doctor sa amin is always praise the kid kapag nakagawa sya ng mga bgay na sinabi mo halimbwa po nakapaghintay kaht seconds lang praise her daw po and whatever you do or wherever you go explain kht paulit ulit or must better the day before daw po. .kasi kaht maliit na changes pwdng magtrigger ng meltdown nla. . fighting po ms.anne

Look for a school po that has a separate class for SPED. Montessori school usually has this. Tapos ang ginagawa nila may subjects na nakahalo sa regular students.

Mama Anne, this is exactly what im feeling for my son, gusto ko din ng karamay na makakaintindi sa situation nating mga asd Moms,. hindi ko na din mapigilan ang sarili ko minsan, pinahdadasal ko na sana matupad ung plano naming magasawa para kay kaizen🙏😭

Hello Ms. Anne! My son’s dev ped would always tell us that the best way to communicate with kids who are in the spectrum is through visual aids. We used a lot of visual aids for my son who is now 13, behavior cards for both school and home, chores, hygiene, calming techniques, etc. when he was younger, our bathroom used to look like a classroom sa dami ng visual aids how to properly brush your teeth, shower, bath, wash face, hands, etc. Mas mapa-process nila yung instructions and expectations if may visual aid na kasama instead of verbal lang and he can also use the visual aids eventually to communicate his needs, if he needs a break when he’s overwhelmed. There’s a bunch of them at Amazon. Let me know if I can help in any way. ❤️

Mama Ann your doing a great job!! Just keep on praying binigay ng Diyos sa inyo si joe dahil alam nya capable Po kayo na Ibigay sa kanya Ang pagmamahal na sapat..God bless you and your family

Dont cry mama anne. Joo still fighting sa mga nararamdaman nya . maswerte sya kc ikaw ang naging mama nya na lumalaban sa lahat ng problema... Love ka nmen mama anne.. Wag kang mag alala magbabago din ang lahat wag ka lang susuko.

Kami mama anne non, nag enroll muna ung anak namin sa Sped classes tas nong ready na ung anak namin sa regular class saka lng nirecommend ng teacher nya. Nag 2 years muna sya sa sped. Then now nasa regular class na sya, although nong 1st grade wlang face to face.pero last school yr ok naman behavior nya nong nag f2f sya. Dumadaan tlga sila sa ganyan mama Anne, pero ngaun ung anak namin mas behave pa sya kesa sa kapatid nya pag nasa mall or labas kami. Dati hirap dn kming ilabas sya pero inexpose tlga namin sya hanggang sa naging ok na ung behavior nya. Pag ganyang age tlga ganyan po.ung anak ko 11 na sya ngaun.

Try nyo po mag inquire sa new era university. Mahusay po sila maghandle ng asd student.

hi mama anne, im an asd mom po. try nio po ibili si joo ng noise cancelling headphones para po mkakatulong sa kanya lalo na pag maingay ang paligid. mlaking tulong po yan sa anak ko lalo na pag umuulan at kumukulog or mrami pong maingay sa paligid. hindi nio po namention kung ilan sila sa klase. kung marami po shang classmates, i suggest po na ilagay nio po muna sha sa mas maliit na class size like 2-5 po cguro para po msnay lang po muna sha sa set-up ng school. baka naiistress po sha dahil maraming bata, maingay, kaya po nagmmisbehave.

Mama Anne alam ko kaya nyo yan… ipagpepray k namin at yung family nyo… hindi ko man masabi na fully naiintindihan kita kc wala akong kahit anong experience sa ASD, pero I feel your love for Joo! 💛💛💛

Sana all may panggastos para sa autism. May anak akong autistic pro pinag iponan ko pa pra e therapy kasi mgastos at hnd enough ung sahod ko. Sana may program na libre pra sa mga autism

I suggest mama Anne, ipasok muna sya sa SPED and then saka po sya ihalo sa regular class when he is ready. Nalimutan ko na if napanuod ko na sa vlog mo po kung anong school mo po sya pinasok. medyo magulo para sakin yung 'regular' class, does it mean po ba na face to face or as in yung walang ASD yung ibang kids? If hindi po sya sa SPED napasok, dapat dun muna sya. Suggestion din ng dev ped namin na ipasok muna sa SPED yung kid ko and I think nakatulong sya sa anak ko nun hinalo na sya sa regular class.

Mama, anne kaya mo yan pag subok lang yam sa buhay mo makikita mo rin balang araw lahat ng pag hihirap mo matatanaw mo nlng na nalagpasan mo na..

teacher po ako ng mga children with special need though im not good with this, base on may experience, maybe na ooverwhelm si joo kasi marami siya nakikita tao, hindi siya n prep.matagal kasi ang prep.nila lalo n s mga bagong sa environment nila, and tama ka stimuli nila ang mga marami tao,maingay..

i tried enrolling my son to regular class but then they recommended SPED instead because they observed signs of mild autism. So we went to SPED classes for a week and they observed him. Luckily, he knows how to read and write at age 5. The teacher said he will endorse him to regular classes if we promise he’d undergo therapy. At first, I felt that the teacher in the regular class didn’t really like the idea of him being there. Probably because she feared that he will hurt the other kids and that he won’t pay attention. But after a few days she came back to me and said he’s very good and he just stays on his chair and he’s not hurting his classmates at all. My son never had a problem with aggression. He would hurt himself first instead of hurting someone else, he doesn’t even want to see someone crying or hurting. There are also a number of times when i want to display a tag that would indicate that my son has special needs, especially that time when he frightened a young girl because he hugged her from the back then spinned her around and they both fell on the floor. The grandma of the girl got really angry and i apologized profusely, i wanted to tell her that my son was autistic, but instead i said he wants to play with her but he doesnt know how to socialize. The only problem we have now is that he has an aversion to music. Everyday, they have to sing Lupang Hinirang before they start the class and he would initially cry and he didnt want to go to school because of that, but now he’s learning to cope little by little by covering his ears. He said he’s no longer screaming when they play it, which is a good thing. We’re on therapy for almost a month now and Im really proud of his small progress. Let’s not lose hope for our children.

Same feels momsh Pero anak ko naka enroll ngayon sa Special education Pricey talaga. 3 weeks na sya sa school ngayon, :) Nag O.T din sya. Same sila ng anak ko Nanapik, tas di maka stay sa isang lugar, nang aagaw ng food.

Hello po Ms. Anne panoorin niyo po Vlogs ni Miss Candy, I know that you have a vid already about her po pero yeah If di pa po kayo nag dedelve sakanya I think it will be helpful. God bless Miss Anne Mabuti nga ho at Nurse kayo, kasi mas mabilis niyong naiintindihan or maiintindihan yung about sa state ni jou and especially the medical terms and researches in connection to it. Ayun po sa vlogs ni miss candy and full testimony niya about kay quentin sa PAPJA (Psych Event) I know makakatulong ho sainyo then yung vlogs nila how they face quentins tantrums and yung pananakit nila because they can’t express it kaya ganun yung nangyayari.

I agree with the teacher about sugar..pancake or anyfood with flour is not the right food for him..flour is carbohydrates that turned into sugar once digested...

Hugs Mama Anne! Sorry wala ako maadvice or masuggest about sa situation ni Kuya Joo. But lagi kayo kasama sa prayers ko. You are a very strong woman and you are doing a great job as a mother. 🤗

mama anne wag ka na po mag pa stress at iyak ng iyak ma fefeeel po yan ni baby. think positive thoughts

You need to be strong mama anne for Joo,papa kitz would be a big help for you..we are dealing also with our nephew who has autism he is with us since 4 months and now he is 11 years old now..never ending journey love love talaga para sa kanila yun lang ang magiging means of communication natin sa kanila, and lots of patience for them.. keep the faith magiging ok rin ang lahat

I have nephew with Autism po he was diagnosed when he was 1 1/2 years. Kids are not shy having autism because they don’t know their situation to begin with but its the parents who feels “nahihiya” in front of other people. But having meltdown in public and agression are normal. Dumadaan talaga sa stages po kaya wag po kayo mahiya. And yes explain to the people that your kid has autism kung nakakasakit sila or may ginagawang kakaiba. And yes get a shadow teacher po since afford naman nyo.

Hitting behavior should be addressed RIGHT AWAY. Pagsabihan agad at wag nyo na hayaan na paulit ulit nyang gawin. Sabihin nyo "quiet hands" instead of saying "no! Thats bad!". You can do behavior managements depending on the cause of WHY the kid hits. Pwedeng attention seeking, frustration in terms of not being able to communicate needs and wants. If attention seeking - planned ignoring. IGNORE the behavior. Maybe he wants you to look at him or he gets satisfaction on your reaction. If frustration re communcation- ask his sped teacher or speech therapist to work on vocabulary so he can use AAC or PECS or an application on his iPad called Proloquo or anything similar to it. Tama si Kitz, do not give him sugar. Do not justify. Maliit man o malaking amount, sugar is sugar. It has different reactions on them. BE PATIENT. take it day by day. Continue with his interventions. Work as a team. ALWAYS follow up at home whatever his teachers asks you to do.

Mommy Anne blessed na po kayo dahil nabibigyan nyo po ng therapy si joo at naipapasok din sya sa school, i feel you po mommy Anne meron po akong kapatid na mas matindi pa kay joo as in di sya nakakalakad at di nakakapagsalita puro senyas lang sya before tyaga po kami na sumakay ng tricycle every time na may session si kuya for therapy tapos yung kami lang ng nanay ko aalalay para makarating kami sa place na ang liit ko pa talagang pinipilit namen hawakan si kuya at alalayan para makalakad kami ng nanay ko after nun magwawala naman sya kasi gusto nya magpabili ng jollibee, bata palang ako depression na ang nararamdaman ko dahil palage kami pinagtitinginan ng mga tao madalas pa yung makikita mo sila pinagtatawanan ang kuya ko sobra hirap na minsan nagawa ko pa magalit na bakit ako bakit ako ang binigyan ng kapatid na ganito ako ang bunso pero ako ang naging ate minsan ultimo mga kamag anak namen meron din na tinatawanan kami sa halip na tulungan kami pero awa ng dios lumaki ako at nagsumikap para sa kapatid ko hindi kami pwedeng mawalan ng pera dahil pag may gusto sya dapat ibigay mo para di sya mangulit nakakaawa din na di rin nga maenjoy yung normal na buhay dahil hanggang sa kung ano lang nakikita nya samen o sa nakapaligid samen yun lang ang nakikita at gusto nyang gayahin kagaya ng makita nya kami nagcecellphone gusto din nya meron sya hanggang ngayon hindi ko pinopost ang kapatid ko sa social media dahil hindi sa kinakahiya ko sya pero ayaw kong mabash sya ng ibang tao na mula maliit kami ganun na palage kami pinagtatawanan kasi di nila Naiintindihan. Go lang mommy Anne kayang kaya mo yan 💪🏽

May napanood ako na vlog ni Ms. candy Pangilinan mama Anne ,yung anak din nya may times na may aggresion,makita mo talaga ang haba ng pasensya ni Ms. Candy

and by the way before my mom suggest to introduce the child to the mainstream school SPED muna sipa until makaadjust na sila for big school.

I have an autistic grandson very good naman sya but please avoid eating chocolate yun kse nagpapahyper sa kanya but my grandson is soooo sweet❤️

Ung kilala ko n may autistic n anak tlaga ksma ung tatay s loob ng classroom otherwise di n tlaga tatanggapin ng school kc nga nananakit n ng medyo lumaki sya inerereklamo n ng mga parents ng klasmeyts nya. Minsan mangaagaw ng food. Ky yon naging solusyon ksma c tatay s loob ng classroom

kung puede lang kitang tawagan para meron Kang idea at ma share ko din ang naging experience namin

My son is a 10 year old with high functioning autism. He's into ABA to address yung behaviors nya. I'm just wondering why kayo nag regular school. Usually po kasi may clearance yan from DevPed and also from the therapy center kung puede na sya sa regular class. Dapat po magkaroon ng improvement sa speech ng bata para mabawasan aggression nya kasi na frustrate sila pag d nila masabi ung gusto nila. And totoo po yan, ayaw nila sa magugulo at masyadong maingay. Nahihirapan din sila pag pabago bago environment at mga kasama nila. Talk to your ABA therapist about sa pamamalo hindi po sa OT. OT is for sensory. And malaking factor if itutuloy sa bahay nyo ung mga basics theraphy to help your son express his thoughts into words. Important po yan lalo na pay masama pakiramdam nila. Baka po kasi minsan may masakit pala said kanya peep Hindi nya masabi kaya nag aggression sya. Hope this helps.

Give him headset with music connected to ipad.. always bring food if gutom sya.

May mga SPED naman na school na fit talaga sa mga gaya ni Joo...

I’m having a hard time din with my son who has adhd.

Hello Mama Anne,I do have a nephew he is in Canada yah his in a regular school but since he has ADHD he has an assistant teacher that monitors and assist him

Joo is still adjusting po or may nagpa trigger sa knya to do that 😊 Okay lng yan Mama Anne onti onti mgbawas ng sugar intake kay joo.. Kayang kaya mo po yan like kay Miss Candy Pangilinan 💕💕

Hi mommy! SLP here. :) - visual schedules would be great (latag niyo lahat ng gagawin niyo buong araw) so he can prepare himself for the things he needs to do - it'd be great to ask the team about Joo's AAC readiness :)

Natural yang ganyang behavior sa mga nasa spectrum Mama Anne. May iba nga na nangangagat, nangungurot at nagwawala pa. May banging pa ng head. Behavioral modification and taking away privileges when he exhibits negative behavior could work.

Ate jeya diet diet din kpag may time

Bakit Hindi mo sabihjn sa Dr,,

My son grew out of Asperger's syndrome, a mild side of the spectrum. When he was a toddler, it was worst. Non verbal, aggressive & so emotional; to see him cry in pain was heart shattering. One of the things to combat this is diet. I know, easier said than done. But you should avoid processed & GMO foods. Refined sugar & HFC in particular are horrible for his development. No M&Ms, pancake mixes are replete with toxic ingredients. Overtime, my son learned to make better choices & enjoy "fun" food in moderation only. He's 20 now, doesn't drink soda or eat candy. He got promoted in his job & he's not shown any indication of his Asperger's diagnosis as a toddler.

Hi Mama Anne, I’m Chin. I’m an Occupational Therapist. I’ve been handling kids with different disabilities for over 5 years now, and I also have a brother who is diagnosed with ASD. I have a few tips I can give for Joo that will hopefully help him manage his behavior. If you’re already doing some of these, that’s really great! Keep it up. You are a great mom and thank you for making this vlog to spread awareness. 1. Ask his OT about AAC if Joo is ready. This might help him to be able to express his needs. 2. Visual schedule of his routine to decrease tantrums and getting upset when something unexpected happens. 3. Visual guide to show what’s right vs wrong. (With pictures) 4. Behavior management starts at home. If he demonstrates hitting at home, you can try to correct this behavior by teaching him how to touch or call people by tapping instead. It will take practice. Then you can show din that this hurts you and tell him how his behavior affects others. I hope these tips were helpful!

Mama Anne try niyo din po watch yung kay Mommy Candy Pangilinan at Quentin..may mga vlogs sya ng aggression ni Q po.. baka sakali makatulong din how to handle yung mga aggressions ni Joo.. ❤️ napaka strong niyo sa totoo lang po.. 🙏🙏

Unfortunately all the fun kid snacks are packed full of sugars including pancakes :( It is wise to check on the nutritional facts and ingredient list to see if its loaded with sugar (also there are a lot of different names that manufacturers use for sugar such as maltodextrose, glucose, dextrose, high fructose corn syrup etc.) Dutch mill and fruit juices are also high sugar type of drinks (one such reason is the fact that the fiber in the fruit that prevents carbohydrate absorption is removed or simply the juice is just flavouring). I've been following a low carb diet as it helps with my anxiety (sugar stimulates the brain in effed up ways apparently) first thing I did was to religiously read the ingredients list and nutrition facts. I've learned the more the ingredients you can't even pronounce the more that "food" is just "food products or foodstuff". Anyways, I found out if you stick to whole foods and limit processed food it is much easier. But being a neurodivergent it will be much difficult but it is possible if as a family you change your lifestyle with him. I hope you find a balance Ms. Anne. God Bless!

we enrolled my son sa big school with sped classes. naka separate ang sped department. pag ready na yung kid sa regular class unti unti nila introduce sa kid. pa isa isa subject muna. pero start kme sa sped class na one on one with a teacher then progress sa group class. baka overwhelming kay joo madami na sya classmates

Society should be more understanding of people with different needs. Salamat sa vlog mo kasi in a way naeeducate kami about sa mga katulad ni joo. May pinanood din ako na show sa korea na lakas loob nya sinama sa isang variety show ung kid nya na may autism. Like you, matapang ka to be open about these struggles. I understand your tears and worries anne. You are a warrior. A super mom.

As a registered sped teacher, we better exposed and engaged (by chances or as often as possible) these learners with clinical impressions on their fears and stimuli that triggers them. It help us to develop their "adaptation to change" and be matured enough to conquer their anxieties. This often engagement provides them to develop a positive behavioral management wherever & whenever they are. Positive conditioning and positive reinforcement is a big help for the consistent working behavior. Consistency is the key, be firm enough but be gentle at the same time. It is a matter of unconditional love with extended awareness. Fighting! Mama Anne

Hi Ms Anne! My 6yr old ASD boy wears noise cancelling headphones sa classroom and when we go sa mall or restaurant. Uncontrolled noise causes Overstimulation and frustration, and its hard to process para sa mga ASD kids natin. Yung son ko din first few weeks sa school paikot ikot, mas madalas pa sya sa labas ng classroom. His ABA team suggested that we let him explore because he is just curious with the new environment, and then slowly got him to do class activity kahit sa labas ng classroom basta kung san sya comfortable.

Hi mama anne, my son is nasa spectrum din turning 7 sa sept. Sinabi po ba ng devped nyo ng sa regular school sya ipasok? Yung anak ko po sa SPED school ko sya pinasok kasi may alam ng mga teacher how to handle our special kids. Wag po sana natin ipilit sya sa regular school lalo na kung di kaya ng bata, pag sped po at nakitaan ni teacher ng improvement saka lang po nila isasali sila sa regular school/class. Madami pong moms na di nakaka intindin ng anak natin lalo na pag nasaktan ang mga anak nila. With regards naman po sa hitting ni Joo, open nyo yan sa ot teacher nya, ask on how to handle it. My son mas matindi po noon, kurot na pino. Advice sakin na dapat on the act papagalitan daw po dapat ang bata at sasabihan para alam nya agad kung ano yung wrong na nagawa nya, it will take time pero they will know na mali yun, they are smart po kahit may autism sila. Having autism is not an excuse for bad behavior, we have to teach them, mahirap man pero possible, and we don’t want joo to hurt jirou. I hope naka help po ako base sa experience ko. 😊

Hi, Mama Anne! I used to work as a sped teacher po, handling young kids on the spectrum. I think it would be best to ask for a recommendation from Joo's therapists or former teachers about his school placement. If none, the school may have an initial assessment and recommendation whether Joo would need to be in a mainstream or an inclusion classroom with a shadow teacher. May I ask po if Joo also sees a speech therapist? Since you're already introducing PECS, I would assume po that this was recommended by a speech therapist? I think it's also best po na PECS would be used in his therapies and in school para po consistent at iisang approach lang po pang communicate, hindi po siya malilito. Thank you po! God bless!

Hi Mama Anne, it is most helpful for our kids under spectrum to be in a school that caters their needs. Look for a sped school near your place. My son made a huge progress when we found the school that can cater and understand him more. Laban lang po tayo, hindi tayo pababayaan ni God. God bless your family.

Kulang pa sa kaalaman ang marami Pilipino sa autism. Sa US aware ang marami sa mga actions ng may autism. Sana magkaroon din ng mga centers for autistic ang mga bata sa PH. Na train ng husto ang mga bata. Ang genetic disorder nag cycle every three generations dalawa specialists na ang nagsabi sa akin.

hi mama anne. my nephew is also autistic. when my sister found out back then his diagnosis, she joined communities for parents with autistic children. these groups were a big help as a support system for them, understanding behaviors, recommending occupational therapies, even diet recommendation. school with sped program are big help for their studies. i hope you can find a austistic community that can be your support system for times like this. one thing i’ve learned from my sister by observing is to never be ashamed in any situation when your child is having a tantrum/ meltdown/ aggression, people now are more aware and compassionate with regards to autism. when something happens , try as much as possible to explain to the child their behavior, they will gradually understand what they feel and do. as for other people, a simple sorry is enough if your child have cause a inconvience, treat it like a non autistic child may behave.

Anne, parents with disabilities don't owe anyone to explain the condition of their child. It sucks that we don't know how it feels living in autism world and yet kids with disabilities has to blend in this world. Joo is doing very well and yes lessen the sugar para di masyadong hyper. You are not aloneeee!!! it's nice to vent out :)

The ABA therapist should be able to help Joo with his aggression. Natutunan ko sa ABA therapist ng anak ko, correct him right away with a firm “NO!!” THAT’S NOT OKAY!!” for bad behaviors. and Go down to his level and look him in the eyes. Actually, hindi naman sa kung ano, ang pagtuturo ng ABA teacher at namin sa anak ko for bad behaviors, parang nagtuturo sa Pet dog. Later as he grew older, nag Mellow na s’ya and we adjusted the way we taught him. “Token economy” Is another technic na itinuro sakin. Joo earns tokens for good behaviors and bawas token pag bad behaviors. At the end of the week, he gets to have something he likes very much like a small toy or food. Naging aggressive din anak ko nung nilipat s’ya sa regular class from his special Ed class at age 10. Even with a shadow teacher. Nung binalik s’ya sa special Ed class, bumait ulit. Di kasi n’ya Ma gets ang students without asd sa regular class. Now He’s 27 and behaved. 🤗. . Mahirap but ideally, parents should be present during ABA so you can ask and discuss things with the therapist. At least one parent should focus on Joo and be free from worries about your family businesses etc. Hugs to you. 🤗❤️

Hi po, sugar is number one na bawal sa mga may autism and sa may epilepsy. If you look into adapting a keto diet, yun daw ang dapat. Pero that means bawal ang sugar in any forms including carbohydrates. Pero ang effect daw nito sa behaviour is impressive daw. Nakakakalma daw ng behaviour. So I suggest you look into it. It will be hard kasi bawal any forms of rice and most fruits sa keto diet, pero ang effects sa health is napaka positive.

Hello, ear defender ang bilhin nyo for joo to protect him from noises, it helps. Ito po ang gamit mo for My Son who is autistic. I know how you feel mother Anne.

Hi mama anne! I'm an ABA therapist and a certified sensory classroom facilitator. Pwede cguro un mga behavior nya like pang tatapik/hampas (physical) is all about his sensory needs and if my trigger naman yun pag hhit nya or negative behaviors you can talk with you aba therapist about it, pwede niyo idiscuss kung ano yun function ng behavior nya na yun. Since non verbal pwedeng way of communicating nya yun negative behaviors. You can set a routine and pwede din po kayo mag practice ng limitations like rules ng do's and don'ts. Pwede din sensitive sya sa ingay so pag nasa labas kayo pwede mong pasuotin sya ng headset.. and redirect the behavior. Once n may mga negative behavior sya, more on BLOCK & REDIRECT. mas maganda kung hindi ka nag papakita ng emotions or feelings pag gmgwa sya unwanted behaviors. For example nag hit sya (block agad-hawakan mo un arm nya then redirect.. give him something to hit like a toy drum or stress balls pag nakita mo pong nanggigigil sya.) PROPRIOCEPTOR/DEEP PRESSURE MASSAGES can also help, ask your OT or ABA therapist kung paano gawin ito. I've been handling non verbal toddlers-adults with agression for almost 8years na. And most of them are already expressive and attending regular BIG schools na din :) Hoping this will help Joo. BIG HUGS TO THE WHOLE FAM

Joo's adjusting to the new routine, my son who's in the spectrum too acts up when his routine changes. The kids are anxious and since he's non-verbal, it's very difficult for him to express himself and so you see this kind of behavior. Maybe he can have a fidget that would help him focus on something to keep him calm. We as a parents of special needs, we need to be more patient w/ them. Make sure you communicate with his BCBA with regards to his behavior and discuss a plan for his ABA and Occupational therapies. This would alleviate the situation. Best of luck w/ Joo's journey and your new baby.

We hear you, mama anne!

regular ed na sya na classroom? 17 years nko teacher dito sa US. ang mga may autism nasa special ed room pero everyday may certain time sila na mag join sa regular ed. ibang kids may kasamang adult pero ang iba wala. use sticker task card for motivation. non verbal sila so hindi rin nila naiintindihan ang mga regular na salita like instructions, rules, etc. kahit sa bahay may picture sticker sya from the moment gumising. pag nag brush ng teeth, kumain ng breakfast, nagbihis mag isa- bigyan ng sticker for every task then may reward. iba rin sticker board sa school. also teach him maybe 2 words a week. so many things po but better king mag consult sa mga special ed teachers jan. meron po ba jan IEP sa school?

Hi momma Anne. Im also a mom of ASD 8yo. He is expressive verbally but non conversant. Alam ko gusto natin ibigay ang best para sa kanila. Like you I want him to enter the regular school, pero in the process naisip ko sa tingin natin yun ang BEST para sa kanya pero sa kanila nahihirapan sila, nappressure sila, mabubully sila, nasstress, naooverwhelmed sila sa BEST na alam natin. I enrolled him in SPED , I learned not to expect from him. Pinag aaralan ko din i accept na hindi talaga masusunod ang gusto ko mangyari. We are still on OT ABA ST and SPED non graded. Still praying na makamove kami sa normal school but we will wait kung kelan na sya maging ready.

Not a good idea na lagyan xa ng im autism id. Cguro mas mainam pa na “ im an exceptional kid 🥰“ pero para sken wag na lng xa lagyan nyan kc binabantayan nyo nmn xa.bigyan nyo na lng cguro ng lagi nyang hinahawakan like toy pra madivert attention nya sa hawak nya at di mastress sa labas.

Don't feel bad Mama Anne for what have u felt po the past scenario normal naman po since nabigla ka din sa nagawa ni Joo, since nabanggit nyo po yung sa nametag nya it will be nicer po talaga since madalas is tinitry nyo sya iexposed outside and para masanay po siya and di kana mahirspan magexplain in the future and sana maging open and more knowledgeable pa ang mga tao tungkol ss case like yung kay Joo po. Hugs Mama Anne, no need to feel sorry po we understand. Also, sa mga past vlogs nyo po napansin ko na you always ask him how he feel or what Joee wants and it's good po na u wait for him to respond kasi super lakinh progress po yun for Joo.

hi mama anne I'm a teacher po may nahandle po ako na class with an autism student there are times po na nagiging violent and may tendency na di po namin sila maintindihan and it result to them to do things that aqdre week to other people. Upon talking to their parents I found ouv it because of the shows they watch they were always watching shows na may violence and we think that's one the reason second is ung pinag iiwanan nila dun sa bata tinatakot na kapag way ginawang mali ung bata tinatakot na papaluin at sasaktan upon the check up pinapaiwas po sila sa mga showcase ng víolence dun sa bata sana po makatulong and stay strong mama anne

I feel u mama Anne grabe iyak ko pag nangyayari smin Yan. May MGA judgemental talagang Tao na Di Tayo naiintindhan. Pero marami nakakaintindi Rin po satin. Pakatatag Lang po Tayo. 8yo boy asd Rin anak ko. NSA public school po cya ngaun. God bless your family

Hi Ms. Anne, you may want to check this page, it might help the condition of your son as it helped mine with level 2 autism. Aside from the therapies, I can tell that the protocol from this group greatly helped my son with where he is right now. He is now enrolled in a regular school and I can say we are close to being a neurotypical kid, konti na lng.

nakakaiyak naman mama anne naalala ko nito lang nag swimming kami umiiyak ung bunso ko biglang may lumapit na bata tapos pinag wiwisikan ung asawa at anak ko sa pool tapos tinulak nya pa muntik malunod ung bunso ko sinigawan ko sya kasi malaking bata na nagalit talga ako un pala may autism sya nagsorry ung ate nya na pasensya na po may autism po kasi sya para akong binuhusan ng malamig na tubig kasi di ko talga alam na may autism sya naawa ako bigla kasi pinagalitan ko talga

Hi Mama Anne, don't worry too much sa mga taong nasa paligid nyo. You will be surprised on how people are really kind and understanding to kids like Joo. Don't hesitate to say if you feel like saying na may autism si Joo. Sa mga di marunong umintindi, nasa kanila ang problema. 😊 You are doing great, don't be too hard on yourself. And yes, research more on his diet. More on healthy diet and whole foods dapat and no to processed and sugar. If you can research and follow Ali Edwards, her eldest may autism pero malaki na now and very functioning na unlike when he was first diagnosed.

Hello po, Ms. Anne! I have a little brother rin po who is Autistic. And yes, nagaalala rin po ako pag-f2f na siya since maninibago ulit siya sa environment since nandito lang kami sa house mostly. I understand po what you are feeling and aggression is really hard to handle po. Don’t feel bad as a parent since you’re always in the process of learning their behavior. There’s never going to be easy days pero I think you can always make one for them and even BETTER. Mahirap po talaga sila maintindihan since they do think differently and how we wish to understand them agad. I see my mom struggle and cry a lot rin since hindi namin alam kung paano patahanin but it will really take time and lots of patience po. Hopefully, this message made you feel a little relief! Kapit lang po tayo :)

Dapat Hindi niyo binigb8gyan ng juice dapat tubig lang or coconut jujce

i think its wrong na pinakita nyo where siya nag aaral sa panahon kasi ngayon sa ph . .scary .#concern

Naisip ko lang po habang pinapanood ko kayo.. baka sa inyo talaga binigay ni Lord ang special kids nyo dahil special parents kayo.. yung hindi nyo sila kayang saktan at meron kayong special part sa puso nyo, room na malaki for them.. kasi kung sa iba binigay, baka saktan sila.. baka papabayaan sila.. naiiyak ako.. kasi naisip ko, mga taong katulad nyo ay sadyang nilagay ni Lord dito sa mundo para ilaan sa mga batang masisilang na may special needs.. napaka swerte po ninyo at ng mga special babies nyo.. i'll pray for your family po lagi...

Hello Mama Anne ,Kasama po talaga ito sa journey ng may anak na AUsome kids ,May pinsan din po kami na nadiagnosed na may autism nung elementary sya and now ok na po sya dahil sa walang palyang therapy nakagraduate nadinpo sya sa college(electrical engineer)Time will comme ook din po Si Joo dahil sa love and support ng buong family God bless po .

Ang alam ko bawal ang sweets sa mga may Autism lalo lang lalakas aggression nila.

Hindi po healthy snacks ni kuya joo… itry nyo po healthy options,, duon po tlga mga hEalthy

Hi Ms Anne, I studied few courses here in London related to understanding Mental Health and mainly ASD, I am so proud of you Ms Anne for trying everything to help your child. I am working with children and young adults with ASD here in London, may I please share you a small guide or support what I learnt. Please po Always make them feel safe - Lack of fear or more fear than expected, ito po yong sinabi nyo po kanina nun nasa resto po kayo, maingay o sudden changes po sa environment nila sometimes they show their unusual mood or emotional reactions ganun po kase nila eni express ang anxiet, stress o ang sobrang pag alala nila. And I assumed na ganun din po nangyari sa school, kailangan po natin sya e guide slowly sa pag e explain kong ano po ang mngyayari next. Example - bago pumasok po sa resto or classroom. Kong may pupuntahan po kayo next time at expect nyo po na maingay po Yong place , try nyo po suutan nyo po sya ng ear defender kong ok lang po sa inyo. Sa diet po, less carbs po tayo mommy malakas po kase mag spike ng glucose yon dahil hyperactive na po sila, the rest po Mommy Anne, You are doing great 👍 with your husband po ❤❤❤ please excuse me if my comment are not helpful po, paki delete na lang po, Sending you Love and support po, also please remember that your child might have ASD but he is not less than the other children ❤ God bless po! ❤

I graduated from a born again school since elem to hs dun ako. Madami sped saamin since elem may classmate ako & small school lang halos 10-11 lang kami sa class. May sped akong classmate na kasama namin sa lahat ng subjects meron naman sa ibang subject lang sila kasama tas may shadow teacher. Malawak ang pangunawa namin sa mga sped lalo na born again school mababait ang tao at tinuturo din yun minsan binababy pa namin sa class. May mga naging schoolmate din ako anak ng artista na may autism, actually mas trust ng parents sa bornagain school anak nilang may ganyang case kasi hindi sila mahabahala because naiintindihan kahit bata palang. I would suggest mommy anne na sa bornagain na small school mo ipasok si joo maganda ang environment and magkakaroon din siya ng mga friends dun ituturing na normal.

May autism din anak ko sis Anne nung nag grade 1 sya sa public school after 2 weeks kinick out anak ko dun. Kasi di daw naupo, palakad lakad at hindi nakikinig di pa perfect magsalita. Tsaka nananapik din pag naooverwhelm na sya. Naniniko pa nga daw kasi nahawakan lang sya sa likod. Sabi ng teacher baka kung pwede sa special school namin sya eenroll kasi daw parang may something. Pina enroll namin sa special school na maraming kaklase after 1 week nag reklamo ulit ang teacher sabi kung pwede ipa lipat namin sya sa yun one on one class nila sa Carolina Tanauan ayun laking tulong pa isa isang subject sila dun tsaka dinadahan dahan sila ng mga teacher dun.

Hi po. Actually naging classmate ni Joo yung daughter ko sa Decode. Sana maging okay po si Joo 🙂

Hello mama Anne.. Ang ma suggest ko lang po sa inyo, Mas maganda po na one on one muna siya sa sped pag ok na po Yung development niya, Yun na po ang pag join sa kanya sa group class, kasi na overwhelmed lang joo..

👉👉👉ACCEPTANCE should start from the parents. When we first found out that our son is special ( at the age 2 ), all his doctors and therapist recommended a “special” daycare/playgroup before enrolling him in a “special” school that will meet “his needs”. We followed their advice for what is best for our son. Based on “OTHERS experiences” who enrolled their “special” children in a regular school, they usually suffered BULLYING. Good thing upon knowing their experiences, I enrolled my son to a “special school” where bullying doesn’t exist and that not only educates him but also includes different therapies for all his needs. “WE CANNOT FORCE an elephant to fly, parrot to swim, cats to sing and ASD children to be like others because they are “wired differently” or uniquely SPECIAL. Accept him for what he is and give what’s RIGHT for him, don’t let him suffer in a place where he is not safe. Our children is fragile. 🙄🙄🙄

Hi Ms Anne, may mga schools po na may sped sections same sa anak school ng anak ko. Nahahandle po nila ang situation ni Joo, don’t worry po kasi mas naiintindihan po yan nila at nag e-explain po ang teachers bakit ganito ganun or nakasakit man ang may autism. Kapit lang po maha-handle niyo rin po si Joo soon. Prayers for the whole fam 🙏

Dont give up mama anne, 7 yrs old anak ko ngaun mild autism diagnosis ne doc. 2yrs old start na sya nag therapy nakak frustrate akala ko walang progress ung anak ko hanggang sa lumaki sya at my improvemnt sa anak ko at nasa sped na sya, tinuloy tuloy ko lng pag schooling nea. Hanap kmi ng private skul mon-friday every 2hrs sya, at nag papasalamat ako bait2 ng mga teachers. I feel u mama anne ganyan2 anak ko nanghahampas, pinapaintndi ko sa kanya sinasabhn na bad at nag hihingi naman sya ng sorry. Hanggang sa marunong na magsalita at nakaka express feelings nea pero hnd parn sya marunong mag toilet training. Hnd rin perfect family namn, im trying nabibigay the best sa anak ko

I dont think na dapat pag samahin sa class ang regular students and those with disabilities kasi may time frame ang lessons dapat dun sila sa pareho nilang autistic or with disabilites. Lets be real di naman talaga sila NORMAL the parents are being delusional minsan kasi naapektuhan na ang ibang tao may rights din ang mga Normal people hinde lang disabled ang may rights sa mundo.

mommy anne, no need to apologize for crying. we love your family and we are very glad that we get to learn through your videos. i hope a lot of moms with children that has special needs gets inspired and support each other. let’s teach our children to be kind to all. ♥️

Hi ms.Anne im mom of 2 ASD my eldest son turning 18 and my youngest son is 6 yrs old until now non verbal pa din siya,pinagdaanan ko yan pakiramdam na yan dun sa panganay ko masakit as mother not to see your child like other normal child but god gave us these angels sobrang nakaka frustrate pero worth it pagnakita mo siya lumaki maayos at magalang kahit papaano my eldest son is good brother to his youngest siblings with ASD hindi madaling but it takes a lot of patience at time kaya wag po sumuko at patuloy lang sila mahaling at alagaan tulad po ngyon may bagong hamon naman po ako hinaharap sa aking 6 yrs old na may ASD totoo magkakaiba sila kaya magkakaibang strategy ang kailangan 💪🏻 fight lang ms Anne madami po tyo may ganitong pinag daanan sa araw araw kaya laban lang 😉

Anne, your feelings are valid. I can feel your pain. I’m also raising an autistic child who is 5 years old. There will be behavioural issues because of their inability to express themselves. I think you need to let the school know what are Joo’s triggers - loud sound, crowded spaces etc. Joo’s behaviours shouldn’t be viewed as aggression but rather he’s trying to let people know how he feels. As you said he shows cues before he acts…understanding exactly what happens before he acts is important. It could be as not knowing how to share a toy or someone going into personal space - these are hard to explain situation where he doesn’t know to say no to someone. ABA OT and speech therapy are ways for him to learn. They’re your support system. But at the same time Joo will need real life challenges like the school to challenge him of what he has learned. I’ll be praying for you and most especially Joo…I know in time give the chance by the school he’ll get used to it - routines, noise and being surrounded with a lot of people. Also, may I add that maybe Joo is not eating enough at school and he doesn’t know how to ask to eat. Having PECS will give him a voice. Another way is through an App such as an IPad. App likes Visuals2Go and Proloquo2Go are ways to Joo to communicate. Another way is through visual schedules that Joo can have to give him warning during transitions in class. Hang in there. I know you’re whole family are very supportive especially Papa Kits

Ahahaha, mama Anne seryoso nakong nananood syo bigla akong ntawa sa ARAY KO PUTA YUN LASHES KO🤣🤣🤣

Hello sis Ann, lahat po ng symptoms ni Joo same po sa alaga ko dito sa Hk. Since birth 'til now alaga ko sya.. 8yrs old na sya ngayon sobrang improved nya this year. Naging shadow teacher ako etc. Sana mae - share ko kahit papaano kc "same talaga sila ni Joo.. Silent viewer 🤗

My brother went to a normal preschool but he was then diagnosed with mild autism and speech delay. He was eventually kicked out because he hurt his other classmates and walked everywhere in the classroom. We enrolled him in a small sped school in which he improved a lot. Now, he's enrolled in a normal highschool. Still has anger issues but more controlled than before.

At kayo din po as a family po ni Joo, take time to communicate your difficulties kasi though joo is well loved by everyone in the family, it is still very taxing and could take a toll on your mental health too. Treat yourselves and educate everyone in the family para mo well supported si Joo and kayo din po as supporters ni Joo.

just finished watching the vlog, and its always good to know that papa kits is always there for you mama anne. I love your familyyy 💖

Mamy anne yung anak po di ba ni ms. Candy pangilinan parang pareho ng case ni joo try nyo po magwatch din sa vlogg nya kasi may shinishare din sya about sa autism kung di ako nagkakamali meron syang book MOMMY DEAR OUR SPECIAL LOVE

I noticed sa public school ngaun mdaming nka enroll na may Autism. Meron nga 16yo na nka enrolled sa grade 5 kaklase ng daughter ko. I make sure na sinasabihan ko ang anak na i-welcome and dont look at them differently. That they are special in their own ways but they are still children like her. If all parents would have an open mind about autism I think mawawala ang stigma. Be strong Anne. Joo is fine and he is a wonderful boy. Hugs💚

Super relate with your struggles. My daughter was diagnosed with asd at the age of 3, she’s turning 7 next month and just started sped schooling. I got interested with your vlogs because i can really relate as a mom with asd child. God bless!

Mama Anne siguro po bawasan po ang pagkain nya po ng sweets kasi yun po yung sabi ni Ms. Candy pag more sweets more chance po na mag tantrums or maging hiper siya po.