Narcissist Infuriated When Faces Karma, Payback, Punishment 

That is my mom to a "T," She has Big beautiful blue eyes and a beautiful smile and uses it to trick people and get her way.

I get that. I have reached a place where the more outgoing and "nice" people are the more wary I become. And that's everyone. I second guess myself and this attitude but it's survival

I know what you mean! It makes me feel like I'm in the twilight zone.

Same

Likewise.

How so?

@Whipporwhill I only discovered the full extent of her problem in the discard, I was in a bad way and wondering what was wrong with me that I could be so personally destroyed. Then in the process of understanding her there was a lot of compare and contrast with my self and others. When dealing with personalities, there is no pure form, there are types that can be benign, malignant or somewhere between. I learned that I have a pattern that sets me up for these disastrous relationships. It does not excuse what they do, but now that I know ,then I need to adjust my own behaviour.

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​@@MsRapture10i totally understand.

I would believe you. Stay safe and try to stay ahead of the traps.

Well said.

That is so true!

Excellent metaphor!

@@Billie-1357 - It can be that damaging to one's health. Outsiders who aren't going through it don't understand, and they might increase pressure to tolerate the narcissist they help enable. You gotta do what you gotta do, even when many won't understand you, or worse, judge you negatively for it.

Always. It’s a Biblical law that we all activate knowingly or unknowingly the law of reaping and sowing. When you do evil, you make a reservation in the spirt realm that it will return unto you!

​@@sicibell well, i would like to believe this and see evidence in this life. My life has been destroyed by a dark psycho and I dont see any light.

"Always"...? How do you know...? I am faving a very but hard situation and this criminal psycho went through his whole f***** life without getting the bill? He knows perfectly howvto commit crimes and stay in the grey zone. Now for almost 60 years leaving after him suffering, destruction, pain, broken lives, empty bank accounts...a real sadic, perverse, machiavelic psycho who LOL of us, his victims and enjoys our pain. When, where, how...does he end "always" to get his bill??!!

@@c.m.r.1745 let me delve alittle bit further with my personal testimony. If you haven't surrendered your life to Jesus Christ and become reborn again, please do so and He will dispel the darkness! You absolutely can defeat them when you give your life to Jesus because He is the light of the world and darkness WILL NOT overcome you! Narcissism is spiritually rooted, hence, why the DSM-5 deems no cure because it's like trying to treat cholesterol with blood pressure medication. You can't treat a spiritually rooted problem from a medical standpoint, as antidepressants and antipsychotic drugs only aggravate the demons. Narcissists are possessed with the Jezebel spirit and plagued with many lower ranking demonic spirits. Did you ever stop and think about why they are do the same thing? They didn't go to Narc Academy 101, therefore, there's your evidence! They are sent on assignment from Satan because God has a purpose and plan for your life and the thief (Satan) only comes to steal, kill and destroy whether that be mentally, physically, spiritually, etc. The ex-narc baby daddy would falsely accuse parental alienation and God defeated him and his toxic enabling mother in court EVERYTIME! This is another Biblical law that God will vindicate you in court when lies and slander (Satan) is coming against you if you've repented for your sins and become reborn again. Satan attempted murder by way of strangulation on my daughter. I installed a security camera to record pick-up and drop-offs which captured my daughter's state of well-being/testimony as well as the physical markings left behind. I pretended all was OK until the following week to confront the demon and he unhinged on camera while attempting to deny, lie and gaslight. Par for the course! His denial was his confession, as his body language and mouth were doing all the talking. They (Mother & Son LLC) acquiesced for a year to reopen the lines of communication and could not elicit a response from me because I was ignoring them that they started to doubt their own existence. I knew he was going to take me to court but was holding the ace in my pocket. Lo and behold he did, and I exposed Satan and the fruitless deeds done in the dark by returning a 28-page counteranswer to his 2-page petition two days before our hearing. Satan hit the ground running and entered a continuance to then not show up to court and sent his mother. In the interim, he texted me that he wasn't going to continue to fight me in court and closed with goodbye woman! That was always the end goal and the sweetest words I ever heard Satan utter. The Satanic human agents want to wear you down, but YOU need to challenge them and wear them down with the Sword of the Lord which is the Bible. And that my friend is the law of reaping what you sow. What Satan accuses you of, is EXACTLY the very thing that brings them shame, disgrace and exposure. Pride comes before the fall and what was meant for evil God will turn for your good. God allows the narcissist to enter your life because that's the only way He can get your attention is when your back is against the wall. I always knew the police and legal system couldn't help me because we are in a spiritual war with Satan everyday. I go back to; this is why you can't treat spiritually rooted problems from the lens of this physical world. Jehovah Rapha, Our Healer wants to heal you and bind up your wounds. Remember, His promise in the Our Father is that He will deliver us from evil because he wants the glory. Satan wants you to worship him, hence, the narcissist, but that's idolatry and worshipping another god. Binding ourselves with the narc is breaking the first Commandment and why bad things are allowed in our world because God is man of covenant. We must come out of agreement with what we ignorantly signed onto and then He can intercede and fight the battle for us! I hope my story encourages you that there is hope and healing waiting for you on the other and it's because Jesus died for our sins. We need to repent for our sins and where we allowed Satan to infiltrate our lives in such an evil way. Satan can't just jump on you and that's why the sins of our parents fall on us. The narcissist was allowed in our lives because there is/was a demonic altar that our parent's and ancestor's erected without our knowledge. How do I know this? When I was 6 years' old, I looked up my mother and said there's something radically wrong with her. Years later as I stood in my daughter's bedroom (while in the relationship with the narc) God exposed I was dating my mother's male counterpart after having words with her on the phone. God was always trying to break through and why it felt like an angel versus a demon! If you need anything else, please feel free to reach out. Sending you love in Christ Jesus! God bless! Jesus is and will always be King of Kings and Lord of Lords! Amen and amen!

Congratulations, it will be a long hard road of self healing, but as you will no longer be wasting effort on someone else you will be planting a good crop for a decent harvest.

Well done! Stay strong 💃

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Stay safe ❤

Blessings.

*them, support them*.

@@benmahdjoubharoun1467 thank you.

Damn, this is so accurate. The court system supporting them is something I don't hear people talk about much but its my exact experience too. They are master manipulators and even judges fall victim. Its very discouraging.

Dude.. nailed it bullseye

OMG, so WELL SAID. “They teach you to treat you bad”. That is a classic statement. At that point you are the victim over and over and over and over again. And at that point you have probably lost ALL YOUR money, much less your sanity.

I’m wondering the same thing; how do we help others to see right through them?

@@annier895 - One of the methods I employ is to consistently remind the enablers of the gravity / damage the narcissist caused. You can't necessarily fault enablers for forgetfulness, although on the other hand confronting their Denial brings them back to facing Reality. Another thing, challenging an enabler / friend on their passivity or conflict-avoidance can squarely sober them up. "Can". No guarantees. It can be a lonely experience when standing firm against the narcissist, especially when enablers and outsiders don't want to hear the full truth and context of the problem.

Unfortunately, it's not an easy task to do. Covert Narcissist start smearing you very early in the zero-sum situationship. Some will see in their own time - a few will tell you later, but others want no parts of either of you.

​@annier895 It's very difficult...when they get in first. It's only the first story...that is often believed.

Just be aware that they may not be deceived victims, but enablers

here here !!

@@MsRapture10 Exactly, well stated.

Don't forget, they're "stupid."

@@joefuge2978 100%

over the rainbow, somewhere

And for your children’s lives, even if they are adults. Just out of 42 years abuse by a narc.

Why?

While you're waiting for a video series: Depending on what you mean by living better - self-supply, tackling envy and catching yourself with (mis) behaviours would get you pretty far in my unprofessional opinion with a few years experience of sloppily watching this channel. Prof.V's Cold therapy is still unavailable if I hadn't missed any updates for alleviating the need for narcissistic supply and tackling grandiosity. (I apologise in advance to prof.V for not doing as much due diligence as I could've and should've, as well as blame the Dunning-Kruger effect.) (*Edit: I am allocating blame for any unintentional misinformation of the DK effect - the poor English in the last sentence is fully on me and my negligence 🤦)

Living better with a narcissist or a psychopath...🤔🤔???

​@@Dystopia2024 no they mean if you're a narcissist or a psychopath yourself.

Mere mortals decompose. Vampires never do.

Some pronoun density there.

I'm so deeply sorry to hear that you are suffering over this...cruel

Record him without him knowing.

@@t.a.4356 that really doesn’t help. Narcs usually win in court.

Karma doesnt work on your time, it works on God’s time. Dont worry, it will come

@@felicianewman5306can you explain what you mean? Narcs are good at convincing judges? Constructing false alibis/narratives? 😂 I think I already answered my own question

Mine wore a mask for 3 years. When it slipped then it fell hard! No going back to him when I saw him for what he was, for all the evil he was.

Who is Sam Vaknin?

Watch the shared fantasy playlist.

Watch the NA Healing playlist.

Knowledge and time is the only way out

I want to hide this now. Too much fits, but not the innocent angle. I do feel victimised, but there are very few I want to share this belief with, and then its only to get some support. I'm really confused, but can understand positions taken "against" my behaviours and the resulting personality.

@@sirhcduhomagegeneral advice: practice putting yourself in other people’s shoes. Visual other people’s perspectives. This may be a coincidence, but you say the word “I” a lot in your comments here. Do you consider yourself self-absorbed? Again, it may be a coincidence, I mean no offense to you.

@divinegon4671 i don't know any other way to speak of my experience. I'm asking for advice on myself, because that's the only person I can change. I show my gratitude to others, and offer help where I can. I, I, I, I cannot help improve my learned speech patterns on a wank at home disability benefit.

@@sirhcduhomage I totally get you, man. I regret typing my comment lol. That’s something I imagine a girl using a sound logic and good enough for her to make a total judgement about you from.

@divinegon4671 Hey, it's fine. Thanks for your honesty, nobody else says it. I really think exploring the modern taboo topics can help alleviate a lot of fear. If not, fools will eventually convince the wise, and magical thinking will dominate. You're right about a level of narcissistic traits I hold. It's a strange age we're in, and doubt it's unique in human history. (It took a while to remove a lot of I's in this message)

Search the contemporary sexuality playlist.

Search the channel.

I have to work with one and I’ve finally had enough and got another job. I have 2 weeks left, I feel like I’ll leave running out of that building like it’s on fire!

Search the channel for CPTSD.

Search the channel for "empath".

Not at all..The community of victims have grown up long time ago.but we have a hard time facing reality that some grown ups are still 3 years old..incapable of responsibility for any action.

How do we know who they are and stay away from them?

Lack of empathy,constant need of attention,"uncanny valley",the do no wrong (never),gossiping ,always playing victim card when in fact they are the abuser.

Wow!

They rewrite history .

Watch the comorbidities playlist.

@@samvaknin Thank you I appreciate the guidance!!!