Narcissistic Parents: Rebuilding Your Emotional Backbone They Ruined

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@jerrywise Год назад

Finally get your family OUT OF YOU & be the true self you were never allowed to be 👇 Access my free training - jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027 ‘Road to Self’ Program: Join 10,000+ people who have transformed their lives! www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/road-to-self

@BarbaraMerryGeng 3 года назад

Yep - being assertive by itself - is not going to cut it in the long run.. One has to develop understanding of how things work 🤗

@SusanaXpeace2u 3 года назад

So true, in my family, assertiveness and boundaries cause dragons to be let loose on me

@jerrywise 3 года назад

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@SusanaXpeace2u 3 года назад

Ive been mobbed by my entire family, mum, dad and brother. None of them are talking to me. Ive tried. All i did was assertively tell them they hurt me and they are the victims of me now and they also trashed me to my aunts. And as if that isnt bad enough she is always trying to tell my teens im stressed, im angry, im silly. Anything but the truth; she hurt me. I am so alone.

@hannahsinnerhealingforum6395 2 года назад

Am so sorry 😞 Susan, my prayers are with you, I know how you feel been through rejection from family as well

@trev777 4 года назад

Man once again, such helpful material. I've been reading "when I say no I feel guilty" but this makes me realize there's so much more to be assertive. I have a lot of work to do but am so glad I'm on this journey and am able to grow! Thx again for this wisdom!!!!!!!! God Bless You!

@AnDitaLee 3 года назад

Generally the only people who respond positively or neutrally when you set a boundary are people with healthy boundaries themselves. Otherwise one needs to prepare for less than a neutral response. So for someone like me, who is only just learning to know how I really feel, let alone how to speak on it, I think this is very important information. There is way more to it than just saying something. For beginners, practice speaking up for yourself in situations where you don’t have important connections. Then you can kinda practice on some lower hanging fruit without huge emotional risk.

@Kwood10 5 лет назад

I don’t have an emotional back bone . I try but emotions get the better of me & I react .... not good for relationships I’ve decided to just stay quiet . Anytime I’ve tried to tell the truth or how I feel it ends up badly . 😢

@melaniel7263 5 лет назад

Gecko Gal I hear you!

@tanman1994 4 года назад

I can totally relate.

@sarahlynnadamit3694 4 года назад

Thank you from Jerusalem, Israel! You are a gift. 🇮🇱

@harrygeorge3220 Год назад

Hello Sarah How are you doing today?

@TrainerLiz1 Год назад

You look so much healthier now! Way2go on more self-care for yourself

@MichaelFischbach 5 лет назад

Jerry you hit the nail in the back bro. "Be an expert on you . . ." Awareness and Perspective

@karenmackay4289 6 лет назад

How do you know so many guilty secrets like 'dont want to grow up'? It actually tells me you really know what you are talking about and that there is no place to hold back ways and thoughts that are toxic but known. Both a challenge and a relief.

@Trista1983 5 лет назад

I love you Mr. Jerry! You are speaking to exactly where I am on my healing journey. I thank God I came across these videos.

@belcantomarionette 6 лет назад

Thank you, Jerry. Generosity of Spirit is a blessed encouragement that is so heartening to witness. I have subscribed, watched several of your videos already & shall continue doing so. The aura of Healer is all about you. Well done, & more power to you.

@rebeccalavedarothwell7489 3 года назад

Thank you, your knowledge is fascinating and admirable. Thank you for recommending the books and identifying some beliefs that people hold (including myself), which is really just normalising what is not healthy... I will be studying art therapy and person-centered counselling for the next four years. I hope that I can discover more deeply that you have come to know. Rebecca, Ireland.

@harrygeorge3220 Год назад

Hello Rebecca How are you doing today?

@larenewetlook9068 6 лет назад

I think this is really an awesome video, thank you

@dangeroussneeze66 4 года назад

It’s difficult to stand up for what’s right. It’s even harder to do it when you’re in the minority

@cherylruhr6001 6 лет назад

I feel rotten and anxious when my teen makes choices I think are bad. Dealing with my illusions about how his life should go is where I can dig in today.

@lizafield9002 4 года назад

You are a heroic mom. It will never be perfect but your brave struggle to be wise & mature for his sake will be sterling silver & gold for your soul. Helps the whole planet.

@ggidnarte 3 года назад

Sounds like my family! The example of the mother and family

@periswachukaKaruiru 6 лет назад

Thank you so much for this its really helpful

@wordswordswords.5422 4 года назад

Good video. thank you for all the book referrals.

@LorelaiMusic147 Год назад

Thank you Jerry 💫from Belgium, Europe

@janicechaudhury6043 7 лет назад

Excellent video Jerry.

@donnetted 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for your work.

@NB-pj8dc 6 лет назад

Thank you Jerry. I never heard it put quite this way, and it was very helpful.

@alissadeprosse3534 2 года назад

Thank you Jerry.

@jerrywise 2 года назад

You're very welcome Alissa ❤️

@Belinda. 3 года назад

With a narsistic parent u dont have wants and needs. Thy think for you thy tell you what you're want and need is. You dare not have an opinion of your own because thy 2will bulldoze over it

@jerrywise 3 года назад

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@SpiritualTarotGoddess 3 года назад

I would.jump.right in. No more introductions

@sophiatrinity3339 4 года назад

THANK YOU 🙏🙏🙏

@jerrywise 4 года назад

You are so welcome

@luanacroella8106 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much!!!

@jerrywise 8 месяцев назад

You're welcome!

@carriemunnick9980 6 лет назад

That was a very helpful video. Thanks

@shahilagh 4 года назад

greetings ! can you please speak about how to do it when someone is going through a tough time? for example, I was emotionally strong all my life .. but life conditions (e.g., chronic illness) brings us down and makes us vulnerable (e.g., in from of narcissistic parents to whom we suddenly need to have contact to). I wonder if you would please talk about this

@honeybadgernasty 6 лет назад

Good job! Your video helped 😊

@OyaRevolutionary 5 лет назад

Good stuff

@rebeccab.463 6 лет назад

Perhaps you could balance out your videos with examples of men who are also the agressors or the controllers. Love your videos but your examples seem to most often be about the mother/wife.