Only a „super empth" can solve this easly: 1) A super empath has a strong sense of awareness by questioning them wihout fear, they call them out 2) A super empath sees through a narcissist's mind games, 3) A Super empth break a narcissist ego by pointing out their insecurities, 4) A super empath doesn't take anything personally because of arrested kid stuck in adult's body, 5) A super empath fight with narcissist real hard because they have a strategy. They know the predictable behavior.
My ex has been watching me. Last week he broke my garden furniture and left a note, past thursday i found a dead mouse on my doorstep and today i was moving and hes seen my belongings in my friends car and kicked the rear bumper off. Im now in my new home with a new phone number, new email, new everything and all hes got to look forward to is jail for 10 years with no visitors.
That is why the recommendation is to become silence and invincible for at least a year. To recover and find your real own me and don’t give the narcist any possibility to know what you are doing
I agree with what you are saying, and it did happen in the past, but it is not happening now. They don't like being out of control, so they cut their losses and leave. These particular family members really don't have anything to do with us. I don't actually consider them part of the family any more, and the revolving door has turned into a door that locks. GOODBYE!!!
My narcissistic father in law would always “drop by “unannounced . Drew a boundary with him but then he would drop a “present” by . I cut that tactic off too by boundaries, it wasn’t taken well. A month later my mechanic found an apple tag on my car. He earlier talked about buying apple air tags for a travel trip …
Too true. While so called ”in the relationship”, he would feel free to ignore me, not follow through on a plan, etc. But he also lived within view of my car. So, had I actually felt like talking with him, I could just drive away and within minutes my phone would ring with him questioning where I went! It was bizarre.
I dated a creep like this who I suspect put a tracking device on my car. He would turn up out of nowhere wherever I was. He told me if I tried to date anyone else he would show up and cause trouble. I finally had to get the police involved to get rid of the creep. Just a real scumbag…
@@fifilafleur5555 I'm a guy and have been able to spot a male narc fairly easy. I'd lived with a narc wife for 22 years so I started listening to these videos and watching and learning. I could have saved one girl a lot of trouble, but it was a group setting and I wasn't asked to get involved. Would you get upset if I got between you two and said something? I've asked this question before and never got a clear answer. Let me know if you would.
Update: the grandiose narcissist who broke my heart is trying to enter my life again, after 4 months of strict no contact that I imposed. Why? Because he saw another man flirting with me (another selfish, not really nice man, also).. Because he now knows that I am over him. Of course, thanks to your videos, I have healed, he cannot influence or convince me for anything and I know what this is all about. It's sad that most charming men in my country are spoilt, narcissistic and players. I can spot them now. Thank you.
As a child survivor of a nasty covert upbringing in narcissism you seem to me to have a good grasp of what narcissism entails. I am very glad of the work you are doing to bring this personality disorder to peoples attention. Many thanks
Im working on to not go on social media. But its like I feel the pull and feel when he puts out a new picture. When I saw him and was with him in the end he looked old and I looked so young and beautiful. I was amazed and he also looked soooo young when with me it was insane. He will never ever forget me ever!
Imagine wasting your own time and days/years of your life on voyeuring others to the point of compulsion. There is no way someone is truly happy with their own self,life -deep down. It would be sad if it wasn’t so disturbing.Believe it or not? There are those who are at it on a daily basis. Mind blowing.
This begs (what appears to be the even deeper) question... why is the predatory narcissist even watching you in the first place?? Is it due to insecurity... envy... jealousy??🤔
@@anoushkamarcinto seize u up too mentally if u r still vulnerable and to able to feel they can still mentally dominate you again…which allows them to feel they’re still superior to u and u r still their puppet 😂😂who knew these lunatics even existed in the first place weak people with inner dark emptiness these people r posssesed by smthg dark saw with my own eyes the full dark black widened pupils in the eyes 👀
Relocating for me will finally end the off and on for 8 years. Its been 4 weeks since las t breakup. She is giving me silent treatment now. She has popped up a few times unexpectedly 😮
Narcissist tried to love bomb me, second time we met, she was rude and disrespectful, even tried to make me jealous. Told me to call her later to go for a coffee, and when the time came, just came up with pathetic excuses, saw her again a few months later and the same thing, leading me on, only to reject me later on - I just got fed up of her games and ignored her from then on, they are morons really!!!!!
Lmfao I set mine up to meet and never showed. Felt good to be honest. Then gave her a taste of her own medicine by replying 2 weeks later to her rage filled texts about being stood up by changing the subject.
@@Florence-zg1mc Yep, they can do it to you, but they can't stand it when it's the other way around. Knew one guy that set it all up, showed her these plane tickets, and said the trip was all on him, then sold them on. She went to the air-port and started calling him, he kept making excuses instead, then turned the phone off, he was sitting at home all the time. 😁
I'm no longer in the relationship I'm no contact at all I've relocated and moved away. How can she still view my life and stalk me? No longer possible is it? I'm out of the Web 🕸️ Thats 8 months ago. Havent heard a thing. No messages No contact Shes vanished from my life. Its over shes in the past. Shes no control over me So its victory over the narc 💪👋👍🏻🙂
I'm overly tired of them and their weirdo behavior, it's boring and pointless. I don't see why people doubt themselves when they know narcissists are crazy. How can people be so fragile to the point of not trusting themselves. I'm always going to trust me over a narc.
I was wondering when she'd show up again. Two weeks ago she popped up in my AA zoom meeting. At first, she wouldn't allow her video feed but the next meeting she did. She immediately began trying to control me although I was in control of the meeting as secretary. She was catching my eye and I'm wondering if she will make a move. I think she is somewhat afraid of me because I told her to go away when she started yelling at me one day. We shall see.
Hi Anoushka! A while back I joined your live & asked a question about why they suddenly stop watching? Well, you were right! They always come back and watch! He’s watching from a third party website now. 😂😂 This is crazy! I am thinking of changing my business page to a private account. But I don’t want to provoke a drive by my house😩😩😩😩 Any tips?
Thank you for your question… I would suggest not making you business page private because it won’t serve your business well. Perhaps a malware device or software that blocks third party interactions. Ask in a computer shop if there is something that can block these types of website. I know there is software that can do that. But don’t know the name of it. In time it won’t bother you that he is watching 👀 he just likes to keep an eye on what you’re doing.
They really seek seek people I know she has been watching me even confront my new relationship. Is all abaut control. We feeling really traiting you. Be aware what is around you. In my case I been involved with Lauraine. I wish the family is a cult really dangerous people. Walk away from them DANGEROUS
omfg...i cleared my socials, started anew and she smears my name by calling me the stalker! i said "f-it" and "f-her with her rebound" i had already quit painscrolling months ago not my issue her family's dying-it's NO CONTACT-use your new supply for support! (sorry if some find that a bit callous after a 12+ year marriage-i missed so many other funerals being with her)
