i have this placement in the sign of gemini, lots of anxiety and overthinking while being intimate. i believe this explains why i consider myself a sapiosexual i need mental stimulation and mental calmness if i’m going to have sex! i also struggle with pleasure. mercury is in my 12th house with my sun in libra. lots of mental activity around these things. thank you for this!
I deleted my original response because I thought this was Mercury in the 8th and not Saturn. There are multiple reasons for that reaction but remember that if you are a Water sign, you may want to be sure that the person really cares for you. That's hypothetical but the point is, we've devolved as a society if we think it's old-fashioned to take sex seriously. Some people still have beating hearts and care about these important issues.
My Saturn 8th house is ruled by the Taurus sign, I feel like sometimes I can’t fully bond with people the way I want to. Even tho it could be a bad drawback It is a strong willed placement to have I feel. It teaches you very intense lessons of solitude and understanding ur self.
This is a clear path to adepthood. Those with this placement, ENDURE, ACCEPT! Saturn wants your acceptance. Accept it! Take it! Nothing is going to happen except that you will become a MASTER. Then, that's when the real journey starts.
@@kcgritter9155 spoken from experience. I have Saturn in the 8th IN SCORPIO at that. And I’m past my Saturn return. Saturn can keep you away from ALOT of unnecessary bullshit, but you don’t understand while you are younger. The older you get the more thankful you become for this placement and the lessons you learn, sometimes you can’t share them with anyone, but from what you learn, you PRODUCE RESULTS and they will speak for you when your words can’t - you will learn the process of manifestation, trust me. And SEX? Let’s not even talk about that. Just study Tantra, the way of devotion. You’ll be so mysteriously attractive that you can put people into trance. However, to whom much is given, much is required- another Saturnian concept. Never give up. Peace.
@@DaddyLovesProWrestling85 I heard Saturn in 8th could also have people give money to them, but only when they don't expect anything. After all, time(Saturn) rules other's people's money(8th). How is your experience with other's people's money with this placement?
Saturn in Taurus in the 8th here. I inherited a house from dad at 26 years old and I asked him to give it to my brother, to help him start a family. So, I "lost" a house once. Afterwards, I married and we sold our own house to emigrate. We did not keep that house, either. We bought a house overseas and we lost it in 2008/recession. My obsession now is to have my own house, without implying anybody. Maybe my experience helps others understand their chart. And... sexually... I am ridiculously selective. But I still love Saturn. :)
Well, this whole video was correct. Yes, I am VERY controlling and a micromanager towards others, especially in the workplace. I flip out real bad, if people are not doing things a certain way, just to make sure to prevent something unpleasant from happening, as you said. Also, this placement makes a person VERY strict, because whatever planet is placed in the 8th house, it will put that qualities of that planet in steroids.
I have Saturn in Scorpio in the 8th house. I will say I do not find it easy to trust others. A lot of accuracies in this video. I also have Pluto, Venus, and Mars in the 8th house as well.
I have saturn and lilith on my 8th house, and yes i have a hard time to relax. The erectile dysfunction thing happens to me in a form of vaginismus where iys hard for my vaginal opening to let loose.
He might restrain to have sex with you, or he just love to see you naked. He might postponed sex with you until the time is right, but I think it is still better than just any other 8th that just rush and go there and dies quick. Saturn gives people time and patience and work, because it needs adaptation in whatever places in synastry.
My Saturn is 8th house in Pisces and my moon, Pluto and north node in Scorpio.. Jupiter is retro… I could see that there is a big karma about scorpion issues but i couldn’t name it.. all the women in my family especially moms family has their husbands burden on their shoulders. they’ve been pushing their lazy incapable men.. now I’m dealing with a husband that couldn’t cut his toxic bond with father and his mother their bond is just not healthy too much boundary issues. No boundaries at all actually.
That is a self-limiting belief right there. If you blame a planet for holding you back, that makes astrology disempowering. Ultimately we're responsible for the choices we make and if we give up too soon, that's on us. I don't know what I was saying in the video specifically because sometimes you might want something and it's really not for you. So limitations do exist in life that are logical too.