God bless you ladies. So accurate. 2 days ago I was having a discussion with myself infront of the mirror and these were my exact words: "there is a difference between someone giving their opinion about you with the intention of helping you work on yourself, and someone who criticizes you (more of lies) just to feel better about themselves. I stand up for myself and now I am a bad person. I tell them; if they have to bring me down to feel better about themselves, low self esteem is something they should work on in their lives.
Sorry for what you're going through. I'm just also learning thay the only way to truly escape is to acknowledge God and Jesus Christ as messiah and the one to save you from such destructions...
Our deliverance is not convenient for toxic people...you just have to cut them off...they truly will not bother you...I tried it and it works...they cannot monitor you anymore 🙏🏾🙌🏾🎯
Narcissistic spirits can be very dangerous. For anyone dealing with this, please seek God and continue to Trust Him. He sees the injustice and He will deal with it. Rest in His bosom, and obey His guidance. You’re stronger than you know.
I’m hopes of helping my spouse grow in his faith and learn to lead me and our 3 kid’s i have become that controlling person. It’s wrecking me, hurting him and separating us .. I see that now through this video. Thank you all for being so open and sharing because it makes a difference.
I had to get out of town and this hits close to home. Thank God that's in my past. I felt that he checked off all the boxes segment and whatever I need to do...whoo Jesus I had no business even being in a relationship let alone a marriage with this person 🙄
A CONTROLLING PERSON IS SOMEONE WHO IS UNHAPPY THATS WHY THEY BEHAVE THE WAY THEY DO CAUSE THEY DONT LOOK FOR HELP TO HEAL THEY WANNA TAKE REVENGE ON PEOPLE WHO IS GOOD TO THEM
Thank you for your honesty. I have been there. Left, but felt guilty for “hurting” him. Control is suffocating and it does keep us from hearing God’s voice. I love your music and now admire you even more.
NATALIE GRANT THANK YOU SO MUCH SISTER ❤️💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I. Needed. To. Hear. You. Speak. These words were for me. I really don’t want to cry right now. I got on that bus girl… I got on the bus. And I just really appreciate exactly how you communicated this. I’m at a domestic violence shelter in a different city now but one thing they aren’t educated on is men who know the word and use it to control. He says I’m a demon and that he has the authority from God to kill me. He uses scripture to point out what I must change about myself and my look. I promise I’m not bad. I was adopted at birth into a Jewish family and I never learned from the Bible. I just don’t want God to feel about me the way he describes. Sorry to rant. I just really related. I have changed so much about my life I just want God to love and accept me in Jesus’ mighty name I pray amen.
Thank you so much for this, I really needed this today. For me it's my Mother and my Mother in law. I am 48 and I have finally stood my ground and stepped back, and just now am coming to terms that I was abused, even as an adult. I forgive easily and I am easy to grasp reasons for their behavior. But it has done me a world of hurt and destruction. I feel so guilty because it is my mom but she is incredibly damaging to my soul. I don't think God wants that for me, so maybe I can let go of the guilt and move into what He has called me to do with my life, guilt free. Thank you.
This is so timely. One of my bff opened up to me and my other bff abt his boyfriend that’s trying to change her and told her that she’s not trying enough. She always thought that she’s wrong until we told her that’s actually toxic and red flag. This will help, God bless and thank you :)
Exodus 20:1-7 shows that the failure to acknowledge God as deliverer leads to idolatry in the home for which the children are punished for the sins of their fathers... So the toxic person being a parent is something that has happened for millennia. The way to escape that control is to: 1. Realize that they're that way because of the iniquity/idolatry of their own parents or their own idolatry. Idolatry is the inability to trust and depend on God as deliverer. 2. Forgive them for their wrongs and pray for God to heal them and reveal his son Jesus Christ to them for real. 3. Recognize and confess Jesus Christ as messiah who saved you from sins upon the cross and declare that you cannot save yourself from your parents errors. 4. Ask God to save you and give you a new beginning. God bless you
You can do it. There are lots of good videos on RU-vid to help guide you on narcissistic parents.If you are in a position where you cannot move out at this time, ask Holy Spirit to guide you to have boundaries and maintain your peace. I have pulled away emotionally and don't spend time with her like I used to. In the beginning it was hard because she didn't like being told no but I would rest on Jesus to calm my thoughts when I would get confused and 2nd guess my decisions. Stick to protecting and guarding your heart! You can do this- believe!
@@misskat7437 thank you so so much Would appreciate your prayers for my healing from abuse and from being told she wishes she Never Had me and the violence too Thanking you from Australia 🙏🌹✝️
@@0555pink once you accept she lives in an alternate reality and it isn't about you, it will get better. She treats everyone this way- she HAS to be in control. Narcissists aren't smart- same strategies different words. Not impressed, Satan!
@@joshdaniels.1102 Yes! After 30 years. 17 was horrible. I thought I could save the marriage for my 4 children. Obviously nothing I could of done was going to save it. Only God can heal and deliver a man from Narcissism.
@@lkw4348 Their favorite thing to do!! It’s all about them!!!🤦♀️ Truth is they victimized us. Exception is we came out without a victim mentality. Healed!
I have lots of Bible verses: Psalm 23 Romans 8:28, 31-32 Psalm 20, Philippians 4:6-7, 13 Jeremiah 29:11 Revelation 3:8 Sirach 2:9-10 Just a few of them.
Almost......What does light have to do with darkness? Righteousness with unrighteousness? They have a form of godliness, but deny it's power. Have nothing to do with them.
I could care less about the position...but to be on a team at a church where its team members really didnt want you there. The hurt of just not being valued. I do hear you though Natalie!!
I bind to hell to be around people who make me feel inadequate in accordance with psalm 37:4, john 10:10, jeremiah 29:11, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 and this word in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
Thanks , this was very helpful, a question here, what do u do when your in a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage and you feel your loosing yourself, been suicidal twice feel like I can’t do this anymore.
Hoping this devotional helps you. I left mine about 40 days ago, after a 15 year marriage, plus 2 years dating. Hardest decision, it hurts incredibly but I don’t regret it and it’s getting easier as the days go ny. I’m not suggesting you leave yours. I’m just sharing my experience. Join me in reading Never Less Than:
I AM AWAY FROM FAMILY ,FAKE FRIENDS ,JEALOUS NEIGHBOURS AM JUST WITH MY SONS ENJOYING MY LIFE NO NEGATIVE ENERGY ALLOWED HERE ,I DONT LET ANYONE CROSS MY BOUNDARIES AND I HAVE ONLY 2 ,DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY GOD AND DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY CHILDREN AND YESS PEOPLE DONT LIKE IT BUT WHY DO I CARE ,GODS WIL BE DONE IN ME AND MY CHILDRENS LIVE NOT MY WIL AND NOT THE WIL OF MEN 🙏
I was the one who tried to speak up and share my concerns but now I haven’t seen or had any contact with my daughter for two years and have a grand-daughter I haven’t met yet! Pray for me!
When we find ourselves suffering such inconveniences, then the issue is that we have not retained God in our imagination and as a result has given us over to be misused.... The issue is not that we choose to be in a relationship but that we elevated the achievement of the person and their knowledge of things (including revelation, bible knowledge, etc) as the reason they're a good choice above our own knowledge of God and Jesus Christ as our messiah, the son of the living God. This means that we're making that person our savior or ourselves and our ability to choose as our savior. This is idolatry. Marriage and family are built on the knowledge of God as deliverer. Any idea of anything else other than God as messiah leads to curses on the generations ... After Peter stated his God-given revelation of Christ as messiah, Jesus said to Simon "you are rock and upon this rock I'll build my church..."
Sounds like when I was in the Jehovah’s Witness cult I couldn’t just leave n go on with my life I had to resign from my job give up my apartment and get out of town !
