I think it's funny how you would never see this many negative comments on makeup/beauty videos but when someone texturizes/relaxes their hair there are no other comments but negative ones. Sounds like y'all have some underlying personal insecurities about your own hair because there is no reason everyone should care THIS much. If you for some reason have hate towards people that chemically alter their hair, then stay away from these videos. It's simple.
Natural hair nazis be so damn ANGRY all the time lmaooo tf wrong with yall in these comment sections b 😂😂😂😂 do y'all sit n search "relax" and "texlax" to leave bitter comments?? Why does what someone wants to do with their hair to make it more manageable affect yall so much? Y'all need to go tf somewhere. So annoying 😒
Why do people act like getting your hair relaxed is like getting new hair implanted into your hair it's still the same hair that person grew just in a different texture
NiTEVibe98 Because thats not the natural state of the hair that you grew out of your head. Saying that their hair isnt natural doesnt mean its fake. It just means that its not in its natural state, because its been chemically altered.
Jhopes ARMY shampoo chemically alters your hair as well. If you use it without conditioner it can cause dryness and breakage. Who really cares about texture? If she wants less single strand knots and shrinkage then that's ok.
Teu Chnar I never said it was wrong, and me washing the dirt out of my hair and scalp isn't chemically altering it... It's washing it, just like how we have to brush our teeth to keep them clean and the same with the rest of our bodies. Changing the complete structure of your hair, isn't natural. It didn't grow out your hair like that. Why are people trying to make it a insult and get so defensive over this?
Not sure why natural haired people are so angry, condescending, and judgmental when someone chooses to do something different with their hair. It's ok for me to wear a wig or weave, masked as "protective styling", but God forbid I CHOOSE to relax my hair. Hypocrite much?
googleuser Gurl preach. And her hair still looks "natural". I dont even understand why people get caught up in that word so much. Shampoo is not natural. Neither is toothpaste, cell phones etc. Some of these people are really trippin.
Weave doesn’t change to the texture of your hair. So there’s a big difference. That’s not being a hypocrite but sure 😂I see where you’re coming from everyone is entitled to their opinion
So many grown ass natural hair women took the time to come to this video, dislike it and leave hate comments. Really?! If you don't like and or agree with texlaxed or relaxed hair then why watch the video??? Everybody is not the same and if people want to change their appearance then they have the right to do so. What they eat doesn't make you shit so leave them the hell alone! It's not that difficult, honestly, truly...
I was Natural for two years & I couldn't no longer manage my natural hair. Now, I usually put a just for me perm in my hair twice a year & usually wear braids. #2eachisown
I had no idea texlaxing was a thing. My hair would still be wavy/curly when I was relaxed but I thought it was because I would be lazy and half ass apply the relaxer. lol
Almost two years natural and then I texlaxed ,simply because of the shrinkage,it was too damn much !!!didn't feel like working hard to stretch it. (Update 7 months after,I cut of all the hair,turns out I hate texlaxed hair,it would only look good if my hair was longer,I should've went with a relaxer!)remember ladies,hair grows,do what makes you happy
+PredyJessica same. I like to enjoy my growth when I get some.. my face is way to big for short shrunken hair lol its beautiful and everything but I cant deal. I've went natural 6 times, 6! always go back to the texturizer. its good for lazy people like myself. and I know its odd but I actually experience way less damage, breakage, and single strand knots with texturized hair. its just more manageable over all. no regrets except going natural.. my hair would've been way longer by now if I didn't waste so much time lol
+aliyah adams Same here. Been natural too many times to count. I promised my sister that I wasn't gonna cut my hair anymore. But I just cant take it no more (being natural). So, Im keeping my promise too her - however, Im gonna texturize my natural hair and stay that way from now on. NO MORE FLIP FLOPPING! Like u said - just hv wasted too much time on this hair situation. OMG! My hair could have been down my bra strap by now!
Not knocking what's for you, but if we had a bit more patience for our length to grow in, we would see that our natural hair is so amazingly beautiful and dope because of its texture. I must admit when mine was shorter I wanted to relax it so many times but be patient and I promise you will not regret it! Gotta get past the first two years of TWA stage! It's super hard but worth it! Just keep healthy hair practices until it gets some hang time. Please my beautiful sistas!
Thanks for the advice, my hair looks like 4a 4b,with 3c at the nape, big chopped last month, was not Happy, but its getting better everyday, but my problem is Moisture retention. The nape and back is always so soft, but the middle and front is mostly dry and frizzy. Pls advice me
+Kwameika Postell Agree completely. The first year being natural, I wanted to slap on a texturizer but after being natural for about 1 year and two months, I loved my hair more than ever.
I been natural for seven years and bout to go back to relaxing it. My hair grow good with and without a relaxer. It just I don't have time to deal with my natural hair, The my daughters, my son and husband.😩
You should try to start at on crown area and then the on sides, the hair tends to be ciarser in those two areas. After that the front and at last the back.
thank you for this tutorial, I tried this product today it came out lovely. My hair is softer and I still have curls I love it. I love whoever made this product. I would of never thought of Just for Me because it's for kids. I'm glad for watching RU-vid enjoy your texturizer.
crazymusicgrl Girl boo. I take care of my natural hair way better than my relaxed hair. Of course adding chemicals isn't healthy, but that doesn't mean your hair can't be healthy. I'm currently natural with a big fluffy beautiful 4c fro. But is relaxed hair easier to manage and does my hair grow faster with it? Absolutely. Lmao maybe your body just couldn't take the relaxer.
I love it!!! It looks great! Im noticing a lot more naturals with "4b-c type" (don't really eff with hair typing, but for the sake of this comment, lol) hair texture texlaxing. Im all for increased manageability and for ppl to do whatever works for them. Your texlaxed hair looks alot like my natural hair.
I'm 4c, 4b, and 4a and I'll never relax my hair. I haven't since 4 years ago. I love my hair, but I do understand it's a lot to take care of. To each his or her own.
I would have applied the relaxer to the parts of my hair ik are thicker and tighter, me personally I have a type 4b in the crown of my head, 4a around the sides and 3c at the nape of my neck, I would apply the relaxer in that order of right to loose curls, then i end it with doing my edges, that’ll give me a more even finish and keep my hair still looking somewhat natural
I understand that it’s to each it’s own but maintenance is maintenance. If you want long, healthy hair, you have to put the work in regardless if you’re natural or “texlaxed” or relaxed. 3c or 4c , you’re still going to have to sit there and detangle, shampoo, condition, deep condition, etc. Loosening up your texture saves you like 15 minutes I guess but there’s no shortcuts so it’s so crazy how people keep trying to find them.
U just said it... It saves them time ( Maybe 15 min.. Maybe 30 depends on the head of hair)-- So That IS the shortcut lol. So their goal is met: less time and easier to get thru.
As Black women, we're the mass consumers of hair relaxers, especially with at-home no-lye hair kits. I just wish we could develop a 100% natural hair relaxer that doesn't have the long term health effects as traditional relaxers. We should have the freedom to do what we want with our hair. The issue is having the freedom to do what we want with our hair safely.
The back (nape) is much straighter than the rest, stretched out ...the nape or neck area tends to be looser compared to the rest of your hair, including the (crown) and (hair line) areas, so next time apply to those areas last because it takes less time for them to loosen up
Ladies. If you want to relax, relax. Just know what you call kiddie perms like Just for Me relaxers are just adult relaxers marketed towards kids. There is no difference in the chemicals or the strength between that and Regular Adult relaxer. Also a helpful tip. When you relax or "texlax" you need to apply the product and stretch your hair not just apply the product.
And then why are people getting all worked up... it's a free country babe do whatever you want with ur hair damaging or not. You can always grow them back.
Same thing happened to the back of my hair. I still haven't cut it after my hair grew out and I stopped putting the just for me relaxer because the back of my hair is easier to put in a bun but once the hair in the front get longer. I will cut it!
people this is not a texlax... she put in a straight relaxer not chaser... there is a just for me texturizer softer that has a bottle of oil to mix in with the relaxer... I've seen people put conditioner in their mixture or put olive oil in their mixture... but this is a relaxer...
She already said that she did a lot of it incorrectly. But also I think she may have let it process on her head in a shorter amount of time than recommended (since she washed it out right away) because it definitely didn't come out bone straight.
You can texlax with a relaxer. If you compare the ingredients of a relaxer and teturizers they are most nearly exactly the same. Don't let the marketing of these companies fool you. they're exactly the same. Youll get the same results with a relaxer and a texturizer if you leave them both on for a short time.
I hope you know that texlaxer isn't the same as relaxer. Texturizer doesn't go immediately from kinky to curly/wavy. 1) it takes time. 2) you're hair texture looks the same but feels different. I have texlaxed hair. I'm a natural 4C. My hair now looks like a 4B/4C mix but feels like a 4A/4B She didn't do it wrong, it just takes time
Henna treatment stretches the curls and improve the strenght of the hair. It contains no chemicals and you can do it as often as you want. I personnaly mix mine with olive, avocado and castor oil. You hair looks great but I think it's may be extreme for the results you want to achieve. Natural products can actually give you results like that.
Jewel Roberts I've been natural for 6 years and been doing everything, it's still only neck length and I've been patient. Natural hair may grow but it's not as easy for everyone, it takes a long time and a lot of money.
Noelle Morgan hair is easier to de tangle. The point of texlaxing is not to make it straight but to just loosen the hair a bit while keeping an Afro look
💁You know people always have something to say about what a person or how a person do there hair. 🤷Like so what if she wants to relax her hair it just hair. She did a great job to me 😊💞🌼💗🦋💓🌞💖✨💕😁
Smh the hate in these comments is unreal, I see why a lot of relaxer videos turn the comments off. Black women can be so mean and hateful towards others for choosing not to follow a trend. Like it's against the law to have anything but natural hair gtfoh
I Think The Reason That Back Turned Straight is Because The Hair is Finer As is Mine lol I Would Do That Last, B4 You Do Your Edges. Your Curls Are Bomb. Love it
What made you decide to texlax? I went fully relaxed from being natural last year but I only relax about twice a year and I use ORS Girls...is the just for me brand a good choice? Are you going to repeat this process again?
MizzLaydee21 Well it wasn't intentionally in my plan to be natural.. I'm not a big fan of the maintenance especially since I change my hair so much. Just makes my life easier (: this relaxer just helps to soften a bit more than it would straighten. I'm still considering going back fully relaxed, keep watching ^_^
I did the same after 2 years of transitioning and I chopped off my relaxed ends. I decided this year to go back to relaxers, I love the thickness but being natural is a lot of maintenence. Sometimes I just want to get up and go, there were times when I had a certain style in my hair and thanks to the humidity my fro would appear. .. lol
i have a problem with the love your naps thing. because not all black women have very coarse hair, so if we use product its not to change texture, some people hair just don't stay styled. my texture is soft and it loose bounce and style
I think the way you use you wrong .. When you put the individual cream hair, the comb must be used .. Because when using the comb helps to extend the hair for your individual cream, tides the hair that I can comb
+lovesomekay most likely contains the same continents as an adult relaxer, I think "children relaxers" are just relaxers for those with a more sensitive scalp.
+Jasmine Daniel actually, "children" relaxers are worse, because they assume that the child has never had a relaxer before, so in order to get all the hair straight, it's harsher.
is that a texturizer or relaxer I want to know because it worked good on your hair it looks pretty much like a texturizer it's so pretty but it says relaxer on the box so and please also what was your natural hair type
*Combing thru doesn't make the hair STRAIGHT.. LOL That's the proper way to loosen the coils n to make sure its all uniform. One should Take a WIDE TOOTH comb n gently comb thru in sections. ( That's why sooo many ppl are big chopping 50 times per yr n complaining because they aren't applying it properly).*
I used the just for me softener on Jan 1st after 2 yrs of being natural. I diluted the relaxer with a lot of deep conditioner. And left it on my hair for 5 minutes. Luckily my hair is very under processed. I'm going back natural, not worth it
I wanted to know I have very fine thin and curly hair with extra sensitive scalp and perms don't take at all in my hair none of them so is there a product out there that you may know of that can work on my hair????? AKA flat irons don't work either help me please
I'm going to texturize my hair and my mom said if I don't want it to be super curly then I have to run a comb through I don't want my hair to be completely straight or curly I want it to be in the middle so yea imma have to run a comb through
