I agree. Ultimately he has been expressing this for years that he would like them to be more independent as a family without her family so involved. Even in the podcast he insinuates it’s hard to parent Summer without Scheana’s mom giving her feedback/opinion.
Team Brock over here, LOVE your point of view! Sometimes you have to learn the hard way although it's rough, but we don't always have a backup or someone there to show us how things are supposed to be. I think you two complement each other greatly and Brock gives you his POV, esp with the OCD. Our mental health is a challenge but it's not a crutch or excuse for our actions so we can learn from it esp through others eyes that don't have it
I love you and Brock together. I was once that mom, trying to always step in and help mother my grown daughter take care of her daughters, always giving advice on how I would do the things. Stepping back to let her be mom and make the decisions that she needed to make, right or wrong, figure things out for her family was hard. However it was what we both needed. I’ll always be here for them, grand mom, but I’ve learned not to step in unless I’m needed. ❤ ❤
Sounds like your a great mother and mother in law..You care enough to allow your daughter and her husband to form their own family and to grow from their own experiences.
She has always been my favorite on VPR. she’s legit fearless , a badass friend and always has the biggest brightest smile and her eyes sparkle ✨! Love u guys !!! ❤
I agree with Brock you need to set boundaries and your mom needs to respect them because in the end you and him are the parents and its up to you both to raise your child together not with mom trying to micromanage
Brock is so real & insightful! Good going Scheana! Time to fly on your own! Your mom needs to grow up & become independent too! She'll be fine, it's something you can teach her, too, just like she taught you.I think it must be hard to unparent your child to the world, yet its how we keep growing! Keep on rocking! Thank you!
The beauty of all of this , is the real conversations both highs and lows the healthy steps taken , individually and together 💞 This truly is a loving family ❤ Thank you for sharing 🥂 to a happily ever after…… I have always adored you Scheana and you deserve every bit of… It’s all happening 💖
@@marieneu264 “from the cast” is a low low low bar!! I want scheana happy!! And it is the healthiest relationship I’ve seen HER in. And that makes me happy! Some would say “ over the moon” 💜🥹😏❤️💚🍀
I agree with Brock. I was one of those Grandma's who couldn't let go being a mom. It is hard to let go, but I am glad I did. My daughter and I are close and we are more like friends now. Her hubby and I are ok. It all came from love. You are doing the right thing getting a nanny.
I’m team Brock on the MIL situation. While you can give your advice when asked you are the Grandmother at that is also HIS CHILD. She needs to know her place. My mom was obsessed with my only child. My boy was the love of her life. She NEVER went against my husband if she thought a particular way about something. You can tell Schenna gets defensive when he speaks his mind. She better stop that now.
It's so good too see you together , Sheena i dont like it when I see you guys arguing, and you are not listening to each other,cause each of you just want a hug from each other. ❤❤❤❤❤
18:03 my friends mom is like that, but much, at worse. We’ll be out on the boat at the lake and my friend will hand her toddler another Capri Sun WATER, and her mom is like “she already had one, should she really have another?” Or she’s constantly telling my friend when she should apply additional sunscreen or she’ll tell her that her kid is sitting too close to the campfire at night, or she’ll tell her she isn’t dressed warm enough when the kid is running around the yard sweating lol. I can tell my friend is not the same and has huge anxiety when her mom does this, and she has a hard time even relaxing. We told her she can’t invite her mom to our lake house anymore until some boundaries are set. We invite my friend and her husband and her child to relax, not to be on edge the entire time.
I have followed VPR since the beginning, I have always loved Scheana, but I have to say Brock is by far my favorite VPR person! I love the way you handle yourself and your family, Scheana is a very lucky lady and I love you 2 together! I keep ya'll in my prayers and I really hope that ya'll keep working out the details that works for all of you. I cannot imagine my life being on tv for everyone to comment on. Since yours is, I commend you on the way your handling it all!
What a great approach to discuss everything out front, so many around you could benefit from the same approach. One thing that confused me though is I’m sure lovely Scheana said on another show that Brock had sold a show? And finally, Brock appeared genuinely sad about Jax and Brittany, I wish you guys the best ❤
Love y'all so very much! I'm totally #teamBrock and I love it when y'all do these podcasts together. And there was a lot things going on this week! One of the things I love about you Scheana is that you are REAL and it is absolutely REAL to feel both ways about Ariana's opportunity on DWTS. Yes - you're absolutely happy for her but you are also allowed to feel a little sting and bittersweet because it is something you have wanted. No shame in keeping it real. You are allowed to both think about your friend and yourself too. You can do 2 things at once. #shocker lol 😂 Seriously - the haters that are coming for you on this are in total denial about how real people act in the real world. Nobody is perfect. Sheesh... People need to learn how to walk a mile in someone else's shoes before they sentence someone on social media. Hope y'all have a great weekend! Sending my love to you both and to precious Summer Moon!
22:55 you could afford her full time if you didn’t have a $2.5M home, it’s all about how you look at it and how you choose to spend your money. This isn’t a knock at all, it’s just a fact.
God can heal you of your anxieties... I have always had severe depression and anxiety. My entire life and once I got baptized and was born again and started reading my Bible and putting my faith in the Lord. He has healed me. 🙌 I'm not on medication any longer. I can sleep at night etc.
Funny your dad left Holland when I moved to Rotterdam from Denmark. Must have been a bit overwhelming being back again. Being a mother in law myself with two todling pamper using grandkids .. Brock and you are such good parents and sometimes even grandmothers need to learn how to zip it. Its tough even it feels I am sitting on my hands of course I know and love my grandkids and good advice😅 in free flow and my son in law looks Mighty tired. So I know Brock is right about your mothers future role she needs enjoy being a grandmother and not a working one - .. as we say … Great podcast thank you
Love you both. I think you’re good for each other. Definitely try giving space with your mom. I love my mom but this is my family. I’m in charge. Know what I mean? Let yourself make mistakes. It’s okay.
I just love Brock and Sheana’s marriage. It’s beautiful and you both have HUGE hearts and you follow what you feel so you’ll always be good. It’s also so great that you guys are there close to Lala cuz she needs you guys even though she’s got a lot of family support. Brock is a great male figure for Lala’s daughter and soon to be daughters and that warms my heart. All the best to both of you.
It’s such a shame that there is so much speculation to why you do anything in your relationship, but thank you for sharing your story and being so honest, it rains on the parade of the gossip channels 😂 love you guys ❤
I love scheana & Brock so much, I truly think scheana is really missinderstood most of the time & that she loves whole heartedly & things really do affect her just as hard! Excited to see your new journey in the Valley❤️
It's super frustrating to me that so many people don't want to allow Scheana to be hurt at loosing her friendship with Tom. She's allowed to mourn that loss. That doesn't mean she's not supporting Ariana.
Honestly I like Brock I think he gets a lot of crap for not sugarcoating things which a lot of ppl in the spotlight do. He seems like a good guys who’s just gonna tell you how it is
I love The 1975 too and ALL my family lives in the NL in all provinces so even 3 weeks is not enough to visit them all. I don't get jet lag because I just never sleep when I get there in the mornings and then just go to sleep that night. Same when I come back but the last two trips our flights got messed up due to weather and took more than two days to come home over three flights. There are no direct non-stop flights from South Florida. Happy you guys loved NL as I am a first gen American with one of the most common Dutch names and speak it, read it but don't write it.
I don't know if it's a cultural thing but in our family myself and my brothers, we would never leave our kids with anyone who was not family. No nannies/caregivers who weren't blood related. Hispanic family.
Thank you Brock. You said the Shenna that she needs to fill her cup first. I went thru a divorce we were married just under 27 years and I never put myself 1st. Still learning to do that. I needed that reminder.
Scheana’s mum is the way she is because it’s done purely out of love for her daughter. She has raised Scheana and will continue to love and baby Scheana because she loves her daughter. Scheana, your mum should not have to apologise because you’re the love of her life - just like Summer is the love of yours. You only have one mother. Please hold her first and foremost. Don’t treat her in any way that will make you regret. Please cherish every minute of her time on this earth with you.
I don't get why people care if a man or a woman wants to raise a child on their own. That child is being loved, taken care if, and most of all wanted so much that the person chose to do it by themselves. It's not the 1950s anymore folks
Try not to rub your anxieties and insecurities on to summer. I was a young mummy (2 under 18 months )like you and you don’t want your child to be afraid of the world!
Shena you are a amazing mom, Brock standing up for you and seams loving enough to admit when he's wrong. For your mom ,I just love her, trust your daughter and Brock shena will let you know when she needs you. Brock you so remind me of my son in law specially when your hair was longer 😅😅😅. Oh and I am absolutely 💯 happy for Lala, I'm 61yrs old and I admire her paving the way for strong women actually every one of you ladies have bloomed into absolutely beautiful, amazing and smart people ❤️ much love from Southern California ❤️
Hi Scheana Love your podcast so much! Question: Do you use Shay as your last name on Social media only? Did you take Brock’s last name legally? I sure hope you and Summer Moon have the same last name as her Daddy 😃 We will continue to find you, follow you etc. using Brock’s last name :) He’s such a great partner for you. I’ve watched you from day 1 and always hoped you would find someone to love, respect and support you to the Nth degree and YOU FOUND HIM 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 It’s beautiful watching you evolve and find your ‘person’ .
When I watched the show this week, and reallt looked at your conversation with Ariana, I found myself wondering if you weren't simply saying you could not carry on with the active hate against... that guy. There is definitely a difference between letting go of such exhausting emotion and wanting to go back to the friendship you two had. I don't know if you ever read comment her Scheana but I'd like to now if that was the case.
Brock and Sheana can't understand that Scheana's Mom can't help driving the train. She has been doing it for a long while which both Brock and Scheana benefit from, but every mother understands their feelings are not harsh they just are normal feelings. There is no need for Scheana to run from the nest, but instead keep on doing what she is doing and that is unifing the family. Brocks roars are normal but the roar could be trained to make his considerations heard through a midirator who will listen, give reasoning to bring forth compromises with the understanding that compromises consist of giving in to one another's needs without putting pressure on either one but being able to stand your ground with the security neither one will be punished for their desire to handle agreed compromises in a manner that will be comfortable for them and all others involved.
Brock can hardly get a word in….wonder why he was even part of it. Obvious he has painful and tedious stuff to deal with. Glad I’m not him I couldn’t put up with any of it. It’s all so pretentious even the way they talk. Lala is the most genuine and easy on the ears. The rest are not…even the voices and things they say is torture on the ears.
Does anyone actually believe that Tom would willingly become "the most hated" guy in America (his words) for going behind Arianas back and cheating on her, if Ariana knew about the affair? He would have used that info to justify his infidelity somehow and he would have definitely called her out for knowing about it to get some heat off of himself. Come on!
Brock the way your wife treats you. Is so sad, like beneath her,rude, condescending. Makes me sad she will mess this up too. Brock DO NOT let her run all over you. Shes not all that!
Don’t let Ariana threatening/manipulation of not being Sandovals friendship to heart. A true friend won’t give you an ultimatum like that! Katie and Ariana with those mean girl vibes lately! Tom friendship I’m here for it❤️ vs mean snobbiness mean girls! No thanks
Im sure Brock feels betrayed watching Schenna kiss up to Sandoval knowing was responsible for aiding the warrent then Sandoval teams claimed Brock also hooked up with Rachett. But Schenna camera time is more important.
Summer is still drinking a bottle? How old is she now? Just be careful/aware of her sleeping with anything other than water in it because she could get bottle rot. It can happen fast before you realize it & you don't want her to suffer from tooth aches or have to go through an oral surgery. Just lookin out. Byw Your hair color looks so good. It really suits you!
Your mom is way too involved in your marriage relationship. You need to put more trust in the nanny and Brock. Don't be so defensive. Try to have an conversation and listen without thinking about how you are going to respond first. This goes for both of you.
The great thing about your podcast is that we get to hear the explanation of what happened on VPR without the editing. In relation to Rachel, she is just disgusting and makes no sense, so many contradictions. Still team Ariana.
I love them as a couple I think they are gonna make it through the long hall JUST the mom has to back off a bit I know it’s hard for scheana but it’s there lil family now and they can make it work and it’s healthier that way otherwise it’s a form of ganging up on him but I think they got this
God i wish this tom and ariana would stop Really? You all cheated on each other. Yes, Tom made a mistake. He should have ended it with Ariana.. But Ariana was a boring reality personality before all of this. The hoopla was so stupid. SOOOO stupid. Affected? Why because he cheated on her? What about Jax and Brittany. Friend group? Rachel in my opinion was not great friends with anyone except you Scheana. Ariana is a cold person from what i observed about her on the show and I rewatched all the seasons. Even early on she always rolled her eyes about tom, treated him like a child. Tom was the giver in that relationship. He always defended everyone and got nothing in return. He defended Schwartz and Rachel and everyone abandoned him. I have a new respect for Lala. She is her own woman and has grown exponentially in that she doesnt what she feels not kissing anyone's butt. I believe in redemption and Sandoval after all these years deserves it but you, Scheana, follow the herd. You know Tom is a basically good guy. But you are afraid of being left out. That is sickening. Stop talking about it just for views on your podcast.. I would never trust you if i ever fell out with you for some reason. How did he hurt you. He did not. Ariana and you were on and off and Ariana called the shots each time.
