Using someone’s money while deep inside you know you are not going to Marry is a scam! We have seen this happen many times and all of you guys know that. It’s haram to steal someone’s property. All forms of scam is also haram! Including this one ☝🏽
For me i can say the man has no problem when he is asking his wealth back because the girl couldn't confuse her parents then that could have been the best solution.he already missed the love but let him not miss the money.
The bigger problem is dating a man for 4 year without you introducing him to your family. If really love him marriage should be arranged immediately to avoid such thing sister
Lacagtu hadey deyn aheyd waa leyahey makey hesho bay bixineysaa .Hadii aan lagu heshiin in ay dayn tahey markii hore waxba kuma leh gabadha .waa aragtideyda
Asc, horta wad mahadsantahay marki hore, Horta waxaan kuweydina lacagta ma adhiga wilka weydin jiray misee asaga Ku garan jiray, hada weydin jirtay wilka lacagta ama Daarka oo marki as weydisa as kusiinay, lacaag tas wa xaaran, lakin asaga haduu markasta lacagta ama Daarka inu kusiiya Ku garanay, xarran kugumaaha, Mida kale wilka waqti iyo jaceyl bas kugubixi ee walidka ma iskaqincin waysi oo madihi waysi, aabe iyo hooyo Horta wadmahadsantihin sidi as wilkan as igukenten, somajirto isweydiin aniga qaf caqli iyo Karti ama hami leh marki as iikeneysin nin as Wax as igusameyna as garaneynin,
Asc wallal marka hore waad mahadsantahay Ninkaas waa nin qaali ah Sababtoo ah dad badan ayuu ka badbadadinayaa xaraan inay galaan gabdho iyo wiilal ba miskiin ku dhclay gabadh unbadana waan u soo joognay illaahay ha kacabsadaan waxa mihiima gabdhu marka uu xidhidhka will ay wada socdaan xadkaas gaadho mar walba inay la socdaan walidkeed si ayna fhibkaas oo Kele u Iman inay xaran tahayna wan ku racsanahay culimada gabdha soogudbisayna Marlabad ban ku salamayaa walal aad bad u mahadsantahay
😂😂😂haduusan kuu cafin hadaad Aduunka ku bixin weysaan dhamaan. Aakhiro ayaad la or ordeeysaan hoo hoo oon lagaa qaadan lkn in badan wey cafiyaan Maasha Alaah
Anab mansha allaah afka allaha kaama goyo waxaan dhahilay ayaaf dhah day lacag ayeey ka fakareysaa qof dhay mustaqbalkisa ku cayartay aniga waxan ahay Hooyo caruurleh weliba labanjiraa gabadheyda marabo inay wil ku cayarto ama wilkeyga saas lo xumeyo hadal iyo dhamaan hadii ayjirto sida ayshegeyso beenta badan wiilkaa waxaan dhehi lahaa bahi ama eedo ilaahey wax ka qeer badan allaha kuu sahlo
Allah hadii laga cabsanayo adiga qaldan waayo nin aad afar sano xoolihiisa cunaysey inaad ugu jawabto nin baa la isiiyey waa khalad ee lacagtana bixi dharki iyo cuntadii iyo ka ihiina ha cafiyo isaguna
ASC FADLAN CAYDA JOOJI MARKA HORE TA LABAAD NINKAAS WEYDIISO INUU KU SAAMAXO WAAYO KHALADKA ADAA LEH LAMAAD SOCODSIIN WAALIDKAA INAAD SHEEKO LA WADAAGTO NIN KALE TAAS WEEYAAN MASHAAKILKU INSHA ALLAH THANKS
To cut the story short,,the man did very wrong for giving her money..that's why most men don't do that. It's confirmed that ladies always neglect, hate and leave those men who give them money, protect and love them. The moment you give an extraordinary love to your girl and show her that love,,,it's the end of you,, that's what I always know
Yac waa dhibka hada ii haysa oo telefonka xita uu badalay ,whatsapp u delete garey ,Facebook uga baxay . Waxan subiya ma aqaano wlhi I want to refresh my mind and recover the wound 😫 😢 😞 😪
Haduusan ku qabin siduu Cagaha kuugu dhaqayey? Nin aan ku qabinse maxaad Xoolaha intaa le’eg uga Cuntay? Qof walba Xoolihiisu way u xisaab san yihiine waxaadan lahayn si fudud ha isaga cunin
is so funny she used like his money but when he asked her back he became midgan sister pay his money back you not his women you break his heart we have to be fair as women
Haah wuu ku saxanyahy sababtoo ah waa hinaasey waxaa laga guutsada qofka kaliya uu dunida ku lahaa ee u hibeeyey nololshiisa hadane la soo istaagtay waa ley guusaday waa waali cass
Asc Walaal! If what you have said here is true and things unfolded as you have described. My advice is first of all both of them must repent to Allah SWT asap for engaging in a non islamic relationship. Second, to my opinion she doesn’t have to pay back anything because it sounds like the man was doing all this willingly. And lastly and very Important always obey your parents, it’s one way ticket to Jannah. Allah knows Best
I don't understand the scenario of our girls confessing CALAF as an excuse of ending up marrying different man instead of the man they were hunging around for years, and yet the girl child has the right to marry the man of her choice and our Diin has nothing to do about it, If a girl stand firm with her decision of marrying the man of her choice then the parents themselves have no right to force to their daughters in another relationship.
As Muslims, we believe that if someone gives you something they have no right to ask you back. Also, why did you take money from someone who isn't related to you? Just because you two were planning to get married .😢😢
Iyada iyo kuwa la midka ah ee raga ka ajaanibka la sheekaysta sanado amaba xitaa bilo, ee suuqa u raaca, ee lacag ka qaata waa danbiilayaal if iyo aakhiraba. Bal maxay ka wads sheekaysanayeen 4 sano? Gabadh qofkii doonayaa waa inuu waalidkeed u tago oo weydiisto. Shukaansiga reer xamarku waa xaaraan sideedaba, waana waxyaabaha keena sinada intaysan is guursan
Walidkaga ma qofadan shekeysan oo ad is arkin wuxu yahay na adan ogey ayad racdey kad shekeysaneysen gacana ku geystey waxad ka jeclatey mid adan aqoon oo weliga adan arag 🇸🇴❤️🇸🇴❤️🇸🇴
Asc wll marka hore khalad ayu ku siyay adoon ahayn xaaskisa lacg dhan $7000 lkn haduba khaldamay gabdhu wa inay lacagta iska bixiso wxu kaaga iibsaday qalbigaga hadad qalbigagi ninkale siisay isana lacgtisi u celi oo ninkan kale ka qaad ama u shaqee nin aan xisaabtamin ninba ma aha hadad daacad tahY intaad wxaso lacaga cunaysay ayad u sheegi lahay rerkina inaan ninkas rabto oo uu mustaqbal rabo lkn wad khayanty ee lacagta un iska celi wayba yartHye aadan ladhimanine
first i didn’t understand the question i’m confuse and i don’t know what to say suaal shiekh umal ka oohisay i was waiting su aasha iyo jawaabta shiekha adoo raaliya culimada hakaga been sheegan ciwaanka mawduuca aad ka hadlayso
Adiga iska soo qaad afarsano nin lacag ku bixinay say in aad guur sato kadibna jacayl aad ubadan ayuu kuu Muujiyey adigoo calafkiisa milkiyey qalbi ahaan ayuu gabarkale guursaday sidee yeeli lahayd wa su aal adaga lagarabo
@@fatumaiftin6787 kuma xiro walaal inuu la hadlo, ayadaba waa ogtahay in rabitankisa ka faidaysanaysay malkana lama ogolo in dadku si badil ah kukala cunaan,
Ight i'mma be honest with you here ...... everything in this world has a payback and everything is accountable he had showered her with his money, he loved her with all his heart he did that because of what he wanted to see her happy since she's the source of his Happiness trust me the word Love is painful really painful 😣 How can you spend his money lavishly and being happy with it thinking you are the only one she never even bothered to just think for awhile where does her boyfriend gets the money from ? What if the money she's has been given by her lover was an inheritance left for the guy? He spend with you because he thought someday when the time is right he'll marry her When you love you love wholeheartedly We the guys are aware of (Calaf) and those kind of stuff but why do you think he spent all his wealth and spared his time with her? Ofcoz he had the hope of marrying her ...... Why didn't she fight for his place Why didn't she introduced him to her parents Why didn't she settle down with her parents discussing what the guys has done for her Why didn't she tell her parents that they'll be consequences if the guy is doesn't marry her I swear this is not love in return If she loved him and cared about his feelings she would atleast do one of those things That guy is really strong if he kept you alive and didn't do stupid stuffs to himself Please pray for him don't cut him off like that it takes time for a heart to heal so be there for sometime and leave when the guy is OK Just an advise please to our beautiful sisters our weakness are you and that won't change a thing walahi even our prophet advised us about women So stop using men's wealthy and most importantly Time since this generation they say Time is money You can't use a heart just to get your needs Don't use a heart for fun I swear walahi there no guy will do that much for you if his mindset is to use you for LUST or stupid things But that guy ! Man am sure he had the mentality of marrying her So is either you refund his money or she marries him So stop only saying you will listen to your parents only and leaving a soul that you hurt you think you'll ever be happy Tell your parents that you love him and would like him to marry you atleast do your part for God sake If they reject Allah will question them in the hereafter you can force your children to marry someone who they don't want just because you earned that respect i know parents wants the best for their child ofcoz they'll listen to you eventually
Rag xuulehe farana katirsan ferana kaxisabsan ... my sister it is good to hear but also it's better we hear the other side ..the QURAN and sunnah of the prophet Mohammed SCW...Hubsina hal ayan lasiya .. we can't just overrun and make judgements.....assalamu alykum
Maya Haddii ragga qaar ay yihiin probably weey kuu cafin lahaayeen I believe aniga waa ogahay waxa aan siiyo hase yeeshee 4 San waxa aan ku siinayey weligeey ma xasuusteen, haddise uu rabo lacagta ha dhiibo kii laguugu daray ama waalidkaa he was genuis to remember all this money may be becouse he was greedy oo naagaha wax siiyo Ragga aan waxba ku saacidin anyway go'aanku waa lacagta si tartiib tartiib ah Afar sano ku bixi haddii aad adiguna baqiil aheyn wa billaahi towfiiq
WLL MA WACNA HORTA IN SAAS LAGU QAANABO IN CAFIS AYAA FIICAN LKN OGOW WLL XAQ AYUU U YEELANAA HADAY NOQOTO XISAAB WAAYO SHARCIGA ISLAAMKU MARKA UU DHAHAY HA DHAWRSANAADO QOFKU SABABAHAA AYAA LOO DIIDAYAY QOFKA ISLAAMKA AHNA WAA ILAALIYAY ALLE SHARAFTIISA IYO MAALKIISABA
Talo fican ayaad sisay qofku waxisa waa uleyahay, dhibtu caruurta ay kan u dhali donto ayay asibaysa whyo qofka xaqisu melcidla ah ma dhacayo marka waa in xarifka lagu qabtay ay ushegta oo dhahda arintas ayaajirto.
Isn't good according to our culture being somali people but I would say also that the lady should have told her parents the fact that she is dating with someone who takes care of her and has been helping her for 4 years while the love ❤ each other
Why dont you tell your parent what you get from that man or why dont you make your parent to be understandable about your way ....if is haram you have to pay back
Subxana allah ma xola islameda inta cunta hadane sas u hadle tankle 2badinba wad qaldantihin hadii hadafkinu yahay in aad is guursatan maxa kenaya waqtigas tirada bdn in aad wada socotan walidkaga we fcntahy in aad ixtiramto intad wada socten maxad ugu shegi wesay
It's something stranger, but just understand that all men are not the same in life. Pay that money back to that man and you and any other girls like, please don't take the wealth of a man as your father's wealth unless he is your husband because like that man is among us. I am sorry
Nin nafsadaadi ku xirnaa oo adiga mooye qof kale u jeedin oo si sahal oo ga tagtay looma baahna hooyo iyo aabe waxaa fiicnaa inay la socdaan arintaadi waayo nin kale malaguu dari laheen haday og yihiin arin taadi thanks
We don't give and do things for free -specially when it comes to women. We must get compensated in way or another...that's just men. I apologize for us but that's how it is.
Asc wr wb Qofka hadanad rabin Qofka wixiisana ha qaadan 4 sano Maxaad ula sugaysay Hadaad Dan ka leedahay shukansi 4 sano socda diintu maba ogola sheekaysta heshiiya Markana Waalidka ha loo tago Asxaabahii ayey sidan ku dhacday Lkn wey qabeen xukunkuna wuxuu noqday inay celiso wax kasta oo uu ka bixiyey Adiga maba lagu qabo 10.000$ haday tahay xata waa inaad iska dhiibta wuxuu kuu siinayey mustaqbal ayuu ka rabay Qofka aan Balanka ka soo bixin ma aha qof iiman leh Marka wa lagugu leeyahay xoolaha ama Imika iska bixi ama Aakhiro ayaad keenaysa
When someone gives you something as a gift then that thing automatically becomes yours and no longer his or hers. Unless it was lend to you so that you may return then the one who gave it has the right to ask for it back.
Sister wu ku saxsanyhay wayo mahmah somali tidha xolahagu xeer hakugu jiran ama xero wxase ku wacnyd inad walidkaga u sheegto wiil sidas ku daryelanaya inad haysato lagayaba kan lagu siyey inanad daryelka ka helin hadal iyo dhaman ninka wxisa u celi ilayn sadaqo kuma siine adaa wacadki ka bexee kulahaa my xisabtaman
Men should take their responsibility after marriage....never spend on a lady you aren't sure you will marry....for sure a girl who really loves a guy will never take his money may be if gives her even if he gives her she says always says it is good for him to keep the money for their future.....Inta isjecel Allow iskucalaf.
The man has the right to ask his money 💲 back but he did wrong by giving money to a daughter of someone. As well, the girl has done wrong to receive money from a stranger. As for my understanding, the girl has to repay him if she couldn't convince her parents to marry him
Asc aniga waxaan qalad u arkaa nin aan gabdha weydiisan lacag haduu siiyo inuusan dib dambe uga ceshan karin haday is Callan waayaan bal waa eey matagiisa ku noday oo kale tii weydiisato waa meesheeda laakiin gabdhan maadama ay guursaty mid looga raali yhy 7000 inaad uceliso waa sax laakiin call ama maro muu ka dalbanayaa waa ceeb