RRass li mloog mloog tej neej neeg thiab tej dabneeg mas tus neeguas ntxeev siab thiab rov taw tuam ntuj thiab ua rau nwstus hlub quaj los kua muag mas thaum kawg mas nws lub neej yeej tsis plhuv thiab npam , lubneej yeej tsis kawg, koj siab phem thiaj npam koj.
Ua neej tsis pom tom ntej, yuav tus muaj tau tus pluag2 mam khwv muaj los luag hlub yus thaum pluag tseem hluas xwb. Muab liam rau txoj hmoo, chim npaum cas los txhob tuag.
Tus koj tsis tau ces thiaj khuv xim hos yog tau kiag ces ntshe twb tsis kav. Thaum fav siab li ko lawm ces yuav tus twg los yeej tsis zoo vim tus dim ces yeej yog tus zoo xwb.
Tus niam tsev ntawm zaj dab neeg no na txua txua yam no tim koj lub siab phem tim koj xav tau cov neeg muaj nyiaj tim koj ntsaw tus zoo zoo nraug ces nyuam qhuav haum rau koj xwb tsis txhob mus nug nug koj tus qub hluas nraug os thaum ub koj twb tsis xav nws as hnub no koj raug tso raug ua poj nrauj tau tus txiv tsis hlub koj mam li khuv xim ces pab tsis tau lig dhau rau koj lawm os cov ntxhais hmoob xav tau tus muaj nyiaj muaj tsheb ces yog koj txhob khuv khuv xim koj tus qub hmoob koj tsev neeg npluag cas ho mus xsiv tsev neeg muaj na hnub no koj mam li nco tus qub ces luag twb mus dhau deb os tim koj siab phem dhau ces npam koj thiaj tau tus txiv tsis hlub
Nej cov Hmoob Nplog ces ruam dhau lawm os. Nej cov Pojniam los yuatsum rau rausiab mus kawm ntaub kawm ntawv kom kawg xwb. Txhob tos tos cov niag Txiv DEV lawm. Thiab nej txojkev ntshaw nyiaj ces zoolino ntag mas.
Txhob tusiab koj twb tau yav hluas2 tsw2 qab. Tshuav yav laus tsw ntxhiab xwb. Tsis ntev no zog tas ces raug tso tseg, mam yog nws thib mob rau koj saib. Tswj koj tus kheej, txhob ua dog dig, tus twg zoo tiag2 tuaj txog mam pib dua tshiab. Tsis yog koj 1 leeg thiaj yog pojnrauj.
Neej siab phem li koj ces nyuam qhuas txim xwb. Tseem muaj plu muab tham rau tebchaw mloog thiab. Koj tus txeev siab li koj txeev saib rau tus qub Hmoob xwb los mas.
Is it just me, or it really is the case.... that virtually all these stories are about how impulsive, how immoral, how unethical, how selfish, how narcissistic, and how out-and-out horrible human being most of these Hmong men and women (characters in these stories) are? I've listened to about two dozens --- I selected them because of the titles, which I thought might be interesting, as I don't listen to every story, by Tou Vue, my favorite story teller on RU-vid --- and they all sounded exactly the same... at least when it came to stories about relationships and how one or the other just UP AND LEFT, without one word to the other person.... even if the "authors" of the stories, like this woman character in this one, said they've been boy-friend and girlfriend for over a year and really "loved" each other ad nauseam. I remember only ONE story ---- not by Tub Vwj... I think I ran across one other guy, Nplooj Kub, who is not a very good, or consistent story teller (that's probably why he's not making it in terms of revenues from RU-vid, on original contents) ---- in which the girl turned out to be exactly like someone every one of us, men and women, would want, as a life partner. And THAT story revolved around a poor young man wooing and eventually marrying a girl from a well to do family (relatively speaking, since 99.9999% of all Hmong families were all Third World poor, prior to the last 20 years, when international businesses allow some to build very profitable companies earning tens of thousands per month, both here in the West and in Laos). As expected, her well to do family hated the young man; and they belittled him and did all sorts of things to dissuade him; but because the girl was so in love with him --- she knew, poor as he was, that he had the deep resolves and kindness she wanted in a life partner ---- SHE came up with the scheme they ought to just ELOPE, if he really wanted her. And, of course, the stupid young man was sensible enough to listen to her; so they eloped. Once that happened, her family couldn't stop the wedding, since SHE's the one who came up with that brilliant plan, not he. Anyway, the story was told from a neutral/third person omniscient POV, fittingly... Most of the story's not that interesting, like all of these ones here; but what really struck me as invaluable, as a life lesson, as a story about people with deep character, honor, faith, morality, and ethics... was how SHE handled HER OWN family, who, even years after they'd married, still hated her husband.... when they would visit... The last time, as the story was told, was when SHE told her parents, if they're disrespecting her husband, they're disrespecting HER, too, since he's her FAMILY, her life, now... and I giggled a bit, as it was relayed, to us, the audience. She said, when she could no longer tolerate her parents' unacceptable behaviors: Dear husband, go get your things... as we are leaving right now.... we are going home and we are never coming back, to visit... not until they call and apologize to YOU and ME, about how they've mistreated you all these years, as my husband and my life partner, someone who cares about me, who loves me, who takes care of me, who takes care of our children, who stands by me through thick and thin.... Again, while it's just a STORY, that young Hmong woman character, IN LAOS, sounded like someone ALL OF US --- men or women, here in the West and there in Laos --- would want in a person... be it a friend or a spouse, especially in a spouse.... when it comes to someone having a moral compass, a sense of fairness & justice & ethics & morality & honor... that we all would wish to have and/or to emulate... Again, THAT little story, by Nplooj Kub surprised the hell out of me.... because I would never have expected an oddly modern, Western oriented story like that to be told, in Laos, about Hmong in Laos, some years ago... the strength & morality & ethics & sense understanding of life and living BEYOND her tiny village, her small, ignorant tribal people.... of the lead woman character was just completely unlike any of these other stories here....
