I went to Clemson and finally found my way into libertarian thought when I studied under Daniel K. Benjamin, whom the speaker I'm sure will know. This, along with pursuit of a law degree, later led to my interning at Cato. This video was of course a pleasure to watch for both reasons.
I think it depends on how or who was using it like for example finding meaning in your life by serving your family or something like that but I definitely hear what you're saying