1. Give him time frame 2. Forget what u feel remember what u deserve. 3. Stop seeking reassurance 4. Allow him to pursue u. 5. Keep ur standard and expectations high
yes just trust someone u love with no doubt and dont think to much, dont be possessive,, no matter how busy a person or someone you love is if they really care, they will always find the time for you..
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1.Give him a time frame. 2.Forget what you feel and remember what you deserve. 3.Stop seeking reassurance. 4.Allow him to pursue you. 5.Keep your standards and expectations high.
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I learned to realize my worth, and I’m the prize. So running after a man, ain’t my mantra in life. Even tho I have a partner and we lead different lives and are still friends. I don’t chase him. You chase me then I’ll see if I’ll return back communication.
Sure dont ever lower your value to anyone in this universe!!!!! You are more than enough!!! Alack of self love is the root cause of all suffering in this universe!!!! Love yourself more baby girl .......
My 7 year relationship started to fail. I felt him pulling away and he was spending no time with me at all and wasn't texting or calling to check in throughout the day. I made the big mistake of crying, begging and throwing myself at him and it just pushed him further away. the harder I tried the worse it got. Finally I composed myself and stopped texting him, stopped saying I loved him or missed him, stopped calling him babe or baby and started focusing on myself and my job. Once I did that he finally started to come to me. He saw my confidence go up and it made him want to be around me again. The more you chase someone the more they will run away. If they think they are the center of your whole world you become less desirable to them. Take care of yourself, focus on yourself and your happiness. Once you love yourself and are happy with yourself others will feel the same about you. How can someone love you if you don't even love yourself?
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we must learn to walk away :( it´s hurt but we have to accept that as time goes by man is also changing sad but true :( let them go with love, and keep our head up :)
@@kellywilliam9486 thanks but i don´t need it because i believe in saying that when someone truly loves you they´ll stay, btw i´m so glad you got your ex back :)
After watching this it makes me want to look for vids on how to maximize your potential & excel in your career. Focus on self love 💕 & self advancement!!! He’s doing his own thing, you should too!!! Don’t waste valuable time to be the best version of yourself!!!
That who I'm now.the man i love so much He never give me any attention..i 'm the one always text him or ask him for meeting....I will stop from now..God help me😪
Play hard to get. Men love the chase! Don't smother him, he will push you away! Know YOUR worth, and do not ever settle for anyone who doesn't deserve YOU ❣️
Why does this feel like a hard truth. Everything you said was so true, but yet there is a pain in my stomach that there still may be nothing I can do to change it.. Ahha.. control issues ... perhaps?? Thanks for posting.
'How to stop overthinking when you're in a long term relationship (5 years LDR)during pandemic?' im aware it's ruining our relationship from my overthinking and insecurities. i keep checking on him, and if he took awhile to reply me i'll get really paranoid and we'll fight. around March he told me he need space but we're still together. still text daily, sometimes call and said i love you to each other every night like we used to. But i still think that he's being distant... eventhough after almost two months he's slowly turning back how he used to be.. we didnt see each other since February. (we see each other every month for 3 days since we dated. he lived 2/3 hours away) i cant stop overthinking. i hate this. i really want to stop feeling so much but why is it so hard
Marielle Lustrata I can feel how sad you would be. Plan for your days ahead, as work (from home), what to have during lunch time, what home work out etc. You'll not concentrate solely on him in your life. Indeed I had calm disagreements with my LDR bf.. This time he didn't message me or even call me in fe days after the open ended conversation 💔
It is yr choice of course, but if you still don't live together/moved closer to each other after 5 years....maybe you should find a decent person who has the need to see you more often then once a month. I don't know the circumstances but surely it is not ok. I would rather be alone and give the chance to someone who is near me or willing to be close to me and spend time with me.
My friend told me don't hold on too tight or you'll loose them.. it'll be okay just try not to stress. You cannot control other people only yourself.. just remember the good times. And hope for the best
Being a woman I'm saying this, sometimes men don't behave the way you want them to behave and we call it, oh! I ain't no priority to me no more. Well, no, each man is different and especially if you men slogging their ass of at work for 15/16 hours a day everyday sometimes even more including running the household chores. Oh Cmon! Cut me a slack!!! How on this earth will he have the time and energy to run behind you. Well, we all get only 24 hours a day and so does he. Look, these tips can be useful but these can also ruin lives and relationships. Like u literally cannot expect him to make you your priority all the time. Also, calling, texting and making plans don't show they love u. Look for bigger actions. Things they actually do. Men anyway are less expressesive.
@Kui Roi Well, thanks for the consideration sweetie, but this was moreover a thing in favour to men, I'm not heart broken nor have I had a breakup. Also, I don't believe in taking life and relationships advices from YT videos. Each person and Grier relation is very different and we cannot solve them basis of some generic rules set by someone.
He didn’t say be unreasonable 😂. And yes, many men work long hours just like women, and then go home to do more work. If you are married to or living with a man like this, he is making you a priority by working and caring in these ways. If you are not married nor living together, then you need to make decisions as to whether you find this workaholism attractive and noble and you would want to live with or marry a man like this. Or, does it turn you away and make you feel low priority? If it makes you feel unimportant, then you need to decide if you are being unreasonable and too demanding so then you cut him some slack and realize you have a good man. Or, you say idc, I want more and could never marry a man with so little time to give and walk away. I tend to think Anthony is doing some men a favor if the women they are dating are taking advice from a dating coach to the extreme in which you describe! Let’s agree that these men probably dodged a bullet! Honestly, would YOU want to date or marry someone so unstable that they would wreck a relationship over internet advice???
Anyway this strategy is really effective and what Doc.Borello said is absolutely true...anyway let's focus on ourselves.Our life is not tied to the person who left or dump us.. 💪💪💪
I think we all have been here at one time or another. I've been experiencing this recently. I told him I hate the bs he has been doing so we can handle what loose ends we had and then cut ties. When I'm around now I seriously hang out with his neighbor more than him. Me and her went to Staples for some things we needed and Piccadillys for food and I think it seriously bothered him because all I told him was we'll be back. Didn't even think to let him know where we went even after we got back. It's been like that a few times since I said I was done so now he all of a sudden trying to come around. I take everything with a grain of salt naturally so I'm not going to just go with what he said. I already told him how I felt and left it at that a month ago. My life doesn't revolve around him. I registered my business, bought a website and opened a bank account for business. When this coronavirus finally calms down I want to try indoor skydiving, rock climbing, etc. I have too much to experience and I don't need him to do those things. But now....he actually told me he's tired of playing games and his cheating is old, he actually asked me to move in, and even told me he want my mom to respect him even if she don't like him right now. He told me his self esteem took a hit because he felt he couldn't provide for me so he went back to his old ways which I think is a cop out. I'm not changing the things I'm doing to accommodate him. At this time he need to show me. Actions speak louder than words. I'm not taking his words at face value. Right now I just see it as he hates that I'm pulling away from him. I have hobbies and goals that I just know may never include him. Whether I give him another chance is up in the air at this time. Honestly I seen this a while back and I found it again looking up something completely different so I was curious as to how I'm doing. Glad to see some of the choices I made are on point.
This is exactly what is happening with me rn. He has been changing his behaviors day by day. He says he love me but his action doesn’t say so. I’m in a long distance relationship. He is so busy with his work,study and friends and got no time for me. He was so nice to me back then but now he keep being mean and mean. Idk whether I should stay or not. I have done something I shouldn’t have so I’m afraid to let him go or let myself go.
@@pk-708 I can feel you girl. Just let him do what he wants. Dont force him to do something. If he comes to talk, talk nicely and if he dont, dont beg him to talk. I have been doing this for a week ig now and it is helping me a lot. I dont feel any pain or uneasy in my heart.
@@pk-708 i guess you shouldnt waste your time on him if he doesnt care. Dont make him feel like you gonna be there for him forever. STAY STRONG, DONT SHOW YOUR WEAK SIDE TO HIM
Timing of this video is so on point, I’ve been cheated on by my gf and i gave her 2nd chance but my emotions for her is slowly dying out (with all those fights we had as well) but now im mustering up all my courage to break up with her bec our personality as well is not a match. Thanks Brian for the phone spy
“Forget what you feel and remember what you deserve” It’s been a week when I stop messaging the guy who i’ve been taking a first move everytime. I always reach him out and ask how he is even he never do that things first for me. Now, Thank you Doc for reminding me what i deserve i almost forgot the respect for myself.
Hahaha men in this modern world have a lot of issues don't they?! A woman must always be the one to adjust her ways in order to win a man! If he's that much work he's not worth it!
Timing of this video is so on point, I’ve been cheated on by my gf and i gave her 2nd chance but my emotions for her is slowly dying out (with all those fights we had as well) but now im mustering up all my courage to break up with her bec our personality as well is not a match. Thanks Brian for the phone spy
1. Abuse - Leave immediately 2. Failed discussions - Converse then seek therapy 3. Repeated neglect - take care of you 4. Repeated lies - protect yourself 5. No appreciation - Seek gratitude from service 6. Suspect cheating - Seek assistance of BRIAN
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That's exactly my situation Dr. I'm always calling, texting sometimes when i don't call we spend 2weeks or 3 without talking. but Before he was the one. He is always busy i'm telling you I miss even 2mns to sit with him but after watched this video can't take it anymore. Am tired. I'm always running after him😎
Look dear, one thing you should is that, As pleasant as this final stage of love may be, it’s still no excuse to take each other lightly or stop appreciating each other, because love is an intense emotion that can be rekindled by anyone else at any time if he/she is willing to do all is necessary to make it come true.
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*Exactly this is what happn to meh recently...It was so pain and hurt...😣 I was waiting fo him to come bck but ..he is no more like b4, He is change 💔 So now im trying to move on...*
Same situation lets walk away and love our selves first u deserved to be loved keep on moving time will.come God has a plan why he allowed thjs to happen
Thank you for this! I have been sitting back and letting him take the lead. He goes silent for a couple days then will call me and say why haven't you msged or called me? We only talk if I call or mag you.... My response is I'm letting you take the lead here... I don't know what the best response is!?
It sounds like he's just deflecting from the fact he hasn't contacted you for a couple days. He wants to put the blame on you rather than acknowledge he didn't make you a priority. I'd be cautious w a man like that.
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On point , I got my power back and walked away from a man who was disrespecting me all the time and now he wants me back coz he failed to meet a woman with high standards as I am. Never let men trample all over you , you deserve better. Life is too short to get stuck with doesn't treat you right.Thanks for the video.
Compromising on my standards for more than a year, quit my dreams cz he always accused me of cheating even if I spoke with anyone for work. Now I’m 30. & I don’t see anyway to go back. I love him of course, but I don’t think any of this is going to work in case any more. I wish I could have stayed stronger on my grounds & let him walk away. But I can’t do anything now I guess
Me too but now when I go and no turning back life is so short to wasting my time to a man who don't care on me it's better be alone and happy than be with someone who makes u feel alone and lonely
Some people just don't have it in 'em, unfortunately. Maybe it can be learned, or practiced after achieving high self-esteem because I think they go hand in hand.
Self-love is the most important things to do... Thank you for sharing this inspiring advice Dr. Antonio.. I'm always watching your videos 😍👏... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much , he was distance and I wasn't feeling it either even though I really tried , then I stopped all communication until he called then I decided to just let him go after all he was full of excuses and liw self esteem,
Rosemary Cauich In your ability to know that finding peace is most important I hope that you flow towards peace and I am inspired that you let go of that what you could not control.Your need for this journey may be unexpected but I send happiness your way for having the courage to follow your way towards peace.
i am in 5 years marriage in long distance relationship, we meet two times only almost 4 years he not come to philippines to see me his an arab, its a frustrating relationship💔 i really want to give up, i dont feel he care for me, he don't love me😥
I had tried no contact once for 3 weeks with my man and he came back with a gift of a new cell phone that vhe promised since Jan this year. We had an argument again and now this is my 3rd week of No Contact and I don't intend to initiate any contact although am dying to know what's going on. Why should I put myself at a lower value and beg him to talk to me when he was the one throwing a big fuss at his own misbehaving and not thinking it's wrong still active in online date sites. No one he meets is unique and has high value as I. I am a gem and prize. He should be well aware of this. @c d, you are a gem, you are unique, you should be valued. Hang in there, don't initiate contact. Thank you for this advice, Dr Antonio. I know I am at the right track💕🥰
I was with the guy and he was the one who was always texting "Good morning". Later, he accused me of being passive and he was only giving and I wasn't.
1. Abuse - Leave immediately 2. Failed discussions - Converse then seek therapy 3. Repeated neglect - take care of you 4. Repeated lies - protect yourself 5. No appreciation - Seek gratitude from service 6. Suspect cheating - Seek assistance of BRIAN
Can you please include verbage to use when you are telling someone what you need and also how to walk away...I think a lot of women don't know the words to use to effectively ask for what they want/need. Thank you...You ROCK!
Yes. Constantly fighting for him to have depth and romance and to actually crave spending time with me doing things. He lives inside his phone. Obsessed with the future rather than the present moment. He doesn't prioritize me or the relationship. And I feel he really takes me and the relationship for granted. Our engagement is dying.
After 2 years of loving him and staying fab, I decided to break up with him today. I hurts me to my bones because I care for him deeply, but my self-worth and standards come first.
Wow am the most happiest man in the world today, my wife that left me for another man is back to me again , thank you doctor sango for helping my relationship
I’m so happy to know that you are focusing on yourself and your self-worth. When you practice self-love, when you allow the right person to love you as much as you can love him. I hope you are well. Thank you for watching and commenting. Antonio
I'm relate on this I always ask begging to his attention affection and time, he always say busy busy busy, I message him he seen no reply but he always online.. 😓😖😖 I don't know what to do but it is really hurt
@@joycehanson7367 but I don't know if it the right if I force him to love me... Or let him go.. Because he will definitely back to me but not like as before with sweet and warmth love. Maybe I get daily hurt if ever..😓😓
Yes recently...this is wat i went through too....I was lik why DR Antonio dint update this lil earlier?😂 ...But Im happy now tat i been able to come out from that dark maze😌
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@@pheleseamurphy im in the same situation like you..we broke up 2 weeks ago and i am still living in his house. I have no idea what to do. How are you coping with this??
There are a lot of assumptions here...that a woman is looking for reassurance, that you keep texting and calling, etc. That's not always the case. Basically yrs ago when I had this problem I used the tact of treating my ex as I wanted to be treated. (I don't require constant reassurance, texts, calls... but I do need to spend time with my partner) But the stuff I read said that if that approach doesn't work, treat them as they treat you. I had exhausted all possibilities over a decade and knew that although this would likely end the marriage it's what I did. Yes, I did not compromise what it was I wanted/needed and yes my marriage ended, but what I got was intact self-respect and the chance to find something that met my needs. (I had been told by the counselor who did pre-marital counseling with us to "stay true to myself" many years before when I told him we were marrying....I can say I finally did that)
Where did he ever do such a thing? A sleazy man WILL treat a woman the way she allows him to. Most high value women (women who know what they want, know their worth and do not settle for sleazy men) will not tolerate the typical behaviors of a sleazy man. So if you are with a sleazy man, he isn’t going to change until you change your own self (ie stop accepting his behavior). Even then, he may continue to be sleazy, but it won’t be with you! He will have to move on to the next woman with low self worth and other emotional issues.
