True. People are draining, and I've never been able to trust anyone, but it's because I go into every relationship trusting them, only to find that they eventually break my trust, and I'm left licking wounds. I've also had Rahu period early in life, so I don't actually have high self esteem in myself or others. It just seems like everyone comes into my life looking for validation and help, gets them, and leaves ... so being by myself is much easier to handle. Maybe I'll figure out the "trust" thing, but maybe I won't. Frankly, either are fine at this point, since I see very little value in "others."
I lived with a person (flatmate) with Ketu in their 1st house (but also plenty of other planets there). My issue with them was that they were inflexibly who they were: this is me, deal with it. There comes a time, when you want more than just to adapt to the other person, or just accept what they serve to you. I don't know if this is a dynamic you can relate to, but maybe it can help. It was quite frustrating to me, because no matter in what way or how much I expressed disapproval of certain ways of doing (because it was harmful and irresponsible to them), there was absolutely no change, zero. So I left. I also noticed this person presented other people in their lives with fait accompli. And when these other people were fed up, they left. This person also attracted a lot of people who were clearly interested in the advantages being associated with them. When problems arose, no one was arround any more. But this was this persons' own doing, because they weren't willing to commit to other people. They just wanted someone to keep them company and do things together that they wanted to do. It's like people with Ketu in the 1st appear interesting in their self-sufficiency and you want to know them, but when you are together with them (friendship, relatioship), they won't really compromise.
@@daniela.septembre7936 This doesn't really apply to me, as I spent most of my life trying to appease those in my life so that they'd stay in my life, only to see them leave anyway or abandon me, the moment I stood firm on something. It is only after giving up on that intense desire to be wanted, loved, and liked by others, that I have been able to come to peace with things, including being more self-sufficient, being confident of my decisions, and not being so sensitive to rejection by others. Your third paragraph doesn't make sense to me. It's true that those that come into my life have come seeking some sort of "advantage." I'd be committed to helping them expecting only companionship in return, and once they got their fill, or at the moment they decided my advice wasn't paying out, they left. And frankly, I never asked anyone to find me "interesting," to poke around for fun, then leave once they found me "uninteresting." Maybe I never found them interesting, but they didn't care about that; they just decided to project all kinds of desires onto me and left when they realized I was not that kind of a person. I mean, no one really asks me if I want them in my life.
@@daniela.septembre7936 was i your flat mate?? I have saaame placement, like your flatmate. And all things you said matched my personality. Yes. We kinda have self suffiency nature.
Well, no, because they don't speak English. It's not a problem, just don't be too needy of relationships, something Karla Smiley is talking about in her answer to my post, and make sure both sides in a relationship agree to the decisions regarding both sides (no one should just deal with what the other side has decided for both - if it is something concerning both sides, both sides should come to an agreement). But as my astrologer (Sam Geppi) says, with Rahu-Ketu axis, we don't really want to listen to outside advice or opinions ... Rahu just wants to be free to experience and Ketu "knows everything" already. I guess that people who are born with lots of planets conjunct Ketu are here to perfect a lot of things, otherwise I don't know why they would be born with such a position. As I read in a decription of Ketu not so long ago: Ketu is refining the material to bring it to the spiritual. Ketu in its nature is not of this world, but once you put it in a house in an astrological chart, it has to deal with concrete things. It wants to express the essence of the thing indicated by its position, but in this material world all form is so limited that it can never express its full essence, hence the eternal dissatisfaction and criticism of Ketu. Apparently the solution is a detached improvement of the area indicated by Ketu. With Ketu in the 1st house I imagine it to be about what I am willing to do differently myself in order to have functioning relationships with other people. But I'm so used to being how I am and doing what I do ...
A lot of what I say in my answer to your post does seem to have to do with Ketu being in the 1st house with lots of planets (so focus on self is strong). I'd also say that maybe with Rahu in the 7th you are not seeing clearly in people who you are attracted to (at least when younger), so you attract people who are not really compatible with your personality. And no one is compatible with everyone, so your task seems to be to become more discerning with other people, but also to learn when it is the right time to adapt.
For me: Rahu in the 7th and ketu works out in a way that if I get affected negatively by something I really need to be on my own for months. I need to work through it. When it comes to relationships I want love very bad but, when I think I have it I get scared and don't want it anymore. I get so uncomfortable and weird. love has to be very, very organic so I don't even see it coming. Like a friend I've known for a while!
Ketu in lagna - “…don’t care about appearance” - I’d have to say I care about it as in I like to do light makeup and dress up nice or put together while still feeling inwardly confident, secure, and sure of my self.
You've just read my soul, and told my life story. I keep trying and failing; making new friendships is easy to me and I give a lot, but all my friendships fail dramatically. Same with romantic relationships. Plus I meet a lot of potential friends or partners whilst abroad. Most of my childhood friends live litterally across the planet. I'm pretty desilusioned. I'm 35 and have been working in therapy on my relationships for almost 10 years now. Libra rising, with mars + ketu in the first house. Seems like an untanglelable riddle. I give too much and get taken advantage of - or feel that way - I tend to attract the selfish/narcissistic type. When I realise, I leave and never look back... Untill I meet the same energy in another body over and over again. Sigh... Thank you for your explanation. Much respect
I have the same placements as you, the same story and the same age too. I wish you overcome and triumph this, with all the effort you put forward it has to be your final story! For me, I would consider it to be the biggest achievement of my life to just be able to have normal, steady inter-dependent, mutually loving, caring and lasting relationships. Still tumbling at every relationship hurdle no matter how much I study or work on them and how much I work on myself. It makes me feel weak sometimes just desiring normal relationships when most people seem to just have them. Probably especially soul aching as a libra ascendant, that’s what we’re supposed to be about.
I have rahu in 7th and I am very loyal. I also am the opposite of promiscuous. I have ketu saturn in cancer and rahu in capricorn. I have too much trust...then I am let down. People are not what they appear on the surface and their words also don't match what is behind the mask. I was married for 25 years. He has rahu, moon, mars in aquarious 1st house and ketu mercury in the 7th. He traveled alot for work. I had to carry the burdens of the relationship. He definitely wore a mask. He is vindictive. My rahu dasha happened when I was 6 years old. My parents got divorced at 6.
This is so accurate! I want to get the practice of interacting with others and dating but I'm rarely given opportunities. When I do get the chance to talk to someone I get turned off quickly and go back into hermit mode. It sucks.
This is the MOST accurate, most resonating, and most encouraging interpretation of this axis. I have this in my lagna chart, and I am super thankful for you to give truthful and realistic analysis about this specific placement. Thank you and more power!
For me, I have Narayana with me. So i will keep trying for True Love and never lose hope. Even if i am surrounded by betrayers. I need True love Not just any relationship.
💥💥💥💥 My D9 condition 02:08 Ketu 1 reincarnation to clear past life karma (I KNOW ughhh) mission impossible 😎🧨💣 10:30 Rahu karma of being selfish. in this life creating new relationships will be a challenge. But also an obsession 🥲😟 *13:12** 😔 a karma that I have to overcome.. PAST KARMA* 15:08 late marriage ⏰ Prone to marry someone faraway. Probably when travelling 🧭 🧳 Learn to trust and give up isolation
Gina…..honeybunch….I’m 1:45 into this and I had to stop and type this. The clarity and calm that you bring to my life is everything. There are no words to express how much I appreciate you. Thank you❤️ 🙏
Its the fact that we have to try so hard to please or fancy others when they should already be thankful we are in their presence. We hold so much power and give it away to people who absorb whatever drop is left. Relationships do not mean much to us unless we feel true psychic connection in them. People can be spiritual all they want but if they still struggle on what life is and what its like to have a soul that knows what has to be done to progress everyone just look like sheeple to us. Ketu rahu bring stagnation on being free to who we are inside and become over protective. All we want is to be who we are till the whole universe ends. We are super aware and people just look at us crazy.
I go into ketu in 3 years (during or after saturn return I believe haha), I have it directly on my ascendant. I never understood my chart because everyone focused on my 7th house stellium, I've never had any interest in relationships and I'm not lonely. I prefer being alone, so I honestly felt like it just wasn't accurate until I started learning about ketu! very glad I did, it described me perfectly.
Spot on..so much more true than any other video out there..they all propose that cheating idea,lack of self-confidence and so on..i have found on my own example ,years of being alone, much longer than anyone else and accepting that as being much more convinient in the end..your explanations are just spot on
Enjoyed the use of , You came here with a Mission, mission impossible almost 😅 because we didn’t or don’t know what we’re here to do, until it’s time to do it. Thank You 🙏🏽, has been a new aspect for me to learn the Ketu.
I am 32 now, started Rahu dasha at 18, still never even kissed anyone. I have been overweight most of my life, because like you said, I mostly just don't care. Despite that, I have had many people tell me i am beautiful, and have had some suitors, but nobody I liked enough to try a relationship with. I was neglected as a child, father was abusive. I never cared about children. Only started thinking that maybe I should have them around the age of 30, but do not seeing happening, since I never even dated, and like you said, I love being alone, children and relationships are such burdens. I loved astrology since childhood, was treated like a freak for it, my parents are scientists. I have 2 college degrees, about to get my third, am the only woman I know who is content living alone and does pretty well at that. I also have my own apartament, and work as an engineer full time. And I go on holidays alone, travelled quite a lot by myself. But there are also many times when I am annoyed at not finding a compatibile partner. One that gives me my alone time 😂. Maybe I am not meant to marry or have kids. I also have Saturn in 5th, Sun-venus-mercury-rahu in 7th.
You basically narrated my whole life. Just know that you’re not alone. I was born during Rahu mahadasha and my dad was not there for the first 8 years of my life. Bullied for being overweight, had to be separate from my mom due to some circumstances. I have never dated or even held hands with anyone. I mostly don’t care and ready to live and die a virgin lol. But sometimes when I see my peers get married, I feel like is there something wrong with me? I hate dealing with people, I love the occult science so tend to be with my books in my lovely studio apartment being mesmerized by this wonderful science. Also very spiritual but I am also in ill health. Ketu has literally been ruling my life. They tell me I have a pretty face but when someone approaches me, I get scared and run away… dunno why, but I feel like other people cannot handle my true nature. Hence I cannot open up to them. I don’t trust them. I don’t feel confident around other people. Sure I can be social but when it comes to having close friendships and partnerships, the feeling is very close to a suffocation. But at the same time, I crave for a partner who understands me and loves me for who I am.
This is very interesting. I have Ketu conjunct the Ascendant in Scorpio, and yes I had a horrible family, narcissist parents, I grew up with their bullying and abuse and it broke my spirit, I gave up on all my dreams and ambitions for myself, and basically I feel like a complete failure and a total waste of space. This year I turned 37 and I still do not want, and do not let, anyone into my personal life, and I prefer it that way... So it's very disappointing that apparently Rahu wants me to deal with people when from my experience people can be so deceiving, cruel, selfish and self-serving. I really wonder what is Dasha... I'll look into it. I hope I'm out of the woods, I really just want a quiet life for as long as I am forced to be here.
I’m 1985 and same placement as you 1/7. According to my Vedic app I won’t see my ketu dasha happen until 2061! The ketu sub dashas I find are still very important things to look at for us ❤️
As long as you r forced to be here... yes its true some people are only waiting for death. This position is an oxymoron where you r suppose to deal with people n all people do is hate you for unknown reasons.
Mam, as others have said, you are so accurate. Extremely grateful to you for sharing your knowledge. I Exactly that is what I was looking for!. All the best and lots of good wishes!!
jesusss i can't cry myself to sleep any longer, i just wanna someone to cuddle me and to talk, and i just want to enjoy life, to know how it feels to be part of the world, it's so painful to be alone
So much of this is true for myself. Although I have been happily married for over 25 years. I have an amazing wife. Maybe something to do with Jupiter and Venus in third house. She has very much helped me come out of my shell. But for the most part I’m very much a loner. I have very few close friends. Very much attracted to Indian culture and have friends and extended family in India. Virgo in Ketu, Rahu in Pieces. I’m learning to let go. Thank you very much for your insights. 🙏❤️
Me too have Ketu in Virgo and Rahu in Pisces with retrograde Jupiter in 6th house. My challenge is in relationship where my partners backstabbed me and right now going through a divorce proceedings by an abuser and his family. I think I will be alone in my last stages of my life though I yearn for a peaceful family life.
you re just totally right, my last relationship, i ve putted my whole energy trying understand how built healthly relationship and fail. after isolation my prefered place😅.
This is my struggle. Had Rahu dasha very early On every man has tried to wack at my confidence, abusive etc. Ketu Scorpio rahu taurus. I don’t think I’m getting married this lifetime.
Thank you so much! I do my own have a little bit different axis Ketu/Rahu in 2/8 libra/Aries, but I have a moon in Pisces revati 7 house (so the topic of relationships is really important for me too), and my BF has this axis in 1/7 in Scorpio/Taurus, and this is so accurate about long-distance relationships, different cultures, and an even soft heart than you because I’m too sensitive compare to him, I do really require careful attitudes to me. And this relationship feels so karmic... Wow ❤❤
I’m 24 years old and very much into studying different aspects of jyotish having katu in 1st house pisces and rahu in 7th house virgo and currently running rahu mahadasha and oh boy was i so freaked out till now. Thanks for making it less fearful but still illuminating enough🙏🏼
Incredibly good, you are a real inspiration for me as an everlasting student of vedic wisdom with Ketu 1st house in Dhanishta! by the way, your voice became so soft & compassionate, beautyful🕉️
It's CRAZY how you accurately explain it, like as if you also have the same placement. Haha you're amazing! Currently in my Rahu Mahadasha & I'm still 22... I'm really praying & trusting myself that I don't get to entangle into crazy relationships. Huhu I'll be okay with crazy friendships & casual relationships though, think I can handle. But, with romantic relationships?? Scary & risky.
My son and I both have Ketu in the 1st house. We relate to a lot of what you’ve said. I’m so glad to have him because he and I both leave each other alone, but are always present, if that makes sense.
I have Venus Mercury Sun and Mars among with Rahu in the scorpio sign so 7 house is a most painful area in that incarnation ... very difficult childhood grew up without parents and as cancer moon I'm very sensitive and vulnerable. In relationships always thirst for the ideal but never get it and don't trusting people it's too hard for me And I love this video,it's pretty accurate.
The current Rahu/ Ketu transit runs through my 1st/7th house. Also going through Ketu-Saturn dasha. Definitely self-isolation, independence and some confusion are part of this transit. Also living and working in foreign country, more spirituality and not many close friendships and some family betrayals are there. But I think each transit has its challenges, at least for me :)
Sigh. This is my Ketu and Rahu placements. Thank you for summing up this placement beautifully and accurately. I moved out of my home country when I was 10 years old and had a very tough time fitting in, I was made fun of and bullied for my physical appearance, my dark skin colour and my hair texture by other kids. Had a tough time making long-lasting friends and even when I made friends, it was for a very short time. I was always alone but ironically I didn't feel alone. Now in my 20's I find it difficult to connect to other people, particularly to pursue romantic interests, I attract all the selfish and self-centred individuals again and again. It's weird how I want friends and relationships but I know it's only for a short amount of and quickly realise it may not be for me and that I'm better off alone. It's a very weird and ironic position to be in. But thank you so much for explaining this empathetically and accurately. This is the only video I have stumbled upon where someone truly understands the uphill battle that this placement brings and the beauty as well as the challenges it holds. You are an amazing astrologer, I hope in the future you do personal horoscope readings. I would honestly love to get a reading from you.
Lol are you… me? Only difference is that I’m in my 30’s and have a very short bandwidth for ppl. I love isolation. I literally get exhausted when I’m around people. It wasn’t always like this. I used to crave “sex in the city” type of friendships. I’m a bubbly person, however, friendships and relationships were impossible for me. Especially since I lived in NYC. In my teens & 20’s, I deeply desired relationships, but it always evaded me. Now, after one weird relationship, I’m very put off from relationships. And yet, I battle between wanting children and the only way I’m bringing kids into this world is via marriage. The beauty of it all is that now, I kinda expect it to be short lived so I shut it down at the first sign/2nd red flag. And I’m 2 steps away from living off the grid. Also I grew up in different countries around 9 yo. She’s pretty accurate.
I hope things get better with time to come for you and me. I'm always hopeful I will find someone with the same Rahu and Ketu placements to cancel out it's effects. That's like one way of neutralising the negative effects of this placement. Stay hopeful. @@teralecole316
OMG at 4:01 regarding the Dasha periods. If my ketu friends (esp on lagna) don’t know their dasha and sub-dasha periods, find out! I can personally attest that when my ketu sub-dasha started in 2016, it literally tuned everything in my life on its head. Not necessarily in a good or bad way, i was just never to be the same person!
My sister has this placement and she is a pure soul that I’m forever grateful for, but sometimes with my Libra south node she can come across as being a bit inconsiderate. We have much to learn from each other I guess!
I watched this video several times. I have this axis Rahu in 7th and Ketu in 1st (I am a Libra-asc, Ketu in 1st house along with Saturn (28 degrees), of course, Saturn is Atmakaraka for me). Everything you talked about childhood, trust, relationship, foreign land, foreign culture, travel and pre conceived mindset, etc.. are accurate. You talked as if you read about me. I don't trust anyone easily based on past experience, my past experience is full of breaches of trust. childhood was terrible and pathetic, my journey from "nothing" to "something" today thanks to Saturn's life lessons. right now sailing through Rahu mahadasha - ketu Antardasha.
@@vinayakkamath4927 not a good one, brought me colorful new relationship in my life, broke up with one of the best human being and let cruel woman enter my life, she even made baby with me, she held her family against me I went to court to fight for my son. Finally I got him but still life is not easy with this woman. Lesson learnt - do not make any serious moves during this time, don't trust if somone entering in your life they can cause more problem or may bring permanent problem to you. Do not think of any relationship during this time. Technically screwed up my life beyond repair. Be "extra careful "
I just got out of my Saturn-Ketu Dasha and I'm interested in Astrology after Saturn-Ketu Dasha lol. But that's true, I discovered my life purpose in Saturn-Ketu Dasha
True. ASC GEM with Ketu in 1st house. I have ketu in 1st too in D9. Both my parents were working parents, I grew up on my own till my sibling was born. I don't want children. I want pets.
Hi Gina.. this is perhaps the ONLY sole positive video I’ve seen about this axis. I have Ketu in Sagittarius and Rahu in Gemini 7th house. My Indian astrologer keeps telling me to stay careful with men and it makes me fearful at times. In fact my relationships have not lasted so far. But anyhow this video is not so fatalistic so I like it
I’m so happy to have found your channel, I feel like I found a gem 💎 when I needed it most!!! You are amazing and have added so much value to my life already! Thank you for your teachings 🙏🏽 will you be teaching Vedic astrology? I’d love to learn more from you
Hello miss, if you are interested in Vedic astrology i can share some good things, if you are to share your insights regarding tarot. Cuz I'm now entering tarot but not as proficient as astrology. I'm willing to share my knowledge and to have meaningful covos...
The 26 degrees of Gemini makes me a bit flighty in relationships but having Rahu in 7th house doesn’t help. Ketu in the first house was so correct for me, my challenge is dealing with people when I’m just so sure of myself. Like, who needs other people in large doses, they are annoying and too much work. I’ve found I have to work on my relationships more than others -I’m always dating someone new! Attracted to crazy and foreign people. And I seem to think that other peoples spouses are given to them with no real work involved. My soul knows what’s it’s doing though. 3 kids and an unwanted engagement by age 20, I’m 30 now and have learnt more than enough for this life! Travelling soon and hope to meet someone overseas :)
“You can’t have a relationship if you want to be in isolation” 😢😂 this is horrible news lol. I’ve been in Ketu MD for the past years and in March this year I’m starting Venus MD as a Taurus Lagna (and Taurus Krittika Ketu) I’m really hoping that this MD is going to help me with relationships a bit more because these past few years were horrible. Isolation has always won😩 Thank you so much for this beautifully accurate description/ life story. 🙏🏼
I’ve been isolating too, more so now than ever before. I want a relationship but cannot go out to find one. Married 2 x I’m afraid I used up my marriage cards. I’m in Saturn MD, my Ketu is not until my 80s
@@michellem1329 Isolation can be very helpful though. We just gotta learn not to stay there. I do wonder if marriage is made for Ketu 1st housers.. freedom is so important for most of us. Just gotta find the person who feels the same way! Enjoy the journey 💜
Re the part not caring what you look like - I have Venus conjunct ketu in my ascendant and I do care what I look like in public, not always though and seemingly not as much as people seem to around me.
This was amazing thank you. I’m a bit intertwined with someone who has Venus Ketu in Aries on their ascendant and moon Rahu Libra on their descendent which also happens to be my Libra Ascendent. We have opposite rising sign degrees. It feels very comfortable but very confusing and scary of course. I don’t do Vedic that much but you are incredible at your explanations and understanding. Thank you.
So all my lower division as well as d1 have this placement. Karka lagna Scorpio moon. No children. Doomed married life. No carrier. At 50 I've had a failed life. I almost was killed by my ex. Not ever been promiscuous
