It's painful as mens bcz we dnt share about our marriage issues as our in laws gt involved on our marriage issues and problems,used our kids as weapons and shield bcz daily basis gt infrm giv wrongful advise by nt tnk about the future of our kids life journey without any fair on our life marriage we face divorces and high numbers of killing of women's bcz of such manners over everything n marriages n people mst learn to keep n stick together nt involved third party bcz destroy other people life.😢
Third parties must be involved kuyaphoqa.probkem is this story is one sided.for this guy to be duped by both wives there is a story that we don't know.i would love to hear the wives side of story.
U mst knw third party caused n giv wrong advises hear side to wife's or partners forgetting that alots cases we going to feel for our kids side n blame husband but if things cum up rite the first party as women or wife giv suitable side by giv strength and structure of the foundations as her first cum drunk on hubby yard ws wrong bcz show that thy never value the hubby bt try to protect problems that wife n in-laws caused on daily basis wit alcohol by try to be nice on other side as third always makes things difficult n worse by choice they're kids sides on everything cause conflicts on themselves without face true.as mens we face difficulties on our conversation as partners by told hw to run our life and marriage wanted to knw everything abt marriage life n control all circle of the matter by giv strength on empty promises or advice given n we mst face our problem together n resolve it as we provide n support each other on everything we do as couples nt thirdly judge,as hubby raise issues of alcohol and supposed to listen and appreciate everything wit gud communication,nt control herself as wife and husband mst lead as wanted his marriage issues to be protected nt mislead ,dnt make short term plans on marriages or relationships as u did c or notice or partner trying everything to build nt destroy the foundations as we started together also we plant beautiful seeds for gud health and beauty recieving plans u protect n watering it for long term plans period.learn to take Ur seeds and protect it bcz ppl cum up jealous over beautiful thy c on distance and destroyed it.
Noma kungathiwa nginthanda kangakanani ,once kwangena umama kaskakazi that a red flag for me ,it even worse if sekungenelela nobaba,akaladelele ukuthi umukhwe wakhe uphathwa kanjeni kwakhe,naye uzophila leyompilo,NTANDANE KAGOGO PHUMA USAPHILA mfethu.
Ningamdabukela nje, kodwa naye akekho perfect, kumanje hr owes us. Waqala ukwakha ikhishi lakwami ngoFeb.and paid him yonke imali ngoba simthembile, till today akakaze abuye azoqedela. Nathi siyakhala njengoba ekhala lapho. Ukhaliswa inkinga zakhe not abafazi. They were trying to help us, but yena uthi bathatha umsebenzi wakhe. Uma simfonela uMabhodisa akasiphdnduli sinomyeni wami. His wife and mother in law was trying to cover him to protect his reputation. Akazame ukusibuyisela imali yethu khona sizozama abanye
Yekani lento yesthembu ukukho muzi owandayo la kuphela kukhula inzondo qha even your first wife she doesn't feel like you deserve her soport maybe she feel betrayed by you ngokuthatha omunye
Ngacabangacl that story of a guy who posted here on Facebook that he was going to commit suicide because of some woman blah blah blah! Red Flag 1 .Posting on Facebook about your household issue.
