This is why I believe you should never rush into marriage until you know someone very well (the good, the bad, AND the ugly). If you were going to have sex, at least have protected sex (it's not 100% guarantee, but it gives some protection). NEVER stay in a marriage where you are afraid of your spouse!
I feel like you don't love Xyoob enough to marry him. You wanted to please your parents by not marrying Xyoob but why ended up with a Vietnamese guy???
Nyab laj tuaj thov yuav. Thats so sad and happy. The sad part is , your parent always try to stop you. The happy part is that John lawv paub cai heev.thiab lawv nyiam koj , lawv niam lawv txiv tsis muaj teeb meem but your parent, our Hmong parents☹️☹️☹️
I can’t believe you were an adult in college but you can’t make your own decisions to follow your heart to marry the man who loved you. The choices we make that we regret. If you were 15-16, I’d understand your decision to do what your parents wanted. You missed out on what could’ve been with the love of your life.
Please note, you're a good stories teller but for correction, HNOOB is not the correct spelling nor proper pronounciation for HNUB. The sun is also HNUB, not Hnoob. Thank you 20:54
Hello brother David, thank you very much for your positive correction of my Hmong pronunciation. I appreciate it. Thanks for listening to my neej neeg.
I can’t understand you didn’t marry the love of your life but ho mus yuav txiv nyab laj. What’s worst, yuav txiv hmoob tsev neeg tsis muaj koob muaj npe los mus yuav nyab laj?? Koj txiv nej tsev neeg muaj koob muaj npe npaum cas ne yom??
This part 2 make me mad. How could you be telling story of you destroying your hlub. Don't act like you can't be with him. In America no one can tell you who you can't be with. Sooner or later your parents will learn to love him.
Kuv tsis ntseeg tias cas koj cia li tu xyhob moo yooj yim thiab nws cia li lees txais li no xwb. Kuv Xav tias koj ntshai koj niam koj txiv tu siab rau koj heev koj thiaj txiav txim li no but ho cia li mus yuav Nyab laj? I wonder how your father take that? Tu xyhov moo mus rau Nyab laj?