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Nigerian Men Are Taking All The Women in Uganda and Kenya FOR THIS REASON| Ep. 80 

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In this podcast, we explore why East African men are often seen as not romantic. We discuss cultural and societal factors that contribute to this perception and challenge stereotypes surrounding East African masculinity. Tune in to join the conversation and tell us what you think in the comment section.
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@Kenganda
@Kenganda Год назад
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@CYR1977
@CYR1977 Год назад
Join everything!
@Shonuffmann
@Shonuffmann Год назад
As long as you have complete creative control, get that bag!
@blockavelli
@blockavelli Год назад
As long as you can keep ownership of all your intellectual property.
@blackchain1900
@blackchain1900 Год назад
Bro, you should explain what the marriage rate is like here in America, with all this romance.
@sonofnok2153
@sonofnok2153 Год назад
@@blackchain1900 ...at the end of the day, does that lead to marriage and a family.
@bellooricha6866
@bellooricha6866 10 месяцев назад
Truth is, Nigerian men will keep giving you forever. They're raised to be both providers & romantic. A Nigerian woman doesn't have to do a lot, don't just cheat & be a supportive woman.
@tabiagebre8168
@tabiagebre8168 2 месяца назад
and some will cheat.
@jahkarimirza7286
@jahkarimirza7286 Год назад
That brother s right. Women are affected by the Hollywood Western movies on romanticism, which is the Roman way.
@Babanla420
@Babanla420 Год назад
Especially the host. She is so Americanized
@djhuiti100
@djhuiti100 Год назад
I agree. All I hear is roman-antics. Its pretty disappointing to be honest & im all for treating my woman like a Queen.
@kevinfowler8712
@kevinfowler8712 Год назад
Harlequin romance novels and of course television. Even though this is true we must take the time out to show that we appreciate the gift God has given us.
@rbailey3309
@rbailey3309 Год назад
With all thy getting, get thee understanding.(Proverbs 4:7)
@KingMike-un5vz
@KingMike-un5vz Год назад
​@@kevinfowler8712 yall may be right but I gotta say it doesn't take to much for us to care about our women n show some love and be genuinely in love with to woman.
@kingkunta07
@kingkunta07 Год назад
I’m not East African , I’m not American , I’m entertained. Fire episode 💥😂
@princessroyalty7879
@princessroyalty7879 Год назад
Nigerian and Liberian men really know how to cook food very well. Seems to me like they learned how to cook food from childhood. They clean the food properly before cooking it. After the food has been cooked, it tastes very good.
@mpendakiswahili3053
@mpendakiswahili3053 Год назад
And, so we should cook as well...
@finedash5744
@finedash5744 Год назад
So no eastfrican man know how to cook??
@mpendakiswahili3053
@mpendakiswahili3053 Год назад
@@finedash5744 they do, but very few you'll find them in the kitchen cooking......
@amandaeguale1641
@amandaeguale1641 Год назад
@@mpendakiswahili3053 yes you should cook
@mpendakiswahili3053
@mpendakiswahili3053 Год назад
@@amandaeguale1641 are you okay in the head!!!....
@omoluabiorishaluabi
@omoluabiorishaluabi Год назад
To be honest, Nigerian men would be romantic because they grew up seeing it around them. Nigerian men wouldn't see anything wrong serving their wives ...cooking, gifts, helps shopping and above all romantic sexy etc
@cjceejay5261
@cjceejay5261 Год назад
Really? You just described simps you are used to.
@Tiktok_Reddit
@Tiktok_Reddit Год назад
😂😂😂, which Nigerian men or you’re speaking for your circle?
@omoluabiorishaluabi
@omoluabiorishaluabi Год назад
@Someone you Love ...when it is mentioned Nigerian men or Tunisian or wherever does not mean totality...and how many have you met...not even 0.00001%
@chineduozulumba7833
@chineduozulumba7833 Год назад
Watching from Nigeria. I really enjoyed your conversation. I think it depends on the perspective you are looking at. I think African men need to step up a bit, however they are not doing badly. Our women also need to appreciate us more and not compare us to the men in the West (U.S, U.k). My marriage is 9 years by the grace of God and I am enjoying the wife of my youth. Romance is good, but its not everything required to keep a relationship or marriage. Financial stablility, kindness, senstivity and emotion maturity is key. Nice channel, I just subscribed.
@Jahzeal101
@Jahzeal101 Год назад
He will make every Girl in his life feel special, truly, 🇳🇬✔️
@wealthbymind
@wealthbymind Год назад
I'm an American Black Woman and Oshay I hope that you are schooling these young ladies and that you are in truth about today's topic in knowing the destruction that these fake romance perspectives and behaviors have caused in the Americas. These young ladies are too young and they don't know the full ramifications of not having emotional control. I'm not saying women shouldn't be emotionally supported but where does one draw the line? Some of what these were saying is an immature perspective that "may" lead these women to having a "potentially" high body count, emotionally drained, unmarried, unsatisfied, spiritually dismantled, and eventually potentially alone because they won't be able to peer bond. These ladies have to be mindful of what they are doing "unconsciously" to themselves when they jump from guy to guy in exchange for money in some form (mobile topup, groceries, etc.) and then when the women don't get what they want from one guy they move on to the next. So basically why should men trust settling down with these types of ladies. Life has ups and downs, and if the man has a problem in life financially will these young ladies just leave him instead of helping to lift the man when he's down on his luck?
@alieast3196
@alieast3196 Год назад
You should be a pastor because you are speaking the gospel 🕊️🌞. In all seriousness we should all be aware of the toxic seeds from the bad apples in western culture. Nigeria and Congo are two of the most westernized countries in Africa and their is a small percent of men there who have made wealth from abusing the people and resources in their country. Those are the men they are speaking about not the everyday people in the villages, cities, and slums who cannot even afford a plane ticket out Nigeria or the congo. They are basically African passport bros lol 📘.
@wealthbymind
@wealthbymind Год назад
@@alieast3196 And, the crazy thing is that people are following the "WEST" and other cultures with perspectives and behaviors that are damaging not only to the mind but to the body and the spirit. We are supposed to follow a higher power (whatever name you put on it). We are supposed to let our ancestors and higher forces guide us but instead, we are allowing the wickedness of man to lead us by the nose and place "evil agendas" before us that do not serve us. Some of these agendas are subtle and look innocent but in the end, they are the most destructive because they are noticed when it's too late. Many are functioning without higher principles and because of such they have nothing that gives them a baseline. Your principles help you to know where to draw the line. When you don't have principles, then anything goes and people can be steered in a direction that is damning. Again, having principles is a way of setting boundaries of knowing what you will do and not do. Culture is bigger than an individual person. You must hold principles so your children will know what to stand on. We should have individual principles that benefit the whole. People are letting misguided perspectives and behaviors dictate what has been proven to not be good in the long run. People are looking for instant gratification and a quick $dollar and not what will hold them and their community together for the long haul. The other crazy thing is that if I were to call a woman who jumps from man to man a whore or a prostitute, she would be offended. But when you look up the meaning and the etymology of the word, they would fit the description exactly. And you don't need to stand on the street to be such. Believe it or not, this is why some people can't connect intimately. They have too many other people's energies on them. Many do not hold their bodies as temples (male and female). Not everyone deserves your energy not to mention sex can be a dirty thing, physically as well as spiritually i.e. disease, blockages in life, etc. Both males and females are prostituting and compromising themselves for less than nothing because they don't see themselves in high regard. It is what it is and I'm not judging but I am wondering, when did we lose our creativity to make something from nothing. I agree with you it's not all (in whatever locale) however we must be aware of these damaging perspectives that are like a virus. We must protect ourselves from this at all costs. We all must think higher and carry ourselves in that manner. Respect yourself first and then others will respect you. We have forgotten who and what we are supposed to stand for. You don't need to be a pastor to speak the truth. We had principles of truth way before the advent of the Bible, Christianity, and Islam. The spirit of a higher order was once in us and we carried ourselves in that way. Many no longer carry themselves in such a way and the ones that do are looked upon as if something is wrong with them. So, it is up to you to seek the truth in all things even if it hurts and no matter what anyone says. At least then, when you see yourself going the wrong way you can adjust and self-correct. I'm here as a black American woman (there are still some good ones out here) who is a living witness to the destruction of our people all around the world and it saddens me.
@khem127
@khem127 Год назад
Mmm ,Oshay doin better. At least he maturing to community consciousness. Baby steps……..baby steps. Good job Oshay!! Why do some of these ladies sound like men??
@mpendakiswahili3053
@mpendakiswahili3053 Год назад
I wish they could realize, right now as a man doing we'll in Nairobi Kenya, it's difficult to find marriage oriented young woman ..... They evolved to something completely foreign to us, they copy and paste everything they see from Hollywood.....
@lubanzaozunu6527
@lubanzaozunu6527 Год назад
@wealthbymind..... Preeeeach!!!! 👏👏👏 You should be on the next episode as a guest.
@aao449
@aao449 Год назад
As a Nigerian woman, you all need to take it easy with each other. You ppl are really going for each other’s jugular.
@KingNnaji
@KingNnaji Год назад
Giving is a part of the Nigerian culture and it is the men that pay for everything and the provider. It is part of Nigerian culture
@henryokoye1014
@henryokoye1014 Год назад
Exactly. And a way of life.
@cjceejay5261
@cjceejay5261 Год назад
What’s this thing about women and money?
@mikeking-yh7km
@mikeking-yh7km Год назад
I love Rachael's contribution... There's no need of faking love.... Men are built as warriors, protectors and providers... No need to be carrying ladies bag. African culture and upbringing is quite different from other continent....
@dmvpro2014
@dmvpro2014 Год назад
Oshay fits the definition of romantic according to Joanita, because he has American accent and the money to spend!!
@SSF4Kingship
@SSF4Kingship Год назад
Lol
@joanitamaaya
@joanitamaaya Год назад
Lol
@tundebakare6887
@tundebakare6887 Год назад
😂😂
@christset
@christset Год назад
As a NIgerian man, if u want a peace of mind, listen uganda men, when u get married, give all your salary to your wife and tell her to use the money to pay all the bills in the house including the house rent, that way, she can't be asking u money, cause she already knows what's coming in. then get your side hustle on to keep that extra money for your self.
@mpendakiswahili3053
@mpendakiswahili3053 Год назад
What a simp
@victorikenna597
@victorikenna597 Год назад
Wrong advise 😂
@johnolaoluwa
@johnolaoluwa Год назад
Then you make her look outside to "support" the family. The whole matter is one of education. The woman needs to know for herself what real life is, not one based on fake expectations that is actually lots of body counts.
@christset
@christset Год назад
​@@johnolaoluwa Women have unique ways of thinking that differ from men, much like the distinction between the operating systems of an iPhone and an Android device. Once you grasp that concept, u are on your way.Koye e..
@johnolaoluwa
@johnolaoluwa Год назад
@@christset It is not as hard as people try to make it. Women love naturally, but find it unnatural to submit.... Men don't find it natural to love - that is why the Bible commands the woman to submit and the man to love. Disobedience to this simple command leads to problems, which neither can handle. So, I understand where you are coming from about giving her the salary to pay all the bills, including the ones you incurred, it makes her feel in total control - that is still wrong. She should be in control of building the home while the man should be in charge of protecting the family. ... It is that simple.
@jnginc_
@jnginc_ Год назад
This problem is not unique to them. The brotha shared a valid point. Women all over the world see Hollywood romance and desire the same. Thank you for sharing.
@afckajjansi
@afckajjansi Год назад
Then they complain if men do it lol
@11damilola
@11damilola Год назад
I have been to several clubs, lounges, hotels, exotic restaurants etc in DRC and the way Nigerians spend money can't be compared to the Congolese at all. Nigerians are top spenders. In December 2019 just before the covid, I travelled with 2 of my Nigerian friends to DRC for 8 days and we spent a total of $34,800 on exotic drinks and champagnes in the club in just 3 days. The club owner told the DJ to stop all french music and play strictly Nigerian music throughout our stay. Nigerians love fun and wouldn't mind the cost. They're big spenders.
@bobsecret199
@bobsecret199 Год назад
Spending $34,800 on “exotic drinks” over the course of 8 days is just sheer INSANITY! Over those same 8 days my total expenditure would be less than $45 TOPS! And I’m a 7 figure man!) $1,000,000+ 🙄
@11damilola
@11damilola Год назад
@@bobsecret199 @bobsecret199 Nigerians love fun and it doesn't sound insane to them. I don't think spending $34,800 on exotic drinks is a big deal to a group of young Nigerian men who are worth millions of dollars and own gold mines in Conakry, Mali and Goma DRC. They went on a business trip and equally had fun. I don't see that as insane as long as they were happy and it doesn't affect their business and investments negatively.
@I.K.U.K.U
@I.K.U.K.U Год назад
I am a Nigerian, and I work so hard to be able to spend 100k$ on drinks one day. It’s not madness but we love it
@bobsecret199
@bobsecret199 Год назад
@@11damilola I’m certain that the vast majority of Nigerians know NOTHING about having “fun” as much as men like me! And I have FAR more wealth than most Nigerians dare to even fantasize about! But anybody that equates spending $34,800 on “exotic drinks” 🍹 🥤 🍺 as “fun” is truly lacking …in MANY ways! The AVERAGE household in Nigerian earns just a bit more than $200 USD per MONTH! So let’s not pretend that most Nigerians know ANYTHING at all about wealth! In the USA we blacks who actually ARE wealthy …and did _not_ grow up in poverty can ALWAYS recognize NEW MONEY and the people who DID! The NEW MONEY blacks are prone to do all of the childish flexing and love to wear expensive jewelry, drive fancy cars and to be seen. What they are far too dumb to realize is that there is an entire industry of people who get rich and make a living off of their zeal for relevancy. They know that these hood rich people have NO idea what the difference is between a $100,000 watch and an $800 watch. They have absolutely NO idea what fine aged wine tastes like or should taste like as compared to something picked up at the corner liquor store. They can’t tell REAL gold from FOOLS gold and they can’t tell a diamond from a cubic zirconia. You could pick up something from Target and tell a hood rich negro that it’s a designer original and that the label is very exclusive and they will pay 100x more for it than it costs at the store. (Petty people are just that desperate to be relevant or to APPEAR rich!) All you have to do is act a certain way and talk a good game and put a high price tag on something and a hood rich negroe is extremely EASY to fleece! The poverty class always make a MUCH bigger deal about their relatively NEW money and love to flaunt it, toss it around and spend it frivolously…and FOOLISHLY! But the people like ME who have NOTHING to prove and are used to wealth tend to be significantly more frugal and conscientious about how we spend it. Men like me have MUCH more in common with men like Elon Musk …THE wealthiest man (by FAR) on the entire PLANET 🌍…and NOTHING in common with the typical RAPPER …who grew up in poverty in “da hood!” It sounds like these Nigerians share this _HOOD_ mentality when it comes to money! Spending $34,800 on “exotic drinks and champagnes …in the club …in just 3 days” is something that I’d be too EMBARRASSED to admit to! ESPECIALLY if I came from a country as dirt poor as Nigeria! 😖 After you consume all these “exotic drinks and champagnes” it all comes out as rancid smelling yellow *_PISS!_* And the people who mixed up the drinks and sold them to you are LAUGHING at you behind your back! 😄😁🥲😅😂🤣
@docfada1701
@docfada1701 Год назад
​@@11damilola Exactly 💯 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯👍🏾
@omoluabiorishaluabi
@omoluabiorishaluabi Год назад
The fact of being poor guy and no woman interested in you is all over Africa and it's not because women only want money, it's feminine nature. Women by nature wants security both physically, economically and financially, even intellectually. I have had this issue of east African men not being romantic as west African counterparts. However, i believe east African women could figure out the comparison became west African men becomes available for them. It's always like that in life when you have experience of two sides. I believe our east African men can make changes.
@abiodundami
@abiodundami Год назад
Honestly, as a Nigerian man, based on the responses of the Uganda/ Kenyan guy I can see why their women prefers a Nigerian or Congolese man. Its true we like to spend money but the truth is you need to understand women's love language. If you want to catch a monkey act like one. Women want everything they desire but its not possible for them to get all they want... its just not possible. If you put that statement into perspective you will get any woman you desire.
@kyomugisharoset8266
@kyomugisharoset8266 10 месяцев назад
Who said Congolese man?
@KiguruNganga
@KiguruNganga Месяц назад
You talk as if we still don't get these women, we don't need your advise
@ewm4266
@ewm4266 Год назад
Sticking with my Luo and Coastarian men from Kenya, Thank you, Nigerians got nothing on them
@TheRealness101
@TheRealness101 Год назад
Opinions are like A holes, everyone's got one. I'm sure other people have the same sentiments for Nigerian men, against the men you're praising. Big up to Africans, simple, why hate and throw shade?🤣
@realvibranttv2255
@realvibranttv2255 Год назад
As a Nigerian, I respect you immensely for loving your fellow east African men. For me, love knows no boarder. If I find love in Uganda, Kenya, South Africa, Senegal or anywhere, I will settle with her.
@ewm4266
@ewm4266 Год назад
​​​@@TheRealness101 Why are you butt hurt? Not everyone loves Ogas and it's ok so take several seats back and whine over there abeg
@fistandpen2505
@fistandpen2505 Год назад
Another Nigerian. You definitely should at least show respect to your men. So not sure what this whole thing is about. Nigerian women do their thing, so you'll hardly hear complaints other than the usual fun gender banter. And of course our African/black ladies generally are awesome. I will say as a man in the diaspora, Nigerian men definitely get a lot of love across race, culture and ethnicity so we're not complaining😇
@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799
@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799 Год назад
​@@realvibranttv2255 story
@waynemoi
@waynemoi 6 месяцев назад
One thing I really REALLY love about this channel is that you guys don't constantly talk over each other and you let people finish their point. Big ups!
@BillMatte-gk9df
@BillMatte-gk9df Год назад
Sometimes you just aren't THAT girl. If men aren't treating you right, they just don't like you much. Don't confuse lust for love.
@adeolajackofallTrade
@adeolajackofallTrade Год назад
What most people don't understand about My Niaja bro is that we are raise to fear woman, and to respect woman, also we know that the more we treat our woman right, they have the potential of Give us that Blessing to grown in our business...
@Frainkey
@Frainkey Год назад
Seems like it boils down to exoticism where the women have negative impressions of the men in their area and gravitate to other men from different areas because it's exotic and exciting to them.
@tombimashri8149
@tombimashri8149 Год назад
All about the money
@Frainkey
@Frainkey Год назад
@@tombimashri8149 Yea but that’s literally any relationship/marriage. Difference is women are now more than usual extremely SCARED. Scared of struggling, they start out broke, they do bare minimum or well for themselves and have to depend on her man’s income primarily so if you seem financially unstable, how can she trust that you both will be financially ok together?? Yes, I understand the gold digging aspect, entitlement, spoiled money draining. I get that but them not the ONLY women out there either. If them the only ones you come across. Learn, analyze, reflect, and choose a different quality of women. Choose better. That choice can be where you are or elsewhere. The trick is knowing what you want and learning where to find what you want and whether you are what they want in return.
@blackblaze5271
@blackblaze5271 Год назад
@@Frainkey I don't know if it's 'exotic' but people everywhere complain the most about their own.
@Frainkey
@Frainkey Год назад
@@blackblaze5271 I agree with your statement. My reasoning for the word exotic. You say people complain the most about their own. So they like different than their own. There’s generally a fascination with the different. It sounds different, behaves a bit or a lot different, it’s unexplored, new, exciting, romanticized. Pretty much describes exotic.
@magaretekwin3659
@magaretekwin3659 Год назад
@@Frainkey well said. And, most women got to realize what they want in a man doesn't come ready made. Most times woman and the man in her life got to work together to get their relationship to the level and quality they want for both of them. Unfortunately most women want everything to come ready made, the money, romance, maturity, too notch love, etc. It doesn't work like that in real life.
@hojochijioke7068
@hojochijioke7068 Год назад
It is just a cultural thing. African culture sees the man as a giver and the girl as a receiver. But times have changed and the giving and receiving goes both ways. Love ya all.
@tundebakare6887
@tundebakare6887 Год назад
Men are natural givers and women are natural receivers
@mandyb6414
@mandyb6414 Год назад
Women always walk with backup money. Do Not allow a man to left you stranded.
@amrikiaswad4263
@amrikiaswad4263 Год назад
I never seen Joanita with this much conviction
@ogunsoladare2613
@ogunsoladare2613 Год назад
The lady that spoke behind the scene make a wonderful intelligent contribution. She needs to come out occasionally on the show.
@Malcolmmillsknows
@Malcolmmillsknows Год назад
I LOVE this channel!
@davidosimiri7344
@davidosimiri7344 11 месяцев назад
If you don't have money give what you have 100%, and this is to both parties. It should be a mutual thing. Love from Nigeria
@isaiahkenny3544
@isaiahkenny3544 7 месяцев назад
Exactly
@sulezinyembezigqeba
@sulezinyembezigqeba 7 месяцев назад
💯❤️
@marthavineyard6959
@marthavineyard6959 Год назад
This was a good one!😂 Jonita really did her thing this time!
@analyticalmindset
@analyticalmindset Год назад
I personally loved this episode lol I was laughing out loud the whole time. Im liberian and spend on my Ghanaian girl . It goes both ways though .
@archiejones340
@archiejones340 Год назад
Familiarity can create resentment
@romellomyers7636
@romellomyers7636 Год назад
I never commented before on this podcast before but today I just subscribe I love to see that you can have a discussion about dating and it doesn't turn in to hate like in the states and the woman never said all men. I luv to hear everyone perspective so keep doing you'll thing.
@Kenganda
@Kenganda Год назад
Thank you so much for your subscription
@ronniegarcia8503
@ronniegarcia8503 Год назад
One thing I can say about Joanita, she is great at making any good man run into the arms of another woman. Every 30 seconds she says the words money. Who wants dat headache?
@borngreat-4-life930
@borngreat-4-life930 Год назад
Everybody got their own experience. Leave my girl Juanita alone. 😂 😂
@joanitamaaya
@joanitamaaya Год назад
😂😂😂😂
@ronniegarcia8503
@ronniegarcia8503 Год назад
@@joanitamaaya yes Joanita Happy Mothers Day!! One day you'll make some pretty children❤😉
@joanitamaaya
@joanitamaaya Год назад
@@ronniegarcia8503 thank you. Happy mothers day to the women in your life.
@cpd7172
@cpd7172 Год назад
I was thinking the same thing 👏🏾
@RealStellaStella
@RealStellaStella Год назад
Hahahaha🤣. This is one of my favorite episodes. Although I never ask for money, I agree with what Joanita, Khuhani, and Racheal said because I noticed what they said about East African men.
@aetjr69
@aetjr69 Год назад
Mine too. I think Joanita and Outabrian have a secret think for one another....LOL
@abroslife
@abroslife Год назад
Here's your 1000th like. Great content.
@profg5tv785
@profg5tv785 Год назад
When it comes to dating you can see Nigerian men being very passionate, this is due to Nigerian’s culture where commitment and love is a way of life, That's why most Nigerian men date to get to the aisle in no distance time, because a typical Nigerian man is family-oriented so living happily ever-after is their end game. Nigerian men are taught right from a young age to treat the female child lovingly. Be aware that Nigerian men are also dating and marrying women from other countries. In Africa Nigerian men are getting married to South Africa and Kenya women most especially and also not only in Africa but in Europe and America. Don't forget Nigerian men they're selfless men and they'll go any length to do things for the one they loves. Nigerian men they're always having a firm determination and desire to be successful. Dating a Nigerian man is soothing as they treat their partners like a queen.This means you remain the heart while he is the head. By so doing you both will be in symbiotic kind of relationship.
@tzunammi
@tzunammi Год назад
Igbo...
@nomaddiaries9790
@nomaddiaries9790 Год назад
Which Nigerian men are you talking about? We have many tribes here and am sorry to say, not all the men are the same.
@paulokeke8337
@paulokeke8337 Год назад
@@tzunammi I'm Igbo and this trait is seen not only in my region but nationwide. We have dwelled among us so long that we now share things in common. So yeah, Nigerian men...
@amos_eternal
@amos_eternal 9 месяцев назад
​@@paulokeke8337 thank you
@maduagwunkemakolam4788
@maduagwunkemakolam4788 Год назад
Joanita, that was a beautiful discuss ❤
@winnykazungu8675
@winnykazungu8675 Год назад
Am dating a west African, and honestly they take care of their women.
@carpediem4512
@carpediem4512 Год назад
Soon you will regret deeply.
@LethalSam
@LethalSam Год назад
​​@@carpediem4512 How? I am Nigerian and I am proud to say we take care of our women.
@winnykazungu8675
@winnykazungu8675 Год назад
@@carpediem4512 really, why. Anything I should know
@Stratocaster01
@Stratocaster01 Год назад
@@carpediem4512 envy is the weapon of the weak.
@hamzexphilosopher
@hamzexphilosopher Год назад
@@carpediem4512 she will be done dirty like what the nigerian did to Desire luzinda
@Yahia08
@Yahia08 Год назад
I am a culprit lol West african in UG who married east african women Interesting topic Edit: it is a (cultural) thing that men from certain tribes in west africa, at the least the ones that i know, would spend enough on their wives. It is not simping, but a responsibility. That being said, these men would expect their wives to keep up with their responsibilities as well.
@thoughtsonthis154
@thoughtsonthis154 Год назад
As a Nigerian man, we just don’t spend blindly like this video would portray, we do spend and sometimes even more than the other guy and that’s cause we want you and we believe you are worth it, the moment you don’t show or meet up to our wants or the Value or potential we see in you because maybe you became lazy or entitled, that is when we leave you. It gets worse if we find out that you are after the money and what we can give that makes you the same with the other girls out there and we will do and act accordingly with you.
@BB-vy5rx
@BB-vy5rx Год назад
Bruh stop the cap, I'm Nigerian too and too many of our men blindly spend hoping to get sex. We have a whole lot of men hyper focused on getting cash just so they can get women and they fail to build emotional connections with these women because that's what society makes them believe. Why do you think we have too many cases of cheating partners and the rest.
@Tommy-km4wo
@Tommy-km4wo 9 месяцев назад
They're more so saying you guys are more attentive and better in other areas.
@isaiahkenny3544
@isaiahkenny3544 7 месяцев назад
I feel that Bro exactly 💯👊
@JHKanus
@JHKanus 6 месяцев назад
Exactly.. Once we know you are only with us because of the money, then be ready to be left.
@mzfeisty1554
@mzfeisty1554 5 месяцев назад
Makes so much sense..
@sistaluv1357
@sistaluv1357 Год назад
Great conversation.
@ambroseosuan5457
@ambroseosuan5457 11 месяцев назад
You guys are great, East African ladies are natural, romantic, and loving .
@blackchain1900
@blackchain1900 Год назад
"If you give, first, then I will give." The host.
@Abeisgreat1
@Abeisgreat1 Год назад
I think east african men are vetting harder to filter users and finessers and if the girl passes that test then they invest.
@phinamartins8830
@phinamartins8830 Год назад
To my East African babies go get your Nigeria men,A.American men or even white men Go where you feel valued, loved and spoilt my lovies
@alexxb7957
@alexxb7957 Год назад
Johnita betta keep teaching these men.. Yes hunni!
@sholasholknb9199
@sholasholknb9199 Год назад
Jooanita has the most amazing smile, will not might waking up to that smile every morning. can she sing? 🇳🇬🇳🇬
@a1illustration658
@a1illustration658 Год назад
If I speak I’ll be in BIG TROUBLE! 😂🫣 Great EP ❤️🇬🇧🇺🇬🤝🏾📍
@fausterbrenda8513
@fausterbrenda8513 Год назад
😂😂😂Y
@nightbeat1media
@nightbeat1media 6 месяцев назад
Joanita was on fire this episode. I have to say you are some beautiful and smart women.
@HakimZziwa
@HakimZziwa Год назад
Great topic guys, much thanks to Rachel for being the most neutral, hope we get to see her one day, I agree with the ladies however, I think there also needs to be more of creativity suggestions in terms of activities to do that contribute to the romance vibes from the ladies side and not leave everything to the East African brothers given their weakness as stated by Rachel. For Joan 😂😂😂, she is good looking and will for sure find that man of her dreams one day. Great content guys, keep on.
@alvinwitherspoon5960
@alvinwitherspoon5960 Год назад
That’s right Khuhani….. it should always be a win win situation in any relationship.
@philippelindsey5042
@philippelindsey5042 Год назад
This episode was great. Hilarious!
@afrosamtv
@afrosamtv Год назад
interesting 😊 we are learning from these people
@africaine4889
@africaine4889 Год назад
As a congolese woman , congolese women love their men. They are not to much into west African men unless they are from a francophone country. Especialy cameroon and ivoiran becaude they are the closest to our men
@Kenganda
@Kenganda Год назад
Thank you for commenting!
@Love22320
@Love22320 Год назад
Is Congo not in west Africa
@berthekabwe871
@berthekabwe871 Год назад
​@@Love22320 DRC Congo is in Central Africa.
@connectronald4720
@connectronald4720 Год назад
​@@Love22320 in East African Brock
@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799
@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799 Год назад
​@@Love22320 learn your geography dimwit
@professorricci938
@professorricci938 Год назад
Ladies and gentlemen I am from Nigeria. The thing is I put priority above anything. If I would date any woman, she must be of substance. I believe guys should be romantic. If u can't do great things, do small things in a great way. You don't need to be super rich to woo a woman. In the long run she may be the one that will pay your bills. Go to saloon with her, check on her, reassure her. And make sure u r dealing with someone that is ready to be with u. With these ladies will like u.
@obn1459
@obn1459 Год назад
Why must it be men stressing to make the women feel loved and wanted all the time? Why can't women also make men feel wanted and loved? Yet they want men to do certain 'unmanly' things to feel equal and in same power wavelength with men. Basically wanting to eat their cake and have it.
@browngyampah7536
@browngyampah7536 Год назад
Very wise and open minded.
@colinmk256
@colinmk256 Год назад
I didn't know Brian was this shy yamawehh!! 🤣🤣 Great episode ba guy!
@TanzaniaTony
@TanzaniaTony Год назад
East African women are definitely the best in africa. The other places are too effected by the west. That’s why I moved to Tanzania 🇹🇿.
@borngreat-4-life930
@borngreat-4-life930 Год назад
We are coming with you..😂😂
@HRL.
@HRL. Год назад
Sincerely, there is nothing wrong in investing in your lady. I am not talking of those asking for birthday money, data top up, and petty stuffs of such with the same breath there is nothing bad doing these things for her occasionally.
@kelvinwarren8761
@kelvinwarren8761 Год назад
@Kenganda I did know you were from the Golden state. Calu stand up!!!! We may have to link, because I plan on visiting Uganda soon..
@Ismail-cf6xu
@Ismail-cf6xu Год назад
My boo looking lovely with her head covered today. Very regal. Hey Jonita 😉 👋🏾
@jackjack-bw8ks
@jackjack-bw8ks Год назад
I cook, clean,iron, hvac, landscaper, mechanic, plumber, father, clean and fold all for my household. I also grow our food.
@borngreat-4-life930
@borngreat-4-life930 Год назад
You need an award.
@KingPorter
@KingPorter Год назад
I'm praying for these African sisters though. They sounding like they fully endoctrinated in the feminist bs
@knix9014
@knix9014 Год назад
exactly bro
@quincydacreator1266
@quincydacreator1266 Год назад
I heard that over feminist is a problem in east, is it true. I am Nigeria
@anthoniquesharon1828
@anthoniquesharon1828 Год назад
Don't generalize it's not all of us. These are central region women belonging to the "Baganda" tribe so majority tend to be after money they are the gold diggers of today so to find awife go to other parts of the country where the women are traditional and other tribes.
@teejayangel6638
@teejayangel6638 Год назад
Oh shut up! Boring. Can't think , only echo what the stupids in social media echo.
@a.muchemi4360
@a.muchemi4360 8 месяцев назад
20:16 20:16 20:17 😢
@tonythompson8549
@tonythompson8549 Год назад
Great show💯
@panafricanist2520
@panafricanist2520 Год назад
Great Show.
@fabianparson3378
@fabianparson3378 Год назад
😂 This is the most conviction Joanita has displayed in a video! She's taking that Feminist training program to heart! Lmbo😂! Funny episode. From Team Stingy!
@joanitamaaya
@joanitamaaya Год назад
😂😂😂😂😂I’m pressed!!!
@leeayi243
@leeayi243 Год назад
@@joanitamaaya Nigerian women will say, marriage vows, "for better for stay, for worse for go"🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️. They not hanging around for the in sickness part, they only want in health part.😂😂😂
@fabianparson3378
@fabianparson3378 Год назад
@@joanitamaaya you look like you have a whole husband tucked away in a suitcase somewhere. 🤣🤣🤣 You're not pressed! Big Daddy Oshay can have you married off by noon. 🤣😁😁
@soinda87
@soinda87 Год назад
@@leeayi243 😂😂🤣
@BillMatte-gk9df
@BillMatte-gk9df Год назад
She needs to realize, that if men aren't treating her special, they aren't into her. She is replaceable.
@onthegrind9971
@onthegrind9971 Год назад
Shes definitely encouraging SIMP behavior. I. Loving what im hearing from these east african men keep it up brothers
@anubizzzzz
@anubizzzzz Год назад
the women in arica are not the same as ur women in the west...they are mostly traditional and mostly expect a traditional man
@onthegrind9971
@onthegrind9971 Год назад
@J O most women want a traditional man. The difference here is that they themselves dont want to be traditional.
@WOKEBEHINDRETURN
@WOKEBEHINDRETURN Год назад
@@anubizzzzzbut it sound like the same asking price..for usa women..us women saying the same shit
@nightArbitrage
@nightArbitrage Год назад
It was dope hearing from the people in Thales background. Just went and followed Khuhani.
@OshayDukeJackson
@OshayDukeJackson Год назад
thanks so much!
@robinp.6540
@robinp.6540 Год назад
Oshay, Oshay, Your work and efforts are truly excellent. I was initially put off by the length of this video but found it engaging and most informative. The hostess, guest and you were excellent. I will watch more Kenganda ! Kudos to you, Brother! Looking 👍 Great!
@Drega001
@Drega001 Год назад
Man Oshay. This is so constructive compared to your previous American panels
@Naija4K
@Naija4K Год назад
Nigerian men are the ones who come with the money…. in the black community. The French speaking African men bring the romance sweet talking… I am not sure what the East African men are known for…
@aao449
@aao449 Год назад
😂😂
@CrystalGabriel
@CrystalGabriel 9 месяцев назад
East African men are known to be stingy😂😂😂 They are more financially stable than the West African men, but very toxic. The society in East Africa makes their women respectful, and kind but they never hold accountable to their men. They are so entitled. I think Black American women and East African men should just do a collab to see who can be mean towards the other... All Hell will break loose 😂😂😂
@orisenabritt
@orisenabritt 3 месяца назад
we fix our countries. thats why these are the areas everyone want to visit. you dont waste money and "romance" on low quality women..reason you dont see eastern africa men roaming africa looking for women and hustle. they go to europe or americas. basically we dont simp. look at congo and nigeria? great places to move in? nope.
@officialpraizedetravelle
@officialpraizedetravelle Год назад
I support the Ugandan guy....as man I can't date someone who I know or feel like she just want to take advantage of the fact that wealthy...
@Bama7530
@Bama7530 Год назад
Love it bro!😂😂
@jackjack-bw8ks
@jackjack-bw8ks Год назад
Joanita didnt come to play...I can respect it. She is very respectful doing it I appreciate her for that.
@Abeisgreat1
@Abeisgreat1 Год назад
Keep going down this western materialism and transactional relationship and prepare for the same destoryed dating environment as the west. East African women be careful what you wish for.
@Cahluvca
@Cahluvca Год назад
Just wait for it....seems inevitable
@tzunammi
@tzunammi Год назад
💯
@haggaiandagile6232
@haggaiandagile6232 Год назад
Guaranteed two generations it will be different
@jermainegoss705
@jermainegoss705 Год назад
She looking fine with that head wrap
@amrikiaswad4263
@amrikiaswad4263 Год назад
Yes
@Daron7181
@Daron7181 Год назад
Outa Brian had me rollin 🤣 on this one!
@miyahisrael6222
@miyahisrael6222 Год назад
I love this episode.
@Kenganda
@Kenganda Год назад
thank you so much sister!
@arinagereciano178
@arinagereciano178 Год назад
I am an East African man, we take the goood and well groomed girls. And leave the bad apples to others.
@joanitamaaya
@joanitamaaya Год назад
Lol 😂
@giftofgodstarnorth6363
@giftofgodstarnorth6363 Год назад
We are monadic people, the boards are colonial made, there is lots of women on the continent, feel free to explore any woman from west, east, central and southern. Don’t feel like you have to be confined to one region in Africa. (We are Africans)
@perpetuallearna9466
@perpetuallearna9466 Год назад
😂😂
@chiefpharoah
@chiefpharoah Год назад
thanks for your sister!
@EAST884
@EAST884 Год назад
Same here you hear these so called good lovers from the most populous country in africa that they know how to look after their women etc all lies no love at all just business ATM thing few EA women who go for them only go for them not because of love NO only one thing MONEY believe Me I've see most of those so called love ends up with tears I've seen it and our EA women will be left broken sometimes with kids then they start to look for a man from back home or Europeans If they do love them let them stop giving money,phone contract and all fake stuffs to see if they'll stay around after all if a man knows in order to keep you He must use his wallet then you are a working girl he will be cheating behind your back aswell Yes you should take care of your woman but any woman who cames to me because I can offer or give money financial stuffs that's NO NO because if someone with more money than you shows up you will be dropped immediately I've seen it So slay queen's are NO NO ill avoid them
@cpd7172
@cpd7172 Год назад
I’m a Ugandan man born in UG and raised in the west. So I’m exposed enough to see from both sides. It’s true that Ugandan men lack romantic skills. HOWEVER! Ugandan women aren’t that better either. Unless you find a very well brought up and educated Ugandan lady, the default is that these women’s idea of romance is showering them with money constantly. These women lack social skills. As someone who is brought up to hold a conversation on a date and make the setting interesting, the vast majority of Ugandan women I’ve taken on a date really lack skills in making small talk. It’s like all they bring to the table is a big butt and a pair of breasts in exchange for money. This is perhaps the reason why Ugandan men treat women like objects, because that’s the dating language. It’s honestly frustrating, because I’ve genuinely tried finding meaningful relationships more than just sex, and it’s hard to find someone with a sober mindset.
@obn1459
@obn1459 Год назад
To be fair, women have those items etc to offer... Every other thing inbetween and after is just a smoke screen
@anthoniquesharon1828
@anthoniquesharon1828 Год назад
Baganda women more money more problems
@nancieiftihar7019
@nancieiftihar7019 Год назад
I couldn't agree with you on some, both men and wemen are raised the same way , men too are not there emotionally cause they view it as weakness and wemen believe looking good , satisfying a man sexuallybis what men desire which is more true according to me and wemen to look good they need money ...that's y they always want money to look good for a man
@karenluyinda4949
@karenluyinda4949 9 месяцев назад
come take me i change that narrative hahahha
@drequploads6142
@drequploads6142 8 месяцев назад
I feel you.. big butt and introducing you to her friends every week on your bill
@ps4gamesonly623
@ps4gamesonly623 23 дня назад
I enjoyed this so much great podcast 😂
@stephenogbuabia8674
@stephenogbuabia8674 Год назад
Rachel is making good sense.
@rbailey3309
@rbailey3309 Год назад
It does not take a lot to be romantic. Kind words and compliments; a walk in the park in the park, flowers, or a thoughtful deed can be just as romantic. A man who doesn't think a woman is worth treating special is not going to find a special woman. If a woman wants to be treated right, she must find a man that treats her the way she wants to be treated. Just because a man is strong doesn't means he should not be treated with tenderness. At the same time, just because a woman is empowered doesn't mean she should not be made to feel special.
@khem127
@khem127 Год назад
Thank you!!
@christset
@christset Год назад
That dont work with the majority of African women though. their love language is money.
@rbailey3309
@rbailey3309 Год назад
@@christset Unless you are a majority of African women, your response is prejudicial.
@mpendakiswahili3053
@mpendakiswahili3053 Год назад
So we should adhere to the cultures and ways of the white man.. ... flowers, that's very weird
@rbailey3309
@rbailey3309 Год назад
​@@mpendakiswahili3053 If someone gave me a sure tip on the stock market, I would not refuse it just because I got it from a white man. If I found a $100 bill on the ground; I would leave it there because there was a yt man's face on it... They do not have a monopoly on romance and they damn sure don't deserve it more than we do. It worked for me! If it works, use it.
@mwenyienock928
@mwenyienock928 Год назад
🤣🤣🤣 I like Brian's composure in this one Ladies need to work to get attention from the Man The Man needs to be prepared to give these Ladies attention. period.
@Cahluvca
@Cahluvca Год назад
Reciprocity is appreciated worldwide
@afrykablak9131
@afrykablak9131 Год назад
Wow Jonnita is the defination of a spiritual thinker SHE Apply prevention on spitritual unknown curses it a good thought of her
@kwamekankam-boadu2467
@kwamekankam-boadu2467 Год назад
Yes your woman is your BIG business! She delivers unparalleled returns!! The more you invest, the more HONEY she delivers!!! Her sweetness only multiplies by the exponent of your investment. 💯
@joanitamaaya
@joanitamaaya Год назад
Preach Kamwe!!!!!😊
@kurokaizen1889
@kurokaizen1889 Год назад
Lmao.
@thekorsh4230
@thekorsh4230 Год назад
Nigeria has the biggest population in Africa, so I don't think there's enough women in Nigeria for all these men.
@Igbo-man-Moscow
@Igbo-man-Moscow Год назад
Lie lie in Nigeria women has biggest population stop lying is just that Nigeria men knws that other Africa women respect them more than Nigeria women. Nigeria men spend in women but Nigeria women ar not appropriating it but other part appreciate it than them
@thekorsh4230
@thekorsh4230 Год назад
@@Igbo-man-Moscow So You're telling me that Nigerian women can't are good wives?
@aao449
@aao449 Год назад
I don’t know but there’s just so much negative drama surrounding Nigerian men in a way that Nigerian women’s image is just not as tarnished.
@vincentodoh807
@vincentodoh807 Год назад
Nigeria women are more in population. Its a ration 2 to 1
@jamesbando8241
@jamesbando8241 Год назад
​@@aao449 what negative drama.. maybe in the past. Now nigerian men are not looked at negatively, except by those jealous African men. Our music and entertainment has changed our image.. you are talking about before not now. Even some of u east african men, are benefiting from our music. A lot of u clowns used to be ashamed of ur culture here in the United states.
@dikembeafrika8918
@dikembeafrika8918 3 месяца назад
Evolution, things are changing. It’s 2024. Men you need to step up.
@isaiahkenny3544
@isaiahkenny3544 7 месяцев назад
I can't wait to go to Africa 4real!
@Cosmic_Mage
@Cosmic_Mage Год назад
Some of the most feminine women on this planet that I've ever met, hail from East Africa.
@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799
@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799 Год назад
Stories, is it by big shapeless ynash? Is it brain I guess not much in east Africa
@mtdspfgh
@mtdspfgh Год назад
​@@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799 Hes right. West African women are masculine and loud. East African women are very feminine.
@thesolvent
@thesolvent Год назад
What did I learn today?🤔 That I need a good amount of money to be perceived as romantic in East Africa. Got it. 😂
@afckajjansi
@afckajjansi Год назад
facts
@dilisacio9433
@dilisacio9433 Год назад
🤣🤣
@cspliff
@cspliff Год назад
🤣
@topeanj
@topeanj Год назад
bro its life everywhere in general...at this point anyway it is what it is
@francisatteh7893
@francisatteh7893 Год назад
Great topics but i was just laughing almost all through especially when Brian talks Men and brethren; that's what it is , African cultures may accept some certain things like homes chores, cooking etc are different so also you can't love the way some countries loves basically it could be as the result of the economic conditions over there. God bless Nigeria and Africa. Kenganda take these❤❤❤
@anthonyquanchan9950
@anthonyquanchan9950 Год назад
I love this debate you guys have me laughing
@jamesmathebula2323
@jamesmathebula2323 Год назад
Wow! Joanita is emotionally blasing here For me what I've noticed over the years is men or women from another country or continent they are regarded or rather perceived as so romantic than local ones same goes to different race relationships
@professorricci938
@professorricci938 Год назад
It is is a cultural and normal thing in Nigeria to spend on women. It is not that we are showing off. I have seen guys pay their girlfriend school fees. Even the guys may not necessarily end up marrying those ladies but they still spend and care.
@emmychannel5563
@emmychannel5563 Год назад
That lady finished it up with ' when can I see you? 😂 kudos to the West African men.
@blackblaze5271
@blackblaze5271 Год назад
What's with the push to make nigerian men some kind of top prize? Some people try so hard to promote this idea it's weird. Some people like them some don't, everyone has their preference. There's no need to create a myth
@lozi4163
@lozi4163 Год назад
Nigeria has 220million people, this RU-vidrs do this for numbers, no women are flocking to live in Nigeria be it after Nigerian men or Nigeria itself but YoutTubers want views at the end of the day. if i leave my country and go live in Nigeria, who am i likely to date as a man? this is not rocket science and nothing special about foreign men because if there was, their countries will be shining and attracting women to migrate there but is always the opposite
@giftofgodstarnorth6363
@giftofgodstarnorth6363 Год назад
@@lozi4163 We are monadic people, the boards are colonial made, there is lots of women on the continent, feel free to explore any woman from west, east, central and southern. Don’t feel like you have to be confined to one region in Africa. (We are Africans)
@lozi4163
@lozi4163 Год назад
@@giftofgodstarnorth6363 Not this excuse, we all know is due to economic reasons and poverty cut the bullshit is unecesary
@giftofgodstarnorth6363
@giftofgodstarnorth6363 Год назад
@@lozi4163 No hardship we’re good we just like exploring. Keep on been claustrophobia and confined in your little region.
@lozi4163
@lozi4163 Год назад
@@giftofgodstarnorth6363 Economic migrants and refugees are not explorers, explorers are traveler's and they usually visit multiple countries and they have money, they not beggars in foreign countries living in one apartment with 25 people. Why are you trying to sell a false image here online when we ca see everyday in my country how poor are so called explore's? dude migration and travelling is not the same thing. I can name many SA companies in west Africa including Chinese, USA and England, what companies can you name for so called explore's? i am talking about multi billion corporate. Most of you are beggars but go ahead and sell a false image here online
@akajoseph8558
@akajoseph8558 Год назад
I am from Côte d’Ivoire living in Japan for over 20 years. I first found Ugandan and Kenya ladies in Japan. I found out that Est African ladies are respectful and hard working people.And they are sincere when in love.While Ugandan and Kenyan ladies are taught to respect their men,the opposite is not true.Your men are stingy. In west Africa men are taught to love their women but the women are rude and are not focused on love.Every action west African ladies make is calculated to take more from their men. I want Est African ladies and I am already in relationship with a Kenyan lady ❤And I want her to be the mother of my children 😊
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