True. The funny thing is that these men always claim to have lucrative jobs, and the women they scam never seem to ask themselves why a successful rig worker, or doctor, or whatever, would need to beg money off his "girlfriend" to pay the bills and buy food. Dude claims to make more than you do lady! You're buying him gift cards to put minutes on his phone because WHY??? Duhhhhhh.....
Majority of them are widowed and a few are divorced as well... I just can't see how someone can't see through all this... however, I love the ones who claim military how the military won't pay for their return home or their medical care. I laugh so hard! I am retired military! And the ones that claim to be some General or high ranking officer, stealing photos but sometimes leaving their own photo in their photo albums! LOL!!!
In a world where its difficult to borrow $20 from someone but the same people send thousands of dollars to strangers! Falling in love on line?? It's a strange world.
Exactly. Nothing these scammers say make any sense. How can grown adults with jobs/homes/responsibilities ever believe and fall for these ridiculous lies, it's all so far fetched and beyond unbelievable
That's exactly what I was thinking. If dude has a financier, even if his debit card isn't working, he'd still have access to his own money through the financier.
I'm Nigerian and this is just really sad. These people would not stop trying to scam you of your money. Be wary of them. If they can't do a video call with you in real time, run! If they start asking you for money, run! I refuse to succumb to the excuse of "the government is corrupt" and all that. They are a bunch of lazy people who go about causing misery. Be careful with your online presence.
A Nigerian I knew in Canada always trying scam to last dollar he didn’t know how to give a favor. I lent him a 200$ book for school n he gave me a ride then used that book as payment for a 2 minute drive jeesh I wonder what’s causing this behaviour is it extreme poverty where u have no more conscience? 😢
It's not just online they will contact. You ask themselves and video chat you and attempt. May I enjoy the entertainment when they start to say that your sister is sick me i'm done
My mother gave me some good advice when I was about ten years old. She said a true gentleman will never ask a woman for money. She also said never to accept gifts from a man. I have always remembered her words and it has saved me a lot of unwanted trouble in my life.
@@andretarvok7122 That’s right! If a man who looks like Leonardo DiCaprio messaged me and told me he is in love with me I would laugh my ass off 🤨😂 My ego is not that big and I am realistic. Guys who look like him don’t date girls who look like me lol 😆
@@MsMaxinejoy You are very sweet ☺️ 💕 I just can’t believe some people’s egos are so big they think a super hot person they’ve never met is in love with them 🤦♀️ 🤷♀️
@@cloudbanjo9074 Maybe. It seems that these victims are lonely. Living an illusion that Prince Charming will save her. All that Disney bullshit, that was pumped in our heads.
I w had a catfish contact me. Soon he asked me for a small amount of money. I asked, "Aren't u embarrassed to ask? I don't want to have anything to do with a gold digger". I laughed so loud! I kept saying, "How embarrassing! Oh, how embarrassing for u!" he wanted me to send 'his son' a birthday present to 'prove I cared'. What bull! I told him I was saving up for my disabled son. so I could buy him a new wheel chair. He still kept coming at me. I couldn't believe he didn't hang up!
These people usually still sound like it was an actual relationship!!!Even AFTER they knew they were scammed!! Are we that desperate for love now? It’s so sad 😞
@@rachelsvideochannel they're all lonely and what they don't realize is loneliness can affect your mental health. So that's why they ignore all the red flag. They're desperate
Kathy the relationship is very real for victims. Please remember anyone can get scammed. My wake up call was when 2 savvy friends got scammed. One via Amazon as a seller. The other, via a love scam. You become invested in the person’s story and these people often have huge hearts. They’ve been brainwashed.
Okay seriously, how many people DON'T like nachos? 😂 I don't eat them anymore because I used to be fat and I don't want to be fat again, but nachos are delicious!
Nah. For one period of my life I had tons of money and other periods I had none. I was depressed when I had money and not depressed when I didn't, not because the money caused depression, but because it made no difference.
@@robw2486 From what I've always read, true poverty does lead to unhappiness, but once an individual has enough money to cover necessities and a few non-necessities such as occasional entertainment, the level of happiness reaches a point where it peaks, and any extra money above and beyond that does not increase an individual's happiness level.
Scammers seem to pick a type. I don't know how they can determine who is sympathetic to their many financial needs but they do. They must study every single word on someone's social media site. I keep mine private. Too many crazy people out there.
I've watched a lot of these scamfish episodes and I really really liked this lady, the way she described everything, the super hard stuff, bankruptcy and the survivorship. Very very cool to hear you're on the up. A very educational episode and very relatable. All the best.
Yes I agree !! I’m a 30 year old female, I grew up with technology. I am the one who tells my parents about all the scams to watch out for, and how not to get scammed. I got scammed in 2019 out of everything I had (except the scammer was so kind to have left me $4 in my account. How nice. Just enough to take the bus one way to the bank to report it) … Because of this it led me to needing to borrow, and borrow to pay off that borrow, and so on and so forth.. Had to wipe out my RRSP to pay off those high interest loans etc, until I was $24 000 in debt, and filing for a consumer proposal. The consumer prop. Felt so shameful, felt so embarrassing.. Thankfully it was in my case the best decision. However it still have ALOT of emotions about the whole thing. It wasn’t until recently that I started sleeping through the night on the night my pay cheque was deposited. I would wake up multiple times though the night to just watch my bank account. To make sure nothing is taken out. Or I would stay up thinking over and over and over what Loan payments were coming out, what payments I needed to make or how little I’m going to be left with until next payday. It really can happen to ANYONE. A lot of people don’t realize the mental, and emotional distress it causes and how even if you’re scammed out of say $5000, well the people You pay bills to don’t care, you still have to pay those bills. You still need to pay the rents, you still need to eat and do all of that. So then you have to borrow, then you have to borrow, and borrow, and borrow and then the car breaks down, or you have a family emergency you need to book a flight on short notice, all of a sudden, like me, $24 000 in debt
@@Delordem Wow thanks so much for sharing. I've always had empathy for people who have been scammed but I didn't fully realise the after effects and how long they go on for and how deep and traumatic they are. Thank you so much for explaining it in detail. I feel for you and what you still go thru. You're right, bills still have to paid and the ongoing fear around money sounds really tough to deal with. All the best for you and I really appreciate your insight. I hope you are able to be kind to yourself and process the shame you said you feel. Shame is so debilitating and the most intelligent, kind and capable among us get scammed. Scammers are expert manipulators and finding weak spots or vulnerabilities or even sheer luck are their bread and butter. You are a whole, complete human, a capable and resourceful woman and something shit happened to you and that sucks. I hope you find maybe youtube videos about accepting yourself and working thru shame because it could make a difference to how you feel about yourself. I wish you all the very best kindness and learning on your journey.
@@Delordem it really couldn't happen to just Anyone or it would happen to anyone. I almost got scammed by an IRS scam but before I sent any money I asked questions. Glad I did. For anything else, if it sounds to good to be true, I do paying attention.
@@Delordem I don't want to come down hard on you, because I'm sincerely sorry for all you went through. But, please, could you explain how with bills and rent to pay -- and all the other financial necessities of day-to-day living -- how your scammer was able to swindle you out of $24K? Up to $5K, I can sort of see if you're dropping $50 or $100 at various times; it can add up without realizing it. But when you're taking out loans to pay off loans for someone you've never met -- and to whom no amount is ever enough -- why did you keep giving? How much of your personal info (like SSN, drivers license, bank info) did you divulge to a stranger? And why?
Ladies do not get desperate and start paying for "love". I can't fathom how these scammers are able to convince women for money. My hardworking money is not to give any man...NEVER!!!
Especially if you don’t video chat.. but yes no man should ask you for money.. never engage with a foreign man, red flag 🚩 and women and man be smart and google them.. but if you have extra cash 💰 treat yourself not a stranger you cannot even get sex from.. nope nope 👎🏼
These scammers steal photos. They don't have children usually. They use the same story over and over. Single father. Working abroad. Dead wife. Once you hear these storylines, be wary. They call you 'dear' because it helps them out - they don't have to remember your name. They are scamming this of people at the same time.
Haha too funny. I tell scammer to pay me first because they need to be uncurled by a witch shaman. Everyone died around except for a daughter or a son. Lol
Your story is so heartbreaking. I was recently sucked into an online relationship and was starting to send money to this person. Something told me (I think it was God) to watch this video and it opened my eyes. I have cut off all communication with this person because of the courage of women like you sharing your experience. I fell so hard for this guy!! I never dreamed this would happen to me. Thank you again and God bless you 🙏
If lonely your heart is wide open. Keep the handle inside your heart closed to these scammers. Never keep the handle of your heart on the outside so ppl can open it.
Barb. I am sure God has far more important things to be doing, than worrying about your love life. Maybe just maybe, your brain switched on and you used that God given gift - common sense.
Props to Catfished. This wonderful group of people treat each victim so kind and patient. They truly are exceptional; doing what they can to stop any further damage for each victim. I would lose my marbles if I had to do that kind of damage control! Big props to them!!
They should laugh at these women and tell them to COP ON! Instead they profit from the stupidity of it all; I have nothing but admiration for CATFISHED, and very little of that.
I don't get why these women always think they can date out of their league. The majority of the photos that these scammers steal feature guys who are ruggedly handsome, have the bodies of fitness instructors, and are often a decade or more younger.
It goes both ways, also men in their 60s who look like melted pudding think they’re somehow entitled to a nice, busty, 20-something year-old girl. People in general are delusional, driven by loneliness and lust.
The thing is too, even cute 20 somethings would probably have trouble snagging some of these super model looking men. I was CUTE not gorgeous. But in good shape, pretty. But I'd say maybe a 7 on my best day. Nothing wrong with a 7. These model type men want women who are 9s or 10s. And yet these 3s and 4s in their 50s think they have a better chance than a 7 in their 20s, when the model wants a 9 or 10 in her 20s
Inspired?? Look at 08:40. She freaking used a super old picture that looks nothing like her in this video! She also said that she wanted to bond with him over _Mexican FOOD!_ Lol! How is that inspirational? An obese woman who is nearly bald that is not representing herself accurately online, trying to fool the other person, and is so beyond low that she wants to bond over food because of her obesity issue she doesn’t want to attempt to fix to make her a viable partner?!
It just blows my mind that people could give so much money to a person they have never met. Woud these people buy coffee and a sandwich for a homeless person on the streets. At least someone that you see?
I used this trick that I asked the guy to take a selfie holding up 4 fingers and send it to me right now. If he refuses, chances are he’s not who he claims to be. You have to be skeptical and FaceTime and never send money...ever. No one is that desperate for a relationship. I feel sorry for her.
Yes! I did that all the time on IG. Most couldn’t do that. So I blocked them. If they can’t do a simple task for me, then they are not worth my time, chat, or effort at all.
A lot of people are that desperate for a relationship. Men and women both. That's why they fall for. Even the sliver of a chance that they can find love overpowers all logic and reason.
@@joannasoto6868 They come up with excuses saying they’re in a camp in Yemen, or they can’t video chat. All lies. I’m thankful I didn’t send any money. I almost did, though. Something in the back of my mind was stopping me from doing that.
@@paulastorm2750 it's like gambling too. I used to wonder how gambling was an addiction because there wasn't any substance involved but a man with a gambling problem told me his brain creates the chemical. I believe these people are addicted to the excitement of receiving messages their brain links to the man in the photo
@@uyoebyik The same part of the brain gets activated by love/romance as does with drugs! This really is an addiction. Many of these ladies are ones that get very little attention from men - & virtually zero attention from handsome, desirable men. They are the perfect targets.
My 87 year old step mother was talking to a young guy, in his 30's (if it really was him idk) the guy messaged her on FB through one of her elderly contacts, but she ACTUALLY thought this guy was interested in her!!! Unbelievable!!! I finally convinced her it was a scam!!!
“Having everything in common” would be another red flag for me. This is never entirely the case, even in great (real!) relationships. There’s always something that we have to work around: they like to play golf and I don’t, for example. In a good relationship, we learn to acknowledge and support these differences; it doesn’t have to be a perfect match in every aspect.
I really don’t understand how this money sending happens over and over! How can REAL men have so much drama and trauma, and these women don’t see through that or tire from all these traumatic stories?
This unfortunate lady is talking as though he was real. He CLAIMED to have a five-year-old son. He claimed to be travelling abroad. He claimed to have a financier….
How do people fall for this? $50 for groceries? If someone is begging for food, send them to a soup kitchen, a church, social services, food stamps, etc. These people who send imaginary lovers food money are the same who turn their noses up at the drunk on the street. This is ridiculous!
I had a friend who was chatting with an African woman and she started asking for money for food. I told my friend - Ask her if she wants you to send a box of canned goods. He made the offer and the "lady" got all flipped out and rude. I'm willing to bet that the "lady" was a dude.....and to whoever said whatever blah blah - k, you are right. The victim here could be someone who helps the homeless drunk on the corner. So she would be familiar with the routine. He asks for a couple of dollars and she says - Stay right here and I'll be back with a couple of sandwiches.....and when the imaginary lover asks for grocery money, she offers to send a box of canned goods, not a check for who knows what.
Those asshole scammers would ask me for $50 or $100 for groceries. I told them to apply for food stamps, soup kitchens, or go fund me and they didn't want to look elsewhere, they kept asking me. I told them NO and was trying to scare them away. But insulting them didn't scare them away
As lonely as I have been since my husband died and I live in a nursing home, I'd rather be lonely than go through this crap. God bless the victims of these 💩heads. Merry Christmas to you all.
Eh, it isn't too bad. My boyfriend had to move to the west coast for work. We were seeing each other a few times a year until covid. I'm not sure either of us will have the money to travel again. My kids will both be leaving for college next fall. I'll be alone. That's fine. I can go for long hikes and go to bed early without cooking dinner.
I've been alone 99% of my life. My best friends are my dogs. I don't and won't tolerate any crap from a man. I have a solid job and I'm very independent.
I'm great being by myself, I've been burned by men,I don't have friends because well I've been burned by them,one lady started appearance because she said she wanted be like me,quite creepy ..im my oun best friend
Plenty of people actually. Especially someone who's never had love given to them before or lack that "love"/ connection for most of their life. The stranger online gave them that connection, even though it is morally wrong. The price of that was the consequences she's going through.
@@LadyWithAKnife I had pretty good parents, but not perfect, and have had some decent relationships in my life. I guess I just have a different relationship with money than these women. Not sure if that is good or bad.
At what point do you have self-preservation? To give what little money you have to someone you’ve never met or talked to, and become potentially homeless. That’s a special kind of stupid.
So sad. I almost got scammed. I had met a beautiful young "woman" on a dating site. She was from Russia. She sent me a beautiful picture of her every single day for a whole week. I was falling in love really fast. Then, the following week she said that she wanted to come to visit me in New-York. She just needed me to send her the money for her plane ticket. I thought about it for a moment. I estimated that the fare would be about US $1000, which is a lot of money for me. I emailed her back, and said that , instead of her coming to visit me, I wanted to travel to visit her. Her answer was : " are you crazy? you want both of us to get killed?" I did not reply back. And that was the end of it. I later realized that "she" was probably a man using pictures he copied from Facebook.
And another solution is.. to BUY the ticket yourself in her name... why needing to send money so she can do it... makes no sense in the first place. Plus then you will know for sure her ‘real’ Name if it’s real. These ladies then usually, need more money because ‘they need to show they have enough money’ during travel. Which ofcourse is nonsense. Never send Money unsecured through WU, nor giftcards., they often are girls though, but all they care is to get as much money.
withgoddess what im meaning to say IF they want money for a ticket to buy.... and you are even thinking of ‘doing that’ then buy the ticket yourself, if it’s a scam they don’t want you to and come up with excuse... it’s very simple you CAN buy a ticket for someone else, that way IF you will know their name... they can’t monetize on a ticket, as its on a name. Only the person who paid for it can get money refunded. jeez if they need money for a computer ? Tell them ok give me the adres and I will send you one. Same for the homeless person.. he is hungry get him food, not money. If you think that way things get a lot simpler. Never send money so they can buy something, nor by any form such as WU, moneygra,m, giftcards, wires, ONLY in a way such as PayPal, or cc... so if you are scammed you can file for chargeback. IF.. buy whatever they claim they need, and only if an address, name, etc is involved, which is traceable .
Stop playing a victim. You knew it what you were putting yourself in. You took the money, You sent the money. No one was holding a gun over your head. You knew from bottom of your heart this person was scaming you. Tired of those people playing a victim.
It always comes back to the same things - Why, why, why would you not video chat?? And why, why, why would you send money to someone you have never met?
I been scammed on a much much lesser scale (catfished on a dating site, no money involved) and it sucked, so I could only imagine how bad this lady felt, there's a special place in hell for these scammers!
@@mattsmith1126 found out "the girl" was fake because she never wanted to meet up and "she" was giving me the run around every time, example is "she will meet up tomorrow with me" and tomorrow never came, I gave up after a week or so
Get a life out of your league, imagine this your driving along carefree basking in your narcissism and a drunk driver crashes into you beauty gone now what
Ugh, she's such a sweetheart! Hopefully someday a man who's worth a woman that strong and optimistic will treat her as she deserves and I hope she's found the home she was looking for. No one should have to go though that.
@@thegreenmanofnorwich I find many of them in here think from a brief video they know these people & that it would never happen to them🤦🙄 Also none have walked in their shoes to know what they've been through or how deep & dark their loneliness is. I actually hope everyone of them in here judging these victims get it served on them.🤦
@@prayforjonas a strong person picks themselves back up after going through something tough and that same person is strong for helping others do the same thing. I would think someone with pray in their name would be a little more kind.
Have you noticed all the people catfished are seriously unattractive, chasing much younger better looking men. Spend your money on yourselves ladies and wake up.
His response to her talking about committing suicide is just about as heartless as it comes. It takes a lot for me to completely write a person off. Even more for me to seek revenge. He would be the exception for both. No way could I let this go. She seems very nice. Someone will recognize her goodness and love her for it...without trying to take advantage of her.
I dont get why anyone wouldnt think red alert when a person theyve never met and cannot confirm their ID, asks for money. Women not feeling used (when they are) or women who cannot say “no” have been trained to be “nice” for fear of being called “un-nice”. Ladies, be un-nice to man who is using you!
Props to this woman, it’s not easy to admit you were fooled, it’s also not easy to admit you contemplated taking your own life & it’s especially not easy to rebuild your life from rock bottom, but she’s done all that & more! What a strong woman she is! I always say life has given me my struggles because it knows I could handle them better than others & I truly do believe the same for this woman & her situation. I hope she got her house & all her dreams come true!
Well said. It’s takes tremendous fortitude to be so open and honest, and come through the other side. Very few of us would be so brave. Hope her story helps folks who have been through this. She is a survivor
Sorry you got scammed. These scammers are really good and play on your vulnerabilities and fear. I got scammed. When talk of maximising out credit cards or borrowing from friends or retirement savings, was mentioned, I said hell no! My advice, never give someone you never met in person any money. Period! Even if you see them on Camera. There are new methods to fake. No real man we would ever ask a woman for money. Ever!
@@annelittle4183 in the comment below he just gave himself away... every scammer makes the same mistake every time! I guess they think we are all stupid.
I watched how my father treated my mother and how he treated my sisters. He was the definition of a real man. He once told me that you should never go to a man, he should come to you. My mother also told me the same advice. The generation we live in now is way too casual and laid back about things and its so sad
Or with all this female empowerment thing going on that it is now acceptable for a man to ask a woman for money… so this obvious red flag is no longer seen as one.
Rebecca he did not dupe and take your money. You foolish gave him, a stranger, a picture all your money. I find it hard to believe you women fall for this.
How can anyone not know about online scams today ? Who even has $ 100,000 to send ? All the women I have dated don't want to pay $ 5.00 from Starbucks. If you go to the show - they forgot their purse.
She seems like a lovely, peaceful and caring woman :) I hope she'll find someone as sincere as she is in her quest for a good relationship ✨ In her lowest she still thought about her cats, she has a good heart :)
Bless you my love. The bastard made up a child to break your heart. Well done for sharing your story. Hopefully it will stop some other innocent falling for these fake online romances with strings attached. Never ever give any prospective love interest money either in person or online.
I work with WU and we are trained to detect this kind of stuff and prevent people from getting scammed, and when we tell them that they are being skamed.....they usually get mad!!! Can you believe it😱 we are actually telling them that they are getting scammed and they don't believe us!!! So we have to refuse their service for their own good.
WU also used to give me a very hard time when I was sending money to my late mother for her medicine and food. They delayed the transactions for days to do (investigation) while my mother was out of medicine. the irony that I was sending money to my mother every month for years but WU keeps investigating every month. What a waste!
She thinks she is sophisticated - "I did not have the infrastructure in place to house a child." Her financial choices and excuses demonstrate she isn't.
Exactly, might be hard to hear but it's true, as much as I feel sorry for these people, a big part of these scams are their fault for being extremely gullible and naive.
First mistake sounding sad and desperate. Also the coming from a bad relationship makes you look like you have bad judgment. I feel bad for her. I've been scammed too. First thing dont come across as needy and sad.
It’s better to be alone than being with someone and feel lonely . I love being alone, I can go out anytime I want. I buy anything I want, I’m lucky I have lots of married and single friends and a big family who loves me. Now I have a beautiful granddaughter
The saddest part about these victims is that you could line up 100 random people...and with great accuracy, most ppl could pick out and identify the ppl that would fall for these scams. There is a 'type'. Not only physically with how they look...but personality traits as well. Of course.. the scammers know this. Sadly.. it shouldn't be this easy. But it is.
If someone approaches you for a relationship, don't make out to have a lot of money. Tell them that you are paying off debts from a big operation that your mum had and that you are struggling to get by. When these scammers ghost you, start sending them messages saying 'Hey babe, I thought we had a good thing going, I thought you loved me, don't YOU want to help me with my debts, I am so disappointed that you think more of money than our precious relationship'
There is a God and he will have to stand in front of on the judgement day,. He will receive his punishment for what he did to this woman and most likely many more like her. So happy she is recovering from such a horrible experience. And please take this advice and never send money or gift cards to anyone online, It's alway's a scam.
I couldn't help but feel by the end of her story that she didn't own her part. I fear she could be taken advantage of again. I am long-married. But I remember how intoxicating new love can be. I hope I'm wrong about her.
There is no "HE"! Scammers work in teams. Sending their victims 'love bombs' with "Babe" "Hunny" "My Queen"; some of the commenters here are just as delusional as the scammed. It's an industry, has nothing to do with individual scammers.
Agreed. She learned, accepted it and never looked back. I was so happy to hear she was pre-approved and in the market for a house. She’s seems younger than many we see as well, and young people make mistakes. Seventy year old women, on the other hand, would hopefully be PAST big mistakes like this!
I’m having a difficult time understanding why women fall for this. Beautiful, smart women. Ladies, I think it’s time to let online dating die and go back to old fashioned meeting them at church or groups. The second he asks you for money, run!
women and men who are lonely are more vulnerable to believe in lies than those who are in a better place in life, it's easy to judge a person especially if you haven't been in one's shoes
Sorry if this sounds rude, but if a woman or a man doesn’t properly groom themselves when they are already not the prettiest, their market value is pretty low. And if the other essential things are missing too, even more so. I guess that’s what makes them turn to online dating and fall so easily for a scammer. They are desperate.
@@Anonymous_member1192 I disagree, whole heartily. I know people who have turn to online dating and have great relationships and marriages. To say they “all” are desperate is rude. You just have to be wise. Just because someone does not date online does not mean they aren’t desperate.
How sad , my ❤ goes out to her. But on another note, if you see a hunk hitting you and you are older and not a hottie, you need to realize that there is an ulterior motive behind it. These people are terrible!!! Disgusting! IG is full of scammers
@@toughntiny not that attractive well. About 99.9% of all society would disagree with you on that one. The dude is conventionally attractive in every regard. The woman, on the other hand, would be considered conventionally unattractive by any standard I’ve ever witnessed. So I’d actually say your comment is quite ignorant. Clearly biased toward women in general, to the point of inaccuracy.
He didn't win! You are here to tell your story so gracefully! You are stronger and braver than you ever thought you were. I am proud of you! Whenever you buy that house, lady plant a tree or rosebush in his name, as part of your healing. Call it your strength tree! Sending you blessings.
Thank you Maria. No he didn’t win. I have a home and a garden. No bushes in his name. He took enough already and will get nothing else from me. Plenty of strength trees now.
Yes he did win! $100k!!!! And she has obviously been eating everything in sight since then! So she has to diet and exercise to get out in the dating world again. She is very strong for not killing herself over this as he suggested. The shame, regret, and guilt must have been overwhelming so she gets high marks for that. But I still cannot fathom not understanding the many red flags.
What a articulate, funny, grounded powerhouse of a woman. Nothing but admiration & respect for how you've pulled yourself back up & are now beginning to thrive again. Blessings & love from Australia
I’m trying to understand why people who put forth less than zero effort to present themselves as someone who could attract a mate expects that someone fit and attractive would want to be with them. Stop being delusional people!
