Edit: Wow, just a year ago, I was in such a dark place that I didn’t even want to keep going. i worked at a multinational company, traveled to Germany, and now I’m studying and working. Life’s still tough, but it feels like there’s finally something worth fighting for. This is me! This kills me every single day to feel like u achieved nothing in your life and ur a burden to ur parents.
Aw, I can relate too 😬 but listen, life hasn't stopped. Life isn't over. It is filled with newness, possibility, opportunity. Where you are right now is not permanent. Life can change, you can change. The whole world is there for you. You CAN do it. You CAN make a difference. You CAN be successful and achieve greatness in your life. I wish you the best and much fulfillment! You are destined for greatness... sometimes it's mind over matter. If we get our mindset right, the rest will follow. 💕
After reading the book and seeing this film and the 1995 TV miniseries, Charlotte Lucas is the most logical of all the women and, probably, the young men, too. In fact, I think that it was Charlotte who may tipped off Darcy, through her dimwitted husband, that Lizzy Bennet was to be her houseguest. In turn, Darcy, as family and supposed fiancé to his cousin, got to spend time at Rosings and access to Lizzy. When you are a woman, YOU GO WITH THE BEST OFFER!
I am 72 years old, unmarried and no prospects. My parents could no longer stand the burden and died. As one who came late to understanding Asberger's, ADHD ADD.. I think I am lucky to be alive. Such diagnoses existed in my childhood. One lives without being pigeonholed for so long, but the miracle is in being alive
I too was once like Charlotte but have no fear, for I am turning 28 in two months. I have now secured a job, so I will have money. As for prospects, that is an ongoing issue but the money should help the prospects. With regards to being a burden, well well well, being at work means not staying at home and being a scrounger! Charlotte, just like you I am moving up the ranks of life. My fellow 27 year old females, it will be better. Believe it and it will be better! Hurrah!
There are a lot of people in this situation, but at least she found happiness and a home. The scene where she asks Her Husband if it's the pig making noise again is a reflection of her new found happiness.
Younger me always dreaming that I'll meet my Darcy and be happily ever after...fastforward to my 30's and realizing I've actually always been Charlotte...but was in denial😂....Ugh, I'm not even a secondary character in my own life😅
Just watched this movie yesterday. Love it. Was very surprised to see that Tallulah Rielly, who played the youngest Bennett daughter, was married, twice, to Elon Musk! Apparently the first time they were engaged after knowing each other less than two weeks! I guess she really was a romantic!
Ugh. I am 33 and while i don’t live with my parents, this kinda resonates. I’ve barely jumped off the porch with dating, but I won’t lower myself to settle.
In the 1800s as this book's period took place, women were defined by their marriage. My country still define women the same way. My daughter is career oriented and will probably not marry but still I am hoping. It is practical to have a lifelong partner for companionship. We don't pressure her afterall I am a lizzy at heart.
My country's culture is the same. Infact when i read pride and prejudice it dawned on me how similar it was to 18th century England lol. The youngest daughter running away and "bringing shame" on the family, Mr collins saying in his letter that she would've been better off as dead. Young women's mother's life goal being to get their daughters married to a high income man Irrespective of how he's as a person. women life's being defined by marriage and making it seem like it is the biggest and chief and accomplishment in their life. Ahh it is exactly the same. The only difference is that women are now allowed to hold jobs. But it still is all the same, they're expected to put their jobs in the back seat and take orders from the husband, he will tell her if shes allowed a job or no. Hence many are choosing not to get married because men do not respect women as individuals. I'm also ambitious and honestly, do not care for it either.
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@@smollilbean this is what I told my daughters: never be defined by your culture, religion born into, past, relatives, expectations and most of all responsibility. I think I forgot something. I told her if she does not want to marry another man from this country, maybe she will not close her door to a foreign man who may treat her better. Just be sure about him. You see, philandering is a common thing here and shamefully I admit . So my daughters do not want to be subjected to this kind of marriage. It is either that; gambling or laziness. However, It is hard to live alone but again, having a husband who passed away, I deal with the same thing. I have never felt so free. Nobody to tell you what to do and to just fend for yourself. I never want to live in the shadow of another man again. We have a saying, "don't smash your head with a rock a second time". Hence, not marrying. Support group, good friends, work and a sister gets me through. PS: I don't know why I don't get notifications on comments. This was a month ago.
I thought this was just how I’ve felt recently and it was just me going crazy ! I’m turning 27 on the 19th and I’ve been seeing 27 EVERYWHERE and I thought it was a bad sign or something but I think I’m finally coming to my senses?! ❤😢😊
Does anybody know what this movie is called? I feel like I can totally relate to it! I might only be 23, but having a disability means facing discrimination when it comes to job opportunities. Unfortunately a lot of employers pass me by because of this and im still living with my mother. Hopefully things will change soon. As I am a great and hard worker
Wow I would have never guessed that! I have watched only a little bit of this movie, but I am definitely wanting to finish! Thank you so much for the answer :] @@aenirrinea523
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Don't be scared look to Jesus and the churches if youy really desperate or frightened pls look up dont give up keep praying and taking it one fay at atime pls and thank you God bless
Our Purpose in life is to worship ALLAH. Marriage is one of the many means by which we can worship ALLAH . Don’t make marriage the only goal of your life. We need to ask ALLAH TO FORGIVE us. Do Istighfaar. Do read the Qur’an 🌹
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Sure , this is sad ! But . Look for something positive in life, look for helping other people, Become a volunteer worker, Plus : ask God , to help you out , And join groups that will help you,
I truly understand Charlotte's fears & concerns and on the surface I think she does appear extremely rational and level headed but I also believe that her decision to marry Mr. Collins was ultimately made out of fear. She was 27 years old, had no prospects and zero interest from any admirers whatsoever and she panicked. She rushed into her plan to persuade Mr. Collins to propose to her and succeeded but in all honesty, I can't see the novelty of having her own home and leaving the authority of her parents being enough to sustain her long term or make up for the fact that she was married to such a pompous and ridiculous man she had no romantic feeling for whatsoever. When you compare her situation to Lizzie & Jane's, you realise there is no comparison. Charlotte's ending is my worst nightmare and I wouldn't wish an unhappy marriage on anyone. In my opinion, all Charlotte Lucas had in store for her was loneliness, regret & isolation. A loveless marriage is what she ultimately ended up with while Lizzie found her soulmate as well as her equal.
I got the impression that Charlotte's parents were putting pressure on her and the house would go to her brother. She is a woman of her time. Getting out of the house meant getting married or possibly being a governess at least with a roof over head and a salary. My impression is that Charlotte learned how to handle The Reverend Collins to her advantage. She learned to play the role of a pastor's wife.
