I have social anxiety and somehow my mom doesnt understand and always sends me to our neighbours to give things ım only comfortable around in a room less then 6 people and if there are more then 6 it has to be family or in class...
I understand. That must be uncomfortable to say the very least. I'm sorry to hear that. Try to give yourself some time to maybe slowly get better at it. And know that there's always someone who will listen if you want to talk.
@@DennisDayVA my best friend listens to me and I’m comfortable around her since we have been friends since birth tho since I have social anxiety it’s kinda hard for me to make friends and since I’m still a student my life is hard...Tho thank you for responding to my comment and I love your videos 😊
Both of you did such an amazing job with this. You created a perfect representation of someone who struggles with this 💛 And to anyone who also suffers from social anxiety: It’s not weird, it’s not to be judged. It’s a real fear and you are ‘Not Alone’ 💛
who's cutting onions? 🧅 is it you, dennis? jokes aside, this _definitely_ was a wonderful belated birthday gift, and definitely a gift to the people that really need it. the sound effects and editing were awesome (as always), and of course you and darcy did a wonderful job bringing the characters to life! thank you, both of you, for sharing your talents with us ❤️
As much as I appreciate the quality in the script. I can’t help but swoon over the little stuff like the sounds and your amazing graphic design skills. That’s truly what makes you such a unique channel
That is just so touching for me to hear! ❤ This channel is my way of combining all the things I love to do on one platform and with a new pupose in every video. You calling me unique, is an enormous compliment!
I love you editing so much... I actually even have a favorite moment! in 11:50 when denny's sister come to talk to us, the piano starts to slowly fade away in beautiful notes as she talks. In this moment I just can thin that the listener is not feeling threatened because he sees that she have the same eyes and the same warm and gentle look that denny's have... and this combination is so peaceful that make my heart calm and warm. thank you for this experience!!!!
It may seem silly to most but I’d love to see a boyfriend comfort for phone call anxiety, because making certain types of phone calls(like important appointments, etc has always something I struggle with and everyone in my life seems to think I’m being dramatic
Thanks for that suggestion. Though I feel like this might be a good subject for a shorter audio instead of a long one like this, as it deals with a single aspect of social anxiety. The fear of the phone does go away, you know. You just need some practice and some patience 😉
You're not being dramatic, I know the issue. While I can make the calls by now, I still always get the shaky hands, shortness of breath and my heart beats as if it would want to jump out of my chest. I just try to do everything I can by e-mail and if I have to make a phone call, I make it as close to the evening as possible, since I'm always so winded afterwards, that I just need to go to sleep.
The script of this one was truly inspiring and interesting to me. You and Darcy really brought out the personalities of the characters and from knowing many people with social anxiety you portrayed social anxiety very well.
Sounds like we've really hit the mark with the story, then! And that is wonderful to hear! I always tend to doubt my writing, but it's comments like this that put those fears to rest. So thank you ❤ Darcy truly went all out with it too. And I couldn't have asked for a better VA to collab with 😁
28 hours, gah, time has never been so torturing. By the way, the art got me carried away. It is so stylish and epic. I mean, it looks like a poster to a super cool psychological thriller that should get at least 5 Oscars! Just breathtaking 🌟🌟🌟
@@DennisDayVA I know that for sure. And even though this is one of the cases when I'd love to see it asap, I know well it takes time to make something as amazing as this! I can already feel that it's going to be just WOW, thank you so so much for your work! 💕💫✨
I discovered your channel just yesterday and I really want to appreciate the quality of your content❤. I have social anxiety myself and I want to give you and Darcy a round of applause for your wonderful work👏. This anxiety has been part of my life for such a long time and is still making each day significantly harder to get through. But to anyone who struggles with this as well: Know that there is a lot of people who love you and are willing to listen❤. Sending all the love and support❤
You're so very kind! I always want to make my content the best quality it can be. So thank you for appreciating that 😁 We're both also very honoured by your applause. Great to know that we did it right. Way to spread the love 💖
Social anxiety can be very difficult especially when you are going to an special event. These videos are very well-made, Dennis! Keep up the great work, sir! 💛
I went out into a very crowded place yesterday and I had this on loop and boy you have no idea how much it helped. Me and crowded places nope no way. And just your audios in general but like this one really helped!
This was exquisitely done. I'm an introvert that can come of aloof because I'm quiet so I worry about how I come across. I can relate to feeling nervous being around people I don't know. The support you showed was more than anyone could ask for 🌺 When the sister called the bridesmaids over I was getting nervous and it wasn't even me lol
I was sadly onstage at my show when this was premiering but I’m glad I’m watching it now. Dennis you are truly brilliant!!! And as someone with minor social anxiety this was *chefs kiss*
Wow this was really so accurate! I had almost the same situation on a wedding the only thing I didn’t had was someone to help me, you are doing such an amazing job and your message really hit my heart, thank you so much for making this!❤️
I love that you comment on every comment, you make everyone feel important and loved, I hope you are just as happy as we feel when we get your notification! I hope you are well
I always feel so loved and happy whenever I get such lovely comments from you all. You make my day, every day. So I want to thank you as personally as I can. ❤😁
"I don't want to make you do something that terrifies you" I wish everyone understood this concept. It makes me upset when I try an explain this and I'm told to just get over it and stop being a baby.
Can't say I didn't expect anything less than perfection from you 2. Loved the audio. Both of you are angels and please accept my French Onion Soup as a sacrifice 🍵
This definitely hit home for younger me (and current, older and still anxious-around-people -me! 😶). This was very comforting, wonderfully acted, and very well-written. Great job, Dennis and Darcy! 😀💜 I also REALLY love how you switched up the art, sound effects and music throughout the narrative. I can tell that it was meant to match up with the emotion of the Listener. Another immersive element that I really appreciate 👍
I cried. In understand. Maybe not to the fullest extent but I understand. The only thing I do is isolate myself and if I see any familiar face I immediately grab on to them.. even though they kinda are annoyed to even talk to me today...
I'm not gonna watch this now...... But I know it's gonna be ✨magical✨ as always... I'm gonna listen when I actually am gonna struggle with this... Cuz I know no one other than you would help me... ✨ THANK YOU ✨
Dennis, actually I had to listen to this today like 1 hour ago.. I was in the public and had a very bad anxiety attack... It was bad... The first thing I did was to listen to ur audio.... And man lemme tell you... You are someone very ✨special ✨.... The way ur voice calmed me down is unbelievable ... Thank u...thanks a lottttt.... LOVE YOU❤
Well, you know it's art, when 20 minutes feel like 5. Absolutely great! You never disappoint me! I need someone like you in my life...technically you are in my life, soo, thanks for being there!
You know, when people call my work art, it really gives me this special happy feeling I can't explain 😊❤ And yeah, I'm in your life as best as I can be. I'm glad you're in mine too 😉
Hearing this audio was awesome. I had this actually happen my cousin got married and my whole family came and she had friends there. It was very difficult cause of my social aniexty. But I did have my fiance there but still this how it felt
I swear to la Pacha when you mentioned Argentina I SCREECHED man. Someone finally sees my country as something other than a nazi refuge and the so called "farm of the world". Definitely made my day.
Hey, absolutely no problem, dear! 😁 I understand not everyone can make it, but it's so very nice to see you watch the video later. That brings me just as much joy.
Loved this so much, I didn’t realize I had social anxiety but I found out I do through this bc I’m going to a wedding in the next couple of months and will know I will feel all of this , I’m happy I figured it out thank you so much I felt so comfortable with this and not triggered at all it’s amazing ❤️
Thanks a lot ❤ I'm glad you discoverd that now, rather than at the wedding itself. You can prep yourself a little bit now. And know that it's ok to be nervous, but you're going to be fine. I did indeed take care to avoid serious triggers, so I'm glad I succeeded there 🙂
@@DennisDayVA yes thank you I’m trying to prepare myself now the only issue is a get myself into a panic when I think about it and everything but I’m trying to work past it but thank you for the encouragement that everything will be fine it helps me so much ❤️
i dont have social anxiety i have adhd but big crowds are really hard still they make me tired and they are just hard of all the noise cause people can be really loud and in denmark we have this sunflower keychain and they mean you have a disabelati and people can chose to be nice or not:)
I have never felt so seen in my entire life I don't know if I have diagnosed social anxiety but I am terrified of being judged and looked down upon by people that I don't know so this entire situation terrifies me even though it's fake and I can tell you right now my boyfriend would probably be the same way he tried to distract me somehow or pull me out of it when he knows that I'm scared.
Can you please do more anxiety and depression comfort please. As someone who struggles with both just hearing the calmed me down from a anxiety attack and that’s saying a lot because my mom can’t even calm me down
Great praise, thank you! I am thinking about a comfort for depression indeed. It won't be an easy one. And it might be a while before it's finished. But I think many people need something like it.
i missed the premiere because for some reason i thought 2 am on the 17th meant 2 am of the night of 17th 😭 in any case!! this audio was amazing!! the amount of lore (can we call this lore? backstory??) is really interesting! theres this whole world now, i really love it ❤😁
Whoops! Small misunderstanding. But it's ok 😊 I know that the times of my premieres aren't easy for everyone, but I'm mostly trying to compensate for most of my audience. I might look into other options for the next one if needed. But thank you for your support. I love that the backstory speaks to you too 😁
@@DennisDayVA yee i totally get that ^^ its not that big a deal for me personally to stay up that late, so from me currently no requests for a different time 😁 cant wait for the next premiere tho! 👀
Bro thanks for this it's because I have social anxiety and after this I felt wonderful and and I slept perfect and thank you so much for your content :)
Thank you ever so much! Glad you're always here no matter how long you have to wait. I'd want to take it easy, but I also have a lot of things I'd like to do for future audios. More details to follow 😉
I found you through the Projekt with KimCarter and I loved your voice so I started watching your videos! Thank you so much for all those videos! They help pretty much. ☺️💕
@@DennisDayVA The social anxiety are awesome! You should do one when we're like at a bar and a random dude comes to ask "be my girl" we answer no but he grabs us and then that heart beating thing happens then my boyfriend comes over and punches him the rest you chose 😘
This was so amazing. I struggle with anxiety, ocd and adhd, so th I was such a comfort. I wish I had some on in my life to help me through it. I already had such a stressful day, this was a really nice way to end it. Btw, i love your accent. I got stuck with the most boring accent ever. Canadian.
I love your voice so much! I always have social anxiety and this helped me a lot! Your voice is so calming. I also love how you made the noises! There so realistic!🥰
The dancing at the end got me thinking..... what if you were to do one where you slow dance at like home and randomly turned on music to dance to. Ive always imagined it at Christmas time so its always been with Christmas music with my mind but it would be sooo cool!!
I have social anxiety and apoligise alot. The only time I speak to someone I end up saying sorry to much which makes them laugh and makes me sad. Now people come up to me, say sorry then leave. I don't talk anymore
Hey Dennis, this is a wonderful audio, never think that what you do doesn't make a difference in this world because it sure does. Also, in case you hadn't seen your DM's, I sent two with my background in them, when you get a chance, check them out if you haven't already.
How’d you know I have social anxiety? 🤨 Edit: P.S. you did really well on pulling off the “ears ringing” effect! Edit #2: P.P.S. I’m glad the nicknames stayed gender neutral because I’m genderfluid 😁 Edit #3: “Tim”? You mean the guy that burned down the office? 😂 Edit #4: Stawp saying, "I don't deserve you." Like bro- ThAtS mY LiNe!!
Hi, i know that probably u will not see this comment but whatever...so amm I have eating disorder.And i know that it’s not good and i know it sounds so stupid but I think I need your asmr abt eating disorder, it’s just...I don’t know...maybe I just really need it and i know that you will never make asmr abt it but idk i just wanted to say that, and I think there are people who need it and i need it personally, so much.And I don’t know...I’m so sorry for disturbing you, and actually I shouldn’t say that but whatever. Bye, u are amazing and so talented.:))
I read every comment eventually, dear. And I pay special attention to suggestions and requests like yours 🙂 I am sorry to hear about your eating disorder though. Personally, I don't know much of how it works. But I do know that it's most likely hindering your life very much. So I do hope you'll get better. I'm very humbled to hear that you think an audio of mine could help you. And you're not the first to request it. I have a list of other audios that take priority for now. But I think I will indeed make an audio comfort for an eating disorder soon. I think it could mean a lot to many people. Keep an eye on the polls I release to choose the next audio. In the meantime, take care ❤
I know that I’m EXTREMELY late but when you just said them towards us. I just had a mini happy moment. Coming from a gender fluid person. Hehe (I need to get out more)
No such thing as being late to the party here, friend 😉 And truly, it's fantastic to know that you, as a gender fluid person, like this audio. Makes me feel like I've done well 😁
@@DennisDayVA thanks for everything you do. Wishing I can meet you. I'm sorry I feel really worthless and useless and if you hate me I truly understand I'll change myself for you
@@Ash1RReacher Please don't ever think again I hate you for no reason and don't call yourself worthless, you're not. You realizing that would make me happy.
Hi Dennis. Just in case you didn’t get my apology from your Community section comments, I’ll say it again. I’m very sorry for calling you “honey” and making you uncomfortable. I promise I will never say it again and I hope you’ll forgive me.
I appreciate and accept your apology. But do not use the comment section of other videos to get my attention. I see every comment on my channel, wherever you leave it. And I respond to them when I can. But I am a very busy person and I cannot always be active here. I wish I could be, but that's just how it is. Trying to get me to respond quicker by leaving more comments, feels like harrasment. Now, just to be clear, we're good. Your wording just hit me in a bad way, but it's forgiven. No need to apologize for leaving more comments either. We're ok on that too. Just don't do it again, there's really no need.
Ok and thank you. Also, I’m very excited about your new video on your channel and Fae’s. And I promise I won’t be saying cute stuff. I’l just say: “Amazing job”