No. It’s One ALLOWING another’s jealousy to sabotage their plans. Such “curses” only have power, if One allows it. Period. And I am stating such, both as a reminder to others - and myself.
I agree that the evil eye is real. However, I do not sense that it can sabotage. Once we recognize that energy( bc it's sense and dark,( we can cleanse ourselves. You see? Don't worry about any of that. You are fine. 🤗
This video randomly popped up in my recommendations and I’m so glad I clicked on it. I struggle with dependency and seeking validation from friends and family around me. If they don’t approve of something I’m interested in, I get easily discouraged. I want to start believing in myself more and staying true to my morals and feelings regardless of their opinions. I hope to keep your words in my mind as I continue to heal. Thank you for this message
thought about that previously, you are so so right! :) I sometimes got angry when people copied my ideas - not realizing that I was the one who told them about them.
Hi Lynette! Thank you so much for this video. I needed to hear this, i've been putting so much power over my life on other people... sometimes i forget is MY life. 💛 Also, would you do a video about medicinal plants and how you use them?
I definitely agree with you on this! I realized this myself on my spiritual journey that most of my friends and family aren’t going to fully get why I’m doing what I’m doing but they will soon see💯. Also I’ve been seeing some of your content recently, AMAZING!!✨🖤
Omg so liberating I am over here trying to make my family understand what I am doing with my business and they literally argued with me that its not realistic that it won’t work out and it has been so mentally draining and I have been doubting myself in my business decisions and social media. Literally freed my mind from doubt with this video❤ Now I can just do what I feel and trust myself😊
It's so fucking truth oversharing is always wrong!!! Either sharing a lot with people whatever you gonna do in your future which because of that they envy you and won't wish you good So if you wanna do something important like exams dont tell anyone they will envy you and destroy it before you do it Also sharing stuff everytime is bad because then people use you only because you always borrow them your stuff or either they borrow your stuff all the time and then treat you bad
I seriously needed to hear this. Glad that I came across your video. I 100% need to learn how to live my life in a more private way which is so hard for me. Coming from a family of not having much I assumed that they would be more happy/ proud for what I have accomplished. Like you mentioned I need to learn to set boundaries! 🥲
So this was actually my first time watching one of your videos and I just want to say thank you! Thank you for this content and doing what you do. Everything you said was something I needed to hear! ily & you have a new supporter :)
This is sooo true! My husband and I are wanting to move out of our hometown (very small) told my mother n law and she basically said how hard it’s gonna be and the cost of living is much lower in our hometown so it’s best we stay…. Which put doubts in my head😩 so it’s just best not to tell your plans until you executed them fully then by that time you won’t have to tell them they’ll just see it happening!
Very true. She most likely hasn't left your hometown because of those same fears she projected onto you. I hope you and your husband end up doing what's best for y'all. I wish you the best!
I hear this all the time since I also want to move to a more expensive city! It's such a limiting belief, you can make as much money as you need to pay for the elevated living experience. You're worth it!
This speaks so much to me. I stopped telling people my plans because it feels like "they don't get it". It's enough that I have my self-doubt, I don't need other people's doubts too :p. Love these videos.
I used to struggle a lot with over sharing because I didn’t feel like my parents ever cared about my view point on anything as a child. Now that I’ve done a lot of inner work I’m able to open up to people when they show me they are open to receiving certain info, I’ve stopped talking about my goals in front of them and just showing action instead, while I’m still learning I have to say it’s helped me a lot with my mental health to set boundaries and start asking myself what I want during moments I have to myself, instead of always paying attention to what’s going on around me energetically
This truly resonates with me. My! My! I've learned to only share things with my inner circle. And if someone shows that they can't handle what I'm disclosing, I won't go to them about that subject again. Of course, I'll share other things with them. But that topic is officially off-limits for them. I don't want their negativity, fears, or limited perspectives to get into my head. Thanks for speaking on this!
Yes! A lot of people do not realize their putting their fears and doubts on you. I’ve learned to keep things to myself unless it’s with a person who is naturally an encourager and supporter.
Definitely learned this lesson the hard way by telling my "friends" about my hopes and dreams and getting them shattered by their limiting beliefs! Never tell limited minded people your vision because they simply cannot see it! You can have, be or do anything you want and they will eventually see it playing out in front of their own eyes! 💞✨
I kinda figured this out over time the hard way. I remember telling my friend a few years ago about wanting to move to certain country and all they did was tell me how difficult it would be. Like yeah I know how hard it could be but at least let me try before tying to discourage me??
@@NateshasAmbience Hiii! Unfortunately not yet. The pandemic and working situation kinda put that on hold, but I’m still planing on looking into it! 😊👍🏽
Totally agree with others not being able to understand you or your dreams fully. People can only know you to a certain extent. Love the new background btw! :)
This is facts! I had to stop talking to people about what i want to do because it was throwing me off when people wouldn’t be excited about it as much as me and it makes me not even wanna do it or feel bad about it! But I had to realize that certain people I just can’t talk about it too and some people I can! And ik which is which now
FACTS! I agree I think it's really important to " move in silence " and even gatekeep your goals/plans until they have manifested themselves. I use to over-share wayyy too much about my life and it had ruin some of the good in my life. I've learned to keep my goals to myself and work it in silence, it's personally worked more efficiently and I feel accomplished doing things for me without anybody's input making me doubt myself. As always, this was an amazing video Lynette!!
Girl you’re literally my friend in my head, I swear we be on the same frequency. Yes keep your big dreams to yourself and only show it afterwards. That’s how I’ve been able manifesting my life and healing in the process 🤫
The intro of this video alone and my attention was grabbed. I completely agree. Your dreams won’t make sense to everyone and that’s why we should let our success speak for itself ❤️
This is so timely and such a good reminder. Thank you. I recently mentioned a home renovation project that I just completed to a friend of 20+ years. To my surprise, he was quite condescending about both my motivation and ability to maintain the purchase. Initially, I was a bit taken aback but then remembered he is recently divorced, quite unhappy, and is a current renter who desires homeownership again. My mom always says...consider the source. I absolutely love and respect my friend, but he may not be the best person to have casual conversation about home projects or personal goals.
I needed to hear this! I just started my RU-vid Channel after years of being scared of what others would think. I wanted to start when I was 19, I am 27 now. Would love your feedback 💜
This is really what i needed to hear right now. I just got off linkedIn (always a horrible experience) and was caught up comparing myself to other people I used to know and feeling like I can’t accomplish my goals but this video really put me back in a good headspace, your videos are always so uplifting Lynette 💕
This was right on time for me and I couldn’t agree more. I’ve felt the need to be quiet and more reserved about my plans and aspirations and I’ll be following that feeling. Thanks sis 🌷💕
you explained everything perfectly. I do think the same way, some people can't understand and maybe they never will. Also people tend to judge a lot, but that shows that they have issues inside of them and has nothing to do with the person they are judging, finding the time & energy to judge someone instead of working on yourself and working towards your goals? I mean, how do some people find the time to do that? keep crushing it Lynette!
This is so facts 🙌🏽 I’ve been quiet spirit growing. A lot of ppl have been put out of my life just from that. But there are some good ppl around me that I’m also quiet with some things because ppl don’t understand and they are on their own journey
What gets me is when the people who are attempting to push me in the direction THEY want to go in, and are trying to make me to behave, work and live in a certain way, are my own parents. Especially since I still live with them and am desperately looking for a way out. It can be very hard to cut your parents out of your life respectfully when you still live with them lol. How I went about it was setting hard boundaries with them and just not telling them anything. They clearly do not support my dreams, they would rather I worked a 9-5 in an office the rest of my life because it's the safe way instead of living out my dreams as an artist and content creator. So I think it's important to know exactly when to draw that line with controlling and narcissistic family members but still have a peaceful home life with them as well. It's quite the balancing act for sure, but I see now that simply not telling them anything, saying 'okay' and just doing my own thing despite their wishes has been working out great for me and I'm really getting somewhere with my work :D
I definitely agree… so glad I heard you say to cut them off when you know they are intentionally trying to put on fear on you. Nobody wants to be around someone putting out their insecurities & draining soul 24/7. Your soul family resonates on 5D energy the family you was around as a kid operates in 3D thinking… it’s toxic to be around people who are constantly on a low vibrational energy.
Def learned a lot. I’ve noticed ppl’s main traumas in my family and this video just told me its time to create and keep a boundary with a few so they don’t halt my beliefs and manifestations. I’ve been distancing but now its best to just cut the explaining
be around people who don't necessarily have to understand your vision but at least are supportive and encouraging. that way you can focus a lot easier with good energy flowing inside of you. as bob proctor would say.
I use to do this a lot and sometimes still do it when I’m a little tipsy…. Or past that 😏 It makes me cringe when I reflect on a night of oversharing with people who don’t have my best interest. I talk less now which makes me feel mysterious and I like that better 😊
Seriously love your content and all the concepts you share about getting in the flow and I agree we all do need to be a bit delusional to achieve greatness
Wow! Get out of my head, girl! Lol! My mom and I were just talking last week about not sharing everything especially as it pertains to your business and money. A personal experience happened that really shed light on this topic, and it was a tough lesson to learn but glad it happened
Trust and believe in God for he cares for you and loves you. Remember to repent of your sins daily as God is coming soon and we don’t know the day or hour so be prepared. Be blessed. Matthew 24:36
My mother has always claimed she don't need no husband and that she's happy. I've told her that im glad she a BOSS ISH but im different and i do want a husband and cant wait to form my own family. Sis, let me tell you how she tries to drag my dream of having a family to filth. Telling me men cheat and how hard it is to be married to a man. That all they do is control you. I come to FINALLY see that she aint no damn boss ish. She ain't got no man cause she is a narcissist AND she always had ME. Im literally her surrogate husband! Always talking care of her and catering to her needs. I left for one yr to do me and her life crumbled. I bet she wanted a man then! Only reason i came back was because i foolishly thought i could fix my relationship with her. Ended up getting sick and now im disabled. Seriously ladies family does not mean they are trustworthy. Best believe alot dont get it and wont support. They will downright sabotage your manifestations. Dont feel guilty about not letting them into you intimate thoughts. You got one life! Claim your divine feminine energy and soar!
Hey Lynette yes I agree with jadeswrld this video came at the right time. I think it's really important to be yourself and to listen to your dreams which show you the way to a great life! You are one of my favorite youtubers and you're really awesome...sending lots of love 🥰🥰🥰
Yes! It's for you to understand. God didn't give them the vision or purpose - He gave it to you. It wasn't meant for them to understand. I completely agree 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I definitely need balance in this area for the opposite reason, I'm super closed off and don't like to share much so I'm trying to change that a bit. My family is really supportive so idk why I'm like that lol. Usually when I share information it's just making conversation, I don't want someone's opinion unless I specifically ask. Unsolicited advice is not welcome! Is your hair darker? It's so cute!
I mean if these people are to stay in my life I need to find a way to correct them or communicate with them that I'm a person and I can do or want things you don't agree with. But we can still try to understand each other. People feel jealousy,people project. We have to be aware of the way we effect others.
You hit the nail on the head. My dad is so on going to college and career career career .. as everyone {a lot} of people are, that i can’t even begin to explain to him the shift in mindset and entire outlook on life since going through spiritual awakening .. especially when it comes to his strong faith and belief in the Bible. He think he knows absolute best but I know my purpose is different and healing and i know I’ll be taking care of him, my whole family. The knowing for me is so strong that I’ve gotten to a point where i truly could care less about where people think i should be in life and what they consider growth because they truly don’t know the half .. your own family. They always ask about career - school work it’s never how’s your mental health or spending genuine quality time or having genuine conversation and i hate that for us, but i know is as meant to heal us and to truly see the world in a different light than them and It’s okay ✨ I love your videos by the way, when you feel like no one else gets you and see other like minded people speaking out it’s inspiring and gives me the confirmation i need in some moments . Pure love, light, & abundance to you beautiful ✨🫶🏾
I'm learning that "moving in silence" can accidentally turn to "moving in fear" so I think it helps to move in silence BUT, if someone notices, just say "Oh yeah! I am doing xyz." And I noticed from answering questions or if someone is confused by what I'm doing, that actually is an opportunity to get even STRONGER in my why and become more unshakeable
I have been really feeling this message lately. It is so important to trust yourself and trust what you believe you are capable of. It's no one's job to understand what you are doing or what comes next only your job to trust the passion and work that you do.
I’m in a period where I’m trying to learn and understand that people are their own individuals, and I have to learn to accept them as they are. I get caught up in trying to explain myself a lot and when I don’t get the response I want I try to not talk about it anymore. I’m happy that I watched this because you saying that people won’t view the world the same as I do helped, as well as the entire video ofc. I think the most important part is getting to know who I am so I can recognize what I myself think and believe versus what I think other people should believe…if that makes sense lol
I naturally hv a lot of faith and hope for others that when it comes to me i tend to doubt my own path and now its gotten to a point where im basically starting over which is scary. Im learning how to put the energy back into myself
I really appreciate this video, especially the part where you said “you don’t have to cut everyone off” as I always hear my peers resolving to do just that. It serves better to just know where that person is in their space and go by that.
I PEEP THE HAIRRR!!! omg i love it! I know you said you were going to change it up really soon I thought you were either going to do highlights, red, or purple lol but i LOVE this color on you!!😍😍😍
Every time you post it is EXACTLY what i am going through/struggling with. idk if i should be worried or thankful lol. I appreciate your content. your journey is truly an inspiration. i am thankful i get to experience even a fraction of it 🙏🏽
my key to protect my energy turned out to be surrounding myself with as many Geminis as possible. those mfs aren't symbolized as the Lovers and The Magician card in tarot for no reason. they always think every dream that might sound unrealistic to others can actually become reality, and they are nothing but fun and love. 😄 love it
