Not Repeating Yourself

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To build the habit of attention, Charlotte Mason told us not to repeat ourselves when giving instructions to children. But how do you make that work in practice? Sonya and Laura discuss this question in this episode.
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@lauramatthew9726 4 года назад

I love how these ladies presented this in such as kind, gentle way that does not come across as judgmental at all. I have struggled with some moms making me feel judged when my little boys were too wiggly or noisy. But after watching this I feel empowered and encouraged. Thank you!

@mrsh2610 4 года назад

I think doing the task twice is a wise idea, and even as the mother having joy and emulating the joy of completing the task twice is very effective. I think so often we tend to emulate the attitude of "we wouldn't have to be doing this if you'd have done it right the first time." Expectant encouragement truly is a beautiful thing.

@afruitfullife9857 4 года назад

This channel is such an encouragement to me.

@marisadaniela6 3 года назад

I really love how you broke this down, ladies. Especially about taking a short while to slow down and really help them along with getting the habit established.

@readaloudmom 4 года назад

I find it effective when I use the “whisper technique .” I have a 2 year old girl. When I tell her to do something and she tells “no,” I whisper to her my instruction. She then whispers it back to me and follows.

@jennylhenry78 4 года назад

I think I finally understand "the how" to implement not repeating. Sadly, I have trained my children to obey only after I've asked multiple times and are now yelling at them. 😔 I have four children (ages 9, 7, 3 1/2, and 20 months). I will get worn out being intentional with each of them in this area at the same time. I think I will treat this like any habit training and work individually with each of my children for 6 weeks. My second child has the hardest time, so I think I will start with her and then my oldest, then boy, and the baby when appropriate. All the while work on the habit of full attention in myself. Thank you ladies for this helpful insight!

@Stephanie_Villegas 3 года назад

Who would unlike this video?!! You ladies are so helpful and amazing. I thank the LORD for you ❤️

@mrsh2610 4 года назад

I just absolutely peacefully, hopefully love these encouraging podcasts. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing wisdom. God bless you both to overflowing ❤️

@liztefft5312 2 года назад

I appreciate you ladies so much. Thank you for encouraging us Mamas, even in our own growth.

@lcs-salam 4 года назад

We are not yet homeschooling but this has been such an encouraging channel to watch even in these younger years to establish good habits!

@yinvonnewong708

I gleaned so much. Thank you so much godly ladies. Praying u get well soonest.

@maryjmama46 3 года назад

Thanks for mentioning the smart alick kid🤪 I got one of those

@mistyhamblen649 4 года назад

Both of you are the best!!!! So thankful for your help and guidance!!!!

@djina3141 4 года назад

I am so blessed to have found your channel! I will save this video for future reference. Thank you for sharing all of your videos and especially these Q&A videos! They are so helpful! God bless you♥️

@elianaisrael4796 4 года назад

Absolutely love this!

@OurSabeel 4 года назад

love this, thanks for sharing, would love a discussion on one for tidying up habits with young children.x

@unconditionallovehomeschoo1830 2 года назад

Very helpful so helpful

@zillycrew 4 года назад

Love these episodes! Right now I have some children who have very poor habits of the grumbles and poor attitudes towards work. I have showed him in the bible what God says and I feel like all I do is tell him "please do it without grumbling" or "choose the right attitude" it keeps going on. I dont know how to go from here or what else to do....I dont know a consequence for this.

@LosDuranchos Год назад

Pienso que quién debe repetir la indicación son los niños, pues de esta forma ellos mismos comprueban la indicación. Y claro un paso a la vez, una petición a la vez, no hacer listados de compras. No es lo mismo decirle arregle su cuarto a un niño de 12 a pedirle a un niño de 7 que recoja lo que no pertenece a la sala. ¿Consideras la revisión del proceso cuando ellos dicen "ya terminé"? ¿Se vale decir "estás seguro que ya terminaste?