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Thats what i hate about people anymore. Nobody wants to actually live on the crazy side. Singing to them in public, sneaking out and jumping into someones pool for some spontaneous passion etc etc Everyone boring now and just wants romance from the comfort of their couch...then got the nerve to say Notebook movie type love dont exist Well maybe if people stop killing it it would But hey im just one old soul guy in a generation where old souls are almost extinct, what do i know 🤷♂️
@@ronspencer676What are you talking about? All that stuff still happens. Not everyone likes all that though. Deal with it you gentle old soul. Even though my marriage didn't work out and we are legally separated, I was proposed to 2 days after my birthday and 2 days before theirs. I woke up to a ring in my burry vision. It was the best way to wake up and very romantic.
Dear men, here is a piece of advice from a lady: NEVER EVER, even if it’s the last option, PROPOSE to a lady WITHOUT a shirt on, DRUNK, at a baseball game with OTHER DRUNKS-
Fuck that. There's no rules. She's wearing a cap & a team sweatshirt; women can be hardcore about sports too and maybe he felt they shared the same passion for sports. Maybe they even met there. Her denying his proposal doesn't mean he chose a bad spot. She's probably a ho for all we know & dating three other men...
It is not required for a woman to accept a proposal just because you did this will a huge crowd to witness pressure an answer. Good job to this lady who handled this properly.
I mean, not if this bitch has been begging you for 5 years. It gets so bad I basically could do anything and she’d say yes. I could have pulled my dick out in that arena and made a fool of myself and she’d still say yes.
@@nrl_edits3958 you can love someone but not be ready for the step yet… I love my girlfriend but not ready for marriage yet. I’m getting closer but still more to do, learn, and experience first before I can fully say I want to propose.
@@peekaboots01 nah just for a few months maybe. He dodged a pretty bad outcome long-term. He’s free to live his life without someone making his life miserable trust me.
Well, depends on if a women just wants to marry the hell of the guy, or if in reality she is looking for the dreamy movie story she's been chasing since she was little, and one dude is just gonna be used to fulfill her fantasy. I say dude dodged a bullet, if she didn't love him enough to accept that, then she just didn't love him enough, period.
There Are RIGHT Ways To Propose Matrimony. And There Are WRONG Ways. Unfortunately Or Maybe Fortunately, He Picked The Latter One. Lessons Learned...!!!
I don't support Women that does this on Live Television ! She could have pretended to Say Yes then told him Later that she's not really into him like that at all !
As long as she understands the relationship is over at that point. If she dosent want marriage than it’s literally no reason in dating. I hope he found a woman that wanted marriage. 👍
@BRlGADE_KINGPIN I hope she finds a guy that doesn't propose infront of 100 people and cameras while hes shirtless and possibly drunk but hay you're standards aren't high that's for sure I hope to see u on RU-vid attempting the same thing😂
Despite everything the woman was kind enough to hold his hands and spoke politely before leaving. She handled the situation well enough. She didn't want him to be heartbroken and embarrassed.
Oh yeah, real kind, then she just runs off. Guess what, that was worse. She should have just said yes, then told him no later and explained to him she wanted to spare him the embarrassment.
@@tbewin1z143no, the dude embarrassed himself. Just look at him. That is disrespectful to propose in such a manner. She gave him more grace than he deserved.
@@tbewin1z143what an idiotic thing to say. No one should fake their feelings to save someone else's embarrassment, especially for a marriage proposal 🤦🤦
When she’s holding his hands, and looking him deeply in the eyes, responding to him, and he’s looking around to see if other people are watching, there’s your answer right there. They should’ve been private and personal, with no pressure.
I once proposed on an airplane once. My other proposals included proposing in the lobby of an IHOP, and proposing in a visitor's center. The one woman who didn't end up marrying me was the one I proposed to in her living room
@@matthewkeating120Yeah. Because it definitely wasn't the completely awkward proposal, made while being shirtless and drunk at a baseballgame. While also surrounded by other drunk people. I honestly couldn't imagine a better way to propose myself. Seeing your comment tells me that you obviously knows a lot about women and what they like. I'm sure a person like you have a loving girlfriend that would love nothing more than for you to propose to her like we see in this video. It's very romantic with such a big audience of drunk people.
#1 rule, wear a shirt. Dress well. It’s a big moment. If you’re gonna look like that, she will be embarrassed to say yes to you in front of hundreds of strangers. A public proposal is only okay if you’re a hundred percent sure that she is going to say yes. If you have any doubts, or if she is generally an introvert, this is going to put a lot of pressure on the woman and the answer is going to be NO.
Lol with that advice he's gonna dodge so many women until he ends up with a girl way below his league that he's going to end up cheating on anyway.... just cus he doesn't have the decency to step up his game
Always ALWAYS have a discussion with your partner about getting married before you propose, especially in public. You can still surprise your partner with a nice proposal (uhh probably not one where you're in a ballgame stadium without a shirt on unless that's their cup of tea), but you both should be on the same page. Saves a lot of embarrassment for the both of you
@@Ijustwantosleep91 My partner asked me before proposing if we'd like to get married. We've had multiple conversations about marriage over the years. No proposals without an in-depth conversation
@@RicHairPIE thats a bit different from something like this where theres a tv camera literally inches from her face. I think anything can work if you know she actually wants to get married. What people are talking about is guys who use the pressure of a situation like this to hope she will just say yes, which if you’re trying to do that its a red flag. You should not try and pressure someone to marry you, especially with the divorce rate as high as it is.
Finally a woman who has the guts to not let herself be forced or persuaded by the shere number of watchers! Poor guy, he should have been advised better.
Not the best presentation right 😅🙈🙏 maybe try having a shirt on or something next time? Well we don’t know their full story but I agree didn’t look that amazing 🙏
Lol so you lied to him on purpose? I understand that you were trying to save him from embarrassment and yourself from looking like a bitch but that was probably even worse than just rejecting him publicly since he definitely thought you were serious and over the moon only for you to destroy him emotionally shortly later.
LOL before marriage, the woman can say tell the guy No if she deems he is not the match to be her husband. The ring is there, take it back. Same for the guy and versa. Which one is worse? Say no before marriage or she marries a guy then later divorces him? Calling someone a bit-ch for not accepting the proposal in public due to social pressure? Hoho, cry me a river.
@LoveLife-oo9cz that was my point exactly. I wasn't calling her a bitch but that's what many in public would think instinctively. And in her own words she folded to the social pressure. IMO she should have a rejected him then and there, since it would hurt more to think you're getting married and be on cloud 9 for hours or days, and planning and thinking about your future and even kids.. only to then have your "wife to be" tell you she put on an act and lied to you due to public pressure from random nobodies.. and in she doesn't actually love you enough to want to be your wife or create a family with you.. I'd also be surprised if they didn't breakup soon after too since; 1.even if she wasn't ready or wanted to marry at that time/age, they can still get engaged indefinitely until the time is ripe and they are both ready to tie the knot. 2. She lied to him. Put on an act in public and threw him under the bus when it mattered most. Of course he shouldn't have put her in that position, but it's not inherently bad(like lying is) and if he was brave enough to risk it all and ask her publicly, she should also be brave enough to also be answer honestly.. and not lie about the most important question and most important moment in his life. I mean he literally asked for it. He only has himself to blame if she refused and should have been mentally prepared for such an outcome. The girl has done nothing wrong at that point but after she folds to pressure and then lies, she is now crossing the line in terms of trust. And lying over such a big and important thing as marriage.
@@ex0duzzI think it was nice that she said yes initially. Everyone is looking at them and recording, so if she initially says yes.. she can say no a little while later when the cameras stop rolling. Him being on “cloud 9” for a few minutes only to be rejected privately is better than him being embarrassed in front of everyone and made to go viral no? That’s probably the only reason this video gained popularity was because she basically ran away after saying no. If she said “let’s talk about this later” or something no one would probably even care about this.
Proposal usually means the couple must have been together for a long time. Ladies, if any guy proposes you with an inserious manner, run like hell. If the guy doesn't show respects when he proposes you, run, forget about future together. There will be no future at all. The dude can take the ring back and give you his mom.
@@webeducationDid you buy a Walmart ring or plastic ring to propose lol... Typical dude like this usually comes with the mind after marriage, she will have to worrk her butt off taking care of a child husband. 😅. You know if she says No, you can give the ring to your mom or take it back to Walmart. Don't forget the receipt.
I don't know why people do this, unless they know the woman really wants a proposal done in this manner, then it would be sweet. In most cases, there's no intimacy about this, it's way too personal and special, to go and propose to somebody at a huge game, and make that person feel pressured.
@@colomblancoYeah but which one is worse? For me, I feel ir would have been worse for her to say yes, me get all excited, and than her tell me in private and it was all a lie.
@@colomblancothis is like getting accepted to a job or college, tell all your friends and relatives and then receive a letter that they go emails wrong and wasn't you Which will you want a false hope that went to sky and got destroyed or a clear no
A proposal, and the answer to it, really shouldn't be a surprise. The couple should have talked about their future and know they're on the same page about marriage. Popping the question out of the blue can put a lot of pressure on the person being asked, making it tough for them to give an honest answer. It's way better when the bride and groom have already agreed that marriage is something they want, making the proposal a special moment rather than a shock. Usually, dating for one to two years is a good time frame. During this time, the couple should do a bunch of things together and have important conversations to build a solid relationship. Spending time with each other’s families and friends is key to understanding each other's backgrounds and values. Doing things that test your bond is important too. Like, missing a flight in Guatemala and having to figure things out together can show how well you handle stress as a team. Or pitching a tent in the dark on a camping trip can show how you work together when things aren’t perfect. Talking about future goals, finances, career plans, and thoughts on having kids is crucial. Traveling together, managing conflicts, and dealing with everyday stuff can reveal how well you click. This time is all about making sure you're compatible and setting up for a happy marriage.
I know so many cases of dude that did this dumb stunt as a way to pressure the woman inyo accepting. One was my violin teacher years ago, the relationship wasnt doing well and she had already talked to him about breaking up. His reaction was to throw a surprise party with both their families and propose to her in front of everyone as soon as she opened the door. It was awkward as hell, she took him aside to another room, and broke up with him on the spot and left. She explained things to her family later
As long as she understands the relationship is over at that point. If she dosent want marriage than it’s literally no reason in dating. I hope he found a woman that wanted marriage. 👍
As long as she understands the relationship is over at that point. If she dosent want marriage than it’s literally no reason in dating. I hope he found a woman that wanted marriage. 👍
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say he was forcing things and pressuring her and thought that he'd be slick and do a public proposal so she would be forced to say yes. backfired😂
Damn. You really rationalized that in a way that puts the women in a somewhat good light for publicly rejecting him. Interesting. Quick Question, this is me going out on a limb here. Why didn’t you just take what you saw exactly for what is was instead of making assumptions? I’m not saying you can’t, I’m saying when I looked at it “at face value” I saw a women reject a marriage proposal. Not a man who was forcing things and pressuring her. That’s just me tho
@@tdwendangered7384 I'll be honest I'm not a big fan of people doing public proposals, but it's so many stories saying how people would do it to force the girl to say yes so she wouldn't be shamed in public. In my opinion proposals should be intimate and 1 on 1 and genuine not at a fvcking sports game around a bunch of drunk strangers, not romantic at all for bro. P.S. I only made this assumption because if a woman really wants you and wants to marry you, she will have made it clear and let it be known to her boyfriend WAY before you propose. So her rejecting him here give me signs that buddy couldn't take the hint that she doesn't like him or sees him as husband material and he just couldn't stop simping and forcing things.
@@jft2nd that was the stupidest shit I've ever read. Obviously he felt like proposing was a good move, she was out with him so she obviously still liked him. Then u just randomly call him and simp and assume he's forcing things when he's just asking a question (proposing). You are so weirddd no wonder you don't have a gf because this is the way u think
@@jft2nd Exactly.....at some point as mature adults there must be some discussion of an intent to get married to each other. Ppl still doing random proposals as if it's a fairytale movie. Heck even in the movies now ppl are getting rejected. The woman shouldnt be shamed for rejecting the guy.....that's her decision and in actuality it's better to get rejected and realise this isnt the person for you and move on not wasting anymore time than to have a woman say yes to later reject you anyways or going all the way to a marriage that will end in divorce. Dont worry there are some men that actually go through with a proposal and even marriage having been "forced" by their nagging girlfriends. I put that in quotes because if you truly dont see someone as your wife/husband then you should immediately end things instead of leading them on. Its a selfish attempt at not trying to be single or having an in the meantime relationship for the benefits alone.
@@tdwendangered7384 well If he felt he knew her well enough to propose, then I would use my context clues and assume that he would know whether or not the proposal setting would suit her, and it didn't but he clearly seemed confident enough to do it, it's clesr he loves her tbh
@@jakeplayzyt5220not a married guy- but you typically know the answer before a proposal when you hit these relationship milestones: -You know and have been accepted by her family and become a regular at her family’s events. -She practically lives at your place because half her stuff has been there for a while. -Even if marriage discussion hasn’t been brought up, you both have started making other types of long-term plans together- naturally as your relationship progresses. At some point, it just “feels right” and makes sense to go ahead and get married.
Since when is having a shirt a criteria for a proposal? She probably is much more lame , when he wakes up tomorrow, he’ll be glad he can get a refund on that ring
