Five days ago, Krisna and I celebrated our engagement and marriage. Kris’s family organized a ceremony known as Su Kwan. Su Kwan, translated as "Calling of the Souls," is all about welcoming someone into a new chapter, not only through marriage but also for any significant life transition.
Starting a new job? Su Kwan! Moving to a new village? Su Kwan! Graduating, recovering from illness? Yes, Su Kwan.
It's like a giant family hug, celebrating new beginnings with blessings, delicious food, and lots of laughter. I experienced my first Su Kwan a year ago when Kris and I first met. However, this one exceeded my expectations. Over 100 people attended, and I had the pleasure of meeting many of Kris’s extended family for the first time. People from all over Thailand traveled to be there, and the entire village gathered. Her brother and his family drove overnight for 15 hours from Bangkok.
In the days leading up to the ceremony, it was evident that this was going to be a grand event. People were coming and going, delivering tables, chairs, ingredients, and engaging in various preparations. Kris’s mom and about 10 of her friends worked tirelessly the day before to create a Bai See.
The ceremony itself was magical. We sat around the Bai See as the Ajan went through numerous blessings. Then, we presented our wrists, and a line of people bestowed individual blessings upon us. Each person tied a holy thread around our joined hands, along with an envelope containing money.
Following that, the elderly women guided us to the bed, removing the holy thread and offering another ceremonial blessing. This part was somewhat instructional, emphasizing the man as the leader and the woman's role in caring for and listening to him.
Later, we joined our guests outside for some fun. After expressing gratitude and sharing hugs, we finally had the chance to eat! The menu included:
Crispy catfish salad
Green chicken curry
Red curry
Som tam
Laab
Fish maw soup
Nam ngeaw with rice noodles (my personal favorite)
Traditional Thai desserts
So, that's my Su Kwan story. I am immensely grateful for my wife, her family, and everyone who helped organize the event. I hope that next year, my family can attend the wedding and perhaps another Su Kwan.
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29 дек 2023
