The plot thickens.Nozipho and kids are acting this way because they found out about the Lobola negotiations via Facebook here is the video ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dZibfn24bww.htmlsi=pD_NBWAfJ6cfYMuS
Hamba nyoni is all I'm gonna say. Maybe say this too. If I was the lady he's been cheating with after watching this video, I would be afraid very afraid and leave him.
If I was the side chick I would run for my life because this is not normal. The same way he’s treating his current family best believe that awaits her in future
Which it's okay for your kids to support her however not to involve them and let children speak on your behalf hold your husband hostage that their father is being unfaithful or whatever. Its wrong it's as if she using the kids as a shield for him not to leave. You call elders or speak to family members, therapist go to counseling, talk to friends about your issues, these are teenagers and go off what mom say. (not that I'm saying the husband is correct) there's always 2 sides to a story.
The fact the little kids are even there pisses me off. This should have been a private conversation now they same kids you claim are supporting her are recording and leaking it what support bo!
These kids will always love him but will never respect him as they did before. So disgusting! I rather not have money...🤮 And the new girl, this is your man!
Am literally crying this women needs our prayers guys her emotions are all over the place she doesn't need our judgement she's over thinking and thinking everything she does is okay I wish I had like million rand to give her so she leaves
My thought exactly kuthi lo baba udlisiwe and lento inzima kodwa even the doers day will come hey. Ayikho into engapheli! One day bazoFana banoNozipho!
Niyadlala nina I had a drinking buddy who was happily married to his wife who happened to work for Shoprite and he was working for a big corporation as Engineering Technician .One Saturday morning we met in the drinking hole I was on my way to buy few groceries than I decided to shaya one .I found this guy with another grootman he was in tears complaining about his wifes lack of progress in life finally he left.Then I asked the other grootman what's going on he told me the guy was in love with one other woman who was a black widow.This woman would get married in this province kill the husband using muti of coarse then move to another province to do it again. That guy was saved by his Shop rite wife today they are still happily married. How did the wife save the husband ,she left her home went back to her home with her kids they consulted a powerful inyanga the following month the husband was there begging his wife and kids to come back.
That was my first thought. Thats why prayer is important. The amount of women after wealthy men. If he is not grounded by faith he will fall for anything!
There's no way he just started treating them like this now, there's no way. He's always been like this. That "niyini, what have you ever bought for me" told me everything i needed to know. A lot of men who come from nothing believe that their money makes them and then treat people they can't gain anything financially from like this. I'll bet everything this is his true character and this is how it's been in that family for isikhathi
@@ketie_ I can strongly believe this. The daughters reaction alone was so telling. It's the first time her father insulted her💔 the boys had to remind him that they are his kids😭 the helper even pleading 😭 yho!
They did well leaking this video, I foresee divorce & abuse allegations cause you can see from his demeanour that uwuntaba kakhonjwa...obviously these kids are grown & will obviously speak up when they see wrong & unsavoury behaviour
This made me cry. Kids should NEVER experience this. Children are innocent and deserve to be shielded from such drama. Secondly, marriage is for life. If a man wants polygamy he needs to declare it to all BEFORE he even marries the first wife. Women opt into polygamy. There are some women who are OK with it. They must find those women. Don't force it on anyone please
A man wouldn’t do this if unezinto zakho! He knows this lady is nothing without him. 8 kids lavish lifestyle, you can’t reason with someone who doesn’t respect you nor the kids Mabesikhuza abadala asilaleli kunjani manje 🤷🏽♀️ People will come for the side chick akazi nokuthi udelela kanje lo my husband Love yourself my lady leave him don’t stay for the kids Let him go find his happiness.
@@Vv-fl2rmshe was not given that chance and i wont be told by you what to do and i wont rest you rest... You in my comment telling me to rest kuwukuthu uwubani wena
They shouodnot put the kids through adult conversations. This is heartbreaking & sad cause years from now the parents cannot understand why their sons have anger issues & their daughters are on OF.
Shuuu, he reminds of my late step-dad. What a wonderful father he was to me when growing up, who one day suddenly became a raging animal. He'd started an affair with a lady way younger than my mom. The sweetest and most charismatic person ever. Unfortunately met his demise and succumbed to death , he died alone with a tear rolling down his one eye. Apologizing to my mother profusely
Hhayi, the vulgar and mean language. It's like he's not himself. There's something which calls him. How can a father say this to his kids. Ayi Nozi uthwele shame. I hope she's not keep on bekezeling for this kind of behavior.
Ladies always seek spiritual help in relationships, he looks like he's been bewitched, uloyiwe straight and it's his fault. He opened himself to this by looking at other women when he had a wife, it's clear the other woman wants him for himself and wamhambela somewhere. I understand he might be out of love but treating your children like kaak for a woman you've just met yooh. Lets not judge Nozi lets pray she finds the strength to leave coz it's hard.
That broke me 😢😢 she was literally begging 💔 that shut up he said to Coco 💔 When he raised his voice and she got back up to stand in front of him, abuse is the name of this home 🤞🏽💔
Facts, I remember when my father was cheating on my mother some years ago. It’s truly painful to watch as a child/ teenager especially when you really know what’s going on between your parents.
I don’t understand people judging her saying she’s using the kids. These kids are old and have been seeing everything should she lock them in the room. There are boy kids there many men you live with wish they could have said something when their mothers where being beaten when they were boys and here y’all are judging this woman worse y’all are woman yourselves. Those kids are hurting and are trying to mend a family they see breaking. Some are already at their 2nd home and don’t want to go to a 3rd one. Mosadi pele o bua osa nahane remember o mosadi le wena ona lebana. Until you’ve worn the shoe sometimes it’s best to keep your negative, hurtful opinions to self. My heart goes to this family she doesn’t deserve this and one-day the honeymoon phase for this man will be over he’ll look at this and see how he destroyed and broke these kids for he’s own selfish needs.
😫😫 Im in a relationship and im now scared 😫 People can really just switch up on you. Imagine after so many years and after 5 kids with him? 😫😫 And raising his other 3 he came into the marriage with 😫😫😫 yuuuuuh I hope she finds a way to recover from this, God intervene 😫😫 The new wife seeing all this and she's relaxed vele? I'd be feeling like he could do the same to me
Shows very well they did something to him sad thing about muthi stuff they destroy everything shame, a happy home all down the drain😢😢😢😢 the trauma caused to the kids😢😢😢 and the wife😢😭😭😭
Yoh this is so painful watch. She needs to let him go and pray, no ways you should be figthing to keep a man that talks like that to his own kids even.
I’m so emotional watching this. Side chicks are striking these days. Cause I know exactly how this feels when a man turns on you like he NEVER knew you… lol 😅😭Yoh engathi udlisiwe
We need to reach a point in our lives where other people problems stop being used as entertainment. The last thing Nozi needs is videos being leaked to be honest
South Africa let's get behind this lady and her kids and support her everyway possible especially financially..what would happen If we got her bank details and make contributions towards her kids well-being.Lets turn the tide .Enough with selfish men who think they are demigods... Let's make this a revolutionary movement.No man.. enough is enough! Why is he playing on his wife and kids emotions ! Imagine if I donate R50 and every South African does the same..bet you it would force him to see how insignificant he really is! If you agree with me...let's petition for this lady and actually get her bank details and start donating! Asap.Ahambe yena maaan!
Yho this takes me back 💔💔💔. I decided to leave for my mental being and my kids sake. I pray she has the strength to deal with this situation and I hope she won't lose herself
Udlisiwe u baba!! In a normal situation the man will marry the second wife but still love and protect his first by all means, some even go as far as disappointing the gf for the sake of his marriage.
@user-vx2xq3vi4o you're clearly dull. She's a member of the family. She helped raise those kids and their wellbeing matters to her. If they hurt she hurts too. She knew a fight would possibly happen and did what she thought was right to avoid it. If you can't comprehend that I don't know what will.
What pains me most , is when the small baby said bye DAD. The devil is at work . I wonder what the 2nd wife did to him. Bigg up for the gentle man , indeed they acted like a gentle man , the father acted like a small boy . Who is acting like it's his first relationship ever
If a man is done with you, let him go. The kids don’t have to get involved in their parents affairs as this is between the 2 people who decided to get married/be together, you don’t know what happened between them and the side chick isn’t to be blamed, if he leaves her too that’s fine. Stop forcing men to stay in marriages they’re nolonger interested in, you’re not there behind closed doors. Anyone can leave either party if they’re not happy. No one owns anyone.
I totally agree! I doubt they have one car - I feel it's wrong to hold him at ransom. Why would they refuse with the car keys? He would have stayed and said nothing in that meeting, then what? I do not condone any kind of abuse, but the kids and the wife are also wrong. If they wanted to have a decent conversation, why did they film this? In my view, this is something that can only be discussed by the elders.
@@IamTeePyoh ni nya kamnandi njani. You can clearly see that the child is recording this without any one noticing. The kids are wrong where? So it’s okay for the guy to take the car that they use for their transportation to school nogal? And you can hear at that point maybe that was their only car
Leaving a marriage is not as easy as it may seem,no matter how toxic it is, especially when you have kids and you are financially stable. It just not realistic for a lot of people. That's why we see the most horrific things in relationships these days.
This man goes to the Sartuday church with white stones all round trust me. One thing about that church they teach man this nonsense. I was once very much in this position and trust me it is not a good place to be in. Bawozwilakhe straight abazwa ngomfazi bona while the make the dumbest decisions ever
There's nothing better than prayers , God is good all the time he cannot give you a baggage that you is bigger than you, be still and know that I am God. Wipe your tears even when your hubby was swearing he was listening. Thula uthi Cwaka just have time with your God at your sacred heart.
Eish guys,this is too emotional to watch. There's so much going on here. I'd rather be single than be with someone who speaks like this. The language he uses😢. He is so rude. That's how parents lose their kids' respect.
The video starts with the man wanting his car keys so he can leave. So because he doesn't want to talk or have a meeting he is the bad guy. Kids should stay out of grown folks Business. When people start recording you and posting family maters online it says more about the kids than the father. They want to expose him to the world. What if this video makes him lose work opportunities but still you gonna expect him to keep the lights on and pay your school fees. Very short sighted behaviour.
dont involve kids in matters like this, they are clearly still too young, there are proper ways to do things, even if hes wrong leave the kids out of this
