I noticed that many Hmong parents when they adopted a child, later in life they don't love that child. So rude and sad. It's a human being not an items. If you can't love then don't adopt.
They only want them so they can have other kids. But will always treat them as an outsider. This woman is cruel of a Hmong person. She deserves nothing from them. I as they nyab would cut her off because she’s all drama.
Stories like this makes me mad. Can’t stand people who mistreat people and try to stir the pot to ruined people’s life. Koj adopted parents twb tsis hlub koj es twb yog muaj koj tus poj niam los pab koj es koj lub neej thiaj muaj. Glad your wife is smart and stand her ground. Don’t be too easy to be fool. Karma is real. Your adopted parents is pure evil.
Niam thiab txiv ob lub siab nyoos tsis nco lawm tias koj yog tus coj txoj hmoo tub ki los rau nkawv es nkawv thiaj li muaj tub ki. Siab phem ces yeej npam tiag2.
I’m glad you listen to your wife and know that your life is with her. All others were cruel and never counted you as family, that’s so sad about Hmong people. My husband is half Hmong and his older brother is not his blood, but because of the way my MIL raised them, they don’t see any difference - only the fact that they are brothers and have each. Sometimes God brings people into your life that is suppose to be your family. Sometimes family isn’t all that - blood doesn’t determine anything if the heart and soul is cruel and divided.
This Is A Man Who Loves His Wife & Knows His Family Tries To Break Them Up! A Real Man Knows When His Family Is The Problem & Not Her ... Some Men Who Don't Love You Makes It Seem Like It's The Nyab's Fault; The Ones Who Don't Love You Will Use His Family To Leave!! The Real Man Stays To Love His Wife & Believes Her! Proud Of Him ... Not Saying That His Mom Is Not To Be Loved But She's Wrong At Doing What She Did ... Sometimes People Need To Stop Talking & Causing Drama & Focus On Yourself & Your Life!! Stop Bothering People Who Want To Live & Don't Need More Drama From People Who Wants To Ruin You Day In & Day Out!!
Sorry to hear. It usually starts with the parent. Some toxic biological parents are so evil and selfish to where they purposely encourage hatred and war among blood siblings for their own entertainment. The ones that gets parental treatments are always talking smack and expecting the ones that were mistreated by the parent to give and love that toxic parent the same if not more.
Listen to this and you will know how to be a good person from a bad person. If you don't know the moral of the story like the many that have been told like this then you can't be help. Here, is where karma will do it's work. A BAD PERSON WILL NEVER WIN A OVER A GOOD PERSON!
Yog kawg kuv lub neej los yeej yog li koj hais peb niam loj tsi pub kom nws cov me myuam txhob hlub niam yau tej me nyuam li koj zaj neej neej vim tej niam cob cov me nyuam ua pheem
Sometimes it good to cut toxic people out of your life so you can actually live in peace....even if those people are family. What you did for you and your family was a must, money can always be made but time cannot be bought. What you did for your adoptive parents = no more debts to them or anyone. I hope you and your family can enjoy whatever time is left.
Neeg siab phem ces yeej tsis taus ntuj ntoos es nco tsoov os mog kwv tij Hmoob. Nrog koj chim los chim siab hos tus los tus siab kawg lios tus mes txiv tsev.
Ob niag niam txiv dev qias neeg twb tsis muaj txog ib nyuag txoj hmoov nrog leej twg xya tau ib tug nyuag kas tsaub li es twb yog hmoov ntuj poob Los txog es thiaj tau tus me tub hlob no txoj koob txoj hmoo los pov los pab es neb thiaj li rhoob tau Neb pab nyuag ko los saib dab muag cas neb ob lub niag siab qias neeg ko yuav txia kua lwj ua li na zoo qhov Neb tuag tsuag2 tag lawm os ua lub ntuj tsaug mus yug dua lwm tiam tsis txhob muaj lub siab txia2 kua lwj li ko rau lwm Tus lawm txoj sia thiaj li nrog luag nyob ua neeg ntev nawb
This is true story about most parents out there that adopts kids and can't fully whole heartily love them. Ungrateful humans and with karma, they all deserved it.. The heavens will always be watching and listening.
Tu siab ib txhia lo tseg ib txhia thiab vim nkawv twb yog ob tug tu koj thiaj loj li ko thiab yog xav txog qhov luag ua phem ce tu siab nrho tab si ho xav rau thaum nkawv tu koj thiab mog txhob saib qhov phem 2 xwb xav qhov zoo thiab thiaj zam tau txim rau
Me tub txhob tu siab mog nws twb tsis yog tus yug yus es kev hlub thiaj tsis tau txais qhov zoo thiab nyiaj los luag thiaj li tsis faib los twb muaj lub ntuj saib ntsoov tub ntsuag ua neeg nawb mog es tsis txhob quaj lawm zoo siab xwb mog
There comes a point in life be it a hmong man/women. Only you know how your family acts like. Its up to you to make that decision on how you will approach the issue. But you should always put your family first meaning your husband and kids. Every outside input is will have to be filtered put and you have the power to decide what is right and wrong for your family. Even if you have to cut ties with some people its for the better. Your kids and husband/wife will always have your back. Hmong funerals are overrated they spend a shit ton of money and always always the first thing that comes put of the family leads mouth is how much money you have? If its under 20k they always say "oh this funeral will be difficult" hmong culture be messed up sometimes.
Your mother is so incredibly selfish and greedy. When you have a parent like that remember to be guarded. Your wife is not just your life partner but she has become your mother and your father. Love and trust in her.
Zoo li zaj no, thaub no, ces txhob khiav khiav txiav txiav lau. Khiav txiav npaum cas los yus yeej tsis muaj chaw cob chaw mus, yeej kawg rov…los thawj lawv xwb ne. Rov los lo lua yam tsis muaj plhus xwb es khiav txiav ua tus qhuav tsw dab tsi naw.
Hmong community is the only community I see that always finds a way to bring someone who is successful down. We do not praise someone who is successful, we make fun of them and find ways to break them. What a shame!!
Sis May, We love you and supported you. Your advertiser love you and also supported you. Please can you put your advertising in the beginning or at the end only. I see that alot of your viewers don't like it. So let's compromise and work together, cause at the end of the days both side are your loyal supporters. Hope you come and read your comments. Thank you sis May.
Yeej muaj tseeb tiag yog ib leej niam ua tus control freaks rau cov tub twb laus2 lawm nas. Thov cov ua leej niam laus yuav tsum xyaum cia tej tub ua lawv lub neej li lawv yog ib tug txiv tsev rau nws tsev neeg thiab nawb cov ua niam nas! All we as mother’s do was to supportive to our son family for growth in to better!!
This is almost the same story as the young mother that took her children and her life in Minnesota. Sad that Hmong people are so small minded. Adopt the kids to give you good look but in the end, you still cannot love the adopted child with all your heart.
On a flip side, I've seen some Hmong people scared to lose koom Hmoov, and pushed step children out, no bowing, no hat, no drinking koom Hmoov shot, no sunshine money, etc. when they were the ones that loved the step parent most, and when these step kids cried to the deceased step-parent, it was interesting to hear the story of the aftermath of them visiting their family to ask why did they treat their children this way...it's another story to tell of course, 😉 but the outcome was satisfying to watch and just had to share. Don't be mean to others as this is a karmatic world. The universe has a lot of love and luck to share and whatever is meant for you will come.
I'm sorry. You are truly a wonderful person! So is your wife! Your adopted parents should have loved you as you are the one who held to the luck that enable them to convince.
Right! But she still does it 🤷🏼♀️ it ruin the story. It’s fine at the beginning or the end, but it’s disrespectful to the person’s story to do intermediate advertisements.
I have Unsubscribed to her channel. It's been 2 months. I thought I'd come back for a visit and here I am listening to her story with an ad still thrown into the middle of her story. It's so disruptive to the flow and I was not mistaken to have stop following her to protest against her ads mid story. Idc even if I'm protesting alone lol money talks!
A man like this just don’t get it at all. Just cut them off!!! There’s so much one person can take. Enough us enough but yet you keep going back to the same hole. What’s wrong with you?
NCO ntsoov tias koj yog koj luag tus mi nyuam Tom tav xwb luag twb tsis hlub koj es koj lub neej zoo yeej NWS cov NWS yug lawm es NWS yuav tshum kom neb lub neej puas xwb os mog txhob ruam2 nawb❤️💚
Don’t feel bad about what your adopted mother did. She stopped caring / loving you since the minute she conceived. From that moment on you aren’t her child but a slave. There’s an American saying “She made her bed and now she must sleep in it.” Your adopted mother got exactly what she deserves. Just because she gave birth to her children doesn’t guaranteed they will love her in the end. You’re such a beautiful human being to forgive your adopted mother and adopted brothers / sisters for the treatment they extended to you. In this life…. We need to reciprocate what we’re given. As they say what goes around comes around good or bad.
It always amazes me to hear these stories told by the one who was mistreated the most claiming “karma!” Like bro, you were the one who got hit the hardest lol
Hmoob siab yeej phem2 li no os mog, lawv twb tsis xav tias twb yog muaj tus ua nkaw mus yuav los es nws coj nws txoj hmoo los pov es nkaw thiaj li muaj tub ki nkiv. Txhob tus siab os mog tus phem yeej tsis yeej tu zoo.
Luag tej laus 1 txwm tias muab luag nqaij puab yus nqaij g sov ces yeej zoo li no cas muab mloog los 3 cov poj niam hmong yeej siab phem siab me siab ruam tshaj g hais niam tshiab niam pog niam tais niam adolt etc .
i thought you said you paid $10,000 down to get yourself out of their life so why do you keep doing what they ask and want?? Shouldn't you just end everything that has to do with this family already? This is why you have to do a funeral for your mother too. End means end....don't get involve anymore period.
Bless yours and your wife’s heart. Unfortunately ppl in our lives are not always happy for us if we’re happy and doing well. We should always be respectful, but being respectful doesn’t mean your indebted to anyone or have to love them.
Thaum yau uas koj pab tsis tau koj tus kheej ces kav liam. Laus tias li koj li lawm es tseem cia neeg tswj koj thiab ces yeej yog koj tsis tees koos loos xwb. Laus gas pab tsis tau yus tus kheej ces kawg raug neeg tsuj mus li.
Koj niam koj txiv saws koj tom tav vim nkawv tsis muaj taus me nyuam. Saws tau koj los nkawv cia li muaj me nyuam. Nkawv yuav tsum hlub hlub fwm fwm koj vim koj coj koob hmoov zoo los tsas kom nkawv muaj tubkis. Cas koj niam koj txiv siab siab phem lim lim hiam ua luaj li.
You know that your adopted parents does not love and care about you since the day they have their own children and yet you still trust your adopted mother!! You know how she is do not trust her and any of her children too. The best is cut ties from them. They are too toxic to be around and depressing and just want to destroy your life and what you have. Have no contact is the best to go since you have no relationship or connection to them anyway. Go follow your in laws instead.
Karma at its best! This family is just like my sister’s in-law. Koj los yeej npam thiab es thiaj li tau ua koj niam thiab txiv siab phem ntawd lub ntees.
Kuv mloog nej cov laus ib txwm hais tias tu qaib ntsuag ces tau ncej puab tu tub ntsuag ces tau yeeb ncuab. Lo lus no yog cov niam cov txiv tu ntawm siab phem2 xwb twb yog Tim nej cov niag niam txiv siab phem2 lim hiam tsis txawj cob me nyuam Kom sib hlub xwb na vim dab tsis los nej twb hais tias nej nim yog lub ntuj daim av tiam sis tiag2 ces nej yog tus tsis ncaj xwb. Been thru and done that.
Cov niag niam pog phem ma phem tshaj....tus nyab twg nws tsis nyiam ma nws yeej ua kom tus nyab ntawm lub neej tawm. Tus niam pog no ma txhob hlub kiag muab nws coj mus nyob tsev laus xwb txhob tu txhob ua rau noj.